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  • patriciahurtado
    patriciahurtado Member Posts: 85
    edited July 2015

    AdreyB I had surgical bra for a week and my PS said sports bra after a week. My surgical binder for six weeks or a spandex tight one. I use both switch in and out cause it get uncomfortable.


    Had my surgery on June 30. Still feel sleepy tired not wanting to do nothing more like a slog, it's 5 am wide awake..... But just a quick question my donor side has lumps my PS recommend a therapies to remove those Lumps. $100 per session 60 minutes. I can't afford that any help how I can do it myself I tried massaging it but it hurts soooooo bad. I'm so over this my PS said I would need another revision. Not by book Im really happy to even have small foods. I went through a lot just to have this ones. I don't care for perfect ones. My infections were horrible and couldn't even have TE for almost 8 months. I do have foobs and that's all that matters to me. I going to get back on working out just afraid that FG will go away crossing my fingers that stays just the way they are. My ladies any suggestions.

    Hope everyone's stay healthy and strong

  • di2012
    di2012 Member Posts: 871
    edited July 2015

    I have my FOURTH revision in less than an hour....a bit nervous because of my last surgery (2nd exchange) and the anesthesiologist and my PS in the OR having a heated discussion, with me in the "discussion" as well.

    Di


  • specialk
    specialk Member Posts: 9,261
    edited July 2015

    For lumps massage them firmly - I would not pay extra for a "treatment" just do the massage a few times a day.

  • minustwo
    minustwo Member Posts: 13,359
    edited July 2015

    Di2012 - hope all goes well. I'll keep you in my thoughts.

  • summerangel
    summerangel Member Posts: 182
    edited July 2015

    I just had my exchange surgery scheduled for August 28th, I'm so excited!

    I did a search for this but couldn't find much: How long to people typically take off from work for an exchange surgery? I heal fast and have a desk job I do from home. (For comparison, I went back to work half time after my BMX after 3 weeks, full time after 5. I would have been fine full time at 3 weeks if I hadn't been in the middle of a bad flare up of my connective tissue disease.)

  • robinblessed54
    robinblessed54 Member Posts: 485
    edited July 2015

    Great news! I went back to work full time, (desk job) 3 weeks after BMX. I had exchange over spring break, (I work at a high school) which lasts 2 weeks and was fine to come back then. EX is so much easier than BMX. I healed very well both times. I was in pretty good shape and ate well. Just don't do anymore than your PS says to do. The mantra is: "Just because you can, doesn't mean you should!" I am getting my 3D nipples tattoos on July 29! It is like the icing on the cake and is the end of the ordeal. I had a very good outcome with my Anatomical implants. Very happy. Best of luck to you as you anticipate your upcoming EX. Robin

  • mjh1
    mjh1 Member Posts: 263
    edited July 2015

    summer - if you're just having an exhcange with no other pocketwork, you should be fine within a week to return to a desk job.  Of course, you will have some restrictions as far as activities and lifting, and each PS is different on those.  So check with him.  I just started an August 2015 surgery sisters thread since I know there are a few of us.  Hope to see you there.

  • di2012
    di2012 Member Posts: 871
    edited July 2015

    Got home from my FOURTH revision at 11:30am and it went perfectly....the icky anestheologist was not there and I requested not to have him....the anest, that I did have was very kind and he understood I did not WANT lymphedema....his own mother had BC.

    The surgical site is not visible to me for 48hrs, when I can take a shower. Have the dreaded surgical bra on.....this is # 4 of my "collection" of this certain kind of surgical bra, having now 2 beige, one white, and one black.

    The pain is minimal, the man made (by PS) nip which I had for 1.5 years, is the most tender area. The IMF may have a numbing med, as the PS does usually does use something to kill the pain. (I do have feeling all over BOTH foobs)

    Oh just wanted to share that I did not have to have anything on my LEFT arm......

    on the Right arm:

    • the BP cuff (upper arm)
    • the IV cath at my wrist
    Hugs,Di



  • kingster
    kingster Member Posts: 289
    edited July 2015

    Did, so glad things went better this time! Heal well and best wishes to you. A little compassion goes a long way😉

  • summerangel
    summerangel Member Posts: 182
    edited July 2015

    Thanks for the replies about time off, I appreciate them! Since my surgery is scheduled for a Friday I've decided to take that day plus the next week off. The Monday after my week off is a holiday (Labor Day), so I'll have a total of 11 days before I need to work again. I think that will be enough. :)

  • AudreyB
    AudreyB Member Posts: 108
    edited July 2015

    Hello lovelies, I hope all of you are well.

    I had my exchange pre-op with PS today. He is ordering Sientra Smooth Round High Projection implants, 15.1cm width, 4.9cm projection, 655cc, reference # 10521-655HP.

    I feel so relieved now that the implants have been chosen. He said the surgery itself should be very straightforward, he has to do a little stitching on the side so they don't travel under my arm, and my recovery should be pretty quick. He said I would wake up with a surgical bra, and can wear real bras (underwire, pushup etc) about 4 weeks after surgery. He said to make sure underwires are comfortable, so I will be the judge of what feels good and what doesn't. My plan is to go for my first professional bra fitting and buy a few nice ones.

    Now the hard part is waiting for August 19. LOL

  • Eee3
    Eee3 Member Posts: 20
    edited July 2015

    Audrey: that is so exciting! It will be here before you know it

  • kingster
    kingster Member Posts: 289
    edited July 2015

    Audrey, only 1 more month to go ! Good luck. My exchange surgery was the easiest of my 3 surgeries. Such a relief to be able to sleep again once the TE's were out:)

  • mysunshine48
    mysunshine48 Member Posts: 915
    edited July 2015


    Audrey, I knew your PS appointment was around now! How wonderful to have a plan and a date. My last chemo treatment is tomorrow. This last one has been rough, so I will have to wait for about 3 or 4 weeks to recover from that before meeting with my PS. As you are, I will be SO happy to get these expanders out! Let us all know how it goes!

  • AudreyB
    AudreyB Member Posts: 108
    edited July 2015

    Kingster, sleeping is the hardest part. It doesn't hurt but just so freaking uncomfortable. I can get through most days if they behave but I'm a side sleeper and they constantly remind me they are there at night in bed.

  • AudreyB
    AudreyB Member Posts: 108
    edited July 2015

    mysunshine, hang in there. You have fought the good fight and soon you will be stronger than ever. I am so relieved now that the research and worry about the implants is over.

  • kingster
    kingster Member Posts: 289
    edited July 2015

    Audrey, I think the reason why it was impossible to sleep, was that those te's do not budge at all. My implants do move and give way to pressure, so they are better. 4 months later, I feel gradual improvement. Less tight and sore. Not sure if they will ever feel a part of me, but a world of improvement over those boulders😃 I have nice fullness in the upper half, which I never had before in my life. I said, nothing slows down time like a tissue expander, lol.

  • patriciahurtado
    patriciahurtado Member Posts: 85
    edited July 2015

    I'm so glad that everyone here is doing well revisions, implants and finishing treatment. As for me it's been 16 days after my exchange. I got my insurance to cover the therapist I only pay $15 per visit. So my first session was great soft massages on my abdominal area only. My foobs look great from here up here (lol) and my daughter and niece also like them. Of course my right side will. Never look ok because of the radiation. Or maybe with the FG with time I will heel. My PS said he would like one more FG to give my right side shape but honestly I think I'm done. Maybe next year. I waited for this Exchange for so long and I am happy for now. It's been a long journey. 3 years and finallyi have my Foobs!!!!.. Is the second FG less painful? I am a server in a hotel and there is lots of phisical active I need to go back to work next week but of course I will not over do anything . I have to go back just 2 days. I'm buying a house so I still have to show a pay check for the purchase. Kind of scare to do anything. Wish I could have 2 more weeks off.I Just want to thank everyone that was here for me since day one and continue to be here even just to stop by and see how everyone is doing. Ladies hang in there.. We got this!!!!

  • Tricia81
    Tricia81 Member Posts: 7
    edited July 2015

    Hi Ladies. I'm new to this thread and have a question. My exchange surgery was last Wednesday, July 8 and I had all the dressing and surgical bar removed yesterday. I did my homework and knew that there would be a lot of swelling but I literally have no cleavage. It's like I have a huge uni-boob on the top and then it starts to separate towards the bottom. Please tell me this is normal! I didn't really notice it at my appointment yesterday but after I came home and showered I just broke down. Also on a sidenote I feel like I already have pretty good range of motion at this point but I keep reading about T Rex arms. Should I refrain from lifting my arms above my shoulders? My ps never mentioned anything regarding this. Thank you so much.

  • WarriorVixen
    WarriorVixen Member Posts: 2
    edited July 2015

    Hello, I had my exchange surgery two weeks ago. I have silicone implants. I am trying to not use my arms like I did after the mastectomy but I feel so good it's hard. I threw away garbage yesterday. I shouldn't have. When I bend down a little I think I can see the implant move. I have not done any massaging except poking a little and lightly tried to squeeze them together. I was changing sports bras yesterday and am pretty sure I saw the implant move. I'm nervous. Do I worry? My next post op appointment is in August. I'm usually active and was exercising up until the surgery. I'm going nuts

  • kingster
    kingster Member Posts: 289
    edited July 2015

    Tricia, it's best to not look in the mirror too much initially. Just check incisions. It takes months for the implants to settle. It's normal for them to look high and squared off. Don't be afraid to call the ps office with any questions.

    Warrior, if your implants are smooth round like mine, they are supposed to move freely inside the pocket. Anatomical shaped implants are supposed to adhere to the chest wall. I move mine around to help avoid capsule contracture. I have mentor memory gels, smooth round.

  • WarriorVixen
    WarriorVixen Member Posts: 2
    edited July 2015

    Thank you Kingster, I have round one I believe. They are Natrelle silicone. I Was told not to do massage. I am hoping it is too soon after and will stop.


  • halee
    halee Member Posts: 20
    edited July 2015

    Hi. I'm new to this thread. I have TEs filled to 720cc and my exchange is scheduled for August 4, and my PS is also going to repair my hernia and give me a tummy tuck. The plan is to use 650cc round smooth silicone implants, and my PS said he was thinking moderate, but my PS said he'd order several options just in case. I did fine with the TE fills until the last one, and it was horrible. I'm so glad that it was the last one we had planned, because it would have been the last one regardless! I'm a little nervous for the surgery because I've been diagnosed with LE, but my PS said that they deal with it all the time and I should have no problems.

    Audrey, it's good to see you here. :) Our surgeries are close!

  • AudreyB
    AudreyB Member Posts: 108
    edited July 2015

    Hi Halee! I wish my surgery was scheduled sooner, but its been 8/19 for a while now. My PS is going on vacation so I scheduled sx for after. I just want these TEs out!!!!!!!! I'm filled to 750 and getting 655 high profile rounds "installed". LOL.

  • thinkingpositive
    thinkingpositive Member Posts: 564
    edited July 2015

    Geez... I have no cleavage but its not due to a uniboob...it seems that there is a lot of space in between mine... don't remember is it was like this before.. Is that normal. Plus its over 8 weeks and I still feel my good boob reconstruction is a little bit off... I still feel it when I have my arm down.. PS says it looks great..and yes thats the implant that I feel and it will settle... I just feel as though the entire implant is on the side..not under the boob.. but maybe he had to do that for the LIFT?

  • minustwo
    minustwo Member Posts: 13,359
    edited July 2015

    OK ya'all - remember it can take 3 to 6 months for the implants to settle & for you to see what the real results will be. Kingster's right - stay away from the mirror. It is not your friend.

    Warrior - most docs say NOT to lift your arms above shoulder height for at least two weeks, or longer. There are lots of interior stitches that you can't see that have to heal. I wouldn't start exercising w/o the approval of your PS. Also my PS said NO massaging.

  • Badgergirl
    Badgergirl Member Posts: 41
    edited July 2015

    Help please ;-)

    My exchange surgery has been scheduled for next Wednesday, and while I was settled with the decision to go with the Inspira (415 or 465) at 9 am, now at 10:00 pm, I'm second guessing myself all over the place. I was large before, a size E, and had ptosis. I was concerned about the anatomical for two reasons - first, rotation. I know it's a minimal risk, but I am very active and didn't want to worry. Second, because I had ptosis previously, I was worried about the slope at the upper pole. So we chose a round, but now I'm worried about a shelf. GAH! The PS is planning to do some fat grafting, but did caution there would not be much fat to grab (which I know, is a good problem to have...kind of).

    Advice, comments, insight, suggestions are all welcomed! And thank you in advance - I'm grateful!

    PS - I've also posted in Breast Implant Sizing...sorry for any duplication!

  • robinblessed54
    robinblessed54 Member Posts: 485
    edited July 2015

    Badgergirl, I can only speak about my experience with anatomicals. Until 2 weeks before my EX I was going with rounds. I too heard about the rotation chance. But changed my mind to Allergan 410 FF 475cc. I can't see how they could rotate! These suckers are held in place nicely. The slope looks natural and I do have upper pole. They drop so natural too. I was a 36b before. I might be a small C. But that is what I wanted. I wanted to look like me. All my clothes fit from before. I will PM you a picture.Robin

  • Badgergirl
    Badgergirl Member Posts: 41
    edited July 2015

    Robin -

    THANK YOU, THANK YOU!!!!! I want to look like me too....and you look so beautiful - thank you for sharing, I definitely think I may need to reconsider my choice ;-)

    Truly grateful for you!

  • minustwo
    minustwo Member Posts: 13,359
    edited July 2015

    Badger - I too love my anatomicals (I also have Allergan 410s). Anatomical implants do require a surgeon who is experienced & exacting, and the pockets have to be carefully crafted & designed to fit exactly. Done correctly, I think they're great.