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Re: Just diagnosed, feeling shocked, anxious, lost
@baffled26 glad to hear your update! Managing the appointments can feel like a part-time job in itself, but it definitely sounds like you're doing all the right things.
Just wanted to put a plug in for the online support groups, and the cohort groups here (October 2025 Surgery, etc). Both have been very helpful to me. ❤️ Good luck!
Re: STEAM ROOM FOR ANGER
Cancer is bad and even as you get through things there is a fear of it coming back again to get you again and people you know who had worse outcomes as well. The support of others is what helps and trying to distract with the nicer things in life and so you can get your mind off it for a bit helps.
Re: STEAM ROOM FOR ANGER
Totally agree this takes a huge toll on mental health in ways few can understand. I've been sober for many years but did just start seeing a counselor again to deal with cancer-related PTSD. Ugh!
Re: Suffocating in the waiting...
@mrsnewbold0525 I’m really sorry you’re going through this — you’re not alone. The waiting and uncertainty can be incredibly tough. I don’t post often, but I felt compelled to share this: please consider pushing for a breast MRI or a biopsy now, rather than waiting for an ultrasound that might be inconclusive and delay further testing.
I also have category D dense breasts, and I once read that detecting abnormalities in them is like searching for a snowflake in a snowstorm. No one ever told me that mammograms and ultrasounds aren’t reliable for dense breast tissue, and that MRIs are recommended instead. If I’d known, I would have requested annual MRIs instead of relying on standard screenings that weren’t designed for someone like me.
I truly hope your results are benign. You’re in my thoughts.
Re: Planning surgery for November 2025? Join the waiting room for support.
@ltam16 We are thinking of you today! Check in when you get a moment to let us know how surgery went and how you're feeling.
Sending gentle hugs!
—The Mods
Switching from Letrozole to Tamoxifen
Hi All,
My sister was diagnosed with ILC stage 2 in October 2023. She had double mastectomy and she been on anastrozole and letrozole since then. She is post-menopausal. Recently side effects of AIs been hard. Her oncologist recommended switching to Tamoxifen. From what I have read Tamoxifen isn`t very effective for post-menopausal women with ILC. Does anyone have been in similar situation, or they have read any recent research on it that they can share. Appreciate your help
Re: Switching from Letrozole to Tamoxifen
Hi dear
My mom was diagnosed 13 years ago with ILC stage 3b she used anastrazole for 7 years ultimately diagnosed with osteoporosis, stopped anastrozole and now her cancer is back unfortunately, doc has started tamoxifen hope it will work for her.
LLots of prayers for ur sister hope some one will show up with uf answer.

