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Re: CT and Lung Nodules
It’s good that your PET results found nothing concerning and the pulmonologist will do the biopsy so you can be sure of the nodule status.
My MO whom I really liked moved after three years. I, too, was heartbroken but ended out with a new oncologist I am very happy with. Hopefully that will also be your experience.
maggie15
Re: CT and Lung Nodules
I’m glad you’re relieved! The biopsy sounds like it will be scheduled soon too. Keep us posted.
cindyny
Re: Can we have a forum for "older" people with bc?
My sister as a young bride in 1973 started to crochet blankets. She taught me and a cousin. My cousin was a lefty, so we would sit across from each other, mirror each other. Well, her blanket was super loose and mine was so tight it weighed a ton at 3’x3’. I never completed it.
I did cross stitch for years, embroidery, plastic canvas with yarn, and even rug making with printed canvas and precut yarns. My fingers are double jointed, and as I aged full of arthritis too. I’ve had de Quervain’s thumb surgery, to release the tendon on the right thumb. And sometimes my left thumb will make me yelp in pain.
I have some lace that was tatted in Bruge, Belgium. A cousin lived in Belgium for a while and we toured Bruge. Many women in the stores were hand making doilies, lace trimmed handkerchiefs, and more. And I have older lace trimmed handkerchiefs that were my mother’s. I should look into framing them.
Recently I grabbed some embroidery floss, tiny scissors and threaders to free hand embroidery as repairs on a pair of my favorite jean shorts. I wouldn’t say the repairs are fantastic, but they’re good enough for me. My fingers did ache the next day.
Any of the above activities make the time fly by. I don’t know how to knit. Many ladies in my FL neighborhood do both. I should have someone show me.
Tuesday evening SO saw a few crazy or ghost ants in the master bathroom. We put out syrup and borax which attracts them; they take it back to the nest to kill them all. But today we had the bathroom sprayed by my neighbor who uses the professional sprays. We had to empty everything so she could spray everything; leave it to dry, before putting everything back in. They come from our shared wall neighbor; I could elaborate but I won’t. 🐜
I also cleaned out our clothes dryer vent today. I try to do it every other year. It wasn’t real bad, but it wasn’t clean either. I probably should do it every May, so it’s clean when we get back in November. The cleaning isn’t hard, but it’s a pain hooking that accordion vent part back up to the dryer and the wall - ours vents through the roof.
It was raining this morning, which we needed. Then sun for a bit, before winds picked up to 30 mph. That’s why I stayed in cleaning. HA!
I ran out for the mail around 5 pm and I was frozen. Tonight it’s going back down into the low 40’s, but instead of sheets on my plants I just brought the amaryllis bulbs back in. I’m tired of it.
cindyny
Re: Can we have a forum for "older" people with bc?
Chris - what a great way to display and safeguard your treasures.
My grandmother crocheted - all my older cousins got tablecloths as wedding gifts. My sister and I were the only ones who missed out as she lost her vision. She taught us and we made vests as I recall. My sister still crochets but I knit. Made so many sweaters in the '80's that my family begged me to quit. I do have an Irish knit sweater that I keep in Maine with Debbie as it seldom gets cold enough to wear it here. Did a number of afghans too.
I started needlepointing and did 8 large dining room chair seat covers and 22 Christmas stockings for family members. Like my grandmother, my eyes and hands gave out and the last two great nieces and now spouses get ones from LL Bean. (Actually far cheaper than the ones I did but I think they appreciate my continuing the tradition.)
About 10 years ago, Debbie wanted an afghan and I started knitting again. I make afghans as high school graduation presents. The last great niece will graduate in '27 and hers is done and I've started one for Ella who is a freshman. When it's finished, I hope to start knitting for "knitting knockers" but it will depend on how small the needles have to be as my hands tend to tense up if they are too small.
I was sewing my own clothes by the time I got to junior high and did a parka when we were in Alaska and tailored suits when I was working. Then I just stopped. I imagine I would need lots of lessons on the new machines but have no desire to sew again.
Haley, many craft stores have classes if the YouTube classes don't work. I don't think they would for me.
Stay safe everyone. This weekend doesn't look any better than last for many of you.
Re: Can we have a forum for "older" people with bc?
@eleanora I brought a small crochet project with me to my first infusion, but since I ice my hands during the process I cannot crochet too. It has prevented the neuropathy so far so I shall continue. I could do it the first hour though… Perhaps I should think about it. I don't do doilies as I too have some antique ones from family and don't need more. I have been thinking of making everyone slippers for next Christmas. My MIL did that and everyone remembers her work. It would be good as they are small and I don't need a lot of directions.
Re: Can we have a forum for "older" people with bc?
Thanks for the beautiful photo. To think that many of those were made by women with poor lighting and no magnification.
Re: TN grade 3 newly diagnosed and needing hope
@amerli Oh I understand that fear and anxiety can be crippling for sure! It's normal to have fear and it takes time to come to terms with your diagnosis. When I was diagnosed Stage IV it took me about a year to accept and learn how to live in the present. It's as much a mental disease as it is a physical. Everyone deals with their situation in their own way and still there are good days and bad. I have told myself it's the only life I have and I'm not going to waste it worrying every day! Do I worry when it's time for a scan, of course but in order to truly live my life I can't carry this heavy weight around daily. This all takes time so one step, one day at a time.
Re: TN grade 3 newly diagnosed and needing hope
@amerli Hi there I am a TNBC sister as you see in my bio it all started the end of 2016 and I’m still here!!! I am now metastatic but that didn’t happen until 2022. TN has come a very long way and there have been many new treatments since I was first diagnosed. I know how scary this all is and Dr Google paints a grim picture for TN but that’s not always the case. Yes , you will feel a little better once you have your plan in place. Until then take a breath and try to take this one step at a time. This is a wonderful site with endless support and information. I’m sorry your here but glad you found us! Sending strength and positivity your way❤️


