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  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,770
    edited November 2018

    I am thankful and grateful for waking up every morning and having another chance to do something good. To bring some sunshine to someone or something else ( thinking of my feral cats here who will get turkey from a can today ) and hoping for love, caring, humbleness, and grace to spread acceptance throughout the world of each other, our needs, and a shared destiny that is far more positive than negative. Let there be peace.

    I hope you all have a loving and joyous Thanksgiving and are blessed a thousand times over.

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,770
    edited November 2018

    It isn't always easy to act on what's in your head instead of what's in your heart. And it isn't always right to. The whole trick to knowing what to do is deciding when to make yourself listen to your head, and when it's okay to just follow your feelings.

    --Steven Brust

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,770
    edited November 2018

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,770
    edited November 2018

    Most people are just trying to get through the day. Be committed to learn to get from the day. Don't just get through it; get from it. Learn from it. Let the day teach you. Join the university of life. What a difference that will make in your future. Commit yourself to learning. Commit yourself to absorbing. Be like a sponge. Get it. Don't miss it. -Jim Rohn

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,770
    edited November 2018

    I shall try to remember all this day that I am a divine creation with infinite possibilities. -Benjamin Eitelgeorge

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,770
    edited November 2018

    I feel the capacity to care
    is the thing which gives life
    its deepest significance.
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    Pau Casals

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,770
    edited November 2018

    The best preparation for tomorrow is doing your best today. H. Jackson Brown, Jr.

    Each morning we are born again. What we do today is what matters most. Budda

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,770
    edited November 2018

    Spirituality is a flower with a thousand petals:
    every act, every thought, every talk, every
    movement of our heart is a part of it.
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    Robert Muller

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,770
    edited November 2018

    Doing nothing for others is the undoing of one's
    self. We must be purposely kind and generous, or we
    miss the best part of existence. The heart that
    goes out of itself gets large and full of joy.
    This is the great secret of the inner life. We do
    ourselves the most good doing something for others.
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    Horace Mann

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,770
    edited December 2018

    What if we like our outrageous side best?
    We "know" that the "right" thing to do is to suck it up,
    put the costume and the happy face back in storage for another year,
    re-dress in our frown and gray flannel suit,
    and trudge back to job, chores, "responsibilities," and "duty."
    Stop! Maybe TODAY is the day to put the frown and gray flannel
    into that dusty storage locker, and start to LIVE.
    Not just today, but EVERY DAY for the rest of your life!
    - Jonathan Lockwood Huie

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,770
    edited December 2018

    Should be written on the heart.


    By choosing your thoughts, and by selecting which emotional currents you will release and which you will reinforce, you determine the quality of your Light. You determine the effects that you will have upon others, and the nature of the experiences of your life. -Gary Zukav

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,770
    edited December 2018

    If you want peace, stop fighting.
    If you want peace of mind,
    stop fighting with your thoughts.
    - Peter McWilliams

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,770
    edited December 2018

    Genuine compassion is based on the recognition that others have the right to happiness just like yourself, and therefore even your enemy is a human being with the same wish for happiness as you, and the same right to happiness as you.A sense of concern developed on this basis is what we call compassion; it extends to everyone, irrespective of whether the person's attitude toward you is hostile or friendly. -the Dalai Lama

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,770
    edited December 2018

    Love is something you and I must have. We must have it because our spirit feeds upon it. We must have it because without it we become weak and faint. Without love our self-esteem weakens. Without it our courage fails. Without love we can no longer look confidently at the world. We turn inward and begin to feed upon our own personalities, and little by little we destroy ourselves. With it we are creative. With it we march tirelessly. With it, and with it alone, we are able to sacrifice for others. -Chief Dan George

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,770
    edited December 2018

    Remember, there is no situation so completely hopeless that something constructive cannot be done about it. When faced with a minus, ask yourself what you can do to make it a plus. A person practicing this attitude will extract undreamed-of outcomes from the most unpromising situations. Realize that there are no hopeless situations; there are only people who take hopeless attitudes. -Norman Vincent Peale

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,770
    edited December 2018

    Every time you meet a situation, though you think at the time it is an impossibility and you go through the torture of the damned, once you have met it and lived through it, you find that forever you are freer than you were before. -Eleanor Roosevelt

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,770
    edited December 2018

    Simply give others a bit of yourself; a thoughtful act, a helpful
    idea, a word of appreciation, a lift over a rough spot, a sense
    of understanding, a timely suggestion. You take something
    out of your mind, garnished in kindness out of your heart,
    and put it into the other person's mind and heart.

    Charles H. Burr

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,770
    edited December 2018

    No one is useless in this world who lightens the burdens of another.

    - Charles Dickens -

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,770
    edited December 2018

    Knowledge is happiness, because to have knowledge--broad deep
    knowledge--is to know true ends from false, and lofty things from
    low. To know the thoughts and deeds that have marked humankind's
    progress is to feel the great heart-throbs of humanity through the
    centuries; and if one does not feel in these pulsations a heavenward
    striving, one must indeed be deaf to the harmonies of life.

    Helen Keller

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,770
    edited December 2018

    Vision stands on the shoulders of what is actual
    to get a better view of what is possible.
    - Mary Anne Radmacher

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,770
    edited December 2018

    That discipline which corrects the eagerness of worldly passions,
    which fortifies the heart with virtuous principles, which enlightens
    the mind with useful knowledge, and furnishes to it matter of
    enjoyment from within itself, is of more consequence to real felicity
    than all the provisions which we can make of the goods of fortune.

    Robert Bridges

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,770
    edited December 2018

    You were trying to be simple for the sake of being simple. I wonder if true simplicity is ever anything but a by-product. If we aim directly for it, it eludes us; but if we are on fire with some great interest that absorbs our lives to the uttermost, we forget ourselves into simplicity. Everything falls into simple lines around us, like a worn garment. -David Grayson

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,770
    edited December 2018

    Courage is not the towering oak that sees storms come and go; it is the fragile blossom that opens in the snow.

    - Alice Mackenzie Swaim -

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,770
    edited December 2018

    Joy is what we are, not what we must get. Joy is the realization that all we want or need in life has been etched into our souls. Joy helps us see not what we are "going through," but what we are "growing to"--a greater sense of understanding, accomplishment, and enlightenment. Joy reveals to us the calm at the end of the storm, the peace that surpasses the momentary happiness of pleasure. If we keep our minds centered on joy, joy becomes a state of mind. -Iyanla Vanzant

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,770
    edited December 2018

    If you send out goodness from yourself, or if you share that which is happy or good within you, it will all come back to you multiplied ten thousand times. In the kingdom of love there is no competition; there is no possessiveness or control. The more love you give away, the more love you will have. -John O'Donohue

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,770
    edited December 2018

    I believe that the rendering of useful service is the common duty of humankind and that only in the purifying fire of sacrifice is the dross of selfishness consumed and the greatness of the human soul set free. I believe in an all-wise and all-loving God, named by whatever name, and that the individual's highest fulfillment, greatest happiness, and widest usefulness are to be found in living in harmony with his will. I believe that love is the greatest thing in the world; that it alone can overcome hate; that right can and will triumph over might. -John D. Rockefeller, Jr.

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,770
    edited December 2018

    We are in such haste to be doing, to be writing, to be gathering gear, to make our voice audible a moment in the derisive silence of eternity, that we forget one thing, of which these are but the parts—namely, to live. We fall in love, we drink hard, we run to and fro upon the earth like frightened sheep. And now you are to ask yourself if, when all is done, you would not have been better to sit by the fire at home, and be happy thinking. To sit still and contemplate . . . is this not to know both wisdom and virtue, and to dwell with happiness? -Robert Louis Stevenson

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,770
    edited December 2018

    What we say and what we do
    ultimately come back to us, so let
    us own our responsibility, place it
    in our hands, and carry it
    with dignity and strength.
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    Gloria Evangelina Anzaldua

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,770
    edited December 2018

    In the rush of daily living it's easy to forget all the remarkable people, real or fictional, who have been a part of your life. But if you just imagine they are near for a moment, you will realize that anyone who ever touched your heart is always with you, patiently waiting to emanate warmth and support whenever you remember to think of them. -Barbara Sher

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,770
    edited December 2018

    Could a greater miracle take place
    than for us to look through each other's eyes for an instant?
    - Henry David Thoreau

    We are all different - and we are all one.
    Take time to understand, and to appreciate.
    - Jonathan Lockwood Huie