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Re: Just diagnosed, feeling shocked, anxious, lost
Hi baffled26,
This is my first post here and I can say I can relate to feeling baffled and anxious upon diagnosis. I received my diagnosis this summer as I was packing up my family to move so I could start a graduate program I have worked really hard to get into while raising my kids. I left my job, set-up life for my kids in our new location, got my teeth cleaned and went for my routine mammogram. I do not match any of the risk factors and I am really young for the demographics. I could not wrap my brain around the diagnosis.
I dealt with the situation my usual way, which is to research it from every angle and get several opinions. I talked to radiation oncologists, medical oncologists and surgeons. I picked practitioners of different ages and backgrounds, and I did get varied recommendations. I asked the doctors for the studies they are basing their recommendations on and found them on pubmed and proceeded to read through them. This research along with spending time in contemplation helped me settle with the situation. I am usually not one to ask for help, but these past few months, I decided to try something different and shared my diagnosis with people in my community and the outpouring of kindness and help has been heartwarming. When I feel a wave of fear arise, I take a moment to sit with it, then pray to see how this situation may bring positive things into the life of my family. Sending hugs and blessings
Re: Can we have a forum for "older" people with bc?
Carole, for my grandniece I called myself the “diaper fairy.” I bought her diapers until she was out of them! My niece was a single mom and I figured why not. It was a great help, as I’m sure you purchasing them will be for your family.
Well the low volt spot light ended up on last night. I looked out and to my surprise it was shining brightly. I think from rain, it might have acted like a conductor of sorts on the rusted wires. Because tonight it’s not working, and there is no rain (yet). The 2 new ones showed up tonight. That’s a job for tomorrow in the daylight.
Busy day tomorrow - thyroid ultrasound first, with endocrinologist follow up in the AM. Oral surgeon in the PM.
High tomorrow of 57. I’ll get out my jeans and long sleeve shirt tonight for appointments tomorrow.
Not much else happening here. Hope it’s quiet where you are too.
Re: Can we have a forum for "older" people with bc?
Have a great trip, Betrayal. We've been through the Canal twice, once in each direction. Great memories.
Re: Can we have a forum for "older" people with bc?
Life is full of beauty. Notice it. Notice the bumble bee, the small child, and the smiling faces. Smell the rain, and feel the wind. Live your life to the fullest potential, and fight for your dreams.



