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  • MemaSue56
    MemaSue56 Posts: 2,061
    edited May 2012
  • MemaSue56
    MemaSue56 Posts: 2,061
    edited May 2012

    Yea Kay - les dwink...what's ur pleasure?  Name n e ting...da tenders will soive ya.  I'm in need of a nudder meself...Jock, Pants, Mr Bigger, Snowboy...whass takin sooo long???

  • MemaSue56
    MemaSue56 Posts: 2,061
    edited May 2012

    O tay den goils.....i hab ta woik n da ayem....shift starts at 6.  So signing off for dis ebening....hope ya'll hab a goot 1 and don't do anything I wudn't do!

    Love & Prayers Always!

  • wahine
    wahine Posts: 7,590
    edited May 2012

    Well, my dad is now at the hospital. I hope they can get it all out, and he can tolerate surgery. Of course the X-S biotch did not call to tell me. I had to find out from someone else. Sheesh. My mom had called this ayem and sounded so upbeat and happy, and esp happy because my dad said they could come back here in 2 months. Then they got "the call". Now I don't know what will happen, and I bet she is extremely worried about him. Thanks again for prayers!

    Kathy

  • Cyndielou
    Cyndielou Posts: 1,459
    edited May 2012

    Oh Kathy...I am praying for you and your family...and I know it goes a long way its worked with me before when there was little hope.....Im sure he feels comfortable with his dr's in HI...my gram is 95 and had a mastectomy years ago and has heart disease and lung cancer now..she isnt being treated for the cancer...she is the strongest and healtiest sick person I know..she will probably out live me. 

    Sue ..love your pics ..you are so very toughtful and funny.  I just love all you goils .. I gots ta work in da ay-em also so Im making this breifest apearance to check in and say hey...sorry I misse Pau Hana...I soaked the foobs while I napped after work todee..then I got all gussied up and went out to the that new bar that I was supposto hook up with an old friend at..aparently they were going to get there later than I was willing to stay...I left a 11pm...and she hadnt shown up yet..she didnt give me a spacific time..so ..hell anyway...I have a few new friends and they are the best ones to have...the owners of the bar and two of the clock bar tenders...not bad peeps to know...

    HI Kay...have a tender set you up with one of the DOTD's ..bottoms up kids...xo

  • Cyndielou
    Cyndielou Posts: 1,459
    edited May 2012

    That was off the clock not of the clock..hehe...Cool

  • dara_diverse
    dara_diverse Posts: 5,005
    edited May 2012

    Hey girls,

    Happy fried dey! I can't stay long as I have jest one eye opened. Just wanted to tell yese all dat todey went gwate. Details to follow, bet cha can't wait hehe.

    Mese dwunkiest as can be now but not complaning, hail no. 

    Kathy, prayers for your Dad. I hope they can bix him up weal fastliest@

    See all yese on sundey fundey, will twy berry hard to catch up. Until den... huggles to all. AND CHEERS!      

  • dara_diverse
    dara_diverse Posts: 5,005
    edited May 2012

    OOPS, make dat happy sundey fundey, where mese grains?

    make dat brains. Another round den to bed for wheeel dis time. hehe. Me so cwaaaaaazy! 

  • chrissyb
    chrissyb Posts: 11,437
    edited May 2012

    Awe Kathy, prayers for your dad and I sure do hope he will be a-ok and the SC can be removed with no problems.  What is it with these oldies?  They all wait way too long to get things checked out.  Anyway, (((((hugs)))))) as I know you will be peaking with worry.

    Dork hope the memorial went well.  It's always hard to say goodbye.

    Love n hugs to everyone!   Chrissy 

  • nativemainer
    nativemainer Posts: 8,104
    edited May 2012

    Morning, GOD, it's me.  Can I talk to you for a minute?  Yeah, I know, foolish question, but it just seems right to be polite.  I wanted to talk to YOU about Wahine's Dad.  He just found out he has been bitten by the rat ba$tard, too.  Some day I hope YOU will be explaining to all of us why YOU let something like the rb loose in YOUR world, but that's a discussion for another time.  Wahine is hurting, her Dad is hurting,her Mom is hurting, her whole family is hurting about this diagnosis.  Please be with all of them, please give them some of YOUR peace, please guide the minds and hands of the docs treating her Dad.  Please give all of them extra strength to help get through treatment and to recover.  Please make sure the whole family has friends to lean on (along with YOU, of course), comfort, and some happy things sprinkled in to keep everyone balanced.  LORD, please take away some of the pain they are feeling. Thank YOU, LORD. 

     

  • juliet62
    juliet62 Posts: 3,246
    edited May 2012
  • juliet62
    juliet62 Posts: 3,246
    edited May 2012

    good morning all, lovely prayer nm , thinking and praying for you and your family kathy

  • goldie0827
    goldie0827 Posts: 6,826
    edited May 2012

    Oh Kathy, I'm so sorry to hear about your dad and wish he would have seen a doctor while he was here, instead of waiting until he got home. Surely a skin cancer isn't as bad as others, is it? But gosh, to holler in pain, now that has to be bad. Please keep us updated as to how he is doing. How is your mom handling it? Sending up prayers for your dad, may they get all of the RB out of him. Oh shoot, just read about dad being in the hospital. And I can't believe your XS. Not going to say anything else, as it wouldn't be very nice. I hope you hear good news today ((((((KATHY))))))

    Cyndie, you got stood up by your friends? Or just some mis-communication? Anyways, you made new friends.....YAY foy dat. Can't ever have too many friends.

    Mema aka Proud Mary, tanks for not howding up da slide!

    Dorothy, can't wait to hear!!!!!

    NM, you are the sweetest......AMEN!

  • wahine
    wahine Posts: 7,590
    edited May 2012

    Awwwwww NM, SUCH a sweet, heartfelt prayer.....I KNEW you would do that for me as soon as you got online. That is very special, thank you from the bottom (and top, and middle) of my heart!!!! That means a lot to me. AND CynCyn, Juliet, Chrissy, Lori, Dorkie, THANK YOU too for all the prayers!

    Lori, Thanks for the hugs and the prayers too! Yeah, skin cancers can be fatal, some are B9, but some are malignant and can really grow and spread. The one on his leg a few months ago didn't look so bad on the surface, but they had to dig so much out, he has a huge dent. PRoblem with him, is they have a hard time stopping the bleeding.When that one was done, he had to return to the dr, then go to the hospital, to get the bleeding stopped. EVen the biopsies on Friday had probs with bleeding and had to be cauterized. OF COURSE, the biotch XS has not even told me anything yet, no email, no phone call. I wrote her a polite email asking her to PLEASE let us know when anything happens to our parents, and to please let us know what was done at the hospital, how he is, etc. I could be mean and call them there (I am sure they are at my parents house or apt), but I wouldn't do that and wake them up. But I sure hope to hear something soon, as I hardly slept last night.

    Dorkie, Anxious to hear how it went yesterday. I know how hard and sad it was for everyone, as he was so loved. But I wonder how the EX DH's GF reacted to you? Bet you made her look frumpy!!! Let us know, when you get a chance.

    Chrissy, Hoping for good results on your next appt!

    Peace Out, girls.....Have a good FunDey SunDey.......

    Hugsssssssss,

    Kathy

  • Cyndielou
    Cyndielou Posts: 1,459
    edited May 2012

    That was beautiful NM!  Know you are in everyones thoughts and prayers. Now I know what RB stands for..adding it to my notes.

    Lori, I dont know if you can really all it stood up per se but I missed them..I wasnt given a spacific time or ETA if you will...so I just went...had a few drinks..and left so I guess if they showed up after I left then we missed eachother..lol..otherwise if they didnt go at all then I guess that would be stood up in a sense.

    back to work...bbl .. cheers for Fundey Sundey.. ((( Kathy )))

  • wahine
    wahine Posts: 7,590
    edited May 2012

    Been going thru tons of clippings, etc., and found one that might be of interest. They did a study at the U of Manchester, England and found that dental X-rays can identify osteoporosis risk as well as traditional bone scans. Said to ask your dentist to compare this years X-rays with one from 10 yrs ago, and they can look for changes in density and the height of the bone around the teeth. HMMMMMMM......worth a try....think I'll ask mine on my next visit, and didn't know if this would be of interest to anyone, but thought it might. If someone finds this to be wrong, let me know! OF course, if looking for mets, this would not help, but if just want to check bone density for osteo, this could be a sign that you need the full bone scan.

    Still no word.........

  • chrissyb
    chrissyb Posts: 11,437
    edited May 2012

    Kathy I wish your X s would get off her heiny and give you a call so you could put your mind at ease.   (((((hugs)))))

    I know that I was osetopeinic at my last DEXA and I also know that I have lost bone around my teeth so that study just may have something.........very interesting, thanks.

    Love n hugs.  Chrissy 

  • wahine
    wahine Posts: 7,590
    edited May 2012

    Thank you, dear Chrissy! Isn't it around 1 ayem down under where ya are, in OZ??? Youse habbing a late night!!! Yeah, I have osteopenia too, but haven't asked about my teeth....sure will at next appt. Hope you sleep well tonight dear one, nighty-night!

  • goldie0827
    goldie0827 Posts: 6,826
    edited May 2012

    Just checking in Kathy, to see if there was any news. Still early in HI, 6am I think?

    Oh dear, Chrissy is up at 1 am? I don't know how you goils can get on the puter at such late hours!

    Cyndie, I couldn't imagine just heading out at 11 pm to party. Well, not anymore that is. But back in the day...............SURE! And if there is anything else you aren't sure of, or don't understand what it means, ASK GIRL. We have lots of accroyl's that we use. FURB (F U Rat Basturd). And one we all love DILLIGAF! Can ya figure that one out?

    Osteopenia here too, along with arthur and some bursitis. As for the teeth, I started bone loss there when I was 25, had peridontal disease. Had to have surgery for that. My middle brother has it too and has had surgery twice, and let me tell you, it is NOT fun. I'm sure much easier than MX, but still hurts like hell!

    Dofey, you sleeping in?

  • Cyndielou
    Cyndielou Posts: 1,459
    edited May 2012

    ok goils something to think about..next time you calla customer service number...envision "Peggy" sitting there in front of her computer screen topless with her foobs wrapped in wet hand towels...oh yea babies..thats this girl...what else am I to do in order to fit 3x a day in? 

    Lori I agree..11am is too late to go out to partay...the one friend I was hoping to see is on vacation and about 10 years younger than me so I can see it happening for her..for me no way...I was turning into a pumpkin by 10 and streatched it till 11. I got it!!!!!  DILLIGAF...Do I look like I give a F???  Did I get it? 

    Dorty muss be sleepin in..Im jealous....

    ne news Kathy?  Its what about 7 aye-em?

  • goldie0827
    goldie0827 Posts: 6,826
    edited May 2012

    DING DING DING!!!!! You are smart girl Cyn, and fit right in wif us! I had to LMAO at "Peggy", as sometimes I call Dorty, and in "Peggy's" voice, say "Hello, dis iz Paygey, iz Stella dere?" Be thankful you work from home! You should see what I look like sometimes, if people could see, they WOULD NOT be ordering from us!

    Thinking of you Kathy, hoping to hear something soon. Will keep checking in......... (((((Kathy)))))

  • juliet62
    juliet62 Posts: 3,246
    edited May 2012
  • wahine
    wahine Posts: 7,590
    edited May 2012

    Whew, false alarm, but I am a wreck. Been so worried all night and all day today, that I really feel sick. I don't know WHAT the X-S said to that other person that told me my dad went to the hospital! But apparently that is not what happened, in fact my dad took her and her bf out to dinner at the country club last night, and again out for breakfast this morning. He wrote and told me he has an appt Tuesday, so then will know more.

    SO thanks for all your prayers and concern. He is not out of the woods yet, but at least it wasn't an emerg thing. I was contacting everyone, trying to find out what happened. Is it Happy Hour yet? I really can use a drink, but maybe not, with this headache.

    Hugs and THANKS,

    Kathy

  • goldie0827
    goldie0827 Posts: 6,826
    edited May 2012

    Kathy, OMG..............WTF! You poor dear, I am so sorry you have been so worried all this time, and here they are, out to breakfast and out to lunch! Do you have something you can take to calm your nerves? I know you, and I know what you mean when you say you are litterally sick to stomach. And I hope whom ever it is you are talking to, gets their story straight next time. Still sending prayers for you and your dad. Glad he is not in the hospital. Deep breaths girlfriend!!!! I love you!

  • wahine
    wahine Posts: 7,590
    edited May 2012

    Thanks Lori. I am trying some wine....feeling a bit calmer now that some time has passed. But OMG it was horrid, and esp being so far away and not knowing anything else. And I told you all here, as soon as I knew it was ok (for now). Maybe this wine will help! And its not even 5....well it is on the East Coast.

  • dara_diverse
    dara_diverse Posts: 5,005
    edited May 2012

    Howdie loungettes!

    Oh Kathy, I am sooo sorry you have been having such a hard time. But sooo glad that your Dad is NOT in the hospital. I am guessing that you have been affected by the old "whisper down the lane" effect? Or maybe this person was "fed" inaccurate info by the biotch exsister to pass on to you as part of a conspiraticy to make you sad? Dis biotch needs a can of whooooop a$$. I am furious that you had to go through all this. I am tinking your xs needs a visit by my people who can try to "talk" her into stopping the bullchit. I am glad you are calmed down, tank God for good wine. And tanks for updating us soonliest as you heard. Sending you prayers, lottsa hugs and eben more likker. Wanna join me for Pau hana? I am getting a late start.

    Cyndie, you hit de nail on de head. I did sleep in and oh boy, talk about a much needed wonderful rest. I woke up in de aye em but went back to sleep until 4 pee em. Could not believe how late it was but I guess my body needed all dat sleep.  and lol at Peggy answering de phone.

    Lori, of course I immediately thought of you when I read Cyndie talk about Peggy and had to chuckle. You do a great impression of Peggy, dat fer sure. and we do have a smart one in Cyndie, she figured out DILLIGAF!! Yippee, let's dwink to dilligaf! 

    NM, that was a sweet prayer for our Kathy, how sweet of you to take the take on a work day when we would not typically hear from you. I hope your work weekend is non eventful. 

    Chrissy, I am tinking about you now. I know it is MOnkeydey aye em dere and that you get your blood drawn to check levels. Saying prayers that you are able to git dis all bixed up so you no longer need de meds dat make de levels go crrrrrrazy. I love ya goil!

    So goils, yesterday went berry well. The service was beautiful. They had a pianist and a soloist doing de most touching music between each of memorial tributes by the grand kids, my exDH and BIL where they shared great memories and also read bible verses. My DD did a great job and made me so proud.  It was berry touching. I cried all my eye make up off. It was great seeing many faces there and some which I had not seen since my wedding to ex DH over 20 years ago. I was being a little naughty and telling some of my MIL's friends that I was "the NICE ex DIL", not de otther biotch, Laren,who was married to my BIL. She and my MIL had it out years ago and sadly, she does not communicate with anyone on her x's side of the family. One time about five years ago, she brought her kids to visit Jessica and just dropped them off. I could not beleive that she did not even come up to my door, whatta biotch!  ennyway,I decided to behave myself after realizing I was bashing the mother of my DD's sweet little cousins, Julie and David. They are both close to my DD and were very close to my ex inlaws. But not quite as close as my DD has been to them since she has spend so much more time with them over the years when my ex used to take my DD for de weekend. He would always take her to visit her Grammy and Poppy and she also spent many nights sleeping over their house. 

    When we got to the church, we were escorted by the ushers to sit in the reserved 2nd row. I was honored to be considered family. My DH and my oldest sister Alice came with me to pay their respects. My middle sister is in Florida vacationing so could not make it but certainly would have come had she been around. It was a very moving day. The first thing I noticed when I got seated is that the ex was sitting between our DD and his brother, no girl friend. Hmmm I said to myself. As we were all heading downstairs for the luncheon, I told my DH that I suspected that my ex's gf duked out by saying she did not feel well.  She has hurt him before with this kind of thing. I told my DH that if that was the case, it would not be forgivable to me. So eventually, I asked my ex where his girl was today. As suspected, he said that she told him that her neck hurt really bad and she was nauseated.  WTF? Inexcusable in my book. After lunch, I asked my DD if she would be coming home with me and she said that she wanted to spend more time with her cousins and her Dad would drive her home. He is such a good daddy, we are talking about a 90 minute drive. He thinks nothing of driving back and forth. 

    So we got home, dropped my sister off and hung by the pool. I put on a bathing suit and dangled my feet in the pool and splashed some water on my body to cool off then we made burgers on the grill. My DH went home and shortly after, my DD and ex arrived. My DD told me that Dad was very mad at his girlfriend for not showing up. She further said that daddy was waiting for her to call as he had texted her before they got on the road and had not heard back. So me and my ex resumed de party by the pool and conversed about things. I really opened up to about my DH and the things he does to make me crazy. Mind you, my ex and DH are good friends. My ex stated that he had a feeling that I would never take Steve back in my home. He then told me that this might be the end of his relationship with Liddy. He was very disappointed in her and said that she is pusing for a commitment. Anyway, I made a statement that it would be really ironic if we could fix Steve up with Liddy and get back together. He blew me away when he reminded me that I had told him when we divorced that I always wanted to be friends but asked him to promise to never try to reconsile. Hmm, I have not memory of saying that to him.  We briefly talked about how happy the world would be if we got back together but I sort of dodged the subject. After a few hours, he left to go home as he had to get up early to take his cousin from Texas back to de airport. But I just sat in bed with my head spinning over all of the events of the day. I tossed and turned until 3am just tinking about so many tings. 

    Well I just nearly lost this post, thought I did - was so happy to find it again as I would not have retyped all this. So I am going to hit submit and hope to find some of yese in de lounge????? I will be lurking.....sorry if I missed anyone, planned on going back and talking to all yese but not taking a chance of losing this post....bye bye post, submitting now and will edit if too wordy. Or not edit. Shut up Dork and hit de button (PAnts talking to me hehe)...........cheers!

  • chrissyb
    chrissyb Posts: 11,437
    edited May 2012

    Awe Dork, I'm so glad that things went well at the memorial.  Your ex is really a very sweet man and I hope you gave him condolences from me, if not could you please next time you speak or see him?

    Kathy so glad to hear that it was a false alarm....phew!

    Well goils, I had the INR again this morning and the levels are still way down 1.6 to be exact!......grrrrrr!   Oh well, one compensation is I see the doc on Thursday as well as have the doplar US on my leg and that will tell me if the clot is gone and then I can just get rid of this crazy med that doesn't like my system!.....Yay!!!!

    Hi to all!

    Love n hugs.   Chrissy 

  • dara_diverse
    dara_diverse Posts: 5,005
    edited May 2012

    aww, Chrissy, I am berry sorry that your numbers were low again. I will be praying for you berry berry hard that the clot is gone so that you do not have to take those dumb pills. Mr. Big, get my goil some dwinks, a few fukitols and a hammock right here next to me. And I will certainly let Ron know that you offer your condolences. I had completely forgotten that you had de pleasure to meet my baby Daddy. Sending you more hugs, Chrissy.

    Where is ebberyone else tonight? Is dere not a partay in de lounge? Come on goils, join us. We not bite. Mr. Big is having a "flash" special for any newbies that come to de lounge. Partay on.

    Cheers, love and peaceful thought to all yese wonderful goils. Looks like it jest me and Chrissy on dis ebening (or monkey dey for my Chrissy)....let's partay!!!!

  • chrissyb
    chrissyb Posts: 11,437
    edited May 2012

    What youse drinkin tonight Dork?......what ebber tis I'll hab some too!  Oh yea Mr Big  set em up and keep em comin!   Yay!!!!!............partay!!!!!

  • dara_diverse
    dara_diverse Posts: 5,005
    edited May 2012

    i am dwinking Miller Lite (in honor of Junie). But mese jest asked Mr. Big to bwing me 6 shots of wodka, de raspberry stuff. You you wanna do some shots by de pool? Den we can slide down de big slide and ask Mr. Big to give us a flash of his bigness? Is dat bad to ask him? He sed he'd do for it for any newbies, hail, he was hired to pamper all of us. Isn't a little peaky for wese considered pampering? hehe.