INSOMNIACS place to talk in the wee hours

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Rosie....profile, settings n down the bottom u fill it out, damn forget what it is, lol

I usually text .2nd on a regular basis and know some others do also. She sounds like she needs our support to rally around her ( hope this is not offensive for you maddy ). So maybe some Pm's or card shower for her. She has def become one of my lifelines. Time to pay forward.

Also hoping everything is good with cami. Anyone talk to her lately. ?

mombie so sorry. Your right when I use something of my mothers it brings back great memories.

Morning gals.....

Blondie... Okay, is "Michael Idiot" a Son or a Husband? Guess it doesn't matter... He is a dick-head. Period. Can't you just dump that "man" and put him out to pasture?

Would you be better off somewhere withOUT all that mess? I mean would it be possible to go somewhere else, where you COULD get public assistance? Sounds like this "HE" is the biggest problem.

It doesn't hurt anyone here when you vent... We need to do this.... And maybe one of us know-it-alls can give you some suggestion as to what would help you.

If we can just give you strength or hope, that things will get better for you! You need to be separated from this ..... what-ever he is to you....

When you get better, or stronger, can you make a plan? And then get help becoming more independent? I'd like to come out there and kick some-one's a$. I KNOW you are younger than I am... but just never give up hope.

I just hate when someone is dragging someone else down... And who is George? A dog or cat?

This ("man")?? is controlling you and your life... It's like he has this power over you, and can dictate what happens in your little corner of the world. He can't... I have a good mind to call Judge Judy. She will kick his a$ and throw him to the curb. That's what he deserves.

Okay now 222222222222222222nd! WTH? I mean WTF????? I just lose track of you.... I'm TRYing to fix these gals up, and I forget you got those different kind of probs! Is it that family? Oh, we ALL know that one.

We can work on more than one of our gals at once. So what IS this stuff that you are going through... If we can't "fix" it, we can at least listen.... and then tell you what WE would do... I have gotten some GOOD advice from the Sassmiester... Damn good thing I listened too...How can I be the oldest one HERE and still love to hear what someone else says I should be not doing, or should DO?

And what kind of "been sick for a week" IS this? YOU are in a "cell" ??? I mean like Phylliknowsalltoowell? What did YOU do? All these women around here, I can't keep track!

That's good Beaches... The Whole Damn Shit Show! That should be a new topic.... it WOULD make people laugh. We could post ALL our worries and problems and cancer shit there... Oh wait.... that's what we do here.

Okay, I'm done... except I heard from my old friend Theresa... We talk about every other day, or we go see her every week....

Her Eddie is in a mess... Just going down-hill fast.. She called me and cried... I know he is 92, but losing your life-long love, just has to be the worst. He is now in a nursing home, out of Assisted Living where SHE is, then to the Hospital, and now the Nursing home is thinking they can't help him anymore, and is meeting with the family Monday, to discuss Hospice..

I don't think he will make it even that far... Just one thing after another... and Theresa is holding onto hope, and all I can do is listen... I just tell her "You never know... maybe he will get a little better, or maybe he won't, but God is watching over him", and blah blah.... And then she sobs...

I tell her I think he is just "tired".... and maybe he doesn't WANT to eat, and he is maybe not thinking straight, and then I tell her how this happened to my Grandma, and it just hurts to watch it.... but that "they are taking care of him".....

She knows without anyone telling her, how this is almost the end of his life, and everything is shutting down, and each day will be a little worse... but hopefully, pretty soon, he won't KNOW what is going on, and that will help her understand......

I told her you want ME to go over there and raise hell with those nurses? And she laughs!

Man, I just want to get hit by a truck, and not have to go down-hill inch by inch.... Love you guys......xoxoxo

Blondie- listen to Chevy! Throw his ass out, he' a selfish kid. Just because he's your kid doesn't mean you have to put up with it, or claim him, or let him live there. I was just wondering if getting a room in a boarding home for seniors wouldn't be a much better place then a private apartment. They have some stellar ones out here that have very nice reputations. The folks who run them do so as a business, but tend to be very compassionate folks. Then you could pay for just your private room and board. There might even be medicare dollars towards it considering your health needs. You have MUCH more freedom in a board and care then a nursing home. Different state rules etc. There would be someone around 24/7 if you have the need and someone to get meds etc. There would be folks to talk to too. Although I would seriously sign up for hospice to get them into the mix. They are required to have so many volunteer hours that would help you tremendously.

2ndtime around- I didn't know things were bad. I am sorry. I hope that what ever ails you is a short term thing. We have all had a terrible flu these last 10 days. DH lost 2 days work, sore throat cough fever. Now oldest kid has it.. the crud. UGH. I still cough myself inside out every morning until everything gets up and out of my lungs.. but then I feel better.

Camilegal- how do you juggle 2 phone lines and 2 jobs! Whew.. that's way harder then pole dancing (no offence Chevy;-) ) I hope you are well. I just love the teasing banter back and forth between you and Chevy. Reminds me of the three stooges. hilarious.

Patty get better! Thanks Holeinone for the "Whole Shit" comment since we all know just what that entails! I will play more with the settings.

Be well everyone. (((((HUGS))))) to whoever needs one.

Okay, now I got it....

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Anyway, they really taste good! The SEEDS Cammi, NOT the roll-your-own kind.....

I didn't know advertising places would try to insert themselves here. I guess some will try anything.

There are a few gals who haven't posted since I started joining everyone. Hello to you!

I won't be around much the next couple of days. Taking my brother to the airport today. He came out from Utah for two weeks to help drive me to rads everyday. I think it was hard for him to see his baby sister going through a mess, but he sure was sweet and supportive. I'm going to miss having him around.

Easter celebration got moved to my inlaws. I really wanted it at my house so we could start making good memories here, but I guess that will have to wait. I'm still too tired to try hosting anything yet. I'm glad I did Easter Bunny basket shopping quite a while ago. I can still make the kids happy with some little surprises. At least I adore my inlaws. It will still be a good and happy holiday.

Patty--I'm glad things might be looking up.

2nd--Sorry you've been sick for a week. Are you improving I hope?

Blondie--I'm relieved that the Walmart trip or getting some food/needs taken care of finally happened. And I agree with the others, we are glad to hear both the ups and the downs. It's good that we can all help carry each other along.

Mommyof2--I love having things like that around that help us keep loved ones in our hearts. My dad passed four years back. I don't have anything big, but I have some little things that I use every day that give me a smile each time.

Blondie- very glad to hear you got to Walmart. It is a wonderful feeling to be able to go get things you can choose yourself to eat. My friends who helped me with rides for a month after my big abdominal surgery said "we can pick things up for you", but I needed to get out of the house and wanted to pick my own food. So I know how good that feels. It made me realize how much independence you loose when you cannot drive your car.

Also good that you are having the assessment done too. I think you are going to end up with some new resources to help you have better care. I like some of the other ideas here about you finding a different living situation where you can get better care. The twins can go figure out their own lives.

I don't come from a family that has ever shown up for me much either. I have always been fortunate to have a great community of friends who have helped me through many tough times in life. What is that old expression, "friends are God's way of apologizing for your family?"

Patty- good news that you will be going home again. Are you feeling better?

Cami- good to hear from you. How is Joey doing with his music?

2nd Time- sorry you have been sick. Wishing you better days.

Momof2--What kind of fish will you put in the tank?

Son chevy

_{Hi Ladies.}

_{Patty u should be home by now, I hope so and u'r resting comfortably in a cozy place.}

_{Hi sweet Jazzy, yes Joey is actually still playing and says he likes it still but a bunch of kids already dropped out, so who knows, the other nite he did his practicing in my room, well the squeeking has diminished a lot so it wasn't horrendous for me, but he still cracks me up all the time---He's so sick the last couple of days but he stays here in my room and cuddles--we're both on Anti-B's so I figure it's OK.}

_{Why is my puter double spacing,? Jeez one day I'll figure it out.}

_{Well, well, well not only is she a pole dancer and a chicken expert, now she's sounding fishy---is there no limit to her expertise? She thinks not, I guess. No names were mentioned.}

Hi Ladies, I just wanted to wish everyone a very Happy Easter! I hope you enjoy the day. Cheryl

Yes gals..... Happy Easter!

MammaRay.... Don't pay any attention to stupid comments.... sometimes people just like to hurt us in little sneaky ways...

You COULD have said, "Well THANK you for that lovely comment, what-ever it was you meant by that!" And turn tail and walk away....

I have several tetras, a betta and a couple cat fish in my tank which has a heater. Just switching it from where its currently sitting to my sister's stand. The funny thing is that in the summer when it gets so hot, I shut the heater off and the water temp stays right where it should be because of how the house is situated with the back getting the sun first.