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Between the Devil ( the red one) and the deep blue sea

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  • voraciousreader
    voraciousreader Member Posts: 3,696

    Thinking of you! Hope you are resting comfortably!

  • itsjustme10
    itsjustme10 Member Posts: 64

    Hope you're feeling better!! 

  • chrissyb
    chrissyb Member Posts: 11,438

    Marybe those cookies were delicious!  I actually like them a little harder and I thought that was how they were meant to be.........so no probs I really enjoyed them.  I even gave DH a couple to try and he said he liked them as well.

    Hope you are feeling a whole lot better and have had a long talk to the docs about everything.

    Love n hugs.   Chrissy 

  • Alyson
    Alyson Member Posts: 3,737

    Marybe, how are you today, keep looking to see if you are posting.

    Great big hugs, but very gentle ones.

  • 3jaysmom
    3jaysmom Member Posts: 2,604

    allyson: before i get started, i wante d to say: you look wonderful in the new avatar...i checked to see if we had a newbie...

      Okay: so marybe was taken to the Christ Hospital in Cinncinati.. im not sure, a day or two ago.. that part wasn't too clear..   tim was trying to get her to go before, but of course, she wouldn't . I really don't think she realizes she's so sick, even now..

      today she told me she didn't know then she was as sick as she was: and i offerred to come, but she thinks she'll be back at work soon..

      she's gone into the beginning of renal failure, which they say (and NOW she gets the cardio she's tried and tried to get: and a nephrologist, who's HIS recommendation) they did get a foley in her, and are rehydrating her , but slowly.. her levels are all over the place.. one says not enough fluid, one says too much.

      she's complaining that she won't eat.. i taLKED to tim, and had him ask the nurse if she could have one of those icees she likes.. the nurse gave the sure; so, he left, and went to get one. we stayed on the phone and talked till the nurse came in, and tried to get her to eat something..

      she's very weak, both the heart, and the kidneys are not working together..

      so, i'd ask you all to pray for our dearest, and hope that God will honor our requests, and she'll get thru this crisis, that she doesn't realize she's in. i did tell her twice, this could be life or death, and to keep screwing around about worrying about work, or her trip..

     they have her walking, trying to get the heart pumping a bit..and she has made a couple of laps, but with great fatigue, of course.. she's not alone, Tim of course, is by her side, and all the Kathies came to the hospital last night. i will try her cell tommorrow, or later tonight.. and i'll let you guys know anything i find out.. feel free to pm me, if you want..

      i pray she's still got fight in her, cause she's going to need it. i told her id tell everyone, and we'd have a pocket party, and help see her thru this..

      im too upset to say more, so everyone just think of marybe, as i know you do already..............3jays

  • lilylady
    lilylady Member Posts: 478

    Please God don't take our rock-we aren't ready for her to go. Hoping that her medical team can work together and get her back on her feet.

  • itsjustme10
    itsjustme10 Member Posts: 64

    Thank you for the update.  Thoughts and prayers for Marybe.

  • chabba
    chabba Member Posts: 3,600
    3jays - I've long had marybe on my prayer list but will redouble those prayers.  She is such a special and inspirational person.
  • badger
    badger Member Posts: 24,938

    3jays thanks for the update, like chabba I've long had Marybe on my prayer list.

    ((Marybe)) sending love and gentle hugs your way.

  • voraciousreader
    voraciousreader Member Posts: 3,696

    Marybe!!! I will keep you in my prayers and hope for a speedy recovery...3jays... Thank you!!!

  • Leah_S
    Leah_S Member Posts: 1,929

    My prayers are going out for Marybe. 3jays, thank you for updating us; I know that isn't easy.

    Leah

  • Alyson
    Alyson Member Posts: 3,737

    Sending lots of love and prayers

  • 208sandy
    208sandy Member Posts: 582

    Oh 3Jays - thank you so much for letting us know - prayers and love to Marybe - glad she's at least in the hospital where hopefully they'll get the treatments sorted out.

  • ruthbru
    ruthbru Member Posts: 47,698

    3Jays, thank you so very much for keeping us informed. I pray that she can weather this storm. Sending out hugs to her, and to you all dear sisters.

  • QCA
    QCA Member Posts: 1,150

    3jays, thank you for letting us know.  I'm offering up more prayers for Marybe too, and hopes that now everyone's on the same page with her treatment.  Always prayers for Marybe, for you 3jays, and for us all.

    Kathy

  • HLB
    HLB Member Posts: 740

    Please Lord let Marybe pull through this!

  • chrissyb
    chrissyb Member Posts: 11,438

    Thanks 3jays.



    Oh Marybe what are we going to do with you? Please be a good girl and do exactly as your docs tell you to..........we all selfishly want you back here posting.........you are our rock.



    Love, hugs n prayers coming your way.



    Chrissy

  • Gingerbrew
    Gingerbrew Member Posts: 1,997

    Missing you Marybe and keeping you in my prayers for healing and strength.  

    Love Ginger 

  • heidihill
    heidihill Member Posts: 1,858

    Marybe, I'm praying that they sort things out and you are out of the hospital soon!  3jays, thanks for keeping us posted.

  • barsco1963
    barsco1963 Member Posts: 879

    Dear God - praying that Marybe will get the care and tx needed to help her through this crisis.

    Love, hugs and prayers for you Marybe!

  • LuvRVing
    LuvRVing Member Posts: 2,409

    (((Marybe))) - sending positive thoughts for a quick recovery from this current crisis.

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754

    Just a note as I wish to add my hopeful healing vibes to all of yours.  I don't post anywhere much, but if you have ever "talked" to Marybe, you wouldn't forget her.  She is very special and so deeply inspirational.  I am praying for her and hoping with all my heart and soul that all gets sorted out well and that she gets through this time period and regains all she had going for her. 

    Marybe you are loved and so appreciated for your loving and courageous spirit.  Get well please. 

    Healing hugs,

    Jackie

  • lago
    lago Member Posts: 11,653

    ♥ ♥ ♥ Marybe you know I'm thinking of you always. ♥ ♥ ♥

    I know you. You're a tough chick that's been down this crappy road before. You'll get through this one too.

  • barbe1958
    barbe1958 Member Posts: 7,605

    Marybe, you are in the right place at the right time and thank God everyone is getting focused together! You will have all the board meetings at the hospital talking about you - Renal, Cardio, Oncology, etc - so surely they can come up with a consensus!!! You WILL come out the other side of this stronger than ever. Next time, will you listen to those of us who told you to get seen sooner??? Hmmm?

  • leggo
    leggo Member Posts: 379

    Marybe, I had no idea what was going on with you until I read this thread for the first time. Please feel better soon, my dear.

  • moderators
    moderators Posts: 8,643

    Stay strong and calm Marybe. We are all sending you energy and love.

  • HLB
    HLB Member Posts: 740

    I agree Barbe these specialists should have all been coordinated from the beginning, esp when she started the adria. Marybe she is right, you will come out stronger and have a great time on your trip!!

  • thefuzzylemon
    thefuzzylemon Member Posts: 631

    Prayers and love on the way....I pray for her strength, I pray for Tim's strength and for Marys heart to be carried through all of this and please take great care of Mary during this time. I pray that she finds this love and it lifts her to healing quickly. Please give Mary and Tim their needs to get well. Amen.

  • eph3_12
    eph3_12 Member Posts: 2,704

    Marybe, I saw 3jays post on Spirited thread---what the hell are you doing?????

    I sincerely hope that by this time, right now, you are doing better & that the doctors have finally kicked some PA to the curb & that you are peeing & pooping & eating the way you should be girl!

    Love you, get better so we can talk some SSD stuff without you trying to avoid it!!!!

    Me 

  • Sheryl_Lynn
    Sheryl_Lynn Member Posts: 3

    Sending out love, light and many prayers for your recovery Marybe!