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  • susan3
    susan3 Posts: 2,631

    to much chatting going on for me to catch up. Feeling better..yeah. Hubby made a trip to the emergency room for kidney stones.yuck. First time for him. Thank god for friends. My whites are way to low to enter emergency room. So the nice paramedics and our friend took him. Pain meds are beautiful. He is out shoveling snow now. Silly man.

    Hope everyone had a beautiful Valentine's Day

    Thanks for all the well wishes. Just my usual rollercoaster. No worries:)

  • junieb
    junieb Posts: 945

    sas - I will get a male. The names that are floating in my brain are Kirby, Finley, Georgie. But I'll have to see his personality to decide for sure. How in the world did you get your pups trained so quickly? I was thinking maybe 6 months, not 6 weeks. I would like to have a low key dog so that I can take him to visit the hospital, etc. However Cairns can be high energy with a strong hunting instinct. They were originally bred to hunt rodents underground. Of course mine will not be trained for that. Do you have German heritage? I do. My mother was born & raised, I was born in Wurzburg and came to the U.S. at 10 mos.

    Please tell Schatzi "Happy Birthday" for me. Time just flies so fast. One day they're pups and then before you know it they're seniors. Ugh!

    Loverof - what breed of dog is your Mitzy? I had a dog with separation anxiety named Jackie. She had been dumped in the Las Vegas desert as a baby, but was rescued and I got her when she was 1 1/2. She was terrified every time I left and chewed things up so much that I tried to take her to the no-kill shelter in Utah, but they wouldn't take her. Then I had a foot surgery and was home for 8 weeks recouping and Jackie and I got to spend some quality time together and bonded. After that she NEVER chewed another thing again, except her chew rope & tennis ball. I guess maybe she knew I wasn't going anywhere by then. I had her until she was 16 1/5. She was a great dog.

  • sas-schatzi
    sas-schatzi Posts: 15,889

    Westminsters on.

    false alarm it's last years show.

  • spookiesmom
    spookiesmom Posts: 8,178

    There are Earth Dog Trials for the terrier breeds. I've only heard about, never seen them. Seems a great way to have fun with your pup, and they get to do what they were bred for. And training is a great way to focus all that puppy drive. I trained obedience and agility with my Aussie. That helped with him.

  • Loveroflife
    Loveroflife Posts: 4,243

    Hey Susan Hug

    JunieB, the SPCA had her down as a Belgian Malinois shepherd mixed. She looks more like a Dutch shepherd to me. Thank you for sharing your story of Jackie. I know that Mitzy need to learn to trust that we will come back for her. She was surrendered by her previous family for barking too much. We find it hard to believe because she is quiet most of the time (when we are at home). She used to howl and bark when left alone. She had tore up three dog beds and one pillow. We have had her for three and a half months and it has been over a month since she last tore her bed or trying to destroy her crate. Yay! Your story of Jackie and Ms. Sas' story of Dini give me hope. She is a very sweet dog. Tail is always wagging and when she is really happy (especially when she sees us first thing in the morning or when we come home), she does the windmill wag. You don't want to be anywhere near her tail when she does that because it hurts. This is her.

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  • jazzygirl
    jazzygirl Posts: 12,048

    Susan- hoping you feel better soon. Sorry about DH's stones. Your family needs a break.

  • Loveroflife
    Loveroflife Posts: 4,243

    Glennie.....

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  • Loveroflife
    Loveroflife Posts: 4,243

    Hi Jazzy!

    Blessing, how is DH doing? Hope his kidney function is stable. One more round to go?


  • Holeinone
    Holeinone Posts: 1,418

    lover, did you change the photo? Am I losing it? Ok, don't need to answer that... Was there a baby goat there awhile ago?

  • Loveroflife
    Loveroflife Posts: 4,243

    Hi1.....shhhhhh

  • Holeinone
    Holeinone Posts: 1,418

    ah, you are a sly one....lol...no edit on your post, sneaky, eh

  • junieb
    junieb Posts: 945

    Loveroflife - your Mitzy girl looks like she is quite a happy girl with a precious heart. She will definately need time to figure out that she is home to stay this time.

  • susan3
    susan3 Posts: 2,631

    been in emergency room since 2 this morn. Hubby dry heaving and lots of pain. Feeling better now with pain meds and they are keeping him I think. Got my mask on....didn't want to call anyone that early. Hope it passes soon. He is less patient than I am when we feel bad. Yikes...no wonder our daughter moved to Michigan....lol

  • Best wishes to you and your DH Susan. Hope he is feeling better very soon.

  • susan3
    susan3 Posts: 2,631

    thanks:)

  • jazzygirl
    jazzygirl Posts: 12,048

    Hi Loveroflife- busy week ahead so hi for now and will pop in down the line (and many pages later).

  • glennie19
    glennie19 Posts: 4,832

    Thanks for the Valentine, loveroflife. That was cute.

    Susan, I hope DH is feeling better now. Did they keep him?

  • sas-schatzi
    sas-schatzi Posts: 15,889

    jazzy, I get to do the credit card charge chasing today. Fabeletics--Kate Hudson's workout clothes business has a sneaky intro that I missed, Automatic charge to credit card VIP membership. 49 $ a month.

    Susan, poor DH, Not fun. I had 6 bladder stones from fall of 2012 to fall of 2015. Almost exactly 3 years from the first to the last one. First was 4 hours. Rest ranges from a few days to 7 days. The first passed intact. Fascinating to look at. If you know Lamaze breathing techniques, it really helps. He's vomiting? Did they use the phrase hydronephrosis? That would be a stone that's completely blocking the ureter with back up of urine flooding the kidney. Poor baby. Bladder stones are bad, but kidney stones so much worse.


  • sas-schatzi
    sas-schatzi Posts: 15,889

    Junie, such great memories are flooding back about the pups. I grew up with mom&dad raising collies. Lot's of learning done with them. Then we had two great books. First was the socializing of the pups from the first day. Holding them and just loving them, talking, stroking. Then when their eyes opened the whelping box was opened up. We'd wake up early before them, Dh would stand outside the door and I'd be inside. Then we'd bang a spoon on a aluminum pie plate. They would all wake up at once. Dh would whistle them from outside the door and alternate with 'everybody come" and I'd direct them towards the door. Wouldn't let them dwaddle. Out the door they'd go and squat. First litter was trained at 5 1/2 weeks and second litter was trained at 4 1/2 weeks. Tonto was the only pup not trained. Key to it was frequent taking them all out. Papers were down and if somebody pooped or peed the paper was taken up right away.

    Then back into nurse. When they started on solid food. All of them would have to be rinsed in the sink b/c they were covered with as much food as they ate.

    We got in the routine of saying "Everybody" with each command. Now realize we should have chosen a cute unsex name. They all thought their name was "Everybody". Only took me 30 some years to realize that.

    One time when their were about 8 pups left in the second litter. A fella came to buy a pup. I set up to chairs in the yard and had him sit. Not a pup in sight. They were 8 weeks. I whistled. They came from all directions. "Everybody sit" They formed a kind of half halo in front of us. "Everybody stay". Started from left to right with a treat. They would break and then the commands repeated. They shined. Moose the biggest was behind the group and Petey was at the far right. Petey was the runt. He moved next to Moose and kind of butted him over to get his treat sooner. Then Petey moved up to the first spot on the far left. Smart pup. The fella looked strange. I asked if he had a problem with the pups. He said he couldn't understand why we were selling the pups so cheap. Dh cried when Petey left.

    Most of our friends bought pups from the first litter. We joked we didn't have any friends left with the second litter. At 8 weeks we brought all the pups that were left from the second litter inside. Their was a bed that had a dust ruffle. OMG they played under that bed for hours. Jumping in and out at each other. Had a friend stop by and the "kids were making a racket" I yelled from downstairs "Everybody Quiet". They shushed and then in awhile they'd get loud again. I took it for granted that they responded, my friend was amazed and amused.

    We started taking them to this open park around 7 weeks. The two adults, Max, Lady, and all the pups. All of them followed the commands. One time when we loaded them into the car we didn't realize one went out the other door. We got home and OMD, JB was gone. Back to the park. Poor JB was under the car that was next to us.

    Another funny training with each litter was teaching them to go through the dog door and climbing stairs. This stream of pups up and down the stairs. Back and forth on each step, before trying the next step. Sometimes rolling over each other. The dog door, I had to go through to convince them to try coming back in.

    When you start walking your pup in an area you can leave them off leash. He will want to run ahead. If he doesn't immediately return on command, hide. Sounds a bit cruel, but they learn to stay close, check where you are, and respond to the whistle and command fast.

    After the pups were gone. Max one time brought a stray Brittany(not one of ours) home. No manners. Dh didn't understand why the dog wouldn't listen or come to a whistle. It was an eye opener for him to realize why all the training.

    Dh was unemployed with the first litter. It was all day care and training. Don't remember with the second litter. But I know we must have done the same. He changed jobs a couple of times in that time period. He must have been home with the second litter.

    I was in Columbus when the second litter was born. With the second litter we moved the whelping box into the family room. I remember coming in and DH Greg was all smiles. He and a friend helped delivered them. He proudly showed me Lady with about a half dozen pups nursing. Yay, not ten pups. Then he opened the box next to the whelping bed. They're were another pile of pups nestled on a heating pad. That time they're were 11.

    It was great time and great memories. Thanks for asking.

  • sas-schatzi
    sas-schatzi Posts: 15,889

    Loverly, so happy Mitsy is doing better. Is that really her pic? Looks more like a Mexican hairless?

  • susan3
    susan3 Posts: 2,631

    yep stayed in. I came home to nap a bit after the pain was controlled. They are going to scoop it out and stint it..." If they have time". Boy oh boy.....I will be back there in a few hours....this is when Mean Susan comes out,,,,they " will" have time ....if they listen to me. A fiery Italian lawyer friend will be with me....always good to have a great friend like that.

    Hope everyone is great. Sorry I don't know what's going on in anyone's life right now, so I can't be specific. I will try to go back and read:)


  • Susan don't worry about us, concentrate on yourself and DH for now we know that's where you need to be.

  • Loveroflife
    Loveroflife Posts: 4,243

    Yes, Susan, don't worry about us. We will be here chatting mostly nonsense, especially others. Poor guy. I have not had kidney stones, but have heard the pain described as similar to constant labor pain. Yikes!!! Ooh, Italian women are feisty. And she is a lawyer?? Can't be better.

    FF, that was very creative of the criminals. Who would have thought?? So sad we have problems with drugs everywhere.

    Ms. Sas, we gave Mitzy a new haircut....

  • wren44
    wren44 Posts: 8,075

    ((((((((Susan))))))))

  • glennie19
    glennie19 Posts: 4,832

    Hang in there Susan,,, sounds like you are taking a GOOD friend with you!!

  • junieb
    junieb Posts: 945

    Teka - I'm very sorry for offending you! I don't know your particular situation with your neighbors and shouldn't have assumed that it is just as simple as them just being annoying. Again, sorry. I am hanging my head in sincere contrition!

    sas - thanks for the memories. Sounds like you had lots of fun. In the case of a Cairn however, it is very unwise to let them off leash because of their hunting drive. If they see a squirrel or anything small, they will chase straight off a cliff. I've read that they'll even go through an electrified fence if in the midst of a chase. They are that focused. Despite all that they are wonderful little companion dogs with lots of love & energy, stubborn too. You really have to love the terrier personality to appreciate them. When I got my first Cairn, I took him to a trainer for 4 sessions, but I was also working at the time and I unfortunately didn't follow through like I should have in his training. Joey was very socialized and friendly though, but did not like to be picked up by anyone but me. He was a bit of a nervous nellie (he'd come from a puppy mill).

    Also, I fed my dogs twice a day, morning & evening, and when 7 p.m. (dinner time) came around he was at my feet staring at me like Ummm! have you forgotten something Mom. I also had to put a jingle bell on his collar so I would know where he was at all times, because there was one time when I was getting dressed and had gone to my closet which had sliding mirrored doors and once I got what I wanted I closed the door. Well a little while later I realized that I couldn't find Joey and I called his name several times, but nothing. I started to panic looking outside my apartment, in the bathroom, under the bed, nothing. Finally I go back to the closet to get a jacket to go looking for him and guess what I found, a adorable little dog sitting in the closet looking at me like "What?, I've been sitting here waiting for you all along." I don't think I've ever been so relieved.

    While I love sharing these memories, telling them also brings tears to my eyes because I miss that little guy so much. He slept on the pillow next to mine in bed for his entire life (4 mos. to 14 years) and Jackie just below him on a blanket.I really need to get a dog. I'm gonna call the breeder right now.

    susan - I am glad your hubby is more comfortable and hope that the docs will figure out the cause of his pain soon.

    Have a great day everyone. Catch you later.

  • Loveroflife
    Loveroflife Posts: 4,243

    JunieB, I have to confess. That was not our Mitzy's pic. I got our dears Cubbie (newbie at the time) and Rosevalley when people asked to see picture of Mitzy months ago.This is actually her putting up with my daughters' silliness

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    With my younger DD one lazy Sunday afternoon. She no longer has that bed.image

    because.....

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  • junieb
    junieb Posts: 945

    Lover - OMG! she is adorable. You really are quite the prankster aren't you?

  • sas-schatzi
    sas-schatzi Posts: 15,889

    Loverly, gwad, prankster , yes. there was another pic you posted at the time too. The dog was ugly. I thought at the time how kind of you to take such an ugly dog. A face that only a mother could love. Where is that pic? Terrible to admit, but true. Confirmation does mean something to me. The Brit's confirmation was very good. Lot's of champions in Lady's line--AKC. Max was American Field Club(association?) registered. We were able to cross register, b/c of lineage. Loved Brit's but way to high energy for yard house living.

    Junie three stories then I'll quit. You got the memories going. DH Greg never had a dog. In 1975, I said I wanted a house, a kid, and a dog. I didn't care what order. Got the house and trying for the kid. On the way to Canada stopped at a friends in Erie PA. He had a female Brit Mindy. Greg fell in love with her over a few hours. When she laid her head on his knee. He said "If I could have a dog like her I would have one". The friend Jim said "I'm breeding her, you can have a pup". I didn't miss a beat and said "Yes". Dear Greg said "I think I've been set up". When Max came it took about two hours for him to end up in our bed after Greg saying emphatically it wouldn't happen. It was great to watch them grow together. Training them both. Kind of makes the second litter delivery story more poignant. Greg was never without a dog. Our friend Jim got one pup from each litter.

    Jim lent us his hunting cabin. Greg took a gun course. We were in the field. Greg broke the rule about the gun. It discharged forward. Max was in front. Not sure if the shot came close. We walked back to the cabin. Greg never picked up another gun

    One friend that got a pup took us to a gun trial. Max who had never gone through field training and was now 7-8. Max pointed the first bird and the gunner winged it. Next bird he pointed, but broke point. The bird flushed. Max pinned it by it's wings and looked back at the gunner like, now what. On the way back, he went on point again. Wouldn't be called off. The judge said "Hold it, the last dog missed his second bird" The gunner flushed it but missed. They were all amazed that Max had never been field trained. He tracked zig zag just like Brit's are suppose too about twenty to forty feet in front of the gunner. It was beautiful to watch the natural instinct. We came home with the winged bird and the one he pinned. The pinned one was released. Nursed the winged one back to health. But it got out of the cage into the yard. Told Max to find. He went into the yard in the rain and pointed it. Just stood their until we retrieved it. It was eventually released. That was the end off hunting.

    I told a story not long ago about different bunnies. This one he brought in the door and dropped at Greg's feet. It was a bunny. He once found a litter of premature bunnies, but this one was about palm size with fur. Cutie. Greg wakes me and said "Max brought this in, I have to go to work". I had to be at the fire station in an hour. I had to shower. I took the bunny and wrapped it in a washcloth and told max he had to watch it. Looked out from the shower. The bunny was behind the toilet. Max was pointing it. Resettled them and got back in the shower. Looked again. Max was behind the toilet, and the bunny was hopping around. 40 Lb dog wedged behind the toilet. Took the bunny to the fire station. One of the firemen was a farmer, he took it to the farm.

    Another similar thing happened with a baby bird. it fledged, but wasn't ready. He pointed it, and waited for us to come. We came b/c he wouldn't come and we had to investigate. We kept the bird and fed it worms and stuff, and released it.

    The only thing Max killed was a snake. We saw it from a distance of about 40 feet. I told my BIl we had to find it b/c Brit's are notorious for rubbing themselves in dead stinky things. I take Max to the area to find the snake. I said "You killed it, you find it". He pointed. We missed it at first, it was hanging over a thistle.

    The beauty of Max, he had such an instinct to hunt, but not to kill. Except for the snake. Sorry, if any of this makes you sad. Max was remarkable. I miss him still.

    Your Joey was a dear. Glad you were able to share his memory. Glad he brought you such love. Brings back another memory. We went to Jim's when his pups were about 5 weeks old. We picked Max. Then went to pick him up when he was 8 weeks. It was about 2 hours from us. But I guess growing up with so many Collie litters, I knew that would be a good thing to do. Totally forgot that till memory jogging. Memories. Thanks.