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Re: I am not grateful to my oncologist and care team
It’s rarely acknowledged, but there are some medical providers who do not listen to things like patient goals or do not care about patients as individuals. Others are too sloppy in their practice to factor in patient goals beyond the initial “lip service” discussion. There may be various “reasons” why such providers are this way, but when you’re the patient, the plain truth is that it sux. When others are grateful for the care they received but yours was disappointing, it can leave you feeling alone and in a world of hurt. (I experienced this with hospice “care” for a parent that was beyond negligent—it was borderline criminal and was certainly inhumane and contrary to clearly stated goals. Yet everyone in the world is “grateful to hospice”. I still find it hard to live with, some six years later.) When you’re the outlier, no one wants to acknowledge your increased suffering. That can pile devastation on top of awfulness. And then we’re supposed to be in Grateful Mode. It’s. Just. Too. Much. I commend you for posting and articulating your true feelings. They are VALID.
Re: Ladies in their 40s
My MO wants to switch me from Zoladex to buserelin, for ovarian suppression. Anyone else using buserelin? What can I expect?
Re: NEW Oncotype Dx Roll Call Thread
I'm confused about the 2 numbers listed ex. 5%=11
My oncotype was 15 so my dr said it was up to me. She showed me the ranges and since mine was in the middle, I have chosen a full course of Ac-t. She offered me a shorter course, but I wanted the full course. Basically she said if I wasn't going to be able to sleep at night worrying about it that we could consider the full course.
I just don't want to look back in a few years and wish I had done it.
Re: Can we have a forum for "older" people with bc?
wallycat, I think because he was on acyclovir (anti-viral) and where the lesions were located. Shingles near the eye can cause blindness. The old vaccine was not as good as the current one, but given when it was introduced, it was better than nothing. Questions, did he receive the old vaccine before he developed cancer and did he receive chemo as treatment for his cancer?
Re: I say YES. YOU say NO....Numero Tre! Enjoy!
Let our New Year's resolution be this: we will be there for one another as fellow members of humanity, in the finest sense of the word.

