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  • Mrs_Vino
    Mrs_Vino Posts: 779
    edited May 2012

    Dang it! One a me toofths felled out! Seems I was bitin on de candle, dern it! Hope none of y'all find it accidentally a choke on it! But it was sure good! Dat trip to de teeth cweenin pwace is gonna be worth it, Fo Sho! Yuuuummmmmyyyyy!!!

    Nite y'all! Happy birthday Karen! Hope ya like da clogs, and ya don't choke on da tooth cake!

  • juliet62
    juliet62 Posts: 3,246
    edited May 2012

    happy birthday karen

  • karen1956
    karen1956 Posts: 4,678
    edited May 2012

    Laughing  Thanks for all the birthday greetings....I love the clogs...but did I miss the cake?  did Stella eat it all?  It has been a great birthday.....pictures are posted on fb of my presents....I have the best kids.....DD#2 made me breakfast....a waffle with two candles saying 56.....then I came home to flowers from my DS.....DD#1 and SIL got me pretty pearl earrings....DD#2 got me silver earrings from Brighton...and for a 14 year old, she spent a lot of money....I made a comment and she said, well your my mom.....DD gave me the clogs that I've worn every day since I got them (they are pair #4) and my Mom sent me money for a mani/pedi....Think I'll try to get it Thursday....Friday I will be downtown all day with DD#2 for the Shakespeare festival...and then I'm staying at a hotel in one of the suburbs so I can go the the Day of Caring on Saturday.... Oh yeah....after DD induction into the National Junior HOnor Society, DD, DS and I went out to dinner....A very nice day indeed.....

    Chrissy....doing the happy dance for your good check up...

    Got to order my Mom her mother's day gift....keep debating between a present like earrings or flowers...leaning toward the flowers as she has liked them in the past.....DH got his Mom cookies...DD#1 talked to my MIL last night and called DH today to say grandma was complaining about all sorts of ailments so DH called his mother to see what is going on....MIL has some sort of lung disease, but we don't know anything else...she goes to her pcp on Thursday...DH is going to call his mom to tell her to sign a release so my DH can call the doctor...I guess my MIL has been coughing a lot for a couple months....her late husband who she was married to for 20+ years was a very heavy smoker and she is worried about what the 2nd hand smoke could have done (even though she has been widowed for 15 years)...MIL is 84...DH told her that he would be there in a moments notice is she needed...DH tried to call his brother today, but his brother was getting ready to go into a meeting...don't know if they have talked since, since DH is at a show and had a business dinner tonight...the next two days will be crazy hectic for DH, but hopefully he will be able to find something out...I just hope and pray that it is not lung cancer...all MIL knows its some lung disease....

    Don't like the new look of the boards.....

  • juliet62
    juliet62 Posts: 3,246
    edited May 2012
    ok how many will admit to singing
  • karen1956
    karen1956 Posts: 4,678
    edited May 2012

    D***, D***, D***, F***, F***, F***......just found out that an acquintance lost her battle with the beast.....she was first Dx over 14 years ago, mets 7 or so years ago and new primary 6 years ago right after I was Dx....she gave it a valiant fight.....this breaks my heart......she leaves 2 daughters in their 20's and a husband.....I soooo wish I could cry....When are we going to find a cure and an end to this dastartly beast!!!!

  • juliet62
    juliet62 Posts: 3,246
    edited May 2012

    so sorry karen(((((hugs)))))))))

  • nativemainer
    nativemainer Posts: 8,104
    edited May 2012

    Karen--so sorry to hear about your friend.  Just not fair. 

    The meeting with the medical director of the ED went well, more later, gotta run for my appointment with my MO.  

    Later, all!  

  • goldie0827
    goldie0827 Posts: 6,826
    edited May 2012

    Kathy, sounds like you are having a great time (as usual). Hoping and praying all will be well with your friends daughter. How are your tootsies and the dizzy's? And ummmmm, I do believe I saw you as a cow! But you iz a berry cute cow.

    Mema, how long do you have to be on the herceptin and how often for muga scans? Yes, Heather and her FIL did a great job, I am glad I was able to find it.

    Cracking me da hail up DorK.....AGAIN! You iz right, dey did not ask us, did they? HEY, who's birthday is it????? We NEED to know. Stella wants her room gray? And do tell your beautiful daughter that all her Aunties are proud of her, and proud of her mommy for doing such a good job.

    Alli, LOL at the Jersey/Hillbilly girl. I have some friends here who came from NY, and are Italian, so they have a rather distinct accent! I hope you and Kathy can get together. If she can stay home long enough, that is. How far apart do you two live from each other?

    Yay for Chrissy and her good knee. You will be running in no time! I just lub how you always come when DorK calls foy you.

    Well shoot Karen! Looks like I missed a helluva party last night. But I rarely get on the puter in the evening. Actually I was out in the old warehouse, moving stuff around, as we need the shelves to put in the new warehouse. But do know, I am always there in spirit, at ANY party. Just read about your friend, so sorry to hear this and sending out prayers for her family Karen. So so sorry.

    NM, will watch for you later. Glad the meeting went good.

    Stella made you cake Karen, HAPPY BIRTHDAY!

    And I found a CLOG COCKTAIL (for real)

    Clog Cocktail Recipe

    1 ounce Brandy
    1/2 ounce Claret (red wine from Bordeaux)
    4 ounces sherry
    dash of bitters
    1/2 ounce Simple Syrup

    The Clog Cocktail is a brandy based drink with sherry mix. Sugar and bitters is also in the mix on this one. The Clog Cocktail.

  • Mrs_Vino
    Mrs_Vino Posts: 779
    edited May 2012

    I swear, if there's a drink for it, Lori will find it :-)

    Just popping in. Had a cancellation, so actually got a lunch break today!

    Karen, so sorry about your friend. Read that as I'm sitting here eating my lunch, and got tears in my eyes. Breaks my heart.

    Crazy busy week. Ray left on a business trip this am, be back Friday night. Meanwhile, have to pack up everything at the salon, and move out Saturday, because we will be closed for a month for renovations. Going to work all day Monday from home, surgery Tuesday, then back to work on the 23rd in a salon down the street for three weeks, then back here. DDBIWW is really getting on my nerves. Can't stand her, but that's another story. U girls have a happy hump day, and I'll BBL!

  • BernieEllen
    BernieEllen Posts: 2,285
    edited May 2012

    please explain DDBIWW

    Karen thinking of you

    Morning JulietWink

    chrissy - good news on the knee

    lori and Stella - grey is so not your colour.

    Wahine, I miss you and where are the pics from Vermont

    Mrs Vino, still stunning

    If i have missed anyone I'm so sorry - on the 4th glass of red

  • Mrs_Vino
    Mrs_Vino Posts: 779
    edited May 2012

    Lol. Thanks Bernie, Muah! And where's a new pic of you and your hair???

    And DDBIWW is for dirty dumb b---- I work with, lol

  • nativemainer
    nativemainer Posts: 8,104
    edited May 2012

    OK, ladies, I need a crying towel and a Clog Cocktail or 2 or 3.  Just got home from the MO apppointment, she said I'm due for another bone density test.  OK, fine.  Go to check out, the woman says she'll print off and give me a sheet for the bone density test.  OK, fine.  I get home and the sheet is a doctor's order form for the test.  That's all.  So I called the office and the woman tells me that I'm supposed to book my own appointment and keep track and set up my own appointments when it's due.  ??????? No phone number, no address, nothing else to work with.  I'm on the phone in tears because I don't have any of this information, I don't know where to call, how often this needs to be done, especially since I'll be off the Arimidex in October.  But I'm supposed to take care of it all myself!  The MO said that when I see her in September I can decide if I want to keep going on the Arimidex or stop, since it will be 5 years of hormone therapy (she's counting the time I was on tamoxifen, which I don't think was working, but that's another story).  I think I'll go ahead and stop.  My MO doesn't see early stage bc patients after they are off hormone therapy, and not having to drive 90 miles for these appointments would be a bit of a relief.

    I met with the Medical Director of the ER and the clincial director of the ER yesterday about the "Damned Cancer patient" comment and the other issues I had when I was there. The doc kept referring to the chart and asking about different things, none of which I knew a thing about.  I beleive I got the message across that I was treated like a piece of trash they just wanted to get rid of.  I laid it out, in detail (and in tears, of course) and made it clear in no uncertain terms how angry and upset I was.  I also told them that they have a reputation in the cancer survivor community of being that way, and that I had been warned not to go there or not to let them know that I was a cancer survivor if I ever did.  The Med Director was not happy, and neither was the clinical director.  I do believe that I'm going to get my face-to-face apology from the ER doc, who I identified for them from their staff photos.   

     Ok, I'm sitting here crying, trying to figure out what to do about the bone density thing, I'll probably just blow it off, can't be very important if they expect me to schedule it myself without knowing where or having a phone number or if I even need it after the arimidex is done.  For that matter, if that's going to be done in October why should I bother with a bone density test at all?  Oh, frig, I'm babbling on like an idiot.  Time to go get some serious dwinking done, at least I know how to do that.

  • chrissyb
    chrissyb Posts: 11,437
    edited May 2012

    NM the bone density is usually done at the same places that do scans, xrays etc.  It is important that you get it done as it will tell you if you have lost any bone density from being on the Arimidex as that is a side effect.  Another reason you need to get it done is as we age, we do loose bone density naturally .  Add that to the Arimidex and you could find yourself in a whole heap of trouble with osteoporosis.  It's non invasive and takes about fifteen minutes, you don't even have to disrobe.  If you can't find a phone number ring the docs rooms again and ask for it.

    So glad that your meeting with the big wigs went so well and you do really deserve that face to face apology from the ER doc.  Hope he gets his come uppance from the big boys!

    Love n hugs girl!  Chrissy

  • dara_diverse
    dara_diverse Posts: 5,005
    edited May 2012

    Hiya goils and happy Humpdey!

    NM, here is a big hug for you (((( KIM )))). I am so sorry you are feeling sad. I would guess that the events of yesterday already had your emotions stirred up then add the doc appointment and a feeling that no one cares, I can see why you are upset. It could not have been easy to relive that day in the ER with that pig doctor who should not even be practicing, uhhh that pi$$es me off so much. Have you thought about switching MO''s? If you are covered,  you should find one that will direct you accordingly. Or could you see your PCP and have him/her help you coordinate your appointments, scans and such? That does not seem right that the staff there would not direct you. And I think Chrissy is right, you would go wherever to go for an xray. 

    Karen, I am glad you had such a great birthday. Your gifts sound wonderful! I am very sorry about the friend you lost. Sending prayers to all affected by the loss. Boo, hate you RAT BASTARD, HATE YOU HATE YOU HATE YOU! 

    I have jest been paged, DH looking for me. I'ze be back.  Katwinka, you here for Pau Hana? Mese be back after I fill er up.....Cheers!

    ps hello-ohhh to all yese wundarfill goils, love yese ♥ 

  • wahine
    wahine Posts: 7,590
    edited May 2012

    Yes. yes, yes, Mese iz here for Pau Hana, Dorkie! Actually, sitting on the covered deck on a rocking chair at our unit, looking at the gorgeous mountains surrounding us. One is Mt.Mansfield (sp?), the tallest in VT. Everyone else is inside napping!!!! It has started raining, just a nice gentle rain, but was nice and dry for us all day when we drove into Burlington. Here is a Jack and Diet fo youse, ok? Mese will gets annudder Seagrams/Diet.......

    Karen, SO SORRY to hear about your aquaintance who lost the battle. That sucks, big time! Just takes too many wonderful people, and I hate that rat ba$tard!!!!! I am really, really, sorry. Sounded like you had a nice birthday before that.

    NM, Shoot, you have been through the wringer and hung out dripping wet! Glad you told them how they treated you so badly....yay for you!!! ANd hope you do get a face-to-face apology. Sorry about the bone scan stuff too....usually they give you a name of a place to call, with phone numbers...shame on them! But like the others said, you can call a place yourself. BUT DO IT!!! Ok? VERRY important!!!!!

    Nice to see you back Chrissy! Sure missed ya when you were in surgery, then back in the hospital, but was nice when you got online from the hospital and could let us know how you were doing. Hope your knee heals totally and you feel really, really, great, and soonliest! Sounds like you are doing very well.

    Sending sweet maple syrup kisses to all (geez that sounds horridly sticky!)....well lots of luv anyway!!!

    Kattthhhhheeeeee (darn keys are stuck with maple syrup)

  • dara_diverse
    dara_diverse Posts: 5,005
    edited May 2012

    Yippee, Katwinka in de house! Tanks for de sticky hugs, here are some back atchaa ((((KATHY)))).

    Where is ma-memaSUe?? I'ze waiting for her to show up and hailp git dis partay going! Who else is coming tonight?  Chrissy, you partaying? I am calling yer name berry loud, hope you here mese! Also glad to see you back posting more. I was tinking about you todey at work when I came across a saved document with your name on it. 

    I am still sailabwating Karen's birthday. Wese lobe to sailabrate ebberyting.But I am working....dat is,I am working on my last-work-night-4-awile dwinkie and it is a big one. Stella made it for me, so nice habbing her home again. Dere are de times when I tink about when she was widdle and I was going to send her to reform school. All de goils dat hosted her and taught her manners and obedience, I tank yews.  Lori, Allli, Sue, Lisa, who else had Stella? I tink she going to see Karen next. But she will not clean, oh no, uhh uhhh! She said she wanna go to Oz to bese with Chrissy. Hmm, would I twust doze two totether? I don't know. She bugging me tonight, she wont stop talking. she go on and on and on and on.All she wanna do is talk and dwink, dwink and talk.I was tinking about taking her for a swim and holding her under. Is that bad?

    Cindy, dear Cindy, please let us know you are alright! I am tinking about you and hoping all is well. Please stop in soonliest. 

    Unde', you all moved in now, yippee. Can you hab more time for de lounge? Yer bweasties miss ya! And de tenders miss you too.

    Kymn, I remember when we were widdle and you used to come to de lounge ebberdey. I miss that. YOur bar stool, your princess crown, your Canucks, well I miss ebberyting about you. 

    Also wishing Gail would stop by again. Hoping all is well for you. 

    Alli, how is your baby goil? I hope she all better now. 

    Lori, yep, you always find de poyfect dwinks for us. You are de official HTL finder of tings, ok? Tanks for de clog dwink, those were berry yummmmmy! You make good dwinks.

    NM, stop in for a nighty night dwinky, ok?

    I be here partaying, hope to see many goils in de lounge twonight! Cheers!

  • dara_diverse
    dara_diverse Posts: 5,005
    edited May 2012

    mese again, I have a quick rant.

    I had a timeline of all my surgeries on my profile here and now it is gone. Thanks for nothing, BCO. You stink! 

  • MemaSue56
    MemaSue56 Posts: 2,061
    edited May 2012

    Goils....I been reading to KETCHUP....but I iz here for Pau Hana.

    Karen - sorry I missed da BDay party, was my nephews yest too.  So sad to hear bout your friend...stinking RB!

    Chrissy - Goot news...Yippee....keep bending dat knee goil...it'll b worth it in long run.

    DorKa - LMAO   ewes cwacks me up...seriously!!!   LOLOLOLOLOL!!!

    NM - I'm with Chrissy...cont your PCP, they can order a Bone Density.  And yes, it's needed cuz of the anti-hormonals.  Remember mese talking about da dumb ortho doc n his ortho doc brother.  Well, won't be seeing them again, but my PCP GOT IT.  He understands why I wanted the density.  So now I have the base line and will keep tabs on it.  Go get it done...pweeze!!  Mese gonna hab a dwinky jes for ewes n da rotten day ewes had...lubs u!

    Mese forgits who asked, but da I tink was Alli...Herceptin for 3 years at least.  Course, could be longer, think they say 3 years cuz of my odds.  But...hail yeah...rollin ...big mamma keep on boining...rollin...rollin on da river...LOL!

    BB Chicas...gotta go start da din din...gonna make chicken angelo...yummmy.

  • wahine
    wahine Posts: 7,590
    edited May 2012

    Dorkster and Mema..... *ka-chink*, nice dwinkin wid youse galz! Oh and Dorkie, there is a thread to post your unhappiness wid dis "new" format.... not sure how to link you to da thread, but dis is da one....

    All Topics           →           Forum: Comments, Suggestions, Feature Requests           →           Topic: New Format of BCO is a DISASTER

    Chrissyb and I have posted there, not sure if any others from our drinking thread, but LOTS of bc.org gals, and the mods are responding, but dunno if any changes will come from it.

    ChEARS!

  • chrissyb
    chrissyb Posts: 11,437
    edited May 2012

    Hi ya!!!   Mees here Dotty.......you got dat dwink lined up for mees?  I heared you callin mees but I was gettin mees INR done and couldn't get here soonliest.   Finally gettin it within range.....wwoohoo!!!!  Maybe one more mg and I will be right smack in the middle of the allowable range!...............now that really is a good thing............time for mees to get to drinkin!!!!

    Oh Karen, I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your friend.  She sounds like she really put up a good fight but now rests. (((((Hugs)))))  So glad you had a wonderful day for your birthday and by what you tell us you realy got spoilt and well deserved too!

    Who else is hidin in dis here bar?  Kathy?  Mema?  Yoohoo! Where is youse hidding?  I hopes you not goin to jumps out to scares me sows I spiwl mees drinks..............

    TITIES UP ALL!!!!!

  • MemaSue56
    MemaSue56 Posts: 2,061
    edited May 2012

    OOOPPSSIE - sawee Chrissy...mese didn't means to bump ya...weelly...teehee.  Mr. Bigger top off dat dwink dat mese made ewe spiwl..tank ewe Mr Bigger...o tay den....Jock, n Pants...WaWa n Dorka needing a top off too...noooo not ewe takin der tops off...dey not ready to show der boobies...top off da dwink silly!!  O dat betta...ya butta too...heehee!

  • dara_diverse
    dara_diverse Posts: 5,005
    edited May 2012

    Katwinkadoo, I was reading dat 'disaster' link last night. I feel sorry for de mods cuz I tink dat dey are not de ones who decided to make de big change. It wasn't broke, why change it? It is harder for us dwunken goils. I tink I will be posting dere. Ohh mise, Stella is looking obber me shoulder and he saz she wants to post dere too, oh mese! Tanks for posting dat here. I wuz dwunk when I stumbled upon it and foygot to look todey. i must ask wdf did they do to mese profile? It tailing me about tings that do not pertain to me, stewpid stewpid stewpid.

    Mema's back, yippppeeeeee, its a sailabrasion. So nice habing Pau hana with you, Chrissy and Katwinka, double yippeeee! I miss you when you are not on here, Sue. Who loves ya, mese mese, I do. You so funny and so sweet. 

    Chrissy, I gots yer dwinks liined up, dere are 14 dwinks with yer name on em. May I ask, what is INR? Mese should google it. Duh me. International Normalized Ratio. I still don't quite understand but will say a prayer for poyfect ratios.And I tank you muchliest for ansoring mese page, jest lub when dat happens here. Mese loves you, you berry spayshall to my heart. All yese are spayshall but my Chrissy, she uhh, like she lives in my heart like a sister. Or a mum, as she would say :) feeling all emo dis ebbening, I feels de love.

    Hey, do you tink de mods would has a problem if I use dwunk speech when posting on de Distaster thread?? I tail dem it is badliest of anyting I hab ebber scene. Hmmm, thinks to ponder by DorK....

    tinking ~~tinking~~tinking~~

    still tinking....

    Ok, I has another dwink, dat's DE ticket!

    Cheers my lovies, feel the love from me to you...

  • MemaSue56
    MemaSue56 Posts: 2,061
    edited May 2012

    LOL Dorka - mese feels da lub lub lub too.  Stella da sweetest...she gonna hab to hab her say ya kno...she jes won't gib up til she speaks her minds.  Mese wann see da dwunk speech ifin ewes posts it Dorkable..ah, mayb mese will add sumtin to it. 

    O tay den...Chrissy...ewe git thru all 14 dem dwinks yet..here lemme hailp ewe...didn't mean to scary ewe earlier...jes cudn't hailp my bad self....lub lub youse all!!

  • Scuba_duchess
    Scuba_duchess Posts: 435
    edited May 2012

    Just a quick hi from Scuby in Key Largo, my head is spinning, not sure from de tekilla or de new layout!



    Happy b-day Karen!



    NM, hugs to you.



    Chrissy, glad you are healing. Gotta check out, getting up early to go scuba diving tomorra! Cheers!

  • Mrs_Vino
    Mrs_Vino Posts: 779
    edited May 2012

    ((((NM)))) Lub ya goil

    Dorkier, Lub when u call em, dey come!!

    Mema, soooo gladliest u like de Rollin on de river, hehehe, wese a Rollin on it wit ya! Every 3 weeks, right? Wese be dere, jus don't do no ass scratching again, cause I usually tineliest an in use pocket.

    Katrinka dink an Chrissy in de howse too!!!!

    It's Pau Hana somewhere!

  • Mrs_Vino
    Mrs_Vino Posts: 779
    edited May 2012

    Scuby in de house too!! I bumped her an her Scuby gear in de ocean! Take pictures Scuby! Lub u!

  • chrissyb
    chrissyb Posts: 11,437
    edited May 2012

    Dotty the INR is the little pin prick blood test that is done every few days to monitor the rate that my blood clots so I know how much coumadin to take.  It is a dangerous drug and if my INR is too high I could have a spontaneous bleed that would be very hard to stop and if it's too low the possibility is there for me to form another clot in my system so it's pretty important that I keep the level between 2 and 3.  Today it was 2 but for the last 6 days it has been close to 1 and had me in the danger zone for another clot.

    Wow!!!  How did I ebber wemember all dat wif all that booze in ma system.....lol.......I sink ise up to dwink number 9 sows ise still gots a ways to go................BURP!!!!......ooops......don know where dat comed from.....lol....but it sure felt good!

    TITTIES UP!!!!!

  • dara_diverse
    dara_diverse Posts: 5,005
    edited May 2012

    Hello again,

    I just received the very sad news that my FIL (technically my ex-FIL) passed away today. He was a terrific person and will be sadly missed. I always refer to him as my FIL as DH's father passed away many years ago and I CHOOSE to call Dad as he was very dear to me and my DD. I have not even told DH, I stepped away when the phone rang so I think he has a feeling. I am very sad. My MIL is a mess, ex DH is hanging in there alright. It has been difficult for all of them since he took a fall over a year ago and had not walked since.

    I have to call my parents and let them know, they also love my ex inlaws, we have spend every Christmas at my home since I married Ron back in 1990. This year was the first year that they did not make it over for Christmas day. I am asking for prayers for MomK, RonK, my BIL Gary and all of the grandchildren including my Jessica. She is on a retreat and can only be contacted for emergencies so we agreed to wait until she gets home on Friday to tell her. She will be upset, she spent a lot of time there and still goes to see them occasionally on the weekends. She was up there just a few weeks ago for his birthday. Damn, this is the stuff in life that stinks the most. RIP Dad K. Hey, maybe he will get to meet our own June Bug?

    Enjoy each day, goils. We jest nebber know. Love you all. Thanks for hearing me pour my heart out. So very saddened......

     

  • chrissyb
    chrissyb Posts: 11,437
    edited May 2012

    Awe Dotty ((((((hugs))))))).  I'm so sorry to hear of your FIL's passing.  It's always hard for those that are left behind but for him, pure peace.

    Love n hugs.  Chrissy

  • Mrs_Vino
    Mrs_Vino Posts: 779
    edited May 2012

    ((((dork and family))))

    Prayers and lots of love sent