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Such sad news about berta. 🙏 That her family finds peace and strength. Though we never met, her light touched us all.
Re: Can we have a forum for "older" people with bc?
DGS helped with weeding the big daffodil hill bed near the driveway and he did a decent job. We finished it but decided to quit after we dumped 6 bags of mulch. One nice thing about sloping flower beds is you can use the laws of gravity for mulch distribution. Open the bag, dump it, and let it slide down the hill. Then rearrange it to your liking. So he learned something today that the gravity citations he gave me when questioned were used and the theory proven. Science works.
Carole, I have a Fitbit Inspire 3 and love it. It cost less than $100 and records what I want: steps, zone minutes (for activity levels), calories burned (estimate), sleep dutation and quality, cardio load, exercise days (don't use), hourly activity, heart rate (activity and resting), and will do food and water recording but I don't bother. It synchs to my phone and I charge it using my computer but you can purchase a charger you can plug into an electrical outlet.
Reward for DGS is going to Barnes and Noble which I am sure will be expensive but a trade off for the weeding. DD called and she got us tickets to see the newest Mission Impossible film at the IMAX theater. She can reserve seats and hopefully since it is at 8:30 we don't doze off. DH has been working outside, too and the plan is for DD and DSIL to come at 4 to work on the fencing. Hopefully it won't be too hot because there is a good breeze and it will be in the shade.
DGS is taking a shower, I'll get one next and we'll have tlunch before we venture out to B & N.
harley07, so glad you were able to make it to shore after the kayak debacle. Sounds like someone forgot to do their job with the plug. Seems like you still got some pleasure and lots of exercise from the experience. I am not a fan of swimming so I have not taken up any water sports. I have a healthy respect for water but perfer to float on it rather than be in it. Kudos to you.
Chris, glad you got relief from the TENS. Sorry to hear about your brother's oxygen concentrator and hope he is able to get a replacement without too many hassles.
Illinoislady, thank you for your comment. This left knee replacement was a real brat and it seemed to take forever for it to get to the point where I could be mobile, have less pain and resume what I consider a normal routine. Night pain is manageable even if it wakes me several times a night, I am able to drift back to sleep after a position change. The Voltaren and Tylenol Arthritis seem to help immensely.
I really chomp at the bit when post-op courses don't progress to my liking and the fact that the post-op course for the hernia repair was a nightmare still lingers in the back of my mind. I need carpal tunnel repairs on both hands but am trying to hold off for a while hoping I don't lose function in the meantime. I've just had too many necessary surgeries since October of 2021 until now. It has taken its toll, too, but sometimes that is the price required for survival. I plan on remaining upright for as long as possible.
Sandy, glad your HK can come to assist you with reorganizing your house. She will be a big help and it is good that she remembers so much about the contents required for your house. I hope you have a nice visit with her.
It's a lovely sunny day with temps at 77 now but expected to hit 83. However, the humidity is low and so it is tolerable.
Hope everyone has a great day.
Re: So...whats for dinner?
Happy Birthday, Nance!! Can't wait to hear your meal selection.
I used up ramen noodle packages (tossed the 'flavor packet' ) and made a peanut sauce, tossed in some broccoli. Leftovers tonight.
DH's dental appointment today…crossing fingers, holding breath….
Everyone's meals sound wonderful.
Re: Can we have a forum for "older" people with bc?
Sandy - my head is spinning just reading all that you need to do to move back into your house. It’s good that your HK is coming back to help you get settled. You have my admiration for dealing with this without completely losing your mind.
Chris - I continue to be amazed at Tippy - what a special dog. What kind of person would steal an oxygen concentrator? People are so cruel.
Carole - to me an occasional rainy day sounds wonderful. I feel like it gives me permission to curl up on the couch and do nothing. Unfortunately I have no specific recommendations for an activity tracker. DH swears by his Fitbit and I love my Apple Watch.
Cindy - I’ve noticed that more and more stores have reserved most of the ‘close in’ parking spots for pick up leaving the rest of us to get in lots of steps. I think it is shortsighted as some people like to go into the store but if they make it too difficult the stores may ultimately lose customers.
Betrayal - DGS sounds like a wonderful and hardworking kid. Beyond pulling weeds, he will have lifelong memories of the close bond with you. B&N is a great reward.
A few days ago we were discussing our activity levels. I’m grateful to be able to be active and it helps with my mental health. I’ve mentioned that I lost 44 pounds after my BC diagnosis, however, my weight remains the #1 focus of my healthcare providers. Every appointment I am reminded to lose 12-15# as I am increasing my risk of cancer at my current BMI. It’s gotten so bad that I actually start to get nauseous a few days before each appointment because I’m so nervous about my weight. I’ve asked my providers to ease up on the reminders to no avail. I guess I need to develop selective hearing and shut out that part of the visit.
DH had a skin biopsy two weeks ago and today went back to have a malignant melanoma excised from his back. I had been nagging him about the spot for at least a year so I’m glad it got it taken care of.
We went for a walk at dusk tonight. The temps were 81 but the humidity was really high. We are looking at 90+ temps the next 2 days with a real feel close to 100
Take care to all.
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Well as we are older now we often have dinner at 3;30 now and often by 4 I am ready to go to bed for the night. seems does not matter what time go to sleep get up at 3;30 in the morning so usually by 4 am tired out from being awake and trying to get through a day. /Hope you got a good a dinner at some point mommyof3. You deserve to have a nice meal sometimes that you are not doing all the work to fix.
Re: Can we have a forum for "older" people with bc?
Day before yesterday I got out my TENS. My hands had been worse from the grooming Tippy. Got a USB charger cord for it. Used it last night for an hour before bed, and slept well for the first night in a while. The pads (quite old) aren't sticking well and aren't flexible enough, so I ordered new ones. They are set for delivery today.
I also ordered the Visible after several weeks of using the app with just morning and bedtime check-in. Even If I only need it while negotiating my journey through the thumb problems, it should be good for later. Ordered more buttons for Tippy but then contacted Chewy to say I had overspent. Got the shock of my life.
Called my brother. Someone had stolen his oxygen concentrator. He was devastated. He and his pulmonologist are hopefully going to be able to come up with a low-cost solution. Tanks are NOT suitable for his active lifestyle.
Happy that everyone is truckin' along, either maintaining or improving. Only problem has been with Harley's kayaking accident.