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Re: Mucinous Carcinoma of the breast
Evaluated with strain and shear wave ultrasound elastography in addition to mammography and B-mode ultrasound.
Hello back to our traveling friend 💜 Rain 💚 healing gals in treatment. Best wishes to everyone this summer.
Re: STEAM ROOM FOR ANGER
Thanks for the response. I know you're right, in that I will be punishing myself. I have a 6 month return policy for the hearing aids. May go back and see if they have any that are smaller or in a skin color as opposed to metallics. I'm not usually a self-pitier, but his comment and poor attitude came at a time when I am physically (bad bout of diverticulitis) and emotionally (multiple family issues) exhausted and giving up and hiding seemed like the easiest choice. The incident was several days ago and the prick has yet to apologize.
Re: STEAM ROOM FOR ANGER
No they can't! After last years mamo the radiologist was pissed cause it was a screening mamo when I should only be getting a diagnostic mamogram. Had to do another one. I guess we should all be getting diagnostic since breast cancer once. Who knew? Good for her. She found another cancer!
I've also had 2 MRIs to the wrong area. Grrrr.
Re: STEAM ROOM FOR ANGER
My turn to vent about a tangentially related issue. My parents insist on aging at home and 3 to 6 hours away from me and my 2 younger sisters. There are sibling dynamics that complicate the situation, but long story short, the youngest sister has chosen to martyr herself as their primary source of transportation to the more complex medical visits for only my dad. Mom is in denial about her cognitive decline in spite of both her mother and brother having Alzheimer’s. Dad is the son of a surgeon and surgical nurse and like preachers kids, he is a doctor’s worst nightmare.
Our middle sister pretty much keeps her mouth closed and doesn’t want to be involved in conflict. Our youngest sister has always had the feeling that she wasn’t given the same attention we got because she was always in trouble. She lied constantly, often broke the very lenient rules our parents set and never appreciated the things our parents did for us because she expected to be treated like the wealthier friends we grew up around. That sets the stage…mostly.
I’m estranged from our youngest because of her attitude towards my chemotherapy and prohibiting me from having access to the $12k quilting machine my mother bought for us and specifically for me to use during my treatment. It was located at sister’s house and she said my chemotherapy was hazardous to her health.
Okay TMI,
So today she group texts us about dad’s latest Dr appointments regarding the edema in his legs. Dad is resisting the recommended options and not understanding that the solution is not one single thing but a combination of things that work together. So I text some recommendations and get shot down on every single one. My sister’s text responses are thinly veiled but the message is clear… butt out and let me handle this.
I’ve been dealing with lymphedema for years so I know a little bit about how to handle chronic swelling. I realize that I am short on patience right now because I’m in so much pain with my current sciatica mystery, but I’m just so annoyed by the dismissive attitude of my sister. I’ve tried to get the 3 of us to act together to get our parents the best possible in home resources so they can remain in their home as they wish, but I get pushback every time I recommend anything.
Thanks for listening. Just needed to get it off my chest.
Re: Were you diagnosed young (under 45) with breast cancer? We'd love to hear from you!
@lexa_voltz
We’re so sorry we missed your post! We can feel the weight of everything you’re carrying — chemo, surgery, learning about your BRCA2 mutation, and now facing another big decision while still healing. It’s a lot, and it’s okay if some days you feel strong and other days not so much.
With BRCA2, doctors often recommend a bilateral mastectomy to lower future risk, but that’s only part of the picture. You’re in the driver’s seat. Another surgery might feel overwhelming right now… or like peace of mind. Only you can know.
Ask yourself: In five years, which choice will bring me more peace? Will regular screenings feel reassuring or stressful? Do I need to decide now, or give myself time to heal? Talking with a genetic counselor or getting a second opinion can help bring clarity.
You’ve already shown so much courage and self-advocacy. Whatever you choose, it’s your body, your story, your life.
Sending you strength and clarity,
Your Mods