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  • sas-schatzi
    sas-schatzi Posts: 15,889

    Hi 12:06   wide awake. Slept this afternoon, now paying for that. But it was a lovely nap.

    Please, put this link in your favs and go visit. It's to Boyd's page. She didn't tell us she had one. She has her bx this week. Think Thursday. Queenie and Debiane are already there.

    https://community.breastcancer.org/forum/83/topic/833689?page=1#post_4465967


  • Loveroflife
    Loveroflife Posts: 4,243

    Ok enough with the downer. It was TOO SHORT of a visit with Mses Sas and Spookie!! I wish we had more time. I feel privileged that they carved out their times to have lunch with me. I love the twinkles in Ms. Sas' eyes. Just as I expected, her personality is somewhat like one of my younger sister- likes to take charge, sociable, and straight forward. BBL to finish post...got to go shower...... Ok, I am back. Ms. Spookie has this cute crossed-eyed expression she made whenever she said something silly. Even though we are from different generations and backgrounds, I had this instant connection with both as soon as they gave me a hug. Not sure if it was their warm welcomes or because we all were all sweating bullets (it was warm). You all should see how Ms. Sas ate her fried garlic crabs. At first she tried to be lady-like and use the fork...the fork!!! How do you eat crab with a fork? Ha! She gave in and used her hands after a few seconds. I ordered a seared tuna sandwich. The sandwich was three times the height of my bite!! How do they expect people to eat a sandwich that tall? It was not a pretty sight. Ms. Spookie was the only one who was able to eat her meal (shrimp in buffalo sauce) in a civilized manner. Amazingly, I managed to finish my sandwich right around the same time Ms. Spookie finished her lunch. Ms. Sas , with crumbs of crab shells and meat all over her face and shirt, was still working on her second crab (at least eight were on her plate). I felt bad for her so I helped her eat some of her lunch haha. We still had two left to take home. We had a good time. I just wish that it was a bit longer.

  • sas-schatzi
    sas-schatzi Posts: 15,889

    Loverly, so funny. Irish eyes and a nurse---Ratched with a twinkle

  • sas-schatzi
    sas-schatzi Posts: 15,889

    DBF short on funds, per usual. Hardest worker. Underpaid. Can't plan. Doesn't understand saving. Broke his new smartphone in three weeks by sitting on it. External corning glass intact, but internal gone. Agh......

    Today a truck drove into the back. Dogs alerted. I figured it was DBF. Couldn't quite see into the cab, thought it was his work mates truck.  It drew up and backed up to the shed with authority of knowing the layout. I saw it. Not unusual. Asked DBF why he didn't stop in to say hello. He said he wasn't here. Now it's a thing. Neighbor has camera's. Will check in to see if he has a video record. Disturbing. Now wonder if I'd have gone out what would have happened.

  • Boyd748
    Boyd748 Posts: 61

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  • Loveroflife
    Loveroflife Posts: 4,243

    Scary, Ms. Sas.

    Boyd, worrying gets the best of you? Two more days until biopsy? Hang in there. Hugs.

    Frey, why a grumpy face? Need to color more.

    Love all the silly fruit pics.

    Marlana, my friend, no keeping meds in the car...too hot in the summer. Meds lose their stability if stored in hot places.

    Goats, I feel for you...100+ degree with humidity, how could anybody function?

    Hello to all


  • Boyd748
    Boyd748 Posts: 61

    Thanks I am so ready to find out, either way. Really need to be getting laundry and stuff done since might not be up to it for a few days after needle biopsy.

  • debiann
    debiann Posts: 447

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    I'm still up too and its 3 am. I'm not going to be a happy camper when its time to get up for work. I just finished the center pieces for my dd bridal shower. 

    There will be a cooking lesson as part of the entertainment so I thought it would be cute to add the wooden spoons, but they looked to bland, so I marked them up a bit with a woodburning kit. Now they are polka dotted, lol. Well at least they are finished.


  • Chevyboy
    Chevyboy Posts: 10,258

    Morning girls! Now just don't go gettin' worried Susan.... I think I had been in the same boat you are/were.

    ONE time as I was walking along, I thought for sure my bladder was going to fall out... Nope... it was something to do with bladder cervix and all the other stuff hanging around up there....

    I HAD a vaginal hysterectomy JUST for that reason, because some Doc said that the problem was with my bladder... So he could "tie-it-up" and at the same time take out my uterus.

    So okay fine..... We did this.... A month later, same problem... I waited another year, then finally had a Sacrospinus Ligament Suspension......... I think that means that they use one of your ligaments up there, and then make a shelf for your bladder, and sew it all into a proper place, whereas it doesn't want to fall out as you are walking through Walmart.

    It worked! That was at least 25 years ago...... And everything is still up there.....Nerdy

    Okay, I read Boyd's thread.............

    Now I am going outdoors.... It got light, and Janie brought me a bunch of perrennials! I'm so excited. I gave her that delicious chicken parmesan stuff from Costco and $200. Hah! I just love to make her happy, like she does me.......... Laters Gaters..........


  • jazzygirl
    jazzygirl Posts: 12,047

    Boyd- wishing you the best with your biopsy this week. I agree, you need to just know what is going on so you can either move on with life, or get your treatment done and then move on with life.

    Hopefully you won't feel too bad from the biopsy. When I had the surgical one years ago, I was down for a few days due to the anesthesia, etc. but the needle biopsy has more of a local numbing. I just had to be careful of the biopsy area itself, felt fine otherwise.

    Wishing you and easily procedure and good outcomes.

  • jazzygirl
    jazzygirl Posts: 12,047

    If any of you like a good dark chocolate but don't eat sugar, I discovered this tasty dark chocolate from Lilly's, made with the natural leaf sweetener, Stevia. It is not inexpensive, and found a health food stores like Whole Foods, Sprouts, etc.

    I think if you read the story about this company and what they do, you may find even more reasons to like them.

    http://lilyssweets.com/lilys-story/



  • Freygea
    Freygea Posts: 217

    Love the center pieces Deb. A cooking class sounds fun.

    Bah, ok, I will go buy Lipstick!

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  • jazzygirl
    jazzygirl Posts: 12,047

    Frey- that's funny. Do that and post pictures! Dare ya! Happy

  • Loveroflife
    Loveroflife Posts: 4,243

    Double dare you. Haha

  • Chevyboy
    Chevyboy Posts: 10,258

    LOVE your lipstick Frey! HaaaaaaaaaahHAAAAAAAaaaaaaaa! You guys, I have a plethora of lipsticks, glosses, and well........you get the idea. Are you supposed to FINISH one before you get a NEW one? I can't relate.

    Same with nice smelling lotions, and sprays. Still working on my cupboards.... If I ever bothered to check the "use by" date, it would be a miracle. And I just HATE to throw out perfectly good "things".... Even if they expired like 2 years ago. Thank DOG DD didn't get up into THAT cupboard. But I took care of it myself. She would rat on me to her Sister.... and there would probably be an intervention....

    I just always must have thought there would be some horrific thing happen where we couldn't ever get out of our house! And we would have to stock up on every thing known to man...."just in case"...! My Parents were the same.... So we all grew up not having anything, then when we got enough money to actually BUY something, we over-did. And I still do....

    But I'm trying to clean-out the spare garage, where we store stuff... and get rid of things we will never use again.... I will ask my friends, and whatever they don't want, just take it to the battered womans thrift store....


  • Loveroflife
    Loveroflife Posts: 4,243

    Good morning lovely ladies.

    Debiann, nice center piece. Sounds like a fun bridal shower.

    Ms. CHEVY( I don't know why autocorrect change to capital letters), take pics after you are done planting the perennials. Hope you are not affected by the contaminated river... just terrible.

    Oops got to work now. BBL

  • spookiesmom
    spookiesmom Posts: 8,178

    Loverly, lunch was soooo fun. We should have shot pic of Sas wearing hers!!!! Next time?

    Sas, scarey! Wasn't gate locked?

    Chevy, yes you are supposed to pitch old stuff. Not sure about how that works with DHs.

    Frey, don't bother with make up of any kind till winter. It just melts off.

    Off for fun afternoon. Details later.

  • luvmygoats
    luvmygoats Posts: 2,484

    Frey - lipstick or more properly lip glosses like Burts Bees are one of my indulgences. Don't buy much purses or shoes but hard to resist a lipgloss. I read this years ago in Cosmo and thought it was hilarious. When you want to indulge, don't even think about a new car but you can afford just about the most expensive lipstick there is, not in every shade, but one that you love. My feeling about lip gloss. Don't like the goopy kind. Current fav though not colored is Yes to Coconuts coconut lip balm. My biggest gripe is that I will not buy anything that is not safety sealed and I think both Mayb and CG's are not and have some lovely colors. Burts Bees is more expensive but you can see the color and they're sealed. Chevy the only thing I ever finish is lip balm stuff esp. the one I put on at night.

    Debiann - so when is the big day for DD? Congrats. Centerpieces for shower look wonderful. What are you cooking?

    Ah cooking - used to do that. Today I think I'll make hamburgers because I have some corn that needs using up. Still have not had the oven on. Cool spell today only 98. Rain went thru parts of metroplex but not west of mid town Ft Worth. Pshaw as my DGM used to say, couldn't have been 20%.

    Jazzy - I'll look for the chocolate. I keep a bar of Hershey's Dark in the fridge. Indulge infrequently but DH won't eat dark so I'm safe.

    Good Golly Sassy. Hope nothing nefarious was up and neighbor has tape of license. I never parked in alleys but I did park in lots of strange places esp if they had nice deep shade while I was doing hospice. I know all the shady spots esp. on the west/sw side of Ft Worth.

    Susan - hope the falling parts find their way back into their proper places. Admire you for the bike riding. I think I'd be a hazard to myself on a bike.

    Boyds - about biopsy. Not doubt repeating myself. Mine was a total surprise. Doc could do it the day of the sono, I got boss's approval, did it and went on to see I can't tell you how many pts that day (a Tuesday) and my reg. schedule without a hitch. I was not required to do much lifting more like assist and could use my dominant non-affected side for that.

    Spookie - Hope the "fun" is truly fun and was not said tongue in cheekish way.

    Gads - had to actually put on something decent. Awaiting UPS guy who usually doesn't show until about 2. I have a neighbor who either runs a home business or is perennially broke because he visits her nearly daily. Now Chevy don't be reading anything into that like what the iceman used to do.

    Winking

  • Smaarty
    Smaarty Posts: 2,615

    in Dublin, made it with no problems. Wasn't able to sleep on planes. We did get our room early, so we did take a short nap. Went and had fish and chips, so we are tucked in and waiting for 9 pm so we can get back to normal. Got the bus pass and will head in to town tomorrow. Probably ride the hop on, hop off bus and figure out what we want to see. Definitely going to trinity college and the zoo sometime this week.

    Good luck tomorrow Boyd. Fingers crossed. I had mine done on a Thursday and found out Monday morning. I hope your taking someone with you. I wasn't allowed to go by myself so took SIL. First time I understood what a panic or anxiety attack was about. Hang in there

  • cling
    cling Posts: 263
    Frey, that creature does have large ears. Don't tell me that's an Eeyore!
  • sas-schatzi
    sas-schatzi Posts: 15,889

    Spookie and LMG. Scary yes, gate closed, never locked. Had to know routine and where shed was b/c it can't be seen from the street. Also, how to drive around the house. When he drove in he was desisive just like DBF would. I was going to take the dogs out, but figured he'd come in. Then got back on here and forgot about it. Last night when I asked DBF why he didn't stop in, he wasn't happy. He checked the shed and couldn't see anything disturbed. Neighbor is going to check his video record tonight.

    Good luck tomorrow Boyd.

    Smarrty, we are going to get to live vicariously, cool. Have fun. I'm a foodie when I travel. So, was DH. Always looking for good food.

    Cling welcome.......................You came to see Rosie awhile back. She's not posting much. Feel free to leave a message. She lurks.

    Frechfrye bah back

    Debiann fall colors? Whens the wedding. We love weddings. Keep the stories and pics coming.


  • spookiesmom
    spookiesmom Posts: 8,178

    WOOOOPPPEEE YAY. WOOOOHHHOOO HAPPY DANCE TIME

    FINALLY!!!!!!!!!!!!

    I got my LE arm pump. Only took almost 3 years!!!!!! Stupid Humana.

  • Loveroflife
    Loveroflife Posts: 4,243

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  • sas-schatzi
    sas-schatzi Posts: 15,889

    Yay Spookie, stupid humana

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    sas-schatzi Posts: 15,889

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  • Smaarty
    Smaarty Posts: 2,615

    as promised, this is the entrance at our first hotel.

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  • Freygea
    Freygea Posts: 217

    That is lovely Smaarty! Glad to see you have arrived safe and sound. Have lots of fun and take lots more pics for us all to drool over.

  • susan3
    susan3 Posts: 2,631

    smarrty, so fun...have a great time.

    Great center pieces !!

    Chevy, I am just the opposite . I throw out before the expire date, cause you know, they could be wrong. :)

    Parts still good, and Chevy, not worried at all. I don't even worry about my stage iv and chemo for life. I have sooooo much fun when I can and don't much worry about the rest. Life is life. Can't figure it out so I don't bother. It's all good.

    Saw mom today, we had a good time, she was good today. Like to,see those days. Didn't get a chance to talk to brother, but that's ok, really didn't want to ruin my day anyway. Going to dinner with friends. They have the best drink at this place. Just new a year by me. Local guy owns it. The drink is some kind of margarita thing that is just delicious . Once I had three.....prob wasn't a good idea. But my friend was having three drinks , and she couldn't drink alone!!!! That would be to sad. I am such a good friend :)

  • Freygea
    Freygea Posts: 217

    Completed. Now I will stare at her for a month before I make changes.

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  • jazzygirl
    jazzygirl Posts: 12,047

    Frey- outstanding! You go girl!