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Re: Stressful event years before diagnosed?
This is almost impossible to prove in a trial which is probably why it is not one of the questions we answer at the doctors office for putting us in high risk. I've answered questions about family history alcohol use whether I've had any pregnancies and even age of first menstruation but never anything related to a stressful lifestyle. I've read about a view that people under stress make lifestyle choices that could potentially put them at a higher risk such as through excessive alcohol consumption or smoking but that seemed a little silly to me as this really is not representative of our population here on BC org. In any case this is not something that can be proven or disproven easily with a scientific trial.
Here is what I also know and think: as mentioned in previous posts cancer cells exist in everyone's body but the immune system takes care of them. Something went wrong in each of us where our bodies could not stop this and eventually tumors were formed. This also puts us at high risk for the same thing reoccurring regarding rogue cancer cells that may have remained in our bodies after treatment from our existing tumors or even completely new ones. So it only makes sense for us to take better care of ourselves, know when we are tired and give our bodies a rest physically and emotionally. It cannot be purely stress but stress could very well be a factor that depressed our bodies' defense mechanism. I watched a documentary (old one I think) on stress on netflix and it's pretty scary what it can do. I don't believe you need to have a traumatic event for stress that depresses the immune system necessarily, this documentary showed that chronic stress due to multitasking is in fact one of the biggest contributors to stress and premature aging internally. I don't know about you girls but I multitask every day, in fact it is one of the performance indicators for many office jobs today and I can say that I am a high performer in that regard. Our bodies probably gave warning signs before one way or the other if we were under stress that affected out immune system to the point where it could be a factor. I have three aunts that had breast cancer (and have survived by the way) and each had lichen skin disease which is thought to be related to issues with the immune system, in the years before they formed breast tumors. I did not have this but it's interesting to me.
Long story short, think stress is a factor but does not have to be a single traumatic event in my opinion, and we should all be watching our bodies carefully to see if we show any signs unrelated to cancer that could indicate our body has reached a limit. I don't mean to say we brought this upon ourselves at alland it could very well be dumb luck that our defense mechanisms did not function as well as others. All I am saying is that as this is not going to be proven one way or the other, it makes sense we try to be aware about this going forward and play it safer. Many of us don't have the ability to make drastic changes in our lifestyle, but I guess we can give it a try to take a break when we see signals. Surely can't be bad right?
Re: Can we have a forum for "older" people with bc?
Betrayal - happy to hear you and DD had a wonderful trip. Thanks for sharing the amazing pictures. The deep blue ice at Dawes Glacier is beautiful. It’s nice that you have the Panama Canal trip to look forward to.
Re: Can we have a forum for "older" people with bc?
@betrayal Lovely pictures. Reminds me of our Alaskan cruise a few years ago. And thanks for Seattle too. My DB and parents lived in Anacortes and I visited Seattle several times. Thank you for memory lane. I am glad you had a good time. I look forward to your trip through the Panama Canal. That is one cruise I have yet to do but it is on my list although I doubt I will make it.
Re: how about drinking?
Mary, I'm so sorry you had to deal with that. Everyone is so unique and different. My surgeon also said lumpectomy but I refused rads (read about too many side effects and issues) and came in with a picture of a 10 year old boy…I said…"THIS. This is what I want." He finally agreed. I healed with zero issues, no pain meds, blah, blah….but I opted out of reconstruction because I wanted this done and done. I had the initial lumpectomy and there was no more cancer they could find, so he finally relented. It is your body. You get to choose what you want done to it.
Re: Invasive Ductal Micropapillary Carcinoma
hi everyone! I was diagnosed 11/11/15 with invasive micropapillary carcinoma, stage IIIA e+. I'm 33, and currently 29 weeks pregnant. What shitty news to get while you're pregnant (it took us 6 years to get pregnant). Found out today that it's not in the organs, getting the MRI tonight to check the bones...chemo set to start probably soon after. I'm happy to find others that can relate to me. Doctors won't tell me much as far as how successful we are going to be, but it sounds like lots of you are making the best of life and staying strong! Hope to get to know you all