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  • Tomboy
    Tomboy Posts: 2,700

    pbrain, i am another that appreciates greatly the info you know about how the AI's and tamoxifen works... i just wish i could remember it once and for all! i need to go make a note of it and stick it right next to me, for when another woman needs to know! Derrr..blank.

    that is a tough choice, Rozem, i heard those shots were painful? its bad enough it freaks us out to have cancer, but to have to make decisions about it? the worst. i love this thread. if anyone has some time, can you please find Bexter3, and encourage her? she is triple positive, but is having a recurrance and has neck and face lymphedema, and a not very understanding family. a pm letting her know you care would be tremendous. she is on the "New cancer?Recurrence? Scared crazy!" thread. please help

  • robinlk
    robinlk Posts: 363

    A haha... <----this seriously just came across my FB newsfeed. 

  • moonflwr912
    moonflwr912 Posts: 5,945

    LOL Robin. Maybe after waxing she should vajazzalize! LOL

    Kathec I'll try to find her. 

    Lago I hope arimison is better for you. 

    Much love to all. 

  • momwriter
    momwriter Posts: 277

    PBrain, 

    Thanks so much for the detailed clear explanation. I appreciate your knowledge and willingness to share it.  A bit scary about how some cell receptors aren't blocked by tamox.  Will discuss this all with MO in July. 

  • footballnut
    footballnut Posts: 449

    hi all

    I've been off for awhile and just catching up. Been feeling fairly tired in the morning these past few days - especially today!  Once I push myself to exercise I seem to get energy back

    Your posts have been hilarious!  Tx for the laffs!  Chats about the "wicked garden" as I call it have brought years to my eyes!  I am a bit lighter down there and don't mind a bit. Sure makes it easier for when I want to swim!  No styling required !!  Lol

    So over that past few days I have heard so much from people trying to be helpful. Don't eat dairy which includes no milk in cereal. Don't eat anything with glucose. Don't eat meat. Don't eat carbs. Ok. Am I supposed to be a rabbit?  What do I eat?  Can I eat?

    I recall that we have covered this before but would appreciate your sharing what your diet consists of

    Honestly I cannot become a rabbit and have continued to eat everything in moderation. I have dairy, I eat cheese, I have meat 1-2 x per week, I eat fruit ( yikes they have sugar) and try to eat veggies though I'm not as successful !  I do eat pasta and have my junk food. I even ate smoked meat and chopped lover with cold slaw the other day. I even eat sugar frosted flakes every so often

    Those folks have me so freaked out that now I'm scared to eat anything but bird food !!

    Help!!

    Hubby and I are going away for a few days starting tomorrow night until next Monday. Just a short jaunt to Niagara Falls to getaway. Hope to get into a swimming pool, relax, see a play on Niagara on the lake (so unlike us) and est in restaurants!  Oh oh!  That might kill me for sure as there will be a few burgers in my future over the next few days!  Even a pizza !

    I saw some comments regarding work. I am a national credit mgr with a staff in Ontario and Quebec. While I absolutely love it, it is very stressful. Long hours including weekends. Multiple deadlines. I wanted to keep working but after listening to my MO, I'm glad that I stepped away. Fortunately I have a very good  benefits plan so am now on short term disability for which I am thankful

    Today I meet with the Canadian cancer society with the hopes of volunteering. I need something to make me feel that I am contributing and to get me out of the house!

    I hope that all have a wonderful day !!!!!

  • robinlk
    robinlk Posts: 363

    Football - I am another everything in moderation. Just as I was prior. I had this discussion with my MO and he was of the same opinion. I know others swear by diet change, but I just don't buy it. I have seen too many people post that were healthy eaters, all organic eaters, vegetarians and vegans. We are now all in this boat and no one remembers buying a ticket. While clean, healthy eating habits may enable me to live longer, I want to enjoy my food as I do my days!

  • lago
    lago Posts: 11,653

    Footballnut you don't want to be just a survivor,  you want to live too. You know what's unhealthy. Don't eat that shit regularly but some thing in moderation are OK. Some (like crack and heroin) are not. Most important things you can do is exercise and keep a healthy weight. Try to stay away from processed foods, especially processed sugar. Yes cancer cells use sugar to grow… just like normal cells. You do need some sugar in your diet but stick to sources from fruit rather than processed white sugar or high fructose corn syrup. No dairy not good for the bones. I eat some cheese but yogurt is a better choice (if it must be sweet, sweeten it with natural sources like fruit ). Keep red meat to a minimum, keep it lean. BBQ isn't good especially if there is charred stuff. Don't eat the charred stuff.

    BTW I had an Italian sub last weekend (talk about bad) and I do eat pasta (usually served with lots of veggies) but I don't eat a lot of bread. I'll also use spaghetti squash instead of pasta at times.

    Cheese, keep portions small. Very dense food and therefore high in calorie.

  • vettegirl
    vettegirl Posts: 136

    PBrain-Yes, the 6 tumors were all in my her2 breast-the left one...in three seperate quads...I had a masectomy on this breast.  Not sure if they were all the same kind of tumors-they did not tell me...they did still stage me at stage 2 and tumors at grade 2.  The chemo made these tumors all shrink considerably, but they still showed up on pathology after surgery.  The right breast-had one tumor-not her2 on this breast.  This tumor shrank even less with chemo-about half its size.  I find it odd that taxotere, carboplatin, herceptin and perjeta could not knock the tumors out completely.  Scares me some to be quite honest.  And the MO telling me it means I have a higher chance of reoccurence due to the chemo not completely removing it,scares me more.  To go thru this shit once is a nightmare as you know.....sure dont want a repeat.

  • lago
    lago Posts: 11,653

    vettegirl go for a 2nd opinion. I just lost a friend of mine who recurred 2 years PFC. She was HER2+, 6.5cm, grade 3 tumor and did not get complete response. She did have it in her nodes and also did radiation. She did not do Pejerta initially because it wasn't approved for early stage. FYI I don't think you lose your hair with Halaven. I'm not saying you should do it nor am I saying because my friend recurred  you  will. She was not hormone positive so you have that treatment going for you… but if you decide not to do the additional chemo you need to make up your mind now that you must do the complete treatment of hormone treatment. Your onc might recommend 10 years since your risk for recurrence is high. I would discuss this with her/him.

  • fluffqueen01
    fluffqueen01 Posts: 1,801

    For something a little fun after the lady garden's weed went away, I did bedazzle the area a little one day for a laugh with my husband. Thought it might take his mind off the fact he couldn't mess with the foobs that weren't there at the time. It was successful. 

  • rozem
    rozem Posts: 749

    vettegirl I agree w Lago...when I went for a second opinion I asked the question on what to do if I did not get a good/complete response from chemo.  My DF onc said she would recommend me for a clinical trial  - perjeta wasn't approved at the time so if you did not get in neoadjuvant rx I would seriously consider maybe getting it adjuvantly - or they could recommend something else. There are so many new/targeted treatments I cant keep up.  You are hormone positive so that is a great thing.  I would go for a second opinion for sure.  There is a member on here whos onc is doing a second course of chemo because of this very reason and they seem to be very forward thinking.  PM me and I will give you the screen name and maybe you can reach out to her

  • moonflwr912
    moonflwr912 Posts: 5,945

    LOL @fluff!

    Football nut, moderation. As Lago said you want to live life. All carbs are converted to glucose for the cells. Whether from a carrot, peas, cake, bread, or pasta. That's chemistry. Now of course foods with a lot of nutrients are better for you than empty calories. Of course if you get no carbs whatsoever, your body will need fat to function. Or you can slowly starve without either even if eating meat or other protien.  So do what you think works for you. Otherwise you'll go crazy. 

    Much love. 

  • linda505
    linda505 Posts: 395

    I really haven't changed my diet much - I was already doing low carb, most all my carbs come from veggies - no sugar, lean meat due to my diabetes.  I do eat some fruit but stay away from the high sugar content fruit - again for my diabetes.  The only real thing I have altered is that I am now watching out for soy and have reduced my diary.  Again I was doing the majority of the things recommended to reduce your risk for BC for the last 3 years and I still ended up here.  I, like lago, use spaghetti squash alot for pasta substitute - in fact i like it much better now.  I do allow cheats now and then in my diet as then I never feel deprived.   I mark a cheat day on my calendar once a month.  I allow myself any meal that I want that day - that usually calls for going out to eat - my GP suggested this to me.  In the beginning I would order something really carby on that day - funny now I rarely order anything different - although I might have a bite of someone else's desert lol.  I am using that same plan for this also.

    Cute story about my GP, who I have been seeing since 1987.  When I got diagnosed with diabetes my AIC was 7.9 - not horrible but definitely diabetes.  Between my GP and my endo they tested me about every 3 months as I persuaded them to give me time to work this out with diet as I didn't want to go on meds.  After 6 months my A1C was 5.2  - that is a non-diabetic A1C.  I went to see my GP right after those results and he was so happy to see that number.  He sat down with my in the exam room to tell me how proud he was of me and then he said (you must say this in your head with an Indian accent)  "Lienda, some people have dragons.  These dragons can be asleep or awake.   Like me, I could have a cancer dragon sleeping in my body and maybe it never wakes up.  You have a diabetes dragon - it woke up and now you have put it back to sleep.  Don't wake it up again"  I just loved that.  When I got my diagnosis of BC I stopped in to see him and said Dr Golzari - I have another dragon - he hugged me and said - lets put it to sleep for good.

  • lago
    lago Posts: 11,653

    BTW another cheat is to use plain greek yogurt instead of sour cream. Makes the best mashed potatoes. 

  • efcjax
    efcjax Posts: 74

    Hi Ladies,

    Just saw this article: 

    http://www.cancernetwork.com/asco-2014-breast-cancer/anti-her2-combo-fails-improve-outcomes-early-breast-cancer

    By the way, trastuzumab is Herceptin.

  • debiann
    debiann Posts: 447

    I see some of you needed several surgeries to complete reconstruction. How much recovery time does this all take? I'm the breadwinner in the family. I need to work and not feel crappy while doing my job. Chemo isn't helping achieve this goal. I can't imagine a year filled with surgery to reconstruct. Lump and rads aren't appealing to me either, too many appointments, I still have 4 tch and then finish the herceptin, that seems like enough to deal with. Luckily I teach, so the next 4 treatments happen over summer vacation. Maybe I'll feel different in August.

    But for now, am I crazy to think I want mx without reconstruction?

  • moonflwr912
    moonflwr912 Posts: 5,945

    debian, no. Your not a lot of women choose not to reconstruct. There are a couple of threads on here about no reconstruction. Sorry I can't link on this phone. Besides if you choose not to do reconstruction, you can always wait and do it later when it fits your schedule. So you do have choices. 

    Much love

  • robinlk
    robinlk Posts: 363

    Debiann - I chose MX with no reconstruction. I have my prosthesis already, but my compression cami cannot be worn during rads. Once I am done with rads I will begin my search for a bra that works with my port.

  • Pbrain
    Pbrain Posts: 773

    Ah shucks, thanks guys.  I like to explain things.  I think that's why I love science and math.  They can be scary, but they don't have to be confusing.

    Football, now I'll throw in more angst.  There are people who say (and these are MDs) that we shouldn't eat anything healthy during chemo because we might make the chemo not work.  As an example, my chemo nurse Amy asked me about my diet at my chemo learning appointment.  I of course mentioned my grand love of cheese, cheese doodles, cheesits, fritos, wine, etc. (I really do eat better than that...) and she didn't seem in the least bit horrified.  But then I mentioned that I make sun tea with decaffinated green tea and easily drink a gallon a day.  No sugar, just good old green tea.  She told me I'd have to stop that and my NP said the same thing, but that this was just during chemo.  So my one good habit slid away and I have to get it started again. 

    I say eat what tastes good.  Get protein.  I know I didn't eat enough of that and I was pretty weak, but I'm just not a meat person.  I have my moments, but can pretty much go weeks without it.  I stuck with carbs and that probably wasn't the smartest, but not much tasted good to me.

    Oh, and Mom, your MO will probably say all the selected receptors are blocked by Tamox, but I'd like to see proof of that.  I'm not trying to scare those taking it, I just doubt we always block all the receptors all the time.  Just like I doubt the AI makes every single cell that is able to no longer make estrogen.  I've been on my AI since last August, and I just started to develop my very first hot flashes (how do you guys deal with these things???) which makes me think it is working better now for some reason...why, no clue...
     

    Debian, I would not do reconstruction if I some day need an MX or BMX.  I don't think I'd want to bother.

  • footballnut
    footballnut Posts: 449

    pbrain aaaaarrrrggghhhh!!

    Lol

    I've been doing so much reading. I think that I should be dead already. White rice? Yup I eat that!  White pasta?  Yup I eat that. Good grief!

    Well I guess that I'll just keep eating my normal diet which includes some junk. Last Friday hubby and I went to a couples house and played cards. I started off with snacking on cantaloupe and watermelon.  Before we left I think that I ate half of bag of potato chips and m&ms!  Wow !  I never do that!  Sure tasted good!!  Lol

    Having said that I hadn't had junk like that since months before!  I haven't even had a soda in months!!!!

    So I think that I will practice moderation and try to eat more fruits, veggies and fiber but will not stop eating junk every so often

    Especially this weekend as we e going away for a few days

    Funny I don't miss alcohol at all. I had a strawberry frozen drink the other day and it tasted awesome!

    :-)

  • LeeA
    LeeA Posts: 1,092

    Speaking of receptors, I've had this tab open since last night.  This is a subject that troubles me.  Androgen receptors.  I assume the majority of us didn't have androgen receptor testing done on our tumors or maybe it's done but not reported? 

    Androgen Receptor Inhibition in Breast Cancer

    excerpt: 

    Androgen receptors (AR) are even more widely present in breast cancers than estrogen receptor alpha (ER-α) and progesterone receptor (PR); up to one-third of triple-negative breast cancers (which lack ER-α and PR and do not express HER2) retain AR.1 While the exact role of AR in breast cancer remains controversial and may differ in the various types of breast cancer, it is generally well-accepted that, as with ER and PR, the presence of AR is indicative of a more favorable prognosis in women than tumors that have lost all three steroid receptors. Nonetheless, similar to ER, AR may serve as a target for therapeutic intervention because tumor cells can rely on these receptors for survival and proliferation.

    Link to full article: 

    http://www.practiceupdate.com/expertopinion/951

  • linda505
    linda505 Posts: 395

    Hey Debiann - I am not sure the recovery time from a single Mx - if it is the same with or without reconstruction.  I returned to work one month after the BMX with TE's - and that was just about right for me.  The fills and stuff dealing with reconstruction since then has not effected my work schedule - only chemo has done that.  I am the major bread winner in my household too so I do need to work especially with all the medical expenses right now.  I know when I have exchange surgery I will be out another few weeks to a month maybe? and that is if all goes good but I know that there are risks that I could need more than that one surgery - and that in turn would require more recovery time.  I guess you have to judge what is important to you.  I was going back and forth on whether to do reconstruction intitally and I talked to my hubby and daughter about it - they both said they would support whatever decision I made - but they also both said they thought I would be happier if I could try to at least look somewhat like my old self after this was all done.  I think they were right as I do feel good about my decision.   And Moon is right you can schedule these reconstruction surgeries on your timeline as they are not related to survival.

  • vettegirl ~ It's my understanding that it's actually not very common to achieve a complete response to chemo when ER/PR receptors are present {even with HER2}. I did not have a complete response and I know there are other girls on here as well  {McKatherine?} who also did not have a complete response to chemo, and they seem to be doing well. I know it increases the chance of recurrence a bit, but by how much I wonder? I know after chemo, my Ki67% dropped from 35% to 1%, do you know what yours did? Upon reading that, I found research that states that recurrence rates for people with a ki67% which decreases from high to low are very similar to those who have achieved a complete response.

    With all of this talk though, I am now nervous about the fact that I didn't achieve CPR. Maybe I should have had more chemo? It wasn't even suggested to me though. :~/ Gah. And THEN I think about all of the people who have chemo AFTER surgery, they literally have NO idea what it did in their bodies, which is also scary. Cancer is such an effing mess.

  • rozem
    rozem Posts: 749

    vette and twinmama. Im sorry if my post scared you.   Most do fine w less than a complete response and some who do achieve  pcr  have  recurrences just as those who had chemo after surgery so it is absolutely not pcr =cure ( my MO told me that specifically).   I would use this info and ask questions to see if they feel further adjuvant rx is necessary. And yes hormone therapy is VERY critical for us er+ girls even w the her2 so that may be enough. If they are using neoadjuvant as a in vivo gauge of tumor response then that info is valuable and should be used to tailor treatment.   

  • It was presented to me that hormone therapy was essentially THE most important part of treatment {for me}. I don't think many people who do neoadjuvant go on to get more chemo if they don't achieve pCR, especially considering that the percentage of people who DO achieve pCR is rather low {I think like 30%? But that was before pejerta for HER2, so people in that population have higher rates}, however, I imagine it all depends on your individual stats and what exactly was left. If what was left was ER/PR+, but HER2- and lower grade, it's unlikely that additional chemo would really be the best choice as that's exactly the kind of cancer that responds to hormone treatment, but not so much to chemo. Throw in the whole SOFT/TEXT data on top of all this and I'm just SUPER confused...if only we all had those crystal balls.

  • rozem
    rozem Posts: 749

    twinmama - yes standard of care is no more chemo after a full course of neo adjuvant, I think if there is a considerable tumor burden left then they would consider a targeted therapy - exactly what you said -it depends on each case.  But no, most do not get more adjuvant chemo

    as for SOFT and TEXT honestly don't think results will come out any time soon but there was some report (I think it was posted here)  that was released that SUGGESTED an AI had better outcomes for pre-meno  (which if you are pre-meno means some sort of ovarian suppression) I just don't think they know!  are you on ova suppression?  I believe our hormone therapy is just as important which is why the decision to stay on tamox or go to an AI (and continue these horrid shots) is weighing on me

  • momwriter
    momwriter Posts: 277

    Yes, it is very confusing in part because there is no one answer. We are obsessed with trying to unravel it all to understand what is going on, and then to make sure we are doing the best treatments.  I think my onc thinks that with the Herceptin I was on combined with tamox I'm on now is protection enough during this perimenopausal stage. She didn't think it necessary to shut down or remove the ovaries because of QOL issues. However, if statistically AI works better, then, I think I should switch over. Someone needs to write a paper, "In Defense of Tamoxifen" to explain why anyone should remain on it. 

    What happens to our old tumors? Can they still be used for testing years later?  I don't think I ever had Ki67 test and I'm wondering if I should have. Part of my tumor was sent to Italy for the Aphinity Trial (Pertuzimab after surgery- double  blind, don't know if I got it), and they probably will run all those tests for their own purposes, but won't share it with me.

  • momwriter
    momwriter Posts: 277

    DebiAnn,

    I had a UMX with TE. Still haven't had exchange- will in fall I suppose. Reconstruction is not perfect, I'm asymmetrical, have to find bra that I can take padding out on one side to make them even. it's a lot more surgery, and arm recovery. I think it would be a lot easier to exercise, do yoga. weights  and all that without impediments in your pec area. So I think no recon is a great choice.

  • Rozem ~ I am on zoladex, so yes, ovarian suppression. I do have side effects with it, but I never came out of "chemopause" despite being 35 {maybe b/c I started the suppression rather quickly afters stopping chemo} so I was already having a lot of the same side effects. I guess I have more joint pain and I feel pretty old when I wake up in the morning, but so far it's not awful FOR ME. I will definitely talk to my onc in July and see where he stands as far as switching me to an AI. I feel like he will recommend staying on tamox for a while {due to the protective benefits for bones, heart, and cognitive functioning}, but who knows. It will definitely be interesting to see the actual results of the TEXT and SOFT trials, in addition I would like to read the actual study so I know exactly what the protocol was.

    I think you are right, if there is a large tumor load after neo chemo it would be beneficial to try another therapy regimen, especially if there was no reduction in the ki67 status. I guess I just have to be confident in my doctors and the treatment I have received because none of us knows what's actually going to happen. :)

  • fluffqueen01
    fluffqueen01 Posts: 1,801

    debiann-I did immediate recon and got an infection. Expanders came out,, three months later went back in, and three months later switched to implants. The BMX recovery was about a month. The most difficult part of it was that my doc didn't want me lifting anything heavier than a can of coke for a month. I am a realtor and also work about ten hours a week at macy's. I took a leave from Macy's for about a year and a half. Didn't have too, but didn't want to schedule hours around treatments for a job that I basically do for the discount. For real estate, during the one year of chemo, herceptin and surgeries, I made a decision to only work with buyers. I didn't feel that I could represent a seller well. Most surgeries after the BMX were an easy recovery. You could do it over a long weekend. My switch from TE to implant required some pocket work and I had fat grafting done, so was sore, but really after about 48 hours, I was out and about. I think I went to a movie...just sitting gingerly. Everyone else is right, there is no one answer. you do what works the best for you.

    Pbrain....hot flashes SSSSUUUUUCCCCKKKK! I have had them horrible since starting tamoxifen. I keep hoping they might lighten up a little bet now that I am on the AI, but apparently no such luck. For me, that has been the worst side effect of Tamox (assuming that I don't have uterine cancer now). I have had some joint pain but it comes and goes. I just don't want hair thinning, bone loss, extreme joint pain, or uncomfortable sex. (at least more uncomfortable than it already is). Told my husband to mark the calendar for August of 2019. I will be two months out of 5 years on the AI. I figure I will be making estrogen again and things might be better.