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23 Years of Stage 4!

Today is the first day of my 23rd year after being diagnosed with Stage 4 MBC de novo. The past few years have been very challenging since my body has been protesting against so much chemo, but I am doing my best to hang in here.

Sending love to all of you!

Denise

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  • threetree
    threetree Member Posts: 1,871

    Congratulations Denise. You are absolutely an inspiration to us all! Wishing you many, many more years ahead.

  • malleemiss251
    malleemiss251 Member Posts: 653

    Denise, so many congratulations you deserve. That is an amazing achievement. I hope it continues many years into the future.

  • tougholdcrow
    tougholdcrow Member Posts: 222

    I know you've had some tough times lately, @denny123 , but I'm happy you are still here, a beacon of hope.

  • exbrnxgrl
    exbrnxgrl Member Posts: 5,355

    Congrats to you! I am on year 13. Wish they could figure out why outliers are outliers.

  • smallmoments
    smallmoments Member Posts: 57

    yay, @denny123 ! celebrating you.

  • eleanora
    eleanora Member Posts: 309

    Denise

    Like everyone else who has posted here, I am overjoyed for you. I appreciate all of the knowledge you share with those of us who hope to copy your success.

    Fingers crossed for your continued triumph.

    Eleanora

  • moderators
    moderators Posts: 8,798

    Wow, Denise, 23 years! This is so inspiring, thank you for sharing! 🤩

    Sending you lots of love as you keep hanging in there.

    The Mods

  • cookie54
    cookie54 Member Posts: 891

    @denny123 Wow that's just awesome and amazing to hear!!!! I have seen you on the Xeloda page many times giving out helpful hints. So happy that you continue to thrive and defy the odds. Keep rollin along……

  • denny123
    denny123 Member Posts: 1,596

    Thanks to all!

    @cookie54 I miss you on whatever site you used to be on- lol. I get confused. Are you still on Xeloda? I am at 7 years.

  • cookie54
    cookie54 Member Posts: 891

    Yes I am very active of Husband,Life Family on here, wonderful group! I do follow along on Xeloda and TNBC etc.

    I have been on X for 2 years in July and so far it's been holding me pretty stable. Fingers crossed next scan in January they have been watching a new bone lesion that popped up 6 mos ago. But I am hoping to ride the X wave for a loooong time!

  • kaynotrealname
    kaynotrealname Member Posts: 447

    Oh congratulations, Denise!!! This is so inspiring to read :)

  • rlschaller
    rlschaller Member Posts: 350

    @denny123 so uplifting to read of your 23 years, as I am about to start year two… my heart is happy for you.

  • denny123
    denny123 Member Posts: 1,596

    @cookie54 Nice to meet you. I was thinking of another Cookie who had been on Xeloda for several years. I think that she is now off Xeloda and on to something else.

    Best of luck!

  • lacombattante
    lacombattante Member Posts: 187

    @denny123 , WOW! Congratulations, this is an amazing milestone!
    And a ray of hope for all of us

  • creena
    creena Member Posts: 5

    Congratulations, Denise. You are an inspiration to us all, especially us newbies! Thank you for reminding us of how strong women are!

  • malleemiss251
    malleemiss251 Member Posts: 653

    Such an excellent start to my day @denny123, congratulations and I hope you have a celebration because of great CT results.

  • rlschaller
    rlschaller Member Posts: 350

    woo hoo. Creates hope for so many to know what is possible. ❤️🙏❤️

  • AJ
    AJ Member Posts: 286

    @denny123 that’s so cool! Congratulations!

  • lacombattante
    lacombattante Member Posts: 187

    @denny123 Great news and so encouraging to hear! Congratulations!

  • threetree
    threetree Member Posts: 1,871

    Congratulations Denny - if we could all be so lucky. You are a trooper indeed, and an inspiration to the rest of us.

  • snow-drop
    snow-drop Member Posts: 568

    Hi Denise, congratulations on marking 23 years as a mBC trooper! I really needed to hear this today. thank you for sharing your story. So many posters stop updating once they reach stability, but you’ve continued to share your journey and your good news, which is so encouraging. I also appreciate all the tips you’ve shared about Xeloda, I’ve made notes of them to keep in mind ❤️

  • livinglifenow
    livinglifenow Member Posts: 49

    @denny123 So happy for you! I am just starting this MBC journey. Hope to emulate your longevity.

    Best,

    Pam

  • aadetoyin
    aadetoyin Member Posts: 4

    Needed to see this so that I don't ever lose hope.