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Sue bee, sorry about your MIL. Even though it will be 3 weeks from your surgery, please be careful and take it easy.
Congrats to all of you who will be having your surgeries this week. I'm anxious to hear how it went.
I read everyone's talk about their fear factor. My surgery was supposed to be thursday (its been postponed till an undertermined date), but I was so nervous. Now, I'm more anxious about when the surgery is going to take place! I do love my TE, even with the hardness and how uncomfortable it is. It just looks so damn good! I go out, with two different sized girls. I dont care what I look like, cause I know in a few months..they'll finally be perky!!! (at least for awhile).
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Salkate: I was given a list of things NOT to take before surgery, but I seem to recal something about boosting my immune system with Vit C & not multi vitamins because of the no vit E but antioxidant vitamins.
greytcruise: I was in horrible pain just trying to open my car door so I didn't even drive for at least 3 weeks. You are right, too about now bouncing--We have to keep the new girls wrapped up tight in the beginning. If you haven't already been there, I would check out the Bras 101 thread as it has some great info on how to keep the new foobs looking new! Heal up and quit lifting and pulling!
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My countdown to exchange is on! 3 weeks from today (the 28th). I am excited, yet nervous. I had a lift on my natural side when I had my MX- so only one side will be worked on. I can't wait to have "my coconut" removed!! Best wishes to all with an upcoming exchange!!
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Hanta Yo -- just make sure you emphasize for your PS that bigger is better (from your POV), which is what I'm hearing you say. I used those exact words with my PS and she said she would do her best to use the largest of the possible options she was going in with -- and that's what I ended up with (which made me happy).
Mejoy -- I was more nervous about exchange too. Its the expectation factor, I think. When you go in for MX (uni or bilateral) you are focused on (a) getting rid of cancer and (b) lowering expectations because you know the TE is not permanent. It makes the whole thing easier, I think. Then with exchange you are focused on "final" results. Remember that for most it takes a few months for the implants to settle in, so you won't see "final" results right away and that it doesn't have to be final if you end up displeased. Most women do end up pleased (or pleased with a few small adjustments that can be added when its time for the nipples -- like fat grafting or a snip of a dog ear). Most of us come out of exchange wearing our hypercritical/hypersensitive hats (I know I did) and it is really about being patient.
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Lilah, you've articulated exactly how I feel. Expectations are high. Thanks for the reminders to be patient.
Kelly
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sorry suebee:(
Welcome everyone...what an exciting time as we all make it through the next step! Mine has been postponed...went to PS today for surgery tomorrow and I showed him the few ripples I had (barely noticeable to anyone but me)- he had me really contort my arms...and asked if I would wait until he gets back from vacation and have it July 7 (I am out of town last week of June) as he did not want another PS covering me afterwards...he is going to do fat grafting on both breasts, removed fatty pads under arms near side/top of breasts and then create the nipples...I am excited...he was so kind and is so thrilled with the results he said "we are gonna make these that much better- I do not want you making "do" or feeling "off" about anything" Then he went mad for a new bra I had and had assistant write down what it was DKNY etc so he could tell other patients- it really holds everything right where it should be and is so comfy- i posted a pic on pic forum
so...I wait:)
Thanks all:)
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annette - sound like you have the same "faint" issues I have....I get minor rippling in strange positions and have little fat pads in the same spots you do! I don't see my PS till the end of the month, I am hoping to go the same route you are with the FG. I know he does it, I just haven't asked if I was a candidate and he hasn't seen me in a while to see what's been happening. I think the fat pads bother me the most, so vain sounding, but I cannot stand putting on a tank top and having these little mounds of fat sitting there!!! :-) ...no one notices them like I do, my hub thinks I might be a bit crazy,
considering he is mesmorized by these things! ...but hell - why should I have to "make do" if I don't have to!?!? Good luck and sounds like youv'e struck it big with a great PS!!!
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he is awesome...above and beyond what a PS should be...I had a little breakdown over some things going on in my life and he just let loose with the most incredibly kind morale boosting put your big girl pants on line speech that I felt darn good when I left. Funny, how a few minutes when someone needs it really makes a diff....
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Annette, it's the little stuff that really can grab you as you deal with all this bc stuff. Random acts of kindness are HUGE. Your PS sounds like a doll. So worth the wait.
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Ladies.... I hope your summer exchanges work out GREAT!
I had my exchange in 08. So far.... even with a radiated breast, I look pretty good... Keep the faith... Laura !
JEAN......... you ROCK!
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Wait. Issues? Rippling? FAT pads? Hold on a minute. Im not going to wake up perfect?
I'm so happy I am on this site. It totally keeps my expectations in check.
BTW, Megan, I ran into my BFF today and boob greed started again. Jeesh will I ever be happy? I guess I could be as long as I stop comparing myself to her!!!
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Sue, not that I am one to shy away from boob greed, LOL...but you gotta remember: on your right side you'll have no breast tissue. All your projection will be coming from the implant. Going bigger won't add much in the way of projection.
I'm just going to throw out two sizes for the sake of argument: 400cc vs 600cc. You'll get an extra 0.6 cm in projection, just over half a centimeter, with the 600. You'll get more width, more silicone, but also, it'll be heavier. So the way to figure it out: what width is best for you? Go that route.
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Cameron: You make a great point about projection--I think you only get more projection with the gummies and most of us don't have those.
Annettek: Sometimes waiting gets us the best results! sorry you have to wait but I am happy that you have such a compassionate and concerned PS who wants the best for you. I hate the fat pads. I love lipo and fat grafting!!
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Okay... trying to catch up on this very active thread again. Sounds like alot of exchanges going on right now. I have my second exchange surgery one week from today.. trading out my 325cc's for maybe 400cc's which isn't much so hope it is worth it. For some reason, I haven't been giving it much thought and am not experiencing any anxiety yet. Is that weird? The first one went so well and I recovered quickly so I think I must be assuming this second one will go as well.....?
I am probably in denial since this one will likely include the FG and some dog ear corrections, etc.Estepp... so glad that you have done well with your radiated side. I have one radiated side and that is my biggest concern at this point. Please, oh please, let it be okay!
SuebeeBC.... you are so funny. Issues??? Yes, I get some boob envy too when I see a nice pair on my friends... just hope they don't notice me staring
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Ah, boob envy, will it ever end--no!
Joan: Although many complications can arise with surgery, I never had any problems with any surgery all through this BC mess so I am hoping the same for you. My tummy got a bit bruised and sore from lipo but nothing that required a pain reliever. Good luck to you!
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Ok, Cameron, how did you know THAT????? Seriously that was a new one on me! OK, ok. Im back in line. You gave me the "boob greed smackdown". It was being out with my friends the other day (one had an augmentation last month and while her implants will be the same size, she is starting with breast tissue) and my BFF turned to me and said "I think she shouldve gone bigger"....and I was thrown for a loop. Wait, do you now think I should be going bigger too???? I was having boob anxiety. Yes of course, I am more petite and yes I know, I have no tissue on the right....OK....I know if I went any bigger than I am now I would had trouble finding the right bra...I get it. WAAAAHHHH this is so hard!!! My DH does NOT want me to go bigger so I guess its a good sign Im done!
OK, point taken on the projection which I totally didnt know. Thanks!!!
Joan - Did I miss an earlier post? What the change in size? Revisions? Hope it all goes well!
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ditto, Cameron, for the tutorial on cc's and real projection.
SueBee--I am sorry to hear about your mother-in-law. I think any loss is harder right now because we have so much of our own loss going on.
I can't say I have had boob greed or envy...maybe after the exchange I'll have second thoughts. Yesterday, I think I just had a bad day becasue I was tired from having a really fun weekend with my family and needed rest. I wanted to carve out the expanders and throw them out in the yard. I thought my chest was totally gross when I thought about the "bumps" really just being pushed out muscle. I recognized it as depression...I'm better today. I still have pain from the TEs so it's gets to me sometimes.
I have to say that when I am looking at other women's shapes I find myself preferring the slim, smaller breasted look--so I think I'll be satisfied with a small profile. I keep telling my PS that I want "perky." Besides I plan to be active when I am finally healed, and my impression is that big boobs get in the way.
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SuebeeBC... When I mentioned to my PS after my first exchange that I was smaller than my original boobs, he agreed and said that he really wanted to give it a few months and go back with a bit larger as he could tell that I could handle it. He even commented that if I chose to keep these smaller implants, that I would be leaving a thorn in his side forever.
I know that he is a perfectionist, as most PS should be. And since I knew I was headed back for some revisions anyway.... I just figured, go ahead. I really like my PS and trust him 100%. I guess I am like MBJ.... have never had any complications with any of this BC mess... BMX, anesthesia, chemo, rads, etc. (I am knocking on wood right now). 0 -
JOAN - Oh I see. Well then thats great! Good luck to you and congrats on having a PS who is a perfectionist! Love that!!!
Rowan - I know how you feel. Ive been good natured most of the time but sleeping (especially on the right again - I was able to do that until 2 weeks ago) is getting really hard. Changing positions in bed is difficult again and I have constant arm pain now (once relieved by exercise and movement) I want this thing OUT. PS said "that means youre big enough"....well, OK then! I'd really like to go back to giving my friends real hugs too and not the arms length ones so I dont poke them with this thing. I know in my heart the size I picked it right. The rest of me is rather small......And the smaller size will be great for exercising for both of us so good for you too!
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Well ladies my exchange went very well today. From what I can see at the top (under the bandaging) all looks good but we all know that settling is going to happen.. Hopefully the small divots that I had after surgery #4 will be totally gone. I am really impressed with ps #2. I have one more surgery to go and that will be nipple grafting. She said if there are divots at this time she will do some fat grafting. She suggested 3 months for that surgery but I think I will wait at least 5 so the settling is more complete!
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congrats jkz!!!!get some restL:)
Yeah Suebee- I didn't even KNOW I had fatpads and told my PS he was rude when he said I did! hahaha...he poked em and said, yep, fat pads and smiled. He did it again last appt and I said if you poke my fat pads again I will punch ya. It was very funny. Who knew? I am just grateful he knew they were fatpads as I would have assumed it was normal. I asked him if he was going to fix my dog ears and he started laughing. I said what is so funny-I want them fixed with everything else! He said you don't have any to fix but let me check and flipped up my hair and shook his head-no dog ears that I can see. funny guy. but it helps, it truly does.I admitted I wasn't quite sure what they were but since I didn't know I had fat pads I thought maybe I had dog ears as well....
on another note- took off and played hooky for a couple of hours in Galveston today...absolutely needed it and I gotta say....felt great in a bathing suit...didn't even care about my cellulite. It felt so incredible in the water and I must confess to trying both on my back and then on my tummy to see if my implants made it easier to float.....
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I admit I was foob obsessed, however I now like mine 450ccs high profile mentor silicone. I am really suprised with the projection, better than I ever expected. Boobs do not look like the swimsuit models or playboys. I think today they fluffed-how do you know? They are really soft today. I think I have the best PS, it is so nice to see so many of us like our PS. My PS raised mine so perkier. Annettek, I have been anxious to go swimming just to try what you did! I did have fat grafting, but will proabaly have to have more as have ripples and pits. I wish they could get rid of cellulite at same time. I guess my thighs will go next time. My follow up is next week and I took day off so hopefully can go bra shopping!! Details please on DNKY bra, suspense is killing me! I have made a list of bras from the bra board. Anyone have rib pain from exchange surgery? I haven't had any pain associated with the fat grafting from stomach. To all of those waiting for exchange it will be worth it. I am wearing the super duper spanx model to keep everything in place after lypo.
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Congrads to everyone that has recently had exchange!! i have mine in 4 days ,not nervous just want this t/e out! I feel for the ladies that have talked about the t/e pain they are having, i was there,not too bad now its been 8 months ,i think im too happy to care about the pain now. I have not even thought too much of what they will look like ,i don't think i really care. I just want relief and i hope to have at least 2 size B's
nipple will come later not even a thought till i get on here. Im looking forward to not having pain and working out again,and hopefully going back to work. Thanks for all your posts keeping me excited feel good get strong
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tina- nada- I still sink like a rock but it sure was fun doing something so absolutely silly:)
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Beacher - My Eday sista!!! I cant believe it!! Can you??? I want to pull this thing out myself! Sleeping is actually getting HARDER for me. Maybe its the heat here as well.
Annette - I love your PS. Thats awesome. So....floaters? What is it?
JKZ - YEAH and welcome to the other side!! Hope you heal well!
Grey - I am so glad everything is going well....I love to hear that. I hope I get a 450 HP in the right too.
4 days!!! WOW - Preop tomorrow and then the weeknd. I cant take the excitement!
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Well I felt great yeserday and just a liitle sore today.. Can not wait for tomorrow so I can shower.. I actually showered on Tuesday night and then again yesterday morning before my surgery because I knew I'd have to wait a couple days. I guess 2 days isn't that bad could be worst like after my mastectomy surgery..
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Jkz -- yay that you are done with this one! And nipple surgery will be much easier. So this is the last big heal up! I hope you are pleased with the final results. Take it easy for now.
Annette -- you are so funny. Your PS does sound hilarious.
Good luck to everyone having surgery this week!
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JKZ- hurrah! Happy, healing vibes to you and all who have their exchanges this week!
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Yes Suebee!!! i am excited finally its here! Sorry u r having trouble sleeping, but soon you will be drugged and u can catch up
Jkz, Congrads!!
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