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Re: Breaking Research News from sources other than Breastcancer.org
I hope this will be coming soon for all of us. The MRI with contrast is really not that great. If we can have an MRI that is fast, as accurate as with contrast, cheaper, that is a positive.
Re: I say YES. YOU say NO....Numero Tre! Enjoy!
Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow. The important thing is not to stop questioning.
Re: I say YES. YOU say NO....Numero Tre! Enjoy!
To practice five things under all circumstances constitutes perfect virtue; these five are gravity, generosity of soul, sincerity, earnestness, and kindness.
Re: I say YES. YOU say NO....Numero Tre! Enjoy!
There are some people who have the quality of richness and joy in them and they communicate it to everything they touch. It is first of all a physical quality; then it is a quality of the spirit.
Re: Can we have a forum for "older" people with bc?
Harley, I still have hair on my head. Downstairs it is very sparse and blond. I have dark hair very slowly going gray.
Re: Going flat or breast reconstruction
I went flat 2 months ago. Bilateral mastectomy. My recovery was pretty easy. I went tent camping 14 days after surgery. By then I was just taking Alieve. I’m 61. Quicker recovery is big advantage to going flat. I also got into surgery more quickly because I didn’t have to get on plastic surgeon’s schedule.
It was explained to me that I can always change my mind and get reconstructive surgery later and insurance would still have to cover it (but I’m not sure how much later).
I doubt I ever will. I don’t want any more surgery. And I don’t want to have to remove or replace implants when I’m in my 70s. Nipples are gone anyway.
I’ll probably feel a bit more self conscious this spring/summer in lighter clothing than I do now in winter but I’m hoping it’ll be ok. I haven’t even unboxed my prosthetics. I don’t think I’ll wear them much at all. Foobs just seem to be a bigger reminder to me of how I’m altered. I don’t want it to be obvious that I’m flat some days and not-flat other days. And I live in hot climate; foobs seem like they’re going to be hot. But everyone has their own comfort level.
It is nice to skip the bra. Hope this is helpful.
Re: Going flat or breast reconstruction
I went flat. It was a very easy decision for me. There was not a reconstruction option that seemed right to me. I knew I didn't want implants, and DIEP seemed like too big a procedure with too long a recovery for me. My DMX surgery was quick and my recovery was easy. I also liked the idea that there would be nowhere for a recurrence to "hide". Most people don't even notice that I am flat as I don't wear clingy clothes. It takes a while to get used to, but for me it's the best choice. I like that I will not have to go through revisions or other adjustments.

