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Re: Can we have a forum for "older" people with bc?
I can crochet, but it demands more from the left hand, so I will let it be. I am utilitarian in many things. Crochet is too holey to provide warmth.
Re: Can we have a forum for "older" people with bc?
@justforher I crochet all the time. It is my therapy. This year for Christmas I made a couple of dog sweaters for my DH's family dogs—much needed in this Colorado climate. Yesterday I crocheted a cap for my new look. I have several but none seemed just right. This one is light but holds the warmth while sitting at home. I have made scores of dolls, dragons, and animals (amigurumi), etc., for my grandkids. I think at some point their parents were glad I stopped. Each close family member has a special blanket and hats and scarves, etc. The list goes on. @mcbaker Right now I am making my DH a chair cover. He spends a lot of time in his office on his HAM radio leather chair and he says he feels the cold so asked me for one. There are lots of types of crochet stitches that are thick enough to provide warmth. I am always looking for the next project. Those of you who crochet or knit "get it."
Stay warm everyone. (The other Chris)
Re: Can we have a forum for "older" people with bc?
I started knitting again. I’d given it up last year because it made my shoulders tense 😄 but now I’m back at it. There’s a chance that after this treatment I won’t be the old me, so I can’t stop. I’m knitting like I’ve had ten coffees. Gotta live xD
Also, love your post
Re: 💗 January 2026 Surgery Crew—You’re Not Doing This Alone 💗
Hi All,
Sending out the best and highest Energy and Light for our healing this month and beyond from our procedures. One thing that I wanted to post is about the JP drains that I have post DMX. They definitely take some getting used to!!!! There are 2 things I have found helpful. One, is that the drain maintenance can be a bit challenging in the beginning when there is a lot of fluid filling the bulbs. I also had some thicker drainage collect on one side (which my advice nurse called fibrin and says it is what the body produces when it is trying to heal itself). It was very difficult to get it out of the bulb when emptying. I found it very helpful to heat up the bulb in a bowl of super warm/hot water before milking the tubes and emptying. I then tried to break up as much of it as possible with my hands before opening the plug… and that was very helpful. I was told that if I couldn't empty it over time and it prevented me from clearing the drains that I would have to go back to have the bulb replaced etc. I am thankful this worked and has actually been very effective!! Also, I have found it very very helpful to use hand sanitizer (after washing my hands thoroughly etc.) on the drain tubes to help milk them fully and get everything into the bulb before emptying. I hope this might be able to help someone….. these tips have really made a big difference for me.
Also, one of my openings where the drain exits my skin has been placed near the middle of my rib cage and is extremely sensitive and uncomfortable. The other one is hidden under my compression bra and doesn't have any sensation at all. I found that if I can pull my compression bra down over the exit site on the tender side it is less painful and I am able to breathe better and move about more comfortably.
Huge hugs to all, and best wishes for putting all of this in our rear view mirrors as we heal!!!!!
Re: Can we have a forum for "older" people with bc?
Love you sisters
Just ordered "This Might Surprise You: A Breast Cancer Story", hope it's gonna make me feel good!


