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  • I’m starting keynote 522 for TNBC on Monday and can’t wait. I bet you don’t see that very often. I went through this 21 years ago (IDC HER2+) and now I’m dealing with it again. I just want to get started and get this over with. I hate this cancer growing inside of me and each passing day without treatment terrifies me. The delays have been agonizing. I’ll report back with side effects and tips/tricks for management. I wish others would post on this thread.

  • kks_11
    kks_11 Posts: 189

    @texassurvivor I'm near the end of my second go at chemo (started March, last taxol hopefully this week)... like you, I couldn't wait to get the show on the road. I wish you luck! Hope you get others who post here too.

  • Thank you so much for your reply. I was feeling a little lonely. How wonderful you’re nearing the end of chemo. I wish you good health.
    i have a long road ahead. I may have been on the same timeline as you but the radiologist told me at the end of March I didn’t have cancer. I spent weeks trying to figure out why I was in pain.Triple negative. I got unexpected news on Thursday that my cancer had not spread. Still not sure I can trust that. But I will battle ahead and try not to lose myself in all of this. Best to you.

  • kks_11
    kks_11 Posts: 189

    @texassurvivor these threads sometimes don't have tons of people, hopefully yours does, I've been jumping in on other "month" threads. It's been such a long road - nearly 6 months chemo (16 rounds), I was hospitalized in June which set me back a few weeks, tons of weird side effects. It was a different experience from my first round 14 years ago, and not just because I'm older 😉

    I'm stunned about what the radiologist said to you, sounds like you had to advocate for yourself to get answers. And I'm thankful that, at least for now, it looks like no spread. Will you be doing neoadjuvant chemo, then? And do you know what kind of chemo yet? I'd be happy to share from my own experience if you have questions...

  • Hi kks-rd,

    I’m sorry about your setbacks so frustrating I didn’t have any last time but at 58, I could see it happening now.
    I agree with you about my misdiagnosis. It was really hard to get anyone to take me seriously I never go to the doctor It’s a lesson in we know our bodies and we know when something isn’t right. I started keynote 522 today, then mastectomy, radiation, 9 rounds of immunotherapy.
    I'm also using the penguin cold cap but not sold on it. I’ll post my experience. I would love to read about your experience with chemo. Thank you again for engaging.

  • kks_11
    kks_11 Posts: 189

    @texassurvivor I had to look up the Keynote 522, sounds like you're getting first-class treatment! I've had some of those drugs: paclitaxel (taxol) and doxorubicin (adriamycin) — both twice in fact. In my experience, taxol has given me a deep ache in my bones, cumulative fatigue, and mild neuropathy. Adriamycin aka 'the red devil' I've always had in combination with cytoxan, but I believe the mouth sores, blah taste, and brain fog I experienced was largely attributable to it. My onc told me that with "A" the chances of saving my hair was next to none, so I skipped the cold capping. I did, however, use ice mittens and booties and I think it prevented my neuropathy from being any worse. I've been able to work throughout, though I've been fortunate in that my job lets me work from home many days - good thing since I have also been neutropenic.

    There's an "in active treatment" virtual support group that might be worth checking out…. there may well be others on that call who have experience with Keynote 522. Hope you rest up after facing your first treatment today. Even if you were eager to get going, it still takes courage to show up!

  • Thank you so much for sharing. Really good information and resources. I can’t tell you how much I appreciate it. Best to you.

  • dianeb74
    dianeb74 Posts: 5

    Hi there! I'm starting my chemo today (8/12/2025) for my TNBC diagnosis. Starting with the dose dense AC regimen x 4 every other week.... Then will do Taxol x 12, every week.

    Had a double mastectomy on July 15th, with expanders input.

    Looking forward to connecting with others going thru this with me.

    In preparation, getting my hair cut super short on Friday, hopefully to help make the hair loss process a little less dramatic.

  • kks_11
    kks_11 Posts: 189

    @dianeb74 that is exactly the regimen I've been doing, since March... I'm just crashing this thread 😆

    I wrote about my experience above. Happy to answer questions if you have any!

  • dianeb74
    dianeb74 Posts: 5

    @kks_rd

    Question, did you get a wig to wear?

    Where does one find one?

    I'm still kind of in denial & happier there at the moment, but it's coming sooner than not.

    My Friday hair cut was pushed to tomorrow as my hair dresser was sick....

    My chemo team don't suggest the cooling cap, said it is about 40%,but also very expensive, etc... Just FYI.

    I appreciate any insight.

  • kks_11
    kks_11 Posts: 189

    @dianeb74 I got a wig (my first time, 14 years ago) but never wore it. It was free from an organization that is no longer providing services. I've been doing headscarves - there are so many options on Amazon now. As for where to find a wig, I believe the American Cancer Society and an org called Wigs&Wishes offer this, plus there might be local resources in your area. If you search this forum for "wig" you might get other ideas.

    My onc team said the same about the cooling caps, especially on AC.

    It helps to have a plan, hair starts to shed anywhere between 2.5-3 weeks from first chemo. But it doesn't all fall out at once! Your hairdresser might have some helpful suggestions too.

  • moderators
    moderators Posts: 9,647

    Hi ladies! We wanted to share this great thread with More Tips (and a Shopping List) for Getting Through Chemo. We hope you find it useful!

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  • Update: more delays pushed my treatment to 8/22, just Taxol that day. Thought it would be easy. 7 mins in went onto anaphylactic reaction and taken to the hospital. Now more delays as today the insurance finally approved to sub in Taxotere. Now I don’t start til next Thursday. Very discouraged and perplexed by the delays. I’m giving this cancer a fighting chance and it’s scaring the hell out of me.

  • kks_11
    kks_11 Posts: 189

    @texassurvivor How scary!! You'd think taxotere approval would be pretty much automatic. I had a 2-week delay too (pneumonia requiring IV antibiotics) and felt similar. It's a feeling I think people from the outside looking in might not understand. When is your next chemo, then?

  • Hi kks_rd! Next treatment is Thurs or Fri tbd. How are you?

  • kks_11
    kks_11 Posts: 189

    @texassurvivor Good luck resuming this week!

    I'm hanging in there. Last chemo was 8/14 and I can see/feel my body recovering. I can't explain why but I haven't felt like "celebrating" the end of chemo yet. I'll start radiation the second week of September, so perhaps it's more of a transition to the next phase of treatment. One fun thing is my hair is growing back already! It's all peach fuzz - white at first and very soft - but some pigment is slowly showing up.

    @dianeb74 how are you doing?

  • Congrats kks_rd! . I understand the feeling of being in limbo…so thankful for the chemo stopping yet dreading radiation. I felt the same way 21 years ago. There is light at the end of your journey. I can see it from here! Enjoy that peach fuzz.

  • Here I am, day 10 since last chemo. I nosedived Friday but dragged myself out of bed and went to work. I slept all day yesterday and moved very slowly today. In addition to horrible fatigue, I had terrible ear, throat and head pain. No fever. Apparently a side effect of Taxotere. I’m wondering if anyone out there has had this? I didn’t experience anything like that 20 years ago. Wishing everyone well.

  • moderators
    moderators Posts: 9,647

    @texassurvivor. We're so sorry you’re feeling this way. Taxotere can hit harder than AC, especially after prior treatments. Ear, throat, and head pain without fever can happen from mucous membrane inflammation or nerve irritation and isn’t uncommon — but it’s worth letting your oncology team know so they can rule out infection and help with relief.

    Fatigue is also very common around day 7–10 when counts are lowest. You’re doing amazingly just to get up and go to work. Rest as much as you can and don’t hesitate to call your care team about new or worsening symptoms. Sending you strength. We're all here for you!

  • kks_11
    kks_11 Posts: 189

    I don't have any practical experience with taxotere but definitely know the whole "dragging myself into work" thing. It's ok, up to a point.

    I can also really relate to the feeling of not experiencing chemo the same way as I did before. Can't tell if it's because it's my second time around, or because I'm older, or both.

    I can't say it better than the Mods did. Rest well and do what you can, when you can. 🤍

  • Thank you so much for the responses. Makes me feel a little less alone.

  • Hi there..

    Just navigating this website. Saw my surgeon on Sept 18th and am now waiting for a surgery date. So many questions that I will ask my navigation nurse.. but my main question to ask my nurse is about the chemo. what questions should I ask. I am a chemo newbie. Are there different types of chemo for different types of BC? Different side effects? Different amounts?

    Thank you

  • kks_11
    kks_11 Posts: 189

    Hi @melanie1965 sorry that you're finding yourself here! There are many different kinds of chemo, for many different kinds of BC. Did they tell you you definitely need chemo? (Not everyone does.) There are protocols that many oncologists follow based on the tumor characteristics, like whether it's sensitive to estrogen or progesterone, or something called Her2.

    Another question to ask your nurse is about genetic testing.

    You might find the Newly Diagnosed threads helpful.

    Good luck and keep coming back!

  • Hi ..

    just learning the jargon.. I have ER and PR negative HER2 is negative as well. Tumor is 13 mms in size .. so I think though my research that chemo is the only way to go?
    I do have a call into my nurse as there was so much information thrown at us in our initial visit ..

    I am a very positive person .. and knowledge is power. Just gathering all the information in can now .. waiting for surgery date now

    Thanks for your help 😃

  • kks_11
    kks_11 Posts: 189

    @melanie1965 I get it! It's a huge learning curve. I have had two "triple negative," as they're called, tumors.. and tumor sizes not very different than yours. The kind of chemo I had was AC/T, made up of two drugs given in combination (adriamycin and cytoxan), followed by a course of taxol. Sometimes chemo is given every 3 weeks, or 2 weeks, and in the case of taxol, weekly. It's not the only way TNBC is treated, but it's a very common, tried-and-true protocol. Side effects are not fun, but oncology teams have lots of counter-measures to offer patients.

    Knowledge IS power! You might also find it helpful to connect with one of the virtual support groups... it's a great way to get acquainted with, well, all of it. Getting the lay of the land, getting your plan together, it's half the battle. Hang in there 🫂

  • I was diagnosed with Her2 triple negative, Stage 1, Grade 3 for the 2 tumors they found, that weren’t on my test 6 months prior. I had surgery first then A&C and now currently on Taxol, third treatment.

    Since I started Taxol I have experienced constipation, dehydration The 3rd side effect only 10% of patients have… high heart rate/pulse due to the drug - as high as 131 today. The doc met with me today about my options but we decided to stay on course, even tho it may be a permanent symptom to deal with the rest of my life. It also may give me more time in the future before a possible recurrence.

    My white blood cells are lower than they want, another side effect, so looking into how they want to treat that. Currently, I am getting an IV twice a week as well as before my treatment some weeks, even tho I drink all needle and eat very well. They help tremendously. 

    I see one question about wigs… I got a beautiful one that looks real on Amazon for $25! Check out this one by Latin… all of there’s are so nice and have wonderful reviews. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DHWSZRPM?ref=ppx_pop_dt_b_product_details&th=1

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    I hope this helps someone along the way. =)

  • moderators
    moderators Posts: 9,647

    @angelwingz55, what a beautiful wig!

    And welcome to our discussion boards! We're sorry for the reasons that led you here, but please know that you're in a great place where you'll find plenty of support, and we are happy you've found us. Regarding some of those side effects - if you're dehydrated, that may be a reason for your increased heart rate, and also contributing toward the constipation. IV hydration is incredibly helpful if you're unable to keep up with fluid intake at home.

    If your white blood cell count continues to be low, your team may consider treating you with WBC-boosting medicines like Neulasta or Neupogen:

    https://www.breastcancer.org/treatment-side-effects/low-white-blood-cell-count

    We're here for you if you have any questions. Let us know if you need any help navigating these forums!