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  • odie16
    odie16 Posts: 1,415
    edited April 2012

    Just have to chime in on the family/recurrence topic.....

    June/Jane - You two ladies summed up exactly how I feel. Unfortunately, I also have some family who are way too familiar with cancer (DH lost his dad 4 yrs ago to lung cancer) and have seen too much. So I put on the happy face to "fake it til I make it" so as not to concern some but get the tonsils out treatment from others. Feel so lucky to have you ladies to share my thoughts & concerns with.... Love ya all!

    Wishing everyone a wonderful Easter/Passover weekends. Hugs to all .......... 

  • Galsal
    Galsal Posts: 754
    edited April 2012

    thanks Tink!

  • 1openheart
    1openheart Posts: 250
    edited April 2012

    Sherry....glad the drains are gone!

    Just a word of advice about driving and going about normal activities.  I only had a UMX, so I had one "good" side to use.  I found that driving put a lot of strain on my implant side and sometimes still does.  I had a direct to implant, so that may be different that someone having TEs.    Also, pushing a grocery cart was very difficult.  You just don't realize how much you use your chest muscles to steer the cart.  In fact I was in Costco last week and had a heavy cart, and I noticed that I was achey and sore in my chest by that evening and into the next day.  I had my UMX in June and a revision/lift in Nov.   So, just take it easy and let others help when they want to.  

    I hope your recovery continues to go smoothy.  Have a good weekend. 

  • Sherryc
    Sherryc Posts: 4,503
    edited April 2012

    Thanks all and openheart those are some good points.  I have already noticed little things that seem so hard because I need my pec muscle and I just cannot use them.  DH has been great when I tell him I can't do it.

  • Ceeztheday
    Ceeztheday Posts: 246
    edited April 2012

    Hello ladies. Just wanted to post because I am very excited that I got to meet Jo today. We had lunch on South Padre Island. It was so nice of her to drive all this way. We could have chatted all afternoon, but I had to get back to work. Thanks Jo for coming over the bridge to see me.



    I hope that you all have a spectacular Easter.

  • tinkertude
    tinkertude Posts: 1,998
    edited April 2012

    Ceeztheday.....that is so awesome!!! So glad you two got to meet....lucky ladies!!!!!!!!

  • June2268
    June2268 Posts: 926
    edited April 2012

    Ceeztheday and Jo you ladies are making me jealous.....wish I could have been there.....

    Odie I know that happy face all so well......

    Sherry so glad you got the drains out.  I can't imagine how sore you must be.  I remember finishing rads and for months not being able to do the simple things we take for granted everyday.  Lifting or reaching up high in a cupboard was unbearable and that lasted a long long time.  So please take it easy and rely on all your wonderful friends.

    Tink how is Spring break going?  Are you guys going to do anything special?  My kids have 1 more week of School till there  Spring break and then we are off to Florida.

    Stomach issues have been so horrible these last 10 days.  I made another  appt with the gastro as I think the weight gain is a combination of Tamox and my ulcers.  I know we can talk about everything so here goes.......I am fine until I go poop.  Once I go my stomach is wrecked all day and of course I am a morning pooper so no relief in sight.  I cannot go on like this..  Last April when he told me I had 2  duodenal ulcers he said it would take 6 weeks to heal them.  I have been on Prilosec since last April and it is freakin horrible.  I can go weeks without any symptoms and weeks feeling so yucky and in pain all day.  I am hoping someone can find out something about my stomach as I stopped Tamox cause they thought they were causing me from not healing and it has been 3 weeks clean and clear of the big T and I am no better only worse......ARGH!!!  Sometimes I feel like lately it is all downhill and no relief in sight.  So pray someone has an answer for me as I am not looking forward to sunny Florida feeling so bloated and in so much pain.......I need to be better for my little ones.

    Well again, thanks for letting me vent.

  • jo1955
    jo1955 Posts: 7,545
    edited April 2012

    Ceeztheday has given you the wonderful news about our lunch today.  Here are some pictures.

                                

                                    

  • jo1955
    jo1955 Posts: 7,545
    edited April 2012

    June - Rats on feeling so bad.  I sure hope someone can come up with a solution and you are feeling better real soon.  Sending gentle hugs girlfriend.

  • June2268
    June2268 Posts: 926
    edited April 2012

    Jo I got your email on Ovarian cancer and hard not to worry about it being that and not an ulcer where every symptom it lists is what I am experiencing.......

    Love the pics.....and seriously jealous and you both look beautiful!!!

  • 1openheart
    1openheart Posts: 250
    edited April 2012

    I wish I was on South Padre Island today. Pretty here in central Texas!

  • jo1955
    jo1955 Posts: 7,545
    edited April 2012

    June - I willl send up prayers that it is not Ovarian Cancer.  You have been through so much already - don't neeed anything else.  Go get it checked out ASAP!  (((HUGS)))

  • 1openheart
    1openheart Posts: 250
    edited April 2012

    June....I'm  hoping it is just gas and nothing more serious! Try not to worry, if you can.

    edited for typos 

  • June2268
    June2268 Posts: 926
    edited April 2012

    Openheart I think my problem is that I worry too much and is why I have ulcers.  Yes I really try not to think it is anything more than these stinking ulcers and hopefully they will finally do something as it has been a year this month.  Hey I guess it's time for a pocket party on Thursday and looking forward to see what Paula does for me.....he he he

    Well signing off for now and if I don't check in tomorrow Happy Easter ladies....

  • jo1955
    jo1955 Posts: 7,545
    edited April 2012

    June - WIll be in your pocket on Thurs - do I have to behave?

    Going to the PS on Wed to sign the consent forms and get my preadmit paperwork for my recon surgery on the 18th.  Just so want to get this over with.  I hate the waiting game. 

  • 1openheart
    1openheart Posts: 250
    edited April 2012

    Do you think ya'll would be up to a pocket party on Monday morning while I am having my MRI? First breast MRI I have had, so a little nervous about lying facedown and still for so long.  I'm fully expecting all to be well...I am approaching my one year diagnosis anniversary.  

    Geez....how is it that my night sweats know what time it is???? The first ones of the evening always come on about this time......I'm a clammy mess! 

    Happy Easter everyone!  I need a chocolate bunny about now!

  • June2268
    June2268 Posts: 926
    edited April 2012

    Okay girls are you ready for a laugh.....

    Today is officially international pillow fight day and it erupted here in Boston and all over the country as well as flash mob.....ha ha, do you think we had anything to do with this?  Ha ha, probably one of the funniest news broadcasts I have seen.......still laughing my ass off and thinking of each and every one of you ladies.

    So WHACK ladies as I hate to be left out of any party!

  • 1openheart
    1openheart Posts: 250
    edited April 2012

    WHACK with my wet, sweaty pillow!  WHACK to hot flashes!!!

  • Sherryc
    Sherryc Posts: 4,503
    edited April 2012

    June I sure hope your stomach isssues will get better and lets not go to the dark side about other cancer issues.

    I have had a great day today.  One of my brothers and family came to visit my mom then went to Walmart for meds and the grocery store to get a fews things.  Realized that when I get to start driving I amy need to ask help as the grocery store because I cannot get things off the top shelves.  I'm sure I'll find help I just want to get independant.

    Hope Everyone has a Blessed Easter.

  • odie16
    odie16 Posts: 1,415
    edited April 2012

    In honor of international pillow fighting day,

    (((((((( WHACK , WHACK, WHACK ))))))))))

    Luv ya'll! Happy Easter!!  And June, I really hope your tummy settles down soon. Gentle hugs.

  • June2268
    June2268 Posts: 926
    edited April 2012

    Sherry sending you a great big hug and kiss your way and thank gosh you have such a great family.......and trust me as I really don't want to go to the dark side, just very strange to get this email from Jo and all symptoms mimic mine.  I try not to read into things but when I have felt this way since way before last April, it often makes you think WTH is wrong with me.......anyhow I am sure it is just my pesky little ulcers which they are going to have to do more for me this time as I cannot live a good quality of life like this.....

  • Galsal
    Galsal Posts: 754
    edited April 2012

    Almost forgot Jo...we'll both be seeing PS on Wednesday!  pocket buddies!!

  • Paula66
    Paula66 Posts: 1,572
    edited April 2012

    Happy Easter to you all!!!  I missed the pillow fight, dangit!!!!!!  I so would have planted a good one on Junie!!!

    Will be there for your party openheart!  

    ((((June))))

    Well all it's off to another busy day today.  OMG I will be so glad when the work week starts.  I love spring and all, but dang it just means more work for me, lol.  Enjoy your day!!!

  • tinkertude
    tinkertude Posts: 1,998
    edited April 2012

    Junie.... great big hugs! please let us know what the doc says!!! love ya girlie!!!  I bet you are looking forward to getting away. What part of Fla are you going to? I lived in Ft Lauderdale for many years went to high school there actually. We are leaving Tues to go to my FIL beach house in Myrtle beach for a few days. Ali and I are also inidated with doc appt when we get back... so enjoy while we can. I will still be checking in and doing my pocket parties with all of you!!!!! xoxo

    lots of pocket parties next week! ill have extra wings packed and will be sure to be with all of you!!!!!!!!

    Paula.. how did we miss a pillow fight???? we will have to make up for it nexttime!!!!

    Happy Easter to all my wonderful friends!!!

  • CatbirdC
    CatbirdC Posts: 235
    edited April 2012

     
    Happy Easter to Everyone
     
    God Love You All  !!!!!!!!!! 
  • jo1955
    jo1955 Posts: 7,545
    edited April 2012

    Galsal - My PS appt is at 1:30 Central Time.  Will definitely be in your pocket.  Pocket Buddies!!!

    June - I am so freaked that I sent you that email and now look what it has done.  I feel really bad about this and so want to apologize for what it has done to you mentally.  I was not aware you were having tummy issues and that the symptoms are similar.  I hope you can find it in your heart to forgive me.

    1openheart - Count me in for the pocket party on Monday.  What time are we leaving for your appt? 

  • 1openheart
    1openheart Posts: 250
    edited April 2012

    Happy Easter everyone!  I will leave around 10:00 am.  I have to be there to check in at 10:30.  This is all central time as well.  

    Jo, I'll be thinking of you as you visit with your PS.  Got all your questions ready?  

    June, hope you tummy is better this morning.   

  • jo1955
    jo1955 Posts: 7,545
    edited April 2012

    1openheart - Do we have to behave while we are in your pockets?  LOL!  I do have questions ready for my PS.  Went through one long list already - now have another.

  • 1openheart
    1openheart Posts: 250
    edited April 2012

    Oh heavens no!  Just don't tickle me.  I have to lie still in that MRI machine!  

  • schipmom
    schipmom Posts: 100
    edited April 2012

    Hi Ladies,

    Wondering if you all might be up for yet another pocket party on Wednesday.  I have to go for my ultrasound to see if those pesky little cysts are still on my ovary.  I just have a strong feeling that they are still there so I don't know what will happen next if they are.  And tomorrow I get to go for my 6-month check with my MO.  I don't like all these appointments!!  But if you would like to come along, please do...I'll make sure my pockets are big enough for everyone :-)  And please count me in for all the other parties that are going on in the upcoming weeks!

    I hope you all had a great Easter!