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Re: Stage III Cancer Survivors .... 10+ Years and Out
I had to go looking for this thread. Yes, I am posting this a bit early but I wanted to bump the thread back to the top. There are some great stories here.
On November 5th, I will be out ELEVEN years! WoooooHooooo!
That about covers it. I am so thankful for every single day.
Re: Stage III Cancer Survivors........20+ years and out
I'm here too ! 21 year out this past February .Hallelujah !! A lot of changes on these boards since I Iast posted in '24.
I'm continuing to do well with N.E.D. I went off my Aromasin which I've decided that I used as my security blanket after almost 15 years . That was about 3-4 years ago. Although I did really well on that AI ..once off for a period of time I had no idea of it's impact on how I felt. I'm thankful for it but am so glad it is done.
I see a new doc who has made a few changes . I now go every 6 months rather than once a year so as to work in a rotation of Breast MRI and Mammo/US . She is very involved and I feel that she cares for my welfare.
I follow no special diet ,walk about 2 miles most days and probably drink too much wine : ) .
Looking back, never would I think I would be where I am today but an excellent oncologist and breast surgeon and GOD made it happen . Thinking of you all as you make this journey ..there is light at the end of that long dark tunnel !
Re: Poll: How does Breast Cancer Awareness Month make you feel?
Having just recently been diagnosed /w BC and not yet had my biopsy…. I really don't know what to feel. Due to personal reasons, I've kept this from my entire family/household. After Diagnostic Mammogram & Ultrasound I have a mass in my right breast and BI-RADS Category 5 - Highly suggestive of Malignancy. I continue to do research, being careful of where/whom I'm getting my info from. And have a biopsy scheduled Nov. 3rd, 2025. Of course I have more questions than answers, but at least I've tried to look into it all. After seeing all of you that have been through SO much - how did/do you do it?
Re: Poll: How does Breast Cancer Awareness Month make you feel?
@forza , you're allowed to vent. Your hospital sounds dismal and exploitative - charging for water?! I hate what private equity has done to our healthcare system.
Re: Why was I stronger DURING treatment than I am now?
Metoo14 - I feel the same way. There have been many times when asked myself, why did I fight so hard to live if this is the way it will be? I've really struggled with it. I've resisted the new normal concept because there is nothing normal about this. Maybe I need to revisit that thought. I honestly don't know how to do it. It's like I make 2 steps forward, and 3 back. This is not the life I fought for. I keep marching on because the only other option is going to bed and staying there. I've been through that before, and landed in the psych hospital. I refuse to go through that again if I can avoid it.
My therapist said that we go through the 5 stages of grief once treatment ends. I always thought the progression would be linear, but it's all all over the place.
LIttlebee - A few months after finishing chemo, my MO said the drugs were out of my system. BS! I'm about 3 years post chemo and my rehab specialist said that stuff is still in me. How could it not be considering how toxic it is?! One of the drugs is a derivative of mustard gas! It's a miracle that most people live through it at all, but here we are. Still, I feel pretty destroyed.
Re: Why was I stronger DURING treatment than I am now?
Timbuktu.....that's my job!!!!!! I have been an ESL teacher now for about 20 yrs.....love it. I used to be a registered dietitian until I was pregnant with my first son. Then I stayed home for six years to raise two boys. I joined a mother's group and one of the mothers
came with a leaflet looking for volunteers to teach English at a local church. The rest is history.....never went back to dietetics.....took all the courses to become certified and love every part of my job. Well, I'm 65 now and can't bring myself to quit...lol

