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Re: Birads 5 with calcification
@lisat8228 Ive been checking for your update and while it sucks, you do have some answers and that’s better than not knowing.
I hope you don’t mind me making a few points but I just feel like it needs to be said. First, I don’t know if the chest wall is considered stage 4 but a CT body and or bone scan will provide the info. It’s best not to go there, mentally, if you can help it. Second, since your lump appeared so suddenly, I suspect it will be HER2+. But, these days and being ER/PR-, this is actually a good thing. Anti HER2 treatments have changed the cancer game and many more are currently in trials. Finally, you didn’t “let it get this far”, it can happen without symptoms. It’s bullshit and unfair. Be shocked, sad, angry but not guilty. Please know that I don’t mean to sound like I know it all, I don’t but what your going through is just nearly identical to my diagnosis, your post takes me right back and I feel it so hard. No words make any of this better but I’m thinking of you and your family. Things are going get hard but you can get through it.
Re: Diagnosed 1 mnth+ ago, deciding on treatment
Hi @maggie15 thank you for the explanation! And i'm so sorry that you have side effect from the radiation
There's a dna test called CYP2D6 that will tell the effectiveness of tamoxifen on you. I'm planning to take that test too.
I will discuss this with my oncologist later.
I had anxiety disorder before my diagnosis, now my anxiety is getting out of hand 😢 i'm currently on escitalopram to ease my depression
Re: Can we have a forum for "older" people with bc?
Regan is our 5th Dalmatian and I had one growing up. Always have loved them though the original was a classic black and white whereas our 5 are the Liver and white ones each of the "liver" ones had a varying shade of brown ranging from an almost dark auburn to a chocolate shade. Regan has a few black spots but is predominantly liver so she is classified as a liver and white tricolor.
Yes, they are not for everyone one, but they were relatively easy to housebreak and aren't as bullheaded as some of the terrier breeds.
Re: This piece is for anyone navigating loss.
@olivesbay - Vanessa. Thank you for sharing your story. We’re sure it will bring comfort to others walking a similar path. We’re here with you 💗
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Re: Can we have a forum for "older" people with bc?
Taco - yes… I too worry about the unhoused and those with medical problems and limited income. Yes, and the backward climate control steps. Hard to not to just sit & cry about what is happening.

