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Re: Can we have a forum for "older" people with bc?
betrayal, the sewing was immediately post-cortisone. i regretted working on a jigsaw puzzle yesterday. Transportation failure again last Monday. They called me yesterday and I have yet another appt scheduled on the fourth. Remember this guy is also my plastic surgeon and gave me a cortisone injection during my implant exchange back last spring.
Making hummus right now.
Re: Starting Chemo July 2025? Gather here for support!
UGH! Well, I am trying the name brand Claritin to see if it makes any difference. I had been taking generic. I have a heating pad on my lap and that helps. I did speak to my treatment team yesterday. If my WBC is high they will dose reduce the shot this cycle so we will see. I appreciate everyone posting suggestions and their experiences, it is so helpful!
Re: Were you diagnosed young (under 45) with breast cancer? We'd love to hear from you!
I started hormone block therapy yesterday - surgery is pending until my results for genetics test come back. Once the report is sent to my oncologist we will discuss the surgery options for me. I am just grateful some treatment started for me.
Re: Were you diagnosed young (under 45) with breast cancer? We'd love to hear from you!
@marlize - Welcome! We're so sorry you have to be here, but we're really glad you found us.
The first days after a diagnosis can feel terrifying. Many, many members here have been in that same place, shocked, overwhelmed, and full of fear. But once a treatment plan starts to take shape, things often begin to feel a little more manageable. You're taking that first step today by meeting with the surgeon, and that’s incredibly brave. Come back to let us know how it goes. We’ll be happy to share articles and discussion topics that can help you better understand what’s ahead.
You’re not alone — this wonderful community is here to support you.
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Re: Were you diagnosed young (under 45) with breast cancer? We'd love to hear from you!
@marlize hoping you have more clarity than when you posted a few weeks ago. The time between diagnosis and having a plan is a unique kind of hell.
Re: Starting Chemo July 2025? Gather here for support!
Hey @pershing, welcome!! If you're willing to share, tell us what part of the world you're in.
You are definitely not alone in being scared and anxious leading up to starting chemo. 💜 I think it's actually such a normal human response to something that is NEW, scary, and that one has never experienced before. I keep reminding myself, "All of this is new." Do you have someone to go with you, at least for this first one?
Great to hear you're going to try the ice mittens and booties! That first infusion felt like a lot to coordinate to me, too. All we can do is the best we can in any given moment. Let that be enough.
My infusion center had crushed ice which they brought to me in a cup and I had my sister-in-law help feed them to me throughout the chemo drugs being infused to hopefully help cut down on mouth sores. I could sort of pick the cup up with the mittens on, but was pretty clumsy, lol. It continues to be humbling and challenging for me to ask for help in this, as I've always been very independent and live alone. I am grateful for the opportunity to practice. :)
Sending positive vibes your way and hope you'll come back and share an update once you're through the first one and have a chance to let things settle a bit in the days after. ✌️

