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Re: Didn't have a clean margin, go back in and re-excise?
Thank you for the advice truly appreciate it :) yes, according to pathology I have a positive node which did show on MRI prior to surgery, along with poor response to my neo adjuvant therapy as well as positive for lymphatic/vascular involvement. The team advised a re-excision and ALD because of the results from pathology and they believe that is the best course moving forward along with doing targeted therapy, radiation and PT. I trust my team with their plans as they are the professionals, but just want to make sure that it is truly the right path for me. I due plan on getting a second opinion. When I did my MRI prior to surgery it showed shrinkage of the tumor and that my node was clear, but its not what pathology showed after surgery. Hoping and praying that second surgery will be better and will be clear.
Re: Night sweats and acupuncture
@ moderators I have been at this for years. Thanks for the links i will look again. I ended up stopping also early in 2015 one due to a dr who didnt believe me and 2nd because none of the natural and over the counter remedies worked. This time I have been on multiple different meds. My body hates drugs. If cancer doesn't kill me side effects from meds will. For example gabapentin worked great for hot flashes. By the end of a month I had burning in my feet and hands the developed pain in my calves.
@Hippmark i have a cooling mattress. I can't imagined sleeping on a towel. Need something soft. I also make the top sheet and my nightgown wet when it happens. Usually once a night. They are brutal. I have been the antidepressant route but they turn me into a zombie.
@tougholdcrow not sure how ulta freeze would help. One thing I find is the sweatscan be triggered be being to hot or two cold. Its like my body forgot how to regulate it temperature and goes crazy.
Re: Birads 5 with calcification
My MRI results just came in on my patient portal, but I’m honestly too scared to open them. I’ve decided to wait and review them with my oncologist tomorrow. Lately, it feels like every other day brings a new test result or another appointment to be anxious about. I’m really trying to stay positive, but this is incredibly difficult.
I now understand why some people give up or choose to ignore their symptoms, facing something this overwhelming takes an unbelievable amount of strength. Dealing with a cancer diagnosis feels like living through a horror movie in real time.
There are ways to cope with many of life’s hardships, losing a job, a home, struggling to conceive, or financial stress. As hard as those are, life still moves forward. But when you’re staring down something like cancer, a true life or death situation that no amount of money can fix, it’s a different kind of fear altogether. Someone compared me having cancer to their experience with menopause on yesterday. Although, she meant good and her intentions were only to comfort me, I couldn’t help but think that that the 2 is no way comparable. It’s the most helpless, gut wrenching feeling I’ve ever experienced.
Re: Bioidentical hormones..is anyone taking after breast cancer?
I started on estrogen about 9 months ago. It has made a world of difference for me. I feel 90% back to normal, pre-cancer. I'm sleeping again and my moods have mostly stabilized. I'll be 10y out from my initial diagnosis in October.
For reference- I was diagnosed on routine mammogram at 46y with stage 1, ER+, PR+, Her2-. I had a nipple-sparing double mastectomy with immediate reconstruction in 11/2015. I was on 10mg tamoxifen for 4.5y then had a total hysterectomy. took anastrozole for about 2y, switched to exemestane for about a year and then switched to ospemifene for about 18m. The AIs were very tough meds- lots of body aches, hot flashes, mood swings & v low energy. After doing a lot of research I decided to discuss estrogen with my oncologist. She wasn't thrilled but referred me to endocrinology. It has been life-changing. I feel like myself again.