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Re: Can we have a forum for "older" people with bc?
Betrayal, I swear by my robot vacuums. In FL it’s an iRobot - programmable after it maps your house. So you can tell it in the app which rooms to do. I sometimes I leave the guest room to weekly, but hit the high traffic areas daily. Note I say “I” when all I do is open the app, hit a button and send it on its way, usually while I’m out walking or out shopping, running errands.
In NY I have a Shark robot vacuum. The one I purchased for here isn’t programmable, I call this one Willy Nilly because that’s how it goes. It cleans the carpet, and tiles without a problem. Zig zagging back and forth through many rooms.
I do pick up the kitchen garbage bins in both houses, in case SO has left coffee grounds. I’ll put the hamper in the tub, move a kids rocking chair - to make sure it can get through/under a wing chair.
Best part of these vacuums is no back pain. Both of mine I have to empty myself, at least once a week. But there are models that have a docking station that removes all debris from it; some also mop! Worth considering to avoid back pain.
The Shark, because it isn’t programmed, I can put it upstairs and let it go up there too. GEEZE that was long winded!
I see the surgeon’s PA on 7/23, and hope to be out of the Velcro shoe. I purchased the hiker type Clark’s and hope he’s ready for me to wear them. Steri strips are still on in 3 places, and the toe with the screw in it is still kind of swollen.
We just had some rain, but not enough. Too short to do anything. I did hear thunder after the sun was back out, but any real rain missed us. Dead lawns and plants trying their best to stay alive.
adriamycin heart damage
Hello,
Just dx with heart damage due to adriamycin use in 2005. I was dx with Stage 1 bc, ER-PR- Her2+++. Had lumpectomy, chemo ACT then 10 months of Herceptin (had to stop twice due to low muga scores). Radiation. Had genetic testing Pos Braca 1 so had bilateral overies removed then bilateral mastectomy with silicone implant reconstruction.
Everything seemed ok until 2024 when I started to experience extreme fatigue and weight gain. after much testing I had cardiac workup and heart damage was discovered, believed to be from adriamycin. Hard to swallow as I'm 19 years out, frustrating that a drug I used to help prevent a reoccurrence is now affecting me.
Wondering if anyone else is experiencing this and what is the game plan going forward?
Thanks
Re: Can we have a forum for "older" people with bc?
Jackie, what my mom, Bob & I all immediately noticed after the bandage came off the day after our first cataract surgeries was how vivid colors were—especially blue! Before the surgery it was as if I were looking through a yellowed sheet of cellophane, and anyone I faced who was backlit looked like a silhouette. Push came to shove when I was playing a set at a suburban festival on a tented stage facing the sun. I could not see the fret markers on the side of the guitar neck nor tell (visually) if I was playing at the correct fret! Like betrayal, I too opted for just the distance correction because a new IOL doesn't slow the progression of presbyopia—which is caused by focusing muscles becoming more sclerosed with age. I have astigmatism, so drugstore readers won't work (they make every square grid look like a parallelogram). I went with my usual progressives, but with a much milder distance correction. (The frames hide under-eye bags and help me save on concealer).
I spoke too soon about things at the house proceeding apace. Got to the house this morning only to find that today they were bringing back only the appliances, daybed, and twin bedframes. Stove is hooked up but gas not yet turned back on (more about that later). Only the kitchen fridge (the big French door LG) was brought back—the ol' reliable top freezer plain vanilla basement Kenmore top-freezer is still in storage. So are the headboard for the king-size bed and the footboards for the twin beds. They brought the LG in in pieces (doors, hardware, body); but they couldn't get the L door to sit at the same height as the R. (The L is the one with the icemaker and water dispenser). Took both guys 4 hours and they couldn't figure out what was wrong. (I suggested calling Abt, which sold me the fridge back in 2018, but it's out of warranty so I'd be charged for a service call). The dryer was brought to the wrong part of the basement (where the Kenmore belongs), and is not level (the pedestal on which it sits was not delivered). The sump pump appears to have been unplugged, so I'm hoping against hope for no torrential rains. The daybed sways unstably—several screws & bolts are missing. The crew is coming back tomorrow with its appliance specialist and the right hardware for the daybed, so hopefully the fridge can be reassembled, hooked up to the water line, and plugged in. Meanwhile, due to humidity the basement doors stick (the door from the stairway and the one from outside too), as well as the door up to the attic, so they will have to be re-hung & planed. The contractor is on a job "out south," so he sent his two older Polish-only speakers to clean up the closets that got all filthy during construction (and it took heavy use of a translation app to make any headway). Also discovered that in the den—which is where Bob watches TV—the crew drywalled and painted over where the cable & satellite outlets were! So no point in calling Astound or DTV to reconnect us yet.
And the restoration company said today's items were a "rush order" in case I had to move in imminently. Everything else will arrive no earlier than August 8, the day after the visiting vet appointment which will be here in Lincolnwood. So it's conceivable that we may not be home till Labor Day. (The rent is an arm & and a leg but at least we will have a big fat casualty-loss deduction on our 2025 tax return—which we didn't take for 2024, as everything up till 6/30/25 was fully reimbursed by State Farm).
Rinse messaged me that they washed and dried the linens—and if they got the stink out, I will send them the white split-king set for the next load. I bought the Downy Rinse & Refresh to use only if my Tide Free & Clear and white vinegar don't do the trick. The new twin & twin XL sets don't smell, but maybe I'll have those laundered as well to remove any chemicals that might be harmful to sleep on. The dinette set now smells merely grassy, which is because of the linen blend in the upholstery. I can live with that. So no need to Febreze. But I will plug in the Zevo traps to catch the flies that snuck in, what with the doors having to stay open.
So I'm home and staying in tonight (the Rinse driver will leave the bag behind the porch chair so the porch pirates—or tomorrow morning's possible storm—don't get it). I'll be there again in the morning.
Will definitely do triage on the boxes, which should be labeled. There are going to be a lot of "free to a good home" and "come and get it" posts on Nextdoor Edgewater.