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Re: Can we have a forum for "older" people with bc?
I'm using the end to sit on far more as I get older.
Sandy, hope you get your weight control med adjusted properly. I now have a sister and a niece (her daughter) taking one of the meds. Use of them is becoming very common as the cost becomes more affordable. I'm still a little leery because they're so new. I hope they prove to be more positive than harmful with SEs. I will continue to struggle on my own, for now, anyway. My BMI is 28, overweight but not obese.
Petite, good luck with repairs on your NC home. On the FL home, maybe you will end up with some great new neighbors. If the new homes are upscale, it will be good for your home value.
My haircut was good. I discussed with my stylist not liking that the sides and top of my hair is silver while the back is a mingled gray. Next appointment she will do low lights to make back and sides and top match. If I don't like the change, I can just let it grow out.
Re: Can we have a forum for "older" people with bc?
Happy New Year! Sorry I've been remiss checking in, but between the holidays and now the Bar Show rehearsals heating back up on 1/2, I've been crazy-busy.
Had s rough patch when, because I was starting to lose weight again, my endocrinologist wanted me to titrate my Zepbound back down to 5mg weekly, I had 3 vials of 7.5 and 2 of 5mg remaining. She suggested I space the 7.5s out to every 10 days rather than weekly until they were gone, then back to 5mg a week later.
Day 10 rolled around, I took the shot of 7.5; and about four hours later I awoke with midepigastric (upper ab) pain that—but for the absence of GI effluvia at either end—felt just like when I had norovirus in 2014. (The kind of bug that makes you feel so awful you're not afraid you're gonna die, but rather afraid you're NOT gonna die). It was so intense that Bob suggested I hit Urgent Care once it opened, but I was in too much pain to drive and he was late for work. It was only by patience and Gas-X I was finally able to burp & fart the pain away. But I was chilled despite the room thermometer reading 70F (my core temp was 96.1) and my teeth were chattering). I was also anorexic, which brought on hypoglycemia. I forced myself to eat some chicken soup as well as miso. But I didn't realize that the seaweed I'd added was kombu and not wakame, so I got bloated again. Took a couple of days before my body normalized again—courtesy of pushing water, protein (soft-boiled eggs & all the roast beef & turkey in the house). I called my endo and she agreed that the main culprit (pre-kombu) was the fact that since Zepbound's half-life is 5 days, waiting 10 days between doses of 7.5mg is like starting out at 5mg rather than 2.5mg. That's rough on the gut and the metabolism. So it's back to weekly 5mg, and watching my calories & protein like a hawk to "stoke the furnace" without going into either calorie deficit or surplus.
Of course, that sleepless night was on a rehearsal day. A couple of days later I overdid it at bedtime: a couple of biscotti, a hunk of fruitcake, and two chocolate truffles. I had forgotten what too much sugar at bedtime does to me…and I was awakened about 5am with a L calf cramp and R shin cramp. OWWW!!! Had to get up, grab a cane (for balance) and walk around the second floor and stretch before the muscles quieted down. Went back to bed, rolled over onto my L side…and this time my R leg got both a calf and shin cramp! The type of stretch that loosens one kind of cramp aggravates the other, So another near-all-nighter.
Of course, that one was the morning of the "sitzprobe" for the Bar Show (the first rehearsal with the band), in a conference room because we didn't have the theater yet. I needed several cups of coffee and a protein bar to get through it, but I made it.
We moved to the theater on Monday, to settle into the dressing rooms and do a tech run. Tuesday was tech/dress (costumes, wigs, but not makeup) with mics so the sound guy could get levels for each of us (and each number we were in). For the first time, none of us had to share a mic pac because we have only 32 cast members (in years past we'd had as many as 60). There were enough mics for everyone, which gives us a little breathing room between numbers because there was no traffic jam at the mic table nor anxiety as to whether the person from whom we were to get our mic would take it off and turn it in on time.
But by now 1/4 of the cast is out with the flu, so there was a lot of shuffling people like a deck of cards. I had to understudy a couple of roles I'd wished I'd gotten, but memorized my lines as fast as I could. I knocked it out of the park. The challenge was, as always, insanely fast costume changes—and this time with entrances from opposite wings. Of course, the person for whom I'd subbed is due back today (taking off her mask to sing); I'm glad she's feeling better, but a bit disappointed that I won't get to do those songs for a paying audience: tonight is our "open" dress rehearsal (audience gets a reduced ticket price in return for having to see how the sausage gets made). We're off Thursday (that's when NPR's "Wait, Wait, Don't Tell Me" gets the theater). We officially open Friday, have a Saturday matinee, and close Saturday night. (When I first did the show, we had 6 performances, which dwindled down to 5). I have people coming every night except tonight.
BangBang is nagging me to go up into bed—and I'd better obey lest she knock stuff off surfaces and threaten an anger bite. (She reminds me of Glenn Close in "Fatal Attraction:" "I will not be ignoooooored!").
Re: how about drinking?
Good Morning, Loungettes! Happy Twofer Tuesday! We're having quite the cold snap right now that has me looking forward to the traditional January thaw which may be coming toward the weekend. I don't mind the cold so much, but this bitter cold is miserable. At least I don't have to go out in it very much now that I'm retired!
Thanks, Carole!
Jazzy--looks like a very nice celebratory drink!
Morning, Wally!
Wren--I remember when your DH moved to the memory care facility. I have a better appreciation for how hard that must have been for you now. Watching the decline of a loved one is so heartbreaking.
Jazzy--that bird looks good enough to eat!!!
Teka--I'll share the skin and dressing with you! I like the dark meat when it's hot out of the oven like that.
Miriandra--the lights are amazing!
Jazzy--one of my favorite parts of leftover turkey was when Mom made turkey rice soup. I really miss that soup. Yours looks really, really yummy, too! Oh my, biscotti, too? Nice!
Carole--Mom had a rough few days over the weekend. She had a couple of falls, got tangled up in a blanket she was folding and tripped and then slid out of her rocking chair, not eating as well, more confused than usual. I was thinking she might have a UTI or be coming down with a respiratory virus but she seems to have cleared up, so I wonder if it was another TIA. We had another "is this where I'm going to live for the rest of my life?" discussions, which just breaks my heart, but she did say she was glad to know where she is going to be and now she wants to start moving things out of storage to have in her room, like her sewing machine, tubs of fabric, boxes of patterns, and a table for sewing. There is NO room for any of that stuff in her room now, which barely fits a bed, dresser, and chair. At least as long as it's cold out I can put off taking her to the storage unit to get her sewing stuff for a while.
Seamstress Cocktail
1¼ oz. rye whiskey
1¼ oz. chai-infused sweet vermouth
½ oz. ginger liqueur (Seamstress uses Barrow’s Intense Ginger Liqueur)
Glass: rocks
Combine all the ingredients in a mixing glass and stir with ice until chilled. Strain into a glass over a large ice cube. Use an orange twist to extract oils, then discard the peel.
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Re: So...whats for dinner?
Maggie, that is scary to be in the hospital. That's my concern…DH needs me here and ..well, we get it…
Carole, I meant, do you prefer crispy texture to curd-like-soft texture. You can make tofu do whatever you want…spicy? soft? crispy? You didn't ask me, but here I am, butting in. Sorry, LOL. I don't have a subscription to the cooking NYT. Can you just copy/paste? I'd hate for you to type it all up. Or take a screen shot and paste it?
I made frozen costco burgers in the air fryer with a dollop of duck fat on them. SOOO good.
I'm about to make a crustless quiche. The winds are howling and DH has a 4pm onco appointment. Don't want to have to prepare anything once we get back home…or worse, have no power.
Re: 🌟Starting radiation in January 2026? You don’t have to walk this road alone.🌟
@jmjminivanmom I was diagnosed the end of July. I had my lumpectomy on August 28th. I started my radiation treatments on October 20th. They won't start the radiation until they consider the area where the surgery was healed, usually I think at least a month or two.
Re: 🌟Starting radiation in January 2026? You don’t have to walk this road alone.🌟
@farmerswife72 & @cosun10 I finished my radiation treatments in November. I had 20 treatments, 16 whole breast and 4 targeted. Please keep in mind that every treatment center will handle things in a different way so this is just my experience. I hope this isn't too long but I thought you might want some details.
The first things they will do is take markings. This involves figuring out exactly where to give you the treatments and you will get an actual tattoo dot in the places they need to use for the treatments. They are tiny and you won't see them. They will also probably put stickers on you with arrows or something. Don't panic over these. If they fall off they can figure out where they were by the tattoos. I had a had a hard time with my first few treatments. My rad oncologist and the technicians were all great but I found the experience humiliating and sat in my car crying afterwards. The instructions said to take off your bra and top and put on this robe they provided and that you could put a jacket over it if you wanted. After the 3rd treatment I thought this is dumb and just changed into a hoodie and took it off for treatments. The techs didn't care and for some reason taking that little bit of control helped me. If you are comfortable without wearing a bra just come in only a hoodie. The treatment itself was not that bad. It only takes a few minutes. I was on a my stomach and couldn't see what was going on during it. Some people pray or meditate, or make a grocery list in their to try and keep still. I counted, that way I had I had a good idea how much longer it would be before the end. I only had two real issues during the treatments both times I politely asked the techs about making adjustments and they did so if you have a problem ask. The hardest part of the actual treatments for me was having to be some place every day for 4 weeks at the same time.
I had some fatigue and some skin peeling but nothing bad. My Rad Onc had proscribed some steroid cream that I used and it helped. My worse issue was around my areola and nipple. It became very tender and sore and it is still sore a month later. Because of the way my arms were positioned my shoulders and back hurt after the treatments and I finally started taking some Advil about 30 minutes before the treatment and that helped. I had some seromas that also made it uncomfortable. I got a little irritated because doctors, nurses, PAs, etc. all act like they are no big deal. They will just tell you they will eventually go away. Most of mine have but I still have a couple that can be painful.
I met with my doctor once a week during treatment and pretty much every issue I had he just said was normal so I just pushed through. I am still tender in some places both from the surgery and the treatments and it seems like every morning when I get up I spend the first half-hour massaging the areas to try and get them feeling ok. I actually started having more fatigue about two weeks after the treatment was over but again was told that was normal. I have started back doing light exercises to try and keep the stiffness down.
I wish you all the best of luck with your treatments and I wish you strength and patience.
Re: Can we have a forum for "older" people with bc?
Your living is determined not so much by what life brings to you as by the attitude you bring to life; not so much by what happens to you as by the way your mind looks at what happens.
