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Re: how about drinking?
There's a Total Wine not too far from my house too. They carry a substantial selection of all sorts of interesting spirits. DH is a scotch whiskey guy, and I can reliably find fine brands there if I can't think of anything else for a birthday/Christmas gift. 🤣
Re: how about drinking?
On my To Do list today is a trip to the big wine store in another town. Total Wine? It's the only store that stocks Gilbey gin, dh's preferred. Gordon's is easy to find, but Gordon's won't do. Gin doesn't seem nearly as popular as vodka. The vodka section is always large.
It's 76 degrees this morning at 9 am. It was foggy when I got up but the fog is dissipating.
Hi to everyone. Cheers!
Re: how about drinking?
Good Morning, Loungettes! Happy Saturday! I woke up to frost Thursday ayem, yesterday ayem and today, so I finally gave in and turned the heat on for a little while yesterday and today. 45 degrees is just too chilly, even if it is going to warm up pretty nicely as the sun comes up! Yesterday Mom got herself worked up into quite a tizzy going back and forth between getting packed for the NC trip and waiting to hear about the apartment. It's going to be a long, long week until we find out about the apartment. I updated my brother and sister-in-law about the apartment situation. SIL immediately went into General mode (her words, not mine, but very true!) and gave me a whole list of what has to be done and how it has to be done from what moving company to use to how to sell Mom's car. I learned a long time ago to just smile, thank her for the great ideas, agree with everything she says, and then go do what I think is best. So General SIL doesn't bother me at all with her orders, but she gets Mom really wound up, so I can see that I will be doing a lot of refereeing during our visit. Oh well, that's why I didn't plan the 2 week visit that Mom was expecting. I know I can't handle doing that for that long!
I finally got an ottoman to use with the new rocking chair, and it's now comfortable so I sit in that a lot more and not just the oversized chaise. The puppers join me in the chaise, one at a time or both together, but only bog boy Colt climbed into my lap in the rocker yesterday! It was kind of nice having his legs and back end over my feet keeping them warm and his head in my lap. Funny looking, though.
Carole--Mom getting this apartment would be the best thing in the world for her. I've seen situations like this before, once the person moves and gets settled they usually blossom and thrive. Having people around that have similar life experiences will be so good for her. I'm not crazy about her being an hour and a bit drive away, but she'll actually be closer to getting help in a crisis than she is with me 20 some minutes away, not to mention having access to all kinds of social events and activities. And as her needs for help change, her service package can be adapted to meet it. Its good you have a comfortable vehicle to drive back and forth in. And it sounds like you have the whole trip worked out to be nice and relaxing rather than stressful! It always feels good to get home after a trip.
Teka--Happy October! The tree leaves are beginning to turn here, looks like we'll get a pretty good foliage year.
Red October Cocktail
Ingredients
• 151 proof rum: 0.5 oz(15ml)
• Goldschlager: 0.5 oz(15ml)
• Jagermeister: 0.5 oz(15ml)
• Cinnamon liqueur: 0.5 oz(15ml)
• Rumple minze: 0.5 oz(15ml)
To craft the Red October, you'll need to:
- Chill a cocktail glass.
- Pour 0.5 oz of each ingredient into a shaker filled with ice.
- Shake vigorously until well-chilled.
- Strain into the chilled glass.
- Garnish with a cinnamon stick, if desired.
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Re: Just diagnosed, feeling shocked, anxious, lost
Hi @baffled26, You will probably have an MRI and genetic testing done before surgery. It sounds like you have decided on a mastectomy so you will definitely meet with the surgeon, plastic surgeon and medical oncologist. Unless lymph nodes appear suspicious on the mammogram or ultrasound a sentinel lymph node biopsy will be done during surgery. It’s unusual for cancer to have spread elsewhere if there are two or fewer nodes positive.
Sometimes the proposed treatment plan changes a bit after surgery. I had one positive node found so axillary radiation was added to the scheduled whole breast radiation. My tumor was 3.2 cm but I had an oncoplastic lumpectomy rather than a mastectomy. If your surgical pathology is ER+/HER2- with two or fewer positive nodes an Oncotype DX test will be done on the tumor to see whether chemo would be recommended. With more than two positive nodes an axillary lymph node dissection (ALND) would be scheduled. If the results of that put you at stage III you would have further scans (bone, PET or CT) to see if the cancer has spread. No further scans are done for stage II unless you have symptoms.
Breathing problems can have many causes. Depending on what your GP finds you may have an X-ray or CT scan to help with a diagnosis.
I hope all your upcoming appointments go well. Feel free to ask if you have more questions.
