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Re: Can we have a forum for "older" people with bc?
We are under sail leaving San Diego to encounter 2 days of a tropical storm. Great table in dining room. Room is nice since we always have a verandah for sea days. Hope everyone had a great day. Waving hi to everyone. I will take pictures to post later.
Re: how about drinking?
The thing that was the most fun for me about Total Wine was the classes. I went for a couple of years. They do education about wine areas with tastings. Sometime during the year they may do bourbon or scotch classes. Snacks are always included - fresh fruit, cheese & crackers, mini sandwiches, etc. While the teacher is presenting - with slides - the assistant comes around & pours tastes of the variety the teacher is discussing. Since I have bought all my alcohol from Total Wine in the last 10—15 years, my class fee is $10.00. If you're a new member the classes are $20.00. Still worth it.
Re: Just started TC chemo, 1 of 4 for Invasive TNBC Stage 1 grade 3
Hi axle1-
Welcome to the boards! Glad you are here.
You might want to join in or lurk on a few other threads as you go through your chemo journey. One is "Starting Chemo May/June 2023" and the other is "Anyone on just Taxotere and Cytoxan?" both in the Chemotherapy forum. It is so helpful to 'chat' with others while you go through it. I just finished 4 rounds of TC in April and though it wasn't pleasant, I did get through it and you will too!
Keep drinking fluids as much as you can. Know that the 6-10 days after the infusion are the worst and then if you are on a 3 week regimen, you will have a week or so where you start to feel more 'normal' before your next infusion.
Best of luck to you and hang in there!
Re: Just diagnosed, feeling shocked, anxious, lost
Hi baffled26,
This is my first post here and I can say I can relate to feeling baffled and anxious upon diagnosis. I received my diagnosis this summer as I was packing up my family to move so I could start a graduate program I have worked really hard to get into while raising my kids. I left my job, set-up life for my kids in our new location, got my teeth cleaned and went for my routine mammogram. I do not match any of the risk factors and I am really young for the demographics. I could not wrap my brain around the diagnosis.
I dealt with the situation my usual way, which is to research it from every angle and get several opinions. I talked to radiation oncologists, medical oncologists and surgeons. I picked practitioners of different ages and backgrounds, and I did get varied recommendations. I asked the doctors for the studies they are basing their recommendations on and found them on pubmed and proceeded to read through them. This research along with spending time in contemplation helped me settle with the situation. I am usually not one to ask for help, but these past few months, I decided to try something different and shared my diagnosis with people in my community and the outpouring of kindness and help has been heartwarming. When I feel a wave of fear arise, I take a moment to sit with it, then pray to see how this situation may bring positive things into the life of my family. Sending hugs and blessings

