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Ok, ok, twist my arm.....it does help that I have started Happy Hour already....but dear Stanzie, FN, means F_CKING... Yeah, with teenagers, you might need to know all of this. OH, how sad about your dear son. He is SUCH a dear, has such a sweet, loving heart. I am glad to have met him, although with you and I talking nonstop he didn't get too many words in. So sorry about all the new dx.....I just saw a show about a girl with Tourette's Syndrome just last night....it showed her entering college...she made a joke out of her strange rants, hitting people, and fainting just out of the blue. I am sure everyone gets it to a different degree...she had it pretty bad, but that was ALL she had....unlike your dear son. YAY for your washing machine arriving tomorrow! I am glad you got the efficient top-loader, but in the future, isn't there a way your machines could be reversed? When I got my new set, I had to put the washer where the dryer used to be, and vice versa. All of the hoses reached where they needed to be. The washer connections actually are behind the dryer right now! But had to have the front loader open towards the dryer!
Lori, We are leaving in the morning since we have to fly in. Spending 2 nights at the Marriott. Donna is driving in on Saturday in time for the service, and staying in the same hotel we are in.on Sat night. We leave around 5 pm on Sunday. Tried to get the brewery tour, and it is BOOKED SOLID till into October! Go figure; it must be a great tour. But we'll have some time to see a bit of the area. It will be so nice meeting Donna, but sure wish it was a happier situation.
I was able to get in to get my hair cut today, and boy is it SHORT! Drove by the worst of the tornado damage, again. And this upscale subdivision is where it hit the worst....still looks so bad. Some homes are being rebuilt, some homes are still just showing a foundation, some homes are half there, with insulation, etc blowing down from upstairs walls. Some homes have tarps still over the roofs. And this is just what I could see from the highway! The brick wall around the subdivision has still not been rebuilt.
NM, so terrible about them needing to stick you so many times to get 1 good stick! Ouch! I have been lucky to have good veins that usually they get the first time, and I hardly feel it, if it is someone good, doing it, that is.
Claire, How exciting about all the job prospects that you keep finding about! Hope something good will turn up, that is just the right fit for you.
DorK, you still doing ok? Beans, let us know when you get there! Gail, is your DD still ok? So hard when they go off to college! My youngest DD and family will be here next weekend, as her DH is in a triathlon here. This time they will be in a hotel, and I was leaving it up to her if they wanted to eat here the night they come in, or not see us till the next day. She was surprised that I didn't need to see them the minute they arrive! With all that has been going on, I am TIRED! Karen, are you doing ok? Kymn, Heather, Kristy, hope you are all doing ok too. And Donna, are you well now?Hope so!
Anyone joining me for Pau Hana? I have not started packing yet!
Kathy
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Oh Gail - knew I missed someone - Oh gosh I can't imagine college, high school is proving difficult enough! I'm sorry your hubby wasn't able to show a sensitive side for his DD - that isn't good. I understand he wasn't homesick but hey most people are homesick when they go away for the first time so I think he is the unusual one. Anyway, I totally get leaving those male beings alone if they are attempting to fix something..... Hope today was better....
Kathy- Oh.
Hope you have a good trip under the circumstances - I know you will be glad you went but of course it will be difficult.
Beanie - have you arrived yet? Hope the computer really does work....
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Hi girls,
Kathy, I am doing just fine. I am still po'd over my short pay check and did not hear back from my manager. If he is not in today, I would have gotten an out of office reply. I am guessing he is just super busy although I do feel hurt not to have gotten a response.
I just came back from the pharmacy to pick up the RX for vicodin. I would rather have percocet but my doctor is in the city and they are not fillable by phone. I am feeling better although the short drive hurt. I feel most pain when i have to turn a corner and turn my body to look for oncoming traffic. Thank God for drugs. I had a very pleasant surprise in the mail today, you know who you are, thank you! Have not opened the package. I just love all you girls so much and do not know how I would cope without being able to come here and vent.
And Stanzie, you poor thing, I am sooooo sorry to hear about your DS's additional dx. I will be praying for him. I have a very special place in my heart from children with DS and also adults. They are the sweetest people I have known. I had a friend whos's brother had DS and he was the sweetest boy. He used to serve us gals when we visited and was so happy to do so. They are just the cutest people I have ever met, so very caring and yes, very intelligent. I believe that God gives these special children only to mothers who can handle them and I know you will do a great job in raising him into a wonderful adult. As for the TS, you will do alright with that to. I know people with that affliction as well and they are just wonderful. I know with your loving care that your son will do alright. It is very sad that other children do not want to play with him but that will come with time.There surely is a child out there with a heart as I had growing up who would try to help the children with special needs. I remember in 1st grade having a class mate who was shunned often and I would make it a point to hold his hand during the game "ring around the rosie" I am sending you a big cyber hug and want to tell you that I love you. I am glad you are able to open up and share such personal things with us and I know you KNOW that we will support you. I wish I could meet you and your little guy too. I keep forgetting that kathy was at your place, she is lucky to have met you and your family.
And I think it is the sweetest thing that you are so darn naive over our naughty language, I thought FN was universal lol. You obviously are a very classy lady and should not be embarrassed not to know these things. I think it is cute! Do I need to tell you what po'ed means?
I saw on the news tonight that mortgage rates have again dropped to an all time low, a 30 yr fixed at 4.125%...omg, no wonder I did not hear from my manager. I bet business is blowing up in the mortgage world. I do not miss it one bit although i miss the paychecks. I did best right after 9/11 as the stock market crashed and down went the rates to then all time low rates but they were in the 6's at that time. I am in for it when I return.
Lori, was it you who had a friend who hummed when taking a needle? Funny as I have done that all my life and also do it while the dentist drills. People think I am nuts but I just don't shivagit what others think! I hope your DH is not having issues with the stones and that you are having a n ice day.
NM, I will be thinking of you tomorrow. Don't forget to hum your favorite tune and find a good tune that you can focus on. Don't worry what those around think. I will be very proud if it works for you. Hang in there and if all else fails, take a bottle of likker with you.
Claire, good luck with the job search. Things will fall in place for you as you are relentless in your pursuit of the ideal job. I hope this works out for you and you find the perfect job soon.
Well I am going to pop into the chapel and say some prayers for you gals, your families, my family, friends and also world peace. I pray for world peace all the time and am honestly afraid of the direction our country is going...will not say more on that front.
Then off to the HTL to see if anyone wants to join me for a cyber dwinky once I finish praying.
Beanie, baby, let us know when you get to your destination. I hope you had a great relaxing drive and took time to think about the positive things in life as there are so many. We are all lucky to be alive and breathing. I thank God for that and never forget to show him my gratitude for saving me.
I have been wondering how long I had cancer before my DX and have been thinking about that alot. My lump was there for several years but I honestly thought it was a muscle. My former tata's very quite large and very dense and I always felt lumps so thought nothing of it. I am also reflecting on when my doctor was doing my annual "box check", and checking my breasts, I thought he was being a pervert when he had his tongue hanging out and was feeling my boobies. In hindsight, I know he felt something that was not right and was merely concentrating. This was in May and he had sent me for my mamo in February but I was "too busy" to do it and he set a fire under my ass that very day to get it done right away. He thought is was probably nothing too but once I had the mammogram, I knew there was a possibility of an issue. I knew after the biopsy that I was hit by the rat bastard. Apparently, when the specimen dropped to the bottom of the bottle right away, that was a sign of a malignancy. Sorry but i can't stop reflecting, I have too much idle time. I can not read any longer as my mind will not concentrate and keeps drifting. I used to be an avid reader but nope, not anymore. I wish I could read again to quiet my mind. the only thing that works is likker. I also take antidepressants which I would highly recommend to anyone who feels down more than they feel up. I feel that they also control my temperment.
Okay, I am rambling, someone kick me into the chapel, please??
And where is Kristy, ChrissyB, Karen and HD? I miss you girls. I hope all is well. Has anyone heard from these ladies? And hello to Kymn, I miss ya girl, stop in and kick me in the ass and tell me to stop rambling....someone??
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I finally made my decison and donated here to bc.org, in memory of Junie. I know some of us had thought abut doing something together, but since some gals had already donated on their own, I thought we could each do what we think is best. And really, with all the prayers, love, and caring that we all had for Junie and her family, no one should feel that they need to do anything more. I just heard from Donna, and she is still REALLY sick, and unfortunately will not be able to make the long trip to Junie's memorial in KC. I know she wanted to be there so badly, but I do feel that Donna, as well as the rest of you gals here, will be there in spirit. It sure will be sad.
Stanze, You mentioned not liking rats....I used to have 2 as pets as a kid....in a large (I mean REALLY large) homemade cage in my room, on the floor. One was fat and white (male) and the female was slim and black/white splotched. They really were pretty, and very sweet, but oh boy they had lots of babies! My mom hated it when they got loose as they would run to her room and hide behind the furniture! We would take them to the pet store (the babies) thinking they would sell them, but as an adult I learned that people who have snakes, etc. buy mice for food. YIKES!
Well I do need to start *thinking* about what to pack. Love you girls! Will you all get teeny tiny and be at the memorial with me???
Kathy
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Hi Goils,
Sorry to have hogged nearly a page here, gosh I can tawk.
I wanted to let you goils know that are little darlin' Beanie has arrived safely to her destination. I had my people hunt her down. My people are good as they found her safe and sound.I had my people get her people to hook us up on the tele and she said to tell you goils that she does not yet have the internet connection and hopes to have her people resolve that tonight or tomorrow.
To all, have a good night and a happy happy hoppy Fried-dey. I think that calls for fried eggs for breakfast!! Hoping to see the tenders woop up a good friedey breakfast with some strong dwinks. No fancy pancy wimpy girl driwks eye-der, me likes em strong and NM had done a great job keeping the alcohol content in our dwinks berry berry high!! See you gals in the AM.
CheerZ!
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Sorry......but I want some Toulouse Petit eggs benedict. $7.50 breakfast happy hour and the most delish eggs and sauce. Plus Kurabota ham. You have no idea.
Or you can do the beignets. They are monstrous gooey concoctions with fruit and whipped cream.
So glad your Beans is OK.
Anyway, I visited the wine bar. Now time for major dinner. - Claire
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DorK, Many,many,many tanks for lettin us'uns knowed dat our Beannie Weannie Jeannie got dere safe and sound!!!! So glad "your people" got in touch....lol. Please give her our best. Instead of fried-eyes for fried-dey, me tinks me wud wike omewets instead. OR those beignets sound ono too....I don't do eggs benedict. Mes is purty picky. You gals dwink for me tomorra, 'k? We beez on da planes and no upgrades this time....too full already, so no free dwinks...
But I think DorK will be more than happy to dwink for me, is that right? Well, we aren't packing much this time, and watch....there will be something we will need...lol. Will ketchup with you goils when I can!!!! Peace and love,Risque Wisque
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Hi There Gorgeous Lady Babies! I'm checking in from a bright blue sky day at the ocean...well it's dark now, but it was a beautiful day!! Had an uneventful dwive and have been getting chit together...had some twubble wit my Internet but got it to work so here I am blah, blah, blah.
First, lemme say wahine that Martina McBride song was just beautiful. And yes, makes me cry. But really so moving... thanks for sharing. (And I LMAO at your explanation for POS and all this morning, so funny!) My DH has stood by me too, I just think he wants cancer to be over and for me to be back to normal now and...well, really, was I ever normal, NO, but I ain't that no more neder. Anyway, we have our issues sometimes. I was so glad he still loves me, just going through a tuff time. I proly have been more moody...could it be PTSD, tamoxxifen, menopause, the economy, the bugs, all of the above...or maybe I am just a ragin' biotche! He he he!
DorK - Tank U for posting dat I is okay and for getting yer people involved - yay, they are too cool! I had Internet probs, but now can ramble on at great length!!! That is so wonderful your sis is 17 yrs free of it. Thanks for sharing that good news!! Yes, God Bless Us we are survivors! Glad you reminded about the no apologies too, we just get to put it all out here and we all understand. I'm so glad your DH has been supportive and helping you get through all of this chit. That is so hard when you love aminals and your DH doesn't though, we have been through that too and is part of why I'm not having any pets now. Well chit, just read about your pay check and sure hope you get that straightened out soon. And so sorry this surgery is more difficult. I know you will get through it, but I know how hard all this is and it just sucks and the healing time is long and I hate that you are in any pain. Any time I do anything extra (like today) I really pay for it. And you can use any fu8king language you want to describe what's going on...all rants are welcome and understood! I agree it's hard to talk to my fam or friends (or DH) about what I've gone through, they try to be understanding but...seems only the ladies here really get it.
I had a few lumps over the years that I had checked out and they were always nothing until last year. I had the dreaded fear a number of times, so when my mamos and ultrasound were B9 they said I could wait 6 months and re-check. This is where my DH freaked and insisted I get it biopsied right away. He had a feeling is was cancer and I was going to wait so I owe him a debt of gratitude that I had surgery sooner than later. LOl at your doc with his tongue hanging out, yes proly he was concentrating, but what a mental picture! There is that word again, "sorry" no comprende chica baby...it is so important to keep reflecting and to keep telling about it, that is part of healing, and I want to hear your story in every detail. So when his tongue was out did he drool too?
AStorm - Thanks for the reminder, I did feel you wonderful friends with me as I dwove 8 howas across the planet. It is so nice to be here and the air does feel special. What a cool expression your mom had that you need to keep your toe on the edge of the world so you can breathe. I love the pic too. And love the Zac Brown song, thank you for that! Great lyrics! Oh yikes that you moved in you're your inlaws after your first wedding...then between both sets of parents...yikes again. That is neet your DD moved into dorms, I think it's good to get away from the parental units for a while before getting married. LOL at leaving men to puzzle over stuff with their tools...yes indeedie! I sure hope you have a good time in the city and pleeze stop by for a dwink here when you can.
Claire - The weather was beautiful all the way across today, just had a super nice dwive. And I also wanted to say your new pic looks great, so glad your hair is coming back so nicely. I had put on a few pounds then took it back off with my water, chardonnay and popcorn diet, and don't forget the jalapenos - tee hee! Glad your ankle is healing up and LOL about cycling with a drain...when I had one I was always wondering who else in the crowd had one or more tucked under their sweaters...hadn't thought of the cyclers with those tight clothes on though! Oh yuck, 5 weeks, I though I had max pain at 4 weeks...really the chits for sure.
NM - that is a good saying about when you hear hoofbeats think horses not zebras...I'm sorry to read that you have an underlying worry about what tests you might have gotten. I will say I got a bundle of tests and still feel uncertain. I've been reading a book called Dancing in Limbo that has been kind of helpful. I'm so glad you have a health coach. I'm sorry it can take so many pokes to get an IV too, I'm sure you remember me biotching about that for my 12 IV chemos that was such a fooo king hassle to get the IV's, took so long. I just love your Never trust anyone who doesn't like dogs pic, that is so true.
Goldie - Yes, DH helped me get packed. Don't know how long I'll be gone. I had a really nice dwive and listened to Hank Williams most of the way which is like comfort food for me. Here is one of today's favorites:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DFBcP8VSb18
I have a lot of seagulls for support...and a nice bottle of merlot and I am so grateful for the support of you and all here at the HTL!!! Much needed!
Stanzie - On the acronyms I think you should be flattered for sure. I have to admit I don't know what FN is either so wahine....cud you splain? (Oh, good just found the answer, thanks wahine, it means just what I thought!) Oh I'm so sorry about your son now also mild Tourettes, that just sounds so difficult. Thanks so much for your kind words too and of course we are all here with you too!
Oh boy and it's Fwied-day and wahine's got omewets and beignets ordered for us!!! SoundeZ yum! And fweee dwinks!!! Wahine I sure hope you have a safe trip tomorrow and check in often as it's always so great to hear from you!
Well I'm gunna wander off to bedy now so I will see yas in the AM. Hope everyone has sweet dweems!
Love and hugs, Beanie
P.S. And that's all she wrote.
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Oh how nice to wake up to a nice post from da Beans!!! Sounds like such a wunnerful drive you had, and glad you got there OK. I love your "fooo king"....good way to say it! Yup filling up on omelets and mimosas now, getting ready to go to the airport. When the alarm went off I tried my darnest to shut the "fooo king" thing off. Couldn't figure out what it was....did not remember we had to get up early....THANK GOD for the 9 min sleep button I had accidentally pushed instead of the "off" button!!! Would hate to miss the flights!
Have a nice Fried-dey all you lovely ladies! I will check in after we arrive....be good to Pants and Jocks, I know they are missing Junie too. Hoping you all will be teeny tiny and be in my purse during the memorial for Junie....at least I know you all will be there for her, in spirit, and in thoughts.
On the Wings of a Dove....
kathy
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Beanie- So happy you arrived safe and sound. Sounds like the break will be good for both of you, but I think you are the smarter one. You know the old saying, Location, location, location. I'd take the beach every time! I don't think any of us will ever be the same and we have to get used to it along with the people in our lives. The real you I don't believe has changed though, just lost more innocense and depending on each of our situations have a little grey cloud now following us - some of us may have a bigger one than others. Me? sometimes I feel like Pig Pen just walking about surrounded in the big black cloud but the wind will blow and we will start to gather our strenght back. I know your DH loves and adores you! I mean how could he NOT?
Interesting how he thought this time was different and to go ahead with the biopsy. I found my first lump which was quite large by the time I went to the doctor when I was 22. By the time I went you could see it through the skin. Then was going to the surgeon about every month for aspirations, by 31 another big scare of a lump and 2nd surgery. After that in hindsight was going through perimenapause so things calmed down a bit then HRT and it was just found on a mammogram but again in hindsight, it was the first time since I was 22 (as they had me with Mammograms after the first one) that I delayed getting a mammogram - wondering if I was putting off knowing what I subconciously knew?
Oh Beanie thank you for not knowing what FN was either. So now I'm doubting myself pe'od ( Ok can't even spell it ) but it means annoyed, correct?
DorKie - you got Some people! Glad you are on our side! LOL!!! Um you and that dentist - oh wait now surly it wasn't the dentist who was feeling your breasts with his tougue hanging out... hmm you do have some interesting doctors or is it the patient? Hope your boss gets back with you to clear up about your sales! not right... sounds like your people may be busy.
I think we all have what iffs on getting our diagnosis but sounds like your Doc really did feel something and thank goodness he did push you on this! Sometimes these Dr's in white coats really are the good guys. Of course my nose Doc can be removed from medicine anytime now as far as I'm concerned.
Reading not working? Well sounds like you need to get back into it with the right book. So what kinds of books do you like and maybe we can come up with some suggestions. I need my book escape time. Problem is if it is too good then I'll stay up too late finishing it. Not good when you have to get up early! DorKie- please be careful driving on those strong meds! Gosh if I took a percoset or Vicodin I'd barely be able to get out of bed.
NM- Thinking of you today and we all will be listening for the humming! Hope your health coach can help with everything.
AStorm - hadn't heard that expression about toes on the edge to breathe but I'm sure you can relate to the one I heard after my Mom died was that when you lose your Mom you loose your footing on earth so makes sense to me - both of the expressions.
Kathy- ummmm you meant to have rats in your bedroom? Well...... that settles it. You will be FINE in the guest house, rats seem to love it. OK, so they come in the garage and travel up the walls into the attic they do NOT get into the guest house. If I ever get some money that poor little garage apt needs a redo - know exactly what I want just do not have the cash and with the economy these days - well.... I'll just keep the critters out of living spaces! I put out poison once up in the attic but still worried if it got sick and my cat attacked it then she might get hurt. They are gone in warm weather - probably as they'd cook up there in the heat. But as soon as it gets cooler - I have put out traps in the past and my SO would remove and set them. I know I can't possibly do that - I can't even bring myself to touch an unset trap. I'm such a wimp!
Claire- I always read your dinner posts early in the am and as I'm so NOT a morning or breakfast person sometimes sounds odd to read but the Beignet's! I'll have some of those Please!!! Yum! Just know you will find a good fit for a job.
Ok - Today between 10-12 - Washing Machine Time! Hooray! I hope..... Off to try walking.... got to lose weight. Hate dieting, hate exercising... but my friend down the street is a great inspiration- we have been walking then swimming and she has huge buckets of stamina so I'm trying to keep up..... channeling Claire as I go.....
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Claire, so good you found another possibility! I'm sure you will land the perfect job soon.
WAhine-good you are getting to meet Donna, too bad about the brewery tour. And I got lucky today, only 1 stick to get the blood tests this am!
DorK-surprise packages are such fun! Glad you got one in at a time it was especially helpful. Didn't hum a tune, but I focused on a poster on the side wall and recited (mentally) all the verses of Jabberwocky. It did help. I just couldn't think of a tune to hum after I sat down. Next time I'v got to pick one out before I go in the office! And you are not alone in wondering how long the beast was there before getting found. I started yearly mammos in my 30's after a lump turned out to be atypical hyperplasia. Skipped a couple years because with new insurance I had to go to a different place and it was very cold (thermally and emotionally-while they are looking to see if they need more films they give you the preprinted report to fill in your name address), found the lump and the mammo ordered to evaluate it started the whole he!!ish journey. My PCP was too busy to give the mammo results for 4 weeks. I only got it when I went in for a physical and refused to let anyone do anything (no height, weight, blood pressure, nothing). Then another month to get in to see the BS. How much damage did all that waiting do? So, my dear, let us both totter into the chapel and cry on each other's shoulders and say a few prayers and drink some dwinkies!
Wahine-Sorry to hear that Donna is sick, hope it's not something serious. I will be one of the very small people in your pocket at the memorial.
DorK-thanks for the update on Beanie. Glad she arrived safely, and I'm sure the internet will get going for her shortly.
Claire-what is ? I know eggs benedict, but what is the other part? Sounds intriguing.
Wahine-safe travels!
Beanie-I'll join you at the buffet for the beignets-had some in New Orleans and they were DELISH! I love listening to and watching the gulls, and listening to the wave lap the shore. Sigh, wish I could be there with you!
Stanzie-sorry to hear your DS has yet another diagnosis to deal with. It just is NOT fair! I understand about the washing machine excitement, when I bought my house I was more excited about the washing machine than anything else!
DOTD:The Washing Machine
1/2 oz Blackberry Brandy
1 oz Bourbon
1/2 oz Gin
4 oz LemonadeDirections
Pour into an ice-filled highball glass
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Stanzie, I'm so sorry to hear about your little one and I can understand your frustration. I'm sure it is more your heart hurting than anything else. I guess the thing to be thankful for, is the fact that it isn't any worse. I have a nephew with Tourettes, he jerks his head and has a twitch in his eyes. Does he go to the same school as your other children? When I worked with special needs kids, they were severely impaired, but we were in a regular school with "kids at risk", and we would have the "normal" kids come in to help with our kids. It gave the "normal" kids a feeling of self worth and they would actually interact with them (my students) outside of the classroom and actually watch out for them. LOL @ your washing machine dance! And glad that RW ‘splained FN to you. Love your "Pig Pen" look on things, but we need to keep that wind a blowin! As for traps, I hate touching those as well. I now use several that are operated by batteries and they ZAP the unwanted critters. You just dump them out and re-set it. Called a Rat Zapper.
Kathy, sorry you missed out on the brewery tour, but I'm sure you will find things to do. Maybe Donna can make some suggestions? Yes it is sad, the reason you and Donna are meeting and I'm sure the two of you would be ecstatic to NOT meet under such circumstances. I am getting my hair done when I go to MI. Can't wait, as it needs it SOOOOO bad! Oh POOP, just saw that Donna will not be able to make it. Kathy, I have not made my donation yet either, because I wasn't sure where to make it. I know it doesn't really matter to Junie and will try to make that a goal next week. Certainly we will all be with you and bringing foil too.
Sweet Donna, please feel better soon. What a bummer, especially in the summer.
DorK, so sweet of you to make sure Mitch knows all of our accy's! Mitch, all you have to do is ask. I too had a friend in elementary school, he wasn't mentally challenged, he was blind. But because of how his eyes looked, the other kids shunned him. I took my kids to work with me A LOT, so they are very passionate towards those that are different. I would also take care of some of my students at my home on weekends, so their parents could take a short vacation or just give them a break. Yes, it was me with the humming friend, and she was NOT quiet about it. Our chemo room was huge, I bet 50 - 75 chairs, and she was heard through out! Love your shivagit! Did Beans send that to you??? Of course you can rant whenever you want, but I agree you need to take your mind somewhere else when thinking of the "what if's". Do you think the vicodin is making you loopy enough to keep you from concentrating? I know my DH hates the stuff, cuz of how it makes him feel and says it takes a day or so before he feels normal, after stopping it. The shiot makes me sick, so I can't take it. But do know you need something for the pain. DH told doc yesterday that he got morphine at the hospital, and doc says, "you want some, I can give you some" So, we got some, pill form of course, but DH was tickled to death! And I'd be honored to give kick you in the arse, but would NEVER tell you to quit rambling. Thanks for sending your people out to check on da Beans, you are da best! And I would love to join you for Frieday Friedegg!
Oh yay, da Beans is back. Beanie girl, you have every right to feel the way you do, and I am glad to hear your DH is somewhat understanding and that the two of you at least recognize that and can work together on it. Hopefully you's will be able to do that together soon and not apart. LMAO at you wanting to hear every detail of DorK's doctor story.....too funny, but that was a good story DorK!
I must get going, I have been too long here and still have to shower and get ready to head to town and DH is already ready! But I will post real fast, a picture for Mitch. I think this is the fountain she used in her avatar a while back.
Kathy, safe travels!
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Good morning goils and happy Friedey!
Beanie, so nice to see you got your internet back? Wuz the Beanie pushing the wrong buttons again? tehee! I loved reading your post this morning. I love coming to da HTL first ting in da morning. So glad I know people and was able to get with you last night, I slept betta knowing you wuz doing a-ok. Glad you have your sea gulls for support. I had to lmao at that one, you so funny Beanie, God, what is not to love about you girl friend?
Stanzie, I had a dream I met you. I was going somewhere, no idea where but it occured to me in my dream that your house was very close so I tracked you down and knocked on your door. I did not get to meet your kids in my dream but I saw you! You were very pretty and very elegant. I remember seeing your face and you also had glitter in your hair. But it was not tacky, it was becoming on you. Isn't that the oddest thing? I guess I was praying and fell asleep thinking of you. I have very wild and vivid dreams these days as I get such great sleep. I wish I could give my ability to anyone who struggles. I hope that the Lowe's people show up on time. I remember them being right on time with my washer delivery. Playing the "waiting game" after the time frame is up is fer da birds.
I can barely remember the books I liked, one of my favorite authors is John Grisham. I have read all of his books. There was another lady author who wrote murder mysteries that I just loved. And yet another lady author who wrote mostly love stories but I learned a lot about WWII in reading her...it will come to me, I am having a mind fart right now in trying to think of her name. Geez, I read all her books and just can't think as it has been over ten years. My current job is what caused my inability to relax enough to get into a good book. I would love to read again. I read so many books over the years going back to being in summer book clubs while in grade school. My favorite book series growing up was the Betsy books by Beverly Cleary. Ramona the Pest was my fav. I will keep thinking about my fav authors and names of book, coming up blank, darn fried brain of mine.
And no worries about me driving while high on dwugs. I filled my tank over the weekend for the first time since before my surgery. I have not gone far. The longest trip was to see my friend who is 20 minutes away but I only had pain pills in the AM that day. I am careful with that, thanks for thinking of my safety, you gals are all deee bestest breastest fwends a goil could hope for.
Gail, how is your DD making out? I hope she is having a good time away at school. It is such a great experience. I never got to dorm at school as I always commuted as my family could not afford to send me away (although I would bet they wished they could hahaha). Really though it is good for the kids to get out on their own and see what it is like living without parents. It teaches them responsibility and gives them the chance to open their wings and be themselves. I think my DD has become so much more confident in the past year and hope that your daughter does well. Is your younger DD alright and not missing her big sis too much?? I hope so.
Lori, is it "town day" for you and your DH? Glad he is doing alright. I am glad that you have true friends but sorry they are not closer and that you have to go all the way to MI to see them. My bff is a dear friend and I do understand her not wanting to talk about my BC. I look back and think of how I felt when hearing that others had any type of cancer and always felt so bad and scared for them. I never would have thought that I would be one of them. It seems like many of you gals sort of knew you were doomed but I thought I was too high and might to get hit. That'll teach me huh? I really do not fear reoccurance too much and I guess that is because my sister made it so long and our stats are very very close. She is the one that suggested I do the double mx vs the BC side only. she went through it twice. Although she considers herself 17 years cancer free, she had the other boobie lopped when the doc found pre cancer cells but she said "off with it" to be on the safe side. I have told you before but my sister is my role model when it comes to being brave. I did just what she did and took it like a man. Oh, did I say that, oops, a man could never handle the beast. Hmmm, what was I thinking??? ahh, men, who needs them?
NM, I am waiting for the hummmmm. I hope and pray that the first prick does the trick. It took me awhile to master that skill. I started doing it as a kid. I had terrible dental check ups and always came out needing at least four fillings, sometimes up to seven. And I think my child hood dentist shorted me novacaine as often it hurt like a SOB (Stanzie, you need help on that one>?). I still have grand fear of that pain when I am being drilled and just hum away over the sound. It helps me so much. I still have my fists clenched out of fear of the pain but my current dentist is good.
And no, he is not the one feeling me up lol. I dated him over 15 years ago but never got to second base! Not sure who asked if my doctor that found the lump was salivating but the answer is no. I still feel bad about thinking he was being a pervert. I love him so much and feel that if not for him, the rat bastard would be invading my body today. He is a little Indian guy with really thick glasses. He is very well known and does not take new patients. I used to see the NP at my doctors office but once I started having big issues with my blood pressure, he took me under his wing and got that straightened up. He always gives me a big hug and is very supportive. He has called out of the blue after surgeries just to see how I am doing. Sometimes I think he wants me to be Mrs. Patel but after talking to a male neighbor, he gets the same loving treatment so I best get off my high horse in thinking he is hot for me lmao!! JK about the Mrs. Patel part but have joked in the past.
Ok, someone kick me to the chapel......
Two more tings b4 I go, first, I was actually up again earlier enough to see my morning glories. I went to take a photo and my camera needs batteries. The udder ting is that I was delighted to get to the pharmacy last night and hearing "Dorothy, there is no charge"!! Yippee, free health care for the year, I met my 10k and the rest if free!! Yippie, I will drink to that....
Kathy, I hope you have an easy flight, sorry not likker in de plane. I used to pack my own airplane bottles. I was once questioned about carrying them on and told the attendant that they were souveniers and got away with it. I won't pay 10.00 for a drink if I can bmob!!!
Oops, that was three more tings, forgives me, I am dwinkin for three (NM and RW)
See you wonderful girls later. I need to figure out now how to get widdle and fit in RW's bag for tomorrow. Such a touching thought of being there, wish I could, I really do.....
Hugz to all......
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Did you all hear me screaming?
Ugh. So I called yesterday afternoon and they said the delivery people would call that evening. No call. I called in the am and they said between 10-12. Great. So they arrived - very nice. Installed the washing machine and did a trial run. Noticed some marks on the front - not bad but .... so the guy was cleaning them off. Well I noticed there was a dent from the inside out so that made me a bit nervous as hmmm does that mean something might have hit it or broken.... So didn't really want the hassel of another machine as it seemed to run fine. So. he writes on the two pieces of paper I have to sign for receipt of delivery the information about the marks and the dent. Well as we were going downstairs I notice pain chips on the steps. Well when they other guy was removing the old washer he must have hit the wall. Not bad... Anyway I was distracted. They left and I realized I didn't have a copy of the receipt. No big deal so I call to ask if they can fax or send me a copy. They say No. I said Excuse me? She said no. I said you're kidding? She says the paper is property of Lowes and she can not make a copy she would lose her job. So I said there was a dent and I want a copy with the information to keep for my records if something goes wrong. She saids Did you here me, that is not out policy. I was stunned. Not sure what else was said but I was incredulous so I'm sure my voice got louder and I hate that but it does. So at one point she says stop yelling at me - Now there is no way I was yelling but I was like Really? Why do people do that? If a female voice gets louder then it is yelling! Grrrr... Anyway, so I said well then I guess I need to return this and get a new washer delivered if you can't copy a single piece of paper. She said OK! Really??? They would rather take back a machine pay for another delivery rather than send or fax one little piece of paper? Is that nuts or what? So she says she will call me back. I'm assuming she will talk to someone and say she can send the paper. Nope she called and I will have ANOTHER Washing machine delivered tomorrow..... Do Not Get This! So anyway shouldn't I have a copy of receipt for delivery? Why would that not be normal? Am I missing something here. Oh yes I did ask to speak to a her supervisor - Guess what she is the Supervisor! So off to at least start washing clothes in case I don't like it I can refuse delivery and get something else..... Just crazy.... no wonder the world is so screwed up. Oh I do remember saying I understood it might be against policy but what about a bit of common sense...... is that gone as well?
DorK - yep got SOB! One! My sister travels with Scotch all the time. I'm guessing now she can't keep it in her carry on but she used to . She had this tall cylinder container that held three plastic bottles that fit together to make the cylinder and she traveled everywhere with it. Was one of the mystery writters Elizabeth George? I love her books. Ok, better run for laundry...
NM - Congrats on only one Stick!!!
Lori- Thanks for posting the picture. One day when we all meet maybe you can show me your computer tricks! Thanks!! Good luck on the hair cut!
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Stanzie - So sorry about your son. Life just keeps rolling along with all its bumps and bruises... Yay for the new machine. A washer is just one of those things that we don't want to be conscious of. I did a ton of research when I got a new one a couple of years ago and it is great but when someone asked me recently what it is I couldn't remember. Maytag maybe? I had a set of Maytags that lasted 20 years and ever since I got rid of them I have been replacing one or both machines on a fairly regular basis... which means I way more conscious of them than I want to be.
NM - love those eggs! That is something DD2 (the artist who has gone vegan) might do to my eggs. She made a sad face on the meat drawer in the million dollar refrigerator. Fortunately she used a marker that came off.
Lori - what a beautiful fountain! I like the snow in the background.
Beanie - Glad you got back on the Internet -- maybe you were in cat mode and typing with your butt? I do that sometimes which is why I always have to edit my posts. DD2 is having a hard time with communications in her dorm room... they have wireless but too slow to skype and her cell doesn't work because the dorm is 15 stories and she is on 4.
Hey DorK! Books, books... that reminds me I am hosting book club next week and haven't finished the 500 pager we will discuss. Been so focused on DD and now DH... we spent the entire day with her yesterday. We were on campus for events most of the day but by 4:00 she wanted to go into the city. She really did need a new coat as it is freezing cold on campus - the only sun in SF is on hilltops and the campus is in a low lying area where you can see the fog drifting by like a huge ghost. So we went to Union Square where there is a huge Macy's and she got a warm coat which is so cute on her. She wanted another jacket that she really doesn't need and asked if I would pay half but her dad bought it for her which is totally out of character for him. Her roommate is crazy. She got really drunk the first night and when we went up to the room so DD could change her shoes there were 3 boys in the bedroom (they have a living room and kitchen where they can entertain guests). After they left she assured us that they were all gay. Well I knew that but they smelled bad and it felt like an invasion of privacy to DD. Her comment was, "oh great, teenage boys who don't get that you need to shower every day and mom is not around to remind them."
Encouraged her to talk to her roomie about keeping the bedroom a more private space... now that they are trying to live like grownups it isn't like being at home where you drag your friends into your bedroom cuz that's your only space. When I went up to help her with her bags last night there was another group of gay boys in the kitchen showing her roommate how to make Ramen. DD says that the campus is 60% female and 40% gay boy, which she loves cuz she'd rather have gay friends with good taste than boyfriends. When I talked to her this morning she said they told her that her mom is pretty after I left. She took that as a compliment but I asked her how they feel about Liza Minnelli and Cher... she didn't get it.
Well breakfast was a pot of French Press coffe (love room service!) so I should probably get ready and go explore the city with DH. Our DD wants to get together later but we are trying to get her to stay on campus and bond with the other residents.
Happy trails, Kathy!
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Stanzie - I got loud yesterday too. I deposited 2 checks from my business account to myself into the ATM and then realized I forgot to endorse them. Even though I was really busy trying to get back to SF, I went inside the credit union and talked to a teller. She said they would call me if there is a problem but unfortunately my personal account is at another credit union. So I called the other bank and explained what happened and they said I would be hit with a $40 fee for each check and that the bank where my personal account is would probably charge me to because they will reject the deposits. Great, so... over $100 for a simple mistake? And the guy was so rude! He said, "well you did make a mistake." I told him I am a grownup with an advanced degree and he doesn't need to lecture me. Obviously I know I made a mistake and I am trying to fix it... Well you can't. DH was so mad. He said we have a sizable portfolio with this institution and wants me to remind them of that. We lost our favorite investment advisor this year and he is not thrilled with the new one anyway and is willing to go elsewhere if they are going to start acting like a fee-greedy bank. So I guess I'll have to put on my smile and channel my sweet southern mum, get on the phone and explain all of this to a manager when the fees hit...
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Oh I burst out laughing at the Cher and Liza comment! Hilarious!!!
Oh Astorm I hate doing that!!!! Now you would think one of them could have been nice and helped you. Hey wait! Don't they have to stamp something on the back? So they didn't notice they were not endorsed? Hmmm that doesn't seem right. And it is to yourself so ??? I think I'd talk to a bank manager about that if you really get hit by charges and tell them about the rude man. That isn't right at all. Anyway, it is deposits..... But really it is their job to check signatures so......??? My Mom fell for this terrible scheme one time and lost a tremendous amount of money however when tax time came, by chance she was telling him all about it and he asked to see the cancelled checks( back when you got them back) and he noticed it was made out incorrectly something like she used a / instead of an & so ended up suing the bank and got her money bank as they were never supposed to have cashed it as it wasn't made out correctly. so maybe there is at least a way to avoid the extra charges.
So ... still not washing...... OK, totally forgot that high efficiency washers need different detergent! ARG!!!! I had recently bought a huge amount of detergent and Oxy clean at Sam's club - so you know huge bottles.... So I go to the store, traffic is dreadful and buy detergent... get home and guess what. You can only use liquid... grrr so back to the store. Now I'm trying to read the crazy book on this thing!!!! I liked the ones that were on/ off.
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NM, good for you being able to distract yourself while getting your blood drawn. I had to look up the poem you recited as I had never heard of that. Wow, very impressive that you can do that. It is the same concept as humming and seems to have worked, yay! GO GIRL, one poke and done? Seems God heard our prayers, congrats. And thank you for the great morning post, funny cartoons. Question for you, I lost my little cap to my drain, it must have popped off when I emptied it. I now have a half of a q-tip swab in there and it seems to be keeping the air out. Do you think that is alright until Monday when I see the doc? And I think I am losing hope of losing that thing on Monday, drainage went up today, so far 50ml. Ugh.
Stanze, I cannot believe what a stunt Lowe's pulled on you. Darn, we need to carry you out from under that dern dark cloud. And learning to use a washer, what? I would be stressed to. No powder? I love my Tide powder and would miss it if I could not use it. I think you should go up the ladder and let someone up high know how you were mistreated. If it is the store's policy, you need a reasonable explanation as it makes zero sense. When I argue in situations like this, I ask WHY and if they give me a good reason I will back off but WTF (do you know that one)?? You are too cute in your pureness, that is another reason to love ya. I hope tomorrow is a better day. Have a drink and try to relax.
And Gail, also in disbelief that you were mistreated. And a Credit Union? I work closely with many financial institutions at my job and find working with credit unions so easy as compared to working with the big banks. I am so surprised that they will pull this on you. That is so ridiculous especially considering you have a portfolio with them. I am pretty sure that you will be able to get those hideous charges reversed even if you have to threaten to pull everything out of there. I am happy that your DD is adjusting. And i was initially very surprised to hear the ratio of girls vs gay men, all gay? Wow! I agree with your DD that gay guys are typically very nice friends to have. And I guess you know that your DD can request a roomie change, I mean drunk the first week, that is not a good sign. Maybe she can just piss off her roomie to the point where the room mate requests a change. My DD had a room change, she and her first room mate did not get along, it was a tough time for us. I hope for the best for ya.
Where is da Beanie, dwinking with the sea gulls? Hmm, I bet she has names for them and is sharing a glass of wine. Beans, I hope you brought more than one bottle! Oh, I guess where you are, you are close to a likker store? If not, just stop here and we's can getcha dwunk. I hope you had a nice relaxing day although I suspect you worked on the place. Don't do too much if you are hurting. I wish you well and was glad to see you got back online!
Kathy, I hope you made it in alright. I will so be with you in spirit at noon tomorrow. Is it central time or eastern time? Oh, I can look it up if I do not hear back from you but I will make it a point to join you from the HTL. I imagine the service will be quite touching and there will be lots of tears.
We are having another ban of wicked storms. We do not usually get such severe storms here but this month has been quite stormy.
Just watched the news, depressing as usual. Well it is time for me to drink, who's in??
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Hiya DorK....I am here dwinking wid ya! Got to Kansas City (Kansas City here I come....Dh has been singing that.....lol) ok....both flights were so full, but smooth, so no complaints. Our room is so beautiful at the Marriott! They had wicked storms here yesterday/last night, and even this hotel had no power last night. Today is beautiful blue skies...hope tomorrow is nice, as earlier rain was predicted. Hadn't heard from Bob...when we first told him we were flying in he mentioned maybe all the family would be getting together tonight and we could be with them. BUT, this is such a sad time, I am not going to bother them. I will just see them tomorrow. Having happy hour...I do pack bourbon and cokes in checked bag so I can have one b4 having to pick up cokes. DH is having a nap. DorK, gone are the days that you can take small btls of booze onboard!
Oh dear there was so much to read, and now I can't remember all that I wanted to comment on. Stanzie, that is TERRIBLE about how Lowe's treated you. Heck, if they want to send out a new washer, at no add'l charge, that sounds like a win-win for you. AND how about YOU making a copy of the delivery invoice that you sign, before they leave with it? They should know better than to mess with one of the loungettes.....we are ALL behind you, girl!
Gail, How flattering that the guys said how pretty you are! That is so nice to hear, isn't it? When my youngest DD was moving into her first apt, some of her friends mentioned they thought I looked good and would want to date me....I was about 45 then and looked sooooo much better then, plus I was thin, and now am 50 lbs heavier! *sigh*....enjoy the compliments as they come! I loved the comment about Liza and Cher.....tooo funny!!! When my DH has to get what he calls a "finger wave" he tells the dr he should have Johnny Mathis playing first! That SUCKS big time about the credit union....darn, and you even went in to tell them of your mistake. There are other places that would love to have your money and treat you right! Funny about channeling your southern mom, to confront them again, in a nice, southern lady way.
Lori, Hope you are having a good town day! Beans, are you enjoying your solitude at the coast? Karen.....WTH are you, girl? You've been MIA too long...not allowed here! Please let us know you are ok, and if you are down, let us help you back up, okay? NM, glad it was a "one-stick" event...yay!!!!
Well, gonna take my drink out on the lanai (oops, balcony!), and enjoy the view...up in the trees and can see the pool over to the side. We are going to try the famous Kansas City BBQ tonight...thats what the desk clerk said was something we had to try.
ChEARS!!! Raising my glass to our dear Junie, and missing her, and now am in her hometown....
Hugssssssssss,
Kathy
DorK, forgot to tell you, it is 12 noon CST tomorrow, so 1pm where you are!
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Kathy, yippee. Pau Hanna on your Lanai tonight, sweeeeeet. Let's all have one for Junie on her Memorial Eve! I checked the time zone in Kansas City and you are one hour behind me. So at 1:00pm tomorree, I will shrink and hop in your handbag and join you. Weally dough, I will be praying with you all from the HTL chapel. I sure hope de odder loungettes can join me but if you can't, dat is ohtay. Super CheerZ to Junie and prayers to her family including us dwinkin sisters, CHEErz! Miss you, my dear breasest fwend and bestest June Bug in da World....
RIP DEAR JUNE BUG....we are all missing you so much!! I feel your LOVE and it is beautiful, thank you for coming into my life. Although a short friendship, it shall be an everlasting friendship. Miss you and will never forget you. See you tomorrow, in my mind <<<<<< Junie>>>>>>
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Ok...... so....... I finally got the washing machine going.... well it is OK, but the clothes sort of smell funny.... but the worst part is this one I guess in an attemp to be "stylish" has the lid that comes down over the edge of the washer. I have cabinets over the washer so I can't actually open the lid without it falling on my head as in it won't open far enough to stay open..... And they are coming with the second one early tomorrow morning - Ugh!!!!
My ex called about my son. I decided to write him an email first about the Tourette's so he could digest it all first. Well he called and could tell he had been drinking some. I did feel bad for him as he has such a hard time with his child not only not being typical/normal but not being perfect so this is really hard on him. I let him talk ( not that he talks much) and it was interesting because if we had been given this when he was younger it might have put me over the edge but now at 14 well, my thoughts were it finally explained a lot and that he is still who he is and that won't change so I wasn't freaked out about now part of me wonders should I be??? Anyway, we did decide to get a second opinion so that will be good. Of course he pays for basically nothing so no worries for him... but that is a whole other long awful story....
kathy- now remember I did meet you. You are gorgeous!!! I mean really and no way on earth do you begin to look anywhere your age. Oh Kathy I know this will be a very sad and difficult weekend but I do think Funerals/Memorial services all really do help and hearing stories and knowing how much a person has touched other people's lives helps a lot. So hang in there....
DorK- very sweet to Kathy.... as for the drains - is the q-tip keeping the suction going? Hmmm trying to think what else might work what about the cap to a pen or ...... ugh will keep thinking. I know you need that suction to keep the drains working and pulling out all the stuff..... just make sure it is a tight fit. Mine were attached with a plasic tab .... will keep thinking... Wow, can't imagine why you are draining so much.... so sorry I know you want that thing gone! Well one thing my PS said was not to do too much while all was healing - he used some example of not spreading your arms wider than it would take to read a newspaper as when the muscle is trying to attach and such moving too much makes it not adhear so it takes longer....
Kathy- trying to teach myself cross word puzzles and tonight one answer was Wahine! So thanks for that one!
Kids hurt my feelings tonight we were looking for a movie to watch together and they found one that looked pretty cute but it was rated a bit over than what they usually watch but looked it up and didn't have anything that bad in it but then they started saying it was too Awkward to see more grown up movies with their Mom! I was so looking forward to spending some time with the kids and watching a funny movie. So I left and have been up in my room by myself while they are watching the movie... Is this really how it goes with teenagers? Makes me cry.... and after such a wretched day.
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Wahine - well I had the opposite problem...went to bed real late and woke up at the usual time, so I have been a little out of it today, but still got some stuff done. I really hate alarm clocks but sometimes need them for sure. Glad you got to Kansas safely, funny that Dorothy isn't there (get it?) And glad you have a beautiful room, just sorry about the occasion. I am also shrinking and getting very small to be with you in your handbag and will be praying non-stop at the HTL chapel.
Stanzie - That is so neat you would take the ocean over the mountains. I love them both. Across the street there is a sea gull family that lives on the neighbor's roof, they have an adolescent they are raising, it is so fun to watch them and the baby is always begging for food. I relate to the big black cloud. It is worse some times than others, today really like a fog in my brain. I had a great talk with my DH and he says we both have been off lately, so he is seeing the big picture. He is coming over this week as we both miss each other already. Thanks for all the nice words, so appreciated. So you found a lump at age 22, that is so young. As I remember the first time I was really worried was around age 32 when I found a lump and had an ultrasound that was B9. Have had several lumps since then, all B9 until last year and I know that lump felt different than the others, it was harder, my surgeon said like a horn. Anyway, that was the first surgery and the surgeon really thought it was nothing so she was so surprised when the lab results came back. Your saying really touched me that when you lose your mom you loose your footing on earth. That has sure been the case for me. That must be so hard for your ex to grasp the needs of your DS, and that is probably a good idea to get another opinion. Sounds so difficult. I'm so sorry that your kids hurt your feelings tonight...I just think the teenage years must be so hard to cope with. I am sending big hugs your way!!
BTW - What a awful experience with the washer! I did hear you scream and I heard AStorm too, yikes!! Hope you get that all sorted out soon.
NM - Another great post today, thank you for the laughs and The Washing Machine DOTD, just was so tasty! And those birds are just like my seagulls and LOL at the world running out of water, so cute.
Goldie - I think DorK found the shivagit somewhere else but I love it! I haven't had vicodin for ages it makes me a bit queasy too. Yes me and my DH will get through this, just sometimes it's so hard when we both have worries. That is so nice of you to post Stanzie's fountain, it was so small before but I could tell it was beautiful, now I can really see how pwetty it is! Love the snow around too!
DorK - To tell the truth about the Internet, I had it plugged into the wrong cable, duh, so it was an easy fix. But how was I posta know which cable they would hook up? Last time it was the one I was fruitlessly trying to get a signal out of. Anyway, this spot is better. And yes, I am dwinking with the seagulls, they are so entertaining! But they really dwink way too much and then do target practice on my windows. Believe me with all these dwunken gulls I have to have a lotta extra bottles on hand. And plenty for me and my sore bod after the drive and all the unloading of my car and up and down stairs. Got some awful sore muscles now, pweese send me some vicodin -teee hee! (j/k)
AStorm - yes, I was typing with my butt again in cat mode! Did you find a warm spot in SF? I've heard that the coldest winter you will ever spend is a summer in San Francisco. I used to love going to Union Square, it's been so long now. Last time I was in SF I insisted on going to Chinatown, that's another favorite spot for me. I wish your DD good luck with roommates. Oh, that is nice they said your DD has a pretty mom, and OMG about Liza and Cher, I think that's a far far far cry from your good looks. Those pics are just awful!! BTW I wouldn't hesitate to write the BBB about your checks or Stanzie's washer at Lowes. Really bad business practices. I'm sorry that happened to you, just awful!
So where are the other goylies? Where's Karen, Kymn, Husker, Claire, Chrissy...where are you all and wassup? Who else is missing? We need to have a round-up! Who's joining me and the gulls for a Washing Machine? Well, I tink I will have a few more and then hit the hay early as I have a ton of work to get dun tomorrow.
Happy Happy Hour and Cheers Ma Dears!
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Aaarrrggghhhhh lost a long post just now. Oh that gets me FN mad. Anyway, Beans that just touched my heart that your DH is coming down there, and maybe is really seeing the lgiht. Oh, that made me so happy to hear that things might work out soooooo goood!!! Really, really, happy. Cute about the sea gull family, and you were so funny about what you wrote!!!
Stanzie, I would call Lowes (or the movers) first thing when they open and say you need to have a full refund and they can take back the damaged machine and not bring the other one out. It is not a good situation since it doesn't open fully. You could get hurt badly, and soon (maybe) your DD might start washing her own clothes, and you sure don't want that lid to fall on her head! Then just get really good measurements and start looking for one that will work out better in your space. OH and you were TOOOO kind to say those nice things about me, thank you, but you were exaggerating there. But that was sweet anyway! My girls enjoyed watching movies with me, but if their dad had not passed, maybe they would have been uneasy watching certain movies with him. And since you have both sexes, maybe having mom there too, just makes it too uncomfortable. I wouldn't take it personally! Did I tell you before (I probably did) that I used to "edit" movies that I would copy, many moons ago? Cause so many times I really liked the movie and wanted to share it with my girls, but either too explicit or too many bad words, etc. One movie I had to edit a lot out of, I think was called *Gotcha*. It was such a FUN movie, and even with all the edited parts, we all used to watch it a lot. Well, when my oldest DD was dating (and she was shy), she saw that movie and she and her date rented it to watch, cause she thought he would like it too. OMG she was soooooo embarassed, as she never knew just how much I had edited out, and how explicit it really was! LOL.
OH, and you girls were talking about good authors, etc. My mom reads a ton, and is always renting so many books at one time, that she had a small looseleaf notebook where she would keep lists (alphabetically) of her favorite authors, and the books she had read by them. It was so important to always look at that, as she had read so many and didn't want to reread. WELL, now that she is so forgetful, she doesn't need that book with her, as she can reread all these books now, since she doesn't remember much about them! One perk I guess.
I had found (online) an art and sidewalk festival tonight we so we drove into Kansas, and it was in a cute small town. There was wine tasting, OLIVE OIL tasting (tons of different types infused with different flavors, herbs, etc., live music, galleries were open, etc. Was such fun, then went to a highly recommended BBQ place,and it wasn't so good. We ordered so much we left about 1/2 lb of meat....and are stuffed! Guess I was trying not to think about tomorrow. I have been really snippy lately, so I know it is affecting me. SO NICE that you gals will be with me, and praying for Junie and her family, all at the same time. I know it will really hit me again, tomorrow. And like Stanzie said, the service really will help. I hope her family is holding up okay, too. Will let you all know how it goes.
I need a nighty-night-cap....something to put me out and sleep soundly....Hugs to you all....
Kathy
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Kathy- you edited movies..... my goodness really I think it might be easier to find out what you haven't done, well that is if there is anything.... Thinking about you and Junie's family tomorrow.
Well, it was just a recording about the delivery so the washer is coming... I have been thinking perhaps if my handiman cousin comes perhaps he can more the cabinets up higher for me. I can open it and sort of hold it sort of with the open cabinet. what a pain. I think I'm just over all this.... But thanks so much for everyone's thoughts and such... I did decide though to look closely at the washer and if it isn't perfect just not take it and then start over.. but if it is OK then I guess I'll take it....
so glad things are on the upswing Beanie.... Love those drunken gulls.....
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Oops Stanzie, I didn't mean that I did anything special....all I really did was have to watch it and note every part I wanted to cut out, and then when I copied them, just stopped it at that point, and started recording again after that part was over. Maybe when they deliver the new washer, IF nothing is wrong with it (although do I detect that you are hoping something is wrong??? lol), then maybe ask the delivery guys if they think it is really usable like that? Hoping it all goes well for you when they bring it tomorrow!!! Oh, I am so very full.....should NOT have eaten so much.
Ciao!!!
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I am a bit late to the party. The good news is that I was able to snag a standby ticket to the Opera. That is also the bad news. I had never seen Porgy and Bess, and ended up having a really bad reaction. Strong stuff, and I ended up shaking. Just couldn't handle a slide into a bad end. I left in the intermission. I felt sorry for the people next to me and apologized.
Production and singing were wonderful though.
Sent out another job application today and got in an application out for the nonprofit. My former business partner had a great interview. My turn for a bit of good luck.
I am having a glass of wine to get back on an even keel.
I have to remember to watch stuff written in the 20s and early 30s. Had the same reaction to Dreiser's An American Tragedy when I read the book back in the day. And to Malraux's work when I had to study it in Paris.
Kathy.....will be thinking of you tomorrow. So glad you are there.
Stanzie....take pictures. That really helped three years ago when my bicycle was stolen. Just makes everything easier.
Ready for some more wine, then an early evening. Cycling and a birthday party tomorrow. Will be ready for the cycling. - Claire
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Hi girls!! Just popping in for a quickie as I am up to my eyeballs with clothes!!!!! Still sorting and adjusting and writing lists and then more lists for the lists I just wrote.................I seem to be getting a little confused for some reason..............I wonder why? I am down to eight days and I'm on the plane!!!!
OMG!!! So much to catch up and comment on that I have forgotten what was on the other page.....dang!!!!
Kathy, I will be thinking of you at the Memorial for our Junie. That song truly is a tear jerker but emotes what we all want and need when facing this crap shoot.
Stanzie, bummer about the washer! But I would do what Kathy suggest and get one that you can open fully. Sorry to hear about the added Dx for your son but as you say, it's not going to change the person he is.
Beanie, awwwwwh, glad to hear that he may be coming to his senses and realising that cancer does change a person even if we don't want it to.......it's the nature of the beast...unfortunately. Glad to hear that you got to your destination safely!
NM YAY!!!! You did it girl!!!! And it only took one stick!!!! YAHOOO! Great pics with your post as usual......just love ‘em!
Gail, it's always hard when our babies leave the nest and the worry that goes along with that movement takes sometime to lessen. Enjoy the freedom of heading to empty nesting, hard to get used to to start but great when you do!!!! Hope your DD settles well and has no probs with her room mate.
Claire, love the new hair do, it suits you well. Hope you start getting some good news on the job front soon!!!
Goldie, hope you had a good trip into the city!
Dotty.....12 days and I will be there!!!! Can't wait!!!!! Hope those pesky drains slow down so you can get rid of them. Did you manage to speak to your boss about your commissions? Sounds rather fishy to me that somehow a whole heap of your loans have gone poof into thin air. Really excited here!!!!!
I think I'll head out to the hammock and grab myself one.....I could do with a little rest!!!! JoCkS! PaNtS!!!!! Now where are those boys? Are a couple of you girls dallying with the help again? Guess I'll just have to settle for one of the wenches to bring me my drink!
TITZ UP!!!!!
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NM.....HOORAY for one stick! I fasted when I went to the doctor, cuz I know they will do a blood draw. Well I told him I was a tough stick, so send in the best. So he sent in Laura, his nurse. I told her I asked for the best and she was it. She ties the turnakit, feels for a vein, takes the turnakit off and says "ya right" I'll go and get so and so, I think SHE is the best, not me. Well this other gal comes in and WALLA, 1 stick for me too!
DorK, I don't wonder how long I had the RB (rat bastard) but I was one that was left with it in there and told the lump was just an enlarged lymph node. Someday I'll tell my story, just a matter of typing it out! Nice that you have a big sister to look up to. You are cracking me up, every time you post an accy and then ask Mitch if she knows that one! I wonder about DILLIGAF?
Stanzie, at least you will get something! I was so afraid they were going to say "tough luck lady". Glad they are bringing you a new one. I'm thinking that if we were to ever meet, we wouldn't be talking computer tricks! Hair appt isn't until mid Sept! Sorry about all the detergent issues, but it did make me chuckle. Unfortunately teens will be teens, and yes they like to NOT have parents around sometimes, just a part of growing up. Give them their space, but if they want it too much, explain to them how it makes you feel, or let that be known ahead of time.
Gail, that is Stanzie's fountain, not mine. I do have one, we will put it in the Shady Lady, but nothing so elegant as Stanzie's, mine is of wisque barrels. Funny, your daughter writing in your fridge, sure glad it was washable. That was nice of your DH to get your daughter the jacket, perhaps he was making up for possibly being the one to upset her? And I'm sure she was proud to hear everyone talk about pretty her mom is! You Go Girl! Ditto on what DorK said about the roomy. Now on the bank issue.........that is ridiculous. I wouldn't be too sweet, and agree with your DH about changing institutions. Whenever we have a problem at our bank, we always get things waved, but DH goes in and talks to them, and def. threatens to move our business elsewhere.
Oh Beanzie, you had the cable plugged in to the wrong hole? Forgive me for laughing love. But totally understandable with what you are going through. But also happy to hear that everything will be ok with you and DH and he is already missing you. Enjoy your time together this weekend and the two of you START HEALING, ya hear me?
Claire, good idea to take pictures, if the second one is damaged, but I think I would refuse and like Stanzie said, start over. Have fun at your b-day party tomorrow.
Chrissy, I assumed you were just busy getting ready for your big trip. Again, I am so excited for you!
Kathy, funny story about the edited movies and then the not edited one with your DD and boyfriend. OMG, she had to be so embarrassed! Well, I bought me/us a 12 pack of Miller Lite to drink today and told DH he had to have one as well (he is not a beer drinker) and he said "I will do that". Sooooo.........at some point today, we shall sit in The Shady Lady, as Junie was always telling me how much she loved our little town, and drink our ML's and toast Junie. I am sure this will be bitter sweet Kathy, but I'm hoping that with the tears will come some smiles and laughs as well, Junie would WANT that. I am hoping you get to hear more wonderful stories of our JuneBug, as well as share some. Please TRY to ENJOY the day. My DOTD will def. be a ML!
Here's to you JUNIE.............I love you and miss you so much!
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Oh Lori, that brought tears to my eyes...so very sweet of you to buy the ML's to drink today, and that your DH will drink them, just for Junie. My DH bought another case of them last week and nearly every night would ask, shall we have some ML's for Junie? And he much prefers ShockTop, IceHouse, etc. I will definately get some today, in her memory. BEST IDEA EVER....that the DOTD today should be Miller Lite!!!! Great idea, Lori. It touches my heart that all of us will be thinking of her today. I am feeling sad to go and meet everyone, and hoping we can have smiles and laffs too,cause as you said, Junie would want that.
Chrissy, Can imagine how much you are trying to do b4 your trip! Do try to relax some the day before, as it is a LONG trip and very tiring. Can you take a sleeping pill, or melatonin, or benadryl before the longest flight, to help you sleep? And then, after you arrive, it will just be fun, fun, fun! One nice thing about traveling, is all your clothes are already picked out and you just have to put them on....not like at home and there are so many decisions. So you can have so much fun, and will see so many new things, and meet so many amazing women. Wish I could meet you too, but it just didn't work out that way. Give my best to the ladies you meet up with in Shell Knob, and please tell them that Junie and I had planned to join you all there. She lived just about 30 min away, or a bit longer....maybe you all could drive over to meet Bob and see her house? Just an idea, I'm sure he would be delighted to meet you all. Oh, and then you could meet Pancho too! If that doesn't work out, I wonder how he would feel about driving over just to meet you all? Oh well, prolly a silly idea...I just woke up and seem to ramble a lot when I start typing and am not awake. DH just brought me some coffee....not the great flavors I have at home though, but will try to get it down!
Well, the sky is very cloudy, and so far no rain in sight..But they predict a 40% chance of thuderstorms. Hope it stays clear at least till after the service. Will be thinking of you all, and SO GLAD you will be there too, just teeny tiny. I will have to bring a BIG purse...lol.
Here's to Junie, we love you so much!!!
Hugsssssss,
Kathy
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Oh Lori, your post got me all teary - very sweet! Miller Lite today it is!
So yep got the second washer..... same delivery guys! The delivery service woman apparently told the delivery guys a different story on why they were delivering another washer to my house. He had to fill out another form which I signed stating why I was getting a new one rather than the company faxing a piece of paper as he had trouble in the past with Lowes passing the cost back to the delivery guys! Well, that is wrong! They were really nice men. Anyway, one thing they said is that the drum doesn't have enough stabilization so while I still have the 30 days I should try washing something that goes off balance - you know when the washer goes wonka wonka wonka! At least I assume these news ones still do that. It is strange with no agitatior. My cousin said he can either move the cabinets up or we can get a longer drain and move the pan out a bit I think. But I'm short 5"3 even though I claim 5"4 but I have shorter arms so I actually can't reach the bottom of the washer! Will have to get a step stool to do laundry! LOL!
Lori! Yay for the one stick girls! So what is it about your veins that make it hard - can they just not find one easily?
Chrissy! Wow - that is so sooon Yay!!! If you are coming close down south or through Atlanta let me know. I know it will be a looooong flight! Hope you have some good books.
Claire - sorry Porgy and Bess was too much. I saw the movie verson long ago and have sung the music which is wonderful but it is awfully sad.
Lori- I agree I'm sure we can think up lots more to do and talk about rather than computers! Hope we will get the chance!! Seriously I've been trying to figure it out if it was when the kids were not here I could have 7 people stay in good comfort or if people were willing to share a Queen bed or a top bunk or sofa then lots more.... Will have to keep thinking on this but would be really fun to laugh and talk in person! And if it is summer time - jump in the pool and relax.
And DILLIGAF - I remember it was mentioned earlier but can't remember..... I shouldn't admit it and just look back but....
So my son is going Bowling with two girls and trying to find a guy to come with him LOL! My friend down the street and I are going to go walking and then maybe swim but will depend on when I need to drive my son over.
Happy Saturday All!!!
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