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  • marjie
    marjie Posts: 365
    edited August 2011

    My DH was a sweetie through the whole thing too - we had a lot of laughs, usually at my expense...but he was really great. My fav story and I think I may have told it on here somewhere was the day we were grocery shopping...I was wearing a scarf and my eyes were running like crazy right down my face, my nose was half running/bleeding...I was a mess - it looked like I was bawling my head off. Anyway,  I picked up a pkg of cookies and he grabbed it from me and yelled "I don't care if you have cancer, I said NO COOKIES!!!"

    He had noticed people looking at me so he decided to give them something to look at, LOL!!  I still laugh when I think of it :)

  • KY_Vickie
    KY_Vickie Posts: 17
    edited August 2011

    My DH is constantly rubbing my chemo curls on the back of my head.  He doesn't even realize that he is doing it.  It is very sweet when he does it and many people have commented about it.  My hair was straight as a string before all this happened.  On another note, I had my exchange yesterday.  I now have real FOOBS.  I also got the port taken out and the big dog ears taken off.  Yea!!!!

  • marjie
    marjie Posts: 365
    edited August 2011

    I can't wait to get my port out - I need it till end of January, then I'm heading for vacation in February so hopefully I can get it out asap after my last herceptin.

  • BrandyB
    BrandyB Posts: 60
    edited August 2011

    Oh Marjie, you have one too?!?

    That grocery store story is so something my husband would do! He used to call me the uni-boober!
  • lago
    lago Posts: 11,653
    edited August 2011

    Kym I loved the fat face. It blew out all my wrinkles. I looked 10 years younger. Tongue out

    Carberry when I sent a picture of me in short hair to my mom it freaked her out. Yeah I look so much like her now. She mentioned it again when I was visiting last week. I'm not too upset though. My mom is a very pretty lady.  Wink

    Other than the comment that I looked like darth vader when I lost my hair my husband didn't say much about how I looked. He pet my head a lot… still does. He did keep seducing me so I must of still looked good to him even when bald. Tongue out

    BTW today is 1 year NED (1 year from BMX) for me. Yes I'm bragging a little about that.

  • sweetcorn
    sweetcorn Posts: 96
    edited September 2011

    Congrats lago, on your one year anniversary!

  • racy
    racy Posts: 976
    edited September 2011

    BrandyB, I must say you look H-O-T in your avatar.

  • racy
    racy Posts: 976
    edited September 2011

    Cograts lago, you are an inspiration on this thread with your sense of humour and super positive attitude.

  • ksmatthews
    ksmatthews Posts: 743
    edited September 2011

    Congrats Lago and you brag away! 

  • racy
    racy Posts: 976
    edited September 2011

    Hi Christine47

    I was 18 weeks pfc yesterday. My hair looks a lot like dragonfly1's; about 1 inch long.  I am trying to be patient but it is very hard and some days I get quite depressed about it.  I did go topless once on the beach when I was on my holiday and just wore a hat quite a bit.  I am going to the beach for a weekend on 10 September so will go topless again.

    I am definitely looking into hair extensions.

    Hope you are doing well with your hair and recovery after surgery.

  • marjie
    marjie Posts: 365
    edited September 2011
    Brag away Lago!! It's a great feeling isn't it?  I'm not sure where to start my count....July 13 was my diagnosis, Aug 19 was my surgery last year.
  • lago
    lago Posts: 11,653
    edited September 2011

    I count NED which in my case was surgery. Some folks get NED with chemo if they do it first.

    Thanks Racy that was really nice of you to say.

  • YaYa5
    YaYa5 Posts: 532
    edited September 2011
    lago, i agree with racy.  and congratulations on your one year NED!  
  • pejkug3
    pejkug3 Posts: 277
    edited September 2011

    Congrats, Lago!

  • Cyborg
    Cyborg Posts: 192
    edited September 2011

    sweetbean--bummer about the Nioxin having parabens. I am using it too. Does everything have parabens??? agh!

  • FLwarrior
    FLwarrior Posts: 614
    edited September 2011

    Any ideas on "SAFE" color for this grey/white mess I have coming in?  I do not recognize the image that stares back at me when I look in the mirror.  I hate it.  I bought natural henna, but have not mustered the courage to use it...seems so complicated.  HELP!

  • lago
    lago Posts: 11,653
    edited September 2011

    I found my old color that was an aburn brown went on too red. The color we use is more brown than my old color.

  • dawn31337
    dawn31337 Posts: 93
    edited September 2011

    FL Warrior - the first color I tried was Natural Instincts, but I found it didn't cover so well.  I have been using Revlon ColorSilk, it is ammonia free, cheap, and seems to work well.  It was even rated #1 by Good Housekeeping, and it is like $3.50 a box.  My stylist agreed I should use something ammonia free, and that there isn't really any sense in having him color it for now.  Plus, all the professional stuff has ammonia in it - at his shop anyway.  He said to be as kind to my hair as possible for the first year.

    Henna, in my opinion, is a PITA, but all do it yourself hair color is to some extent. 

  • Kymn
    Kymn Posts: 887
    edited September 2011

    Hi ladies,

    Bikenyc I think your new avitar looks gorgeous you definelty should rock it girl.

    Lago brag away that is awsome news

    the husband stories are hilarious, my DH would do that too

    Had number 20 of rads today only 13 to go, I see a light flickering at the end of the tunnel.

    have a great long weekend girls

  • bdavis
    bdavis Posts: 3,192
    edited September 2011

    To get coverage i went to my stylist... When i used a l'oreal product it faded in like 2 days... I asked my stylist to color it whatever color was coming in... To cover the chemo white....She colored it ash blond with a touch of red...

  • tracie23
    tracie23 Posts: 214
    edited September 2011

    bdavis I have been doing my own since May and I use dark ash blonde I think the ash keeps it from turning red.

  • saralmom
    saralmom Posts: 216
    edited September 2011

    Congrats on your one year NED lago!

  • PSU222
    PSU222 Posts: 43
    edited September 2011

    Great news Lago!!  I hope you dance!!!

    I made myself an appointment with the stylist that will be 10 weeks PFC not quite sure what she will do with some white fuzz and stragglers.Cry

  • lago
    lago Posts: 11,653
    edited September 2011

    Thanks everyone. I think I'm going to celebrate this weekend… and again on Tuesday my final Herceptin.

  • racy
    racy Posts: 976
    edited September 2011

    Ladies, I just bought two great hair magazines to get ideas about modern styles and colours: 'short hair', Fall 2011 is a US publication that includes 349 styles; 'Blonde Hair' June/July is from UK and claims to include 101 styles and 867 hair ideas. I highly recommend these types of mags if you are looking to try a new style and/or colour.

  • LuvRVing
    LuvRVing Posts: 2,409
    edited September 2011

    Congrats, Lago!  Final herceptin - you must be thrilled!  Make it a week-long celebration because you have earned it!

    Michelle

  • racy
    racy Posts: 976
    edited September 2011

    PSU222, I hope your appointment with the stylist means you have had some growth over the past few weeks. I have prayed for it for you!

  • bucky317
    bucky317 Posts: 178
    edited September 2011

    Congratulations Lago!!! Your such an inspiration with your wit and sense of humor. I am now 7 weeks PFC and I have Hair!!!! just like you described "puppy doggish" and my DH loves to rub it as well as my two boys ( me too!!!)Saralmom, Tracie23 and Marjie, you all look beautiful!!! I cannot wait till I can ditch the wig and go topless!!!

    Have a great Labor Day Weekend Ladies!!!

  • sweetcorn
    sweetcorn Posts: 96
    edited September 2011

    I put mascara on my lower lashes for the first time in many weeks.  And they are thicker than before.  Now if the uppers would only grow longer......still very short, but they are there!  7 wks PFC

    Jane

  • Carrol2
    Carrol2 Posts: 1,477
    edited September 2011

    My lashes grew back longer and thicker than they were i think. But they are straighter. I never used to use an eyelash curler but they look really long and lush now if they point up instead of out.