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Re: Breast Implant issues
Good afternoon and thank you very much for checking in. I had an infection around the extender and had surgery on Thursday to remove it. I’ll have to wait 6 - 8 weeks to heal before they try and put a new one in and start all over again. I’m not clear yet as to what the infection was or how it got there but still waiting on the lab results for that. It’s just frustrating having to go back to dealing with another drain and binder! But I’m glad I’m okay and hope I’ll do better with the new one. Thank you again for checking in with me. It means a lot to have this support!
Re: Can we have a forum for "older" people with bc?
I bought three pairs of pants, one fitted, the other two loose yesterday at the church rummage sale. The fitted ones were already capri. Cut 7 inches off the loose ones for capri length and re-hemmed them. We have our annual rummage sale during tractor-pull weekend.
I am going to use one of my saris to make kaftan plus bloomers. It is dancers in green and ruby red, not one of my favorites.
I took Tippy over to the fairgrounds to show him that it was no good for off-leash. Had to take him over there another time, as he thought it was interesting. Both times he stayed in the basket of my bike (recumbent electric trike, for newcomers).
Taco, the pictures of the pups are beautiful. Nice that they have both chosen places of honor. And a more peaceful introduction to each other, since they are similar sizes.
I had significant problems with my stomach last night— bought some iron pills after Mass. I am confident that the problems will be taken care of.
No, Jackie. I think the shortage of doctors is a long-term consequence of COVID. So many died, and others just couldn't take it anymore. So they are going to teaching hospitals to "grow" new doctors. I don't think that the political climate will end up with a catastrophic loss of basic medical care for those who don't have the $$$$$$$$$$$. There will eventually be a massive pushback, and their goal of a two-class society will be repudiated. Yes, there might eventually be a two-level medical system like Canada and England have. I have not been as demanding as I might ought to have been, because I don't want to be what others might call me… a parasite. Should I have died from an easily-treated BC? I think not.
Teaching hospitals can more easily treat patients who have minimal resources.
Re: Asymmetry and distortion BIRADS 4
Hi @stuckbyanxiety, I’m sorry you are in the stressful situation of waiting for a biopsy result. Mammograms and ultrasounds are two different modes of imaging which show different aspects of breast abnormalities. Neither can tell whether an abnormality is malignant which is why a biopsy must be done. Waiting for the pathology results seems to take forever but is the only way of getting an answer.
Google is less able than imaging to diagnose a medical problem. Uncertainty is hard to live with but you should find out next week. Hopefully the result will be benign but if not this is a good place for information and support. All the best.
Re: Asymmetry and distortion BIRADS 4
I’m sorry for the stress of waiting, it’s the worst part once you know either way you will move forward. I am sorry about your dog, that’s tough on top. Deep breathing helps me recenter. Only the best wishes.
Re: Asymmetry and distortion BIRADS 4
thank you @maggie15 for your response.
Just that my mind doesn’t stop thinking, I lost my dog this week and it’s adding up too 😢
Re: I say YES. YOU say NO....Numero Tre! Enjoy!
BREAKING: The three liberal Supreme Court justices release a scathing dissent after the Republican-controlled judges issue an anti-LGBTQ ruling that "ushers in a new reality" that will deny children the "opportunity to practice living in our multicultural society."
This is only the third time that Sonia Sotomayor has read her dissent from the bench, indicating strong disapproval...
"Exposing students to the ‘message’ that LGBTQ people exist, and that their loved ones may celebrate their marriages and life events, the majority says, is enough to trigger the most demanding form of judicial scrutiny," Justice Sonia Sotomayor wrote, supported by justices Elena Kagan and Ketanji Brown Jackson.
The ruling was made in favor of a group of parents who want to opt their children out of elementary school lessons that include LGBTQ storybooks. The case will now go back to a lower court for final decision on whether schools must provide such an opt-out option.
Thanks to the Republican justices, school districts must now inform parents in advance of the books being read in class and allow them to pull their children if they choose. For underfunded schools, this additional burden will be too much to bear. It adds administrative costs and distracts teachers who are already struggling to teach overcrowded classrooms. Taken in tandem with the Trump administration's efforts to completely eliminate the Department of Education, it's a grim omen of things to come.
Crucially, the decision is a blatant handout to the religious radicals who helped put Donald Trump in power, which in turn tilted the court even more conservative. Such people want to pretend that LGBTQ people don't even exist.
"Given the great diversity of religious beliefs in this country, countless interactions that occur every day in public schools might expose children to messages that conflict with a parent’s religious beliefs. If that is sufficient to trigger strict scrutiny, then little is not," Sotomayor continued.
She predicted that the decision will cause "chaos for this Nation’s public schools."
"Requiring schools to provide advance notice and the chance to opt out of every lesson plan or story time that might implicate a parent’s religious beliefs will impose impossible administrative burdens on schools,” she continued. "The harm will not be borne by educators alone: Children will suffer too. Classroom disruptions and absences may well inflict long-lasting harm on students’ learning and development."
"Worse yet, the majority closes its eyes to the inevitable chilling effects of its ruling,” she went on. “Many school districts, and particularly the most resource strapped, cannot afford to engage in costly litigation over opt-out rights or to divert resources to tracking and managing student absences. Schools may instead censor their curricula, stripping material that risks generating religious objections."
"The Court’s ruling, in effect, thus hands a subset of parents the right to veto curricular choices long left to locally elected school boards," she added. "Because I cannot countenance the Court’s contortion of our precedent and the untold harms that will follow, I dissent.”



