TIME TO CIRCLE THE WAGONS GIRLS

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  • BMD
    BMD Posts: 215
    edited August 2007
    Cheri I just wanted to chime in here and tell you I am praying for you. I also want to let you know I had the cryosurgery on my cervix in 1986. I have never had a bad pap again. Amber will be O.K..

    BMD
  • lizws
    lizws Posts: 789
    edited August 2007
    Cheri - hugs and prayers for you and Amber. You stay off that foot and do as you're told! Amber is going to get through this also. We're here for you!

    Hugs
    Liz
  • neesie
    neesie Posts: 1,110
    edited April 2008
    I got cocky to soon..........just came back and finished my LONG post and copied it....but when I paste, it's the same one as I already posted........well Rats Butt!

    I'm not re doing right now, but I do want Cheri to know that she is in the center of our hearts and the circle. Prayers, hugs and lots of love being sent to you.

    Hugs,
    Denise
  • joy1122
    joy1122 Posts: 189
    edited August 2007
    Cheri-Hugs and prayers going your way.

    Joyce
  • AlaskaDeb
    AlaskaDeb Posts: 1,159
    edited August 2007
    Cheri -
    well Damn! I had a bad feeling your leg infection sounded nasty! I hope that they have started down a path to get it under control. I am sending you hugs and prayers for both you and your DD. We have you both in the center of the circle...let us know what is going on when you get a second...

    Hugs
    Deb C
  • Sandra1957
    Sandra1957 Posts: 1,064
    edited August 2007

    Do rats have butts?

  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Posts: 471
    edited August 2007
    lini - unfortunately .. ewwwwww

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  • neesie
    neesie Posts: 1,110
    edited April 2008
    EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW.......changing my saying!!!!

    Hugs,
    Denise

    ps....can anyone tell me why I got the same post I had already posted when I copied and pasted the second time?

    I'd say, "Well Doggie DooDoo" but I can only imagine the picture that would be found!!

    Cheri: Post if you can and let us know what is going on, please. Hugs to you.

    Hugs,
    Denise
  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Posts: 471
    edited August 2007
    LOL Denise! I was only answering Lini's question .. no doggie doo doo pics, unless you ask me if there Is such a thing!! Then I'll go find one!

    I wonder if you didn't actually hit copy and just thought you did?? That could explain it...
  • Sandra1957
    Sandra1957 Posts: 1,064
    edited August 2007

    That's just gross, Angel!! You've been cracking me up with your snappy sayings, Denise. What was the one yesterday about my space?? I've been laughing out loud all by myself because of you. I've been losing posts left and right, accidentally blocking people. This new "better" site set-up is driving me nutty.

  • neesie
    neesie Posts: 1,110
    edited April 2008
    LOL Angel....I'm not asking!!!!

    Lini: God only knows what came out of my mouth yesterday!! I've always been one to speak before the brain thinks!!!!
    I'm with you........the "better" site is a pain in my "worse" spot!!

    Charlene: What, you think I could have possible made a mistake on the computer!!!!

    Hugs,
    Denise

    I'm gonna check in before I hit the hay....waiting to hear from Cheri.
  • Mandy41
    Mandy41 Posts: 30
    edited August 2007
    I think rats are cute (butts and all!) "Doggy doo doo?"...not so much! And old men in Speedos??? YIKES! Now that's scary...although my own reflection in a bathing suit these days is pretty much on par with all of the above!

    Charlene - if you want to post some more pix - please make one of Viggo would you - just for me? I need to get into photobucket!

    Continuing to think about you Cheri (and your daughter)
    Mandy
  • Sandra1957
    Sandra1957 Posts: 1,064
    edited August 2007

    Do I dare ask, what's a Viggo??

  • Silka
    Silka Posts: 45
    edited August 2007


    Cheri, I do understand what you are saying and sometimes-bad things can turn into blessings as in my daughter’s case.
    She had uterine cancer, had to have a hysterectomy and when they got in there, they found she had early stage ovarian cancer and we all know that ovarian is a silent killer, no symptoms until it is to late. No other way to look at it except that it was divine intervention.

    My sister was dx with cervical cancer when in her 20’s, had a hysterectomy and is now 60 years old.

    Not trying to make light of your daughter’s situation, but please understand that this is not a death sentence at all. I have had many situations over the years, had to have freezings, coneoscopy, etc…..these are very common occurrences.

    Lister to what Pam said, the best advice anyone could give you.
    Bless You and Amber
    Doris
  • CherrylH
    CherrylH Posts: 189
    edited August 2007
    Lini,
    I don't want you to think I'm jumping all over you,but if you don't know who Viggio is, you don't know what you're missing.

    Drooling,
    Cherryl
  • newvickie
    newvickie Posts: 2,941
    edited August 2007
    ready to do the nightly post but gotta go see if I can find out who or what Viggio is...
    brb
  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Posts: 471
    edited August 2007
    Lini, yes, dare ask! He's my bf .. but Mandy thinks he's hers. Well, we share him. lol Here ya go Mandy!

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  • newvickie
    newvickie Posts: 2,941
    edited August 2007
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  • cmb35
    cmb35 Posts: 554
    edited August 2007
    Everyone - I'm home from my girl's weekend (great fun!) and my darling baby boy is back home. Unfortunately, he came home sick, so today was pretty quiet. I haven't had a chance to read yet, but I have a request for some advice - any lawyers in the group? I came home to a letter from Tim informing me that if I do not return the ring to him immediately he will take me to court. He very helpfully included the precedents in MA, so it appears that he will in fact win the case and I will be required by law to return the ring to him. Here's my question - if he sues me (or whatever it is he will do) do I have to pay for court fees or something? I'm more than happy to let him bring me to court to get the ring back. I could care less about the stupid ring. I would however like to give him a big fat dose of public humiliation along with it. I figure having all of my friends come with me to court that day to see him stand there and sue me for the ring might just do it. But I don't want to have to pay money to do it.

    OK, crazy I know, but the letter he wrote me was so nasty, and full of comments about me not doing what was "right and proper" and my "conscience" and how "tasteless" it is to force him to take me to court. I swear, I really think the man has had some sort of complete and total breakdown! Anyway, it's just burning me up, and causing me to dig my heels in (and I know, reduce myself to his level, which is never a good thing!)

    OK, feel free to tell me to cut my losses, quit the nonsense and give him the ring back. Or if you happen to know a lawyer and don't mind asking, let me know if I can get away with making him pay to get it back, even if it's just attorney/legal fees.

    Hoping everyone had a great weekend, and that this promises to be a wonderful week. Much love to you all, A to Z....
  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Posts: 1,233
    edited August 2007
    I am so grateful to all of you. I cannot express what you all mean to me. Yes, Amber is being scheduled for a biopsy. I am praying hard for pre-cancerous cells. The biopsy will tell much. I just hate that she has to go through all this. I thank you all for putting her in the circle and sending prayers.

    Oh geeze. My leg. Well now, that't a complicated story between talking to all these dr.s. My regular dr here called and talked to my old infection control dr. and he said he needed an ortho to tell him about the surgery and etc. He's afraid with it still oozing that it's either gone to the hardware or bone. So he told my md this and so my md calledtl....you know, I'm just gonna cut to the chase here, the bottom line is that my dh and I are fetting up in the night and leaving about 2 A.M. to go to Iowa City which is where my surgeon wants to see me and may be hospitalized or maybe let the infection guy handle it down here if it's not gotten real bad. But I talked to the dr in Iowa and he said rather than try to get up to the ER there tonight, late morning would be soon enough. They may have to do another surgery, crap! Susan called me and I had just gotten home and in between dr calls.She said something, i can't even remember what but i got the 'giggles' and i could NOT shut up! I tried, I just remember looking down at my leg propped up in front of me and thought of how it looked like a bear had been gnawing on it, has 2 holes and nasty ooze coming out and it's so swollen it just shines like ice, I can't even get my camboot on. The urgency is what frightens me. Anyway, back to my laughing jag, it was like a dam burst. I just couldn't quit giggling at the absurdity of the whole day. Life in general. I may have hurt Susans feelings and I apoligized cos it was nothing personal, whatever she said didn't matter i just lost it.She had to go abruptly, so Suzola if you're reading this, it wasn't you. I'll try and call you. Nothing personal. The stress is just getting to me. Janny just called. This is such a caring, loving group and I love you all so much. Thanks for putting me in the middle of the Circle. And some of you knew my leg was bad, I guess i just stuck my head in the sand and thought surely no more was going to happen. I could tell by the way you wrote. Well, I'm rambling. Thank you for everything. All of you. I could sure use some big old prayers. Amber will be in contact if they keep me, plus , I'm taking her laptop with me.I know if it comes to surgery again, you will be holding my hand. I appreciate you all.

    Your Friend,
    Cheri
  • nosurrender
    nosurrender Posts: 737
    edited August 2007
    Just checking in on Cheri - am worried about her leg.
    Worried about Amber too- but at least I know that she can be treated VERY successfully!

    BCO, has been very good to us - if not for them we wouldn't have this little corner of cyberspace. I am indebted to them for all they have given me and the hundred of thousands of women they have helped around the world.

  • socallisa
    socallisa Posts: 10,184
    edited August 2007

    Denise..I sent you a PM about San Diego

  • newvickie
    newvickie Posts: 2,941
    edited August 2007
    hmmm...interesting dreams could be made from those pics LOL.
    I want to thank each and every one of you for a very special birthday. Wow is all I can say at the moment with a lump in my throat. Never have I had a birthday like this one. Both at Pinkstock and here on the boards. You are truly the very best of the best. I love you all. You made my day.
    Worrying about our Cheri and Amber...into the center they go. So wish everything could go well for them for a change. Sending prayers.
    Lini...seriously wondering why you wondered if rats had butts LOL. You should have know what was gonna happen! That picture is a serious ewwwww.
    Nickster...good night and sweet dreams.
    Jankay...got your pm and thank you sweet lady.
    Too tired to post to everyone as badly as I wish I could...I love ya all.
    Hopefully my thryoid test will tell if I am so stinkin tired because of that...if not then I don't know what the next step is...sleep maybe LOL.
    I know there are some girls who need the password to the pinkstock site...if you see someone who needs the password feel free to give it too them (as long as they are "safe" heehee...no lurkers or scary men...oh wait...Bob is there). I tried to get all the pictures to play on one slide show but didn't have any luck.
    Ok...fallin outta the chair I'm so tired.
    thanks you all...sweet and happy dreams to each and every one of you.
    Love
    Vickie
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  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Posts: 471
    edited August 2007
    Cheri,

    Oh, I'm sure Susan understands. I'm no psychologist but I understand that crying and laughing are very close emotions and you were probably uncontrollably laughing to keep from crying and due to the stress and absurdity of it all. You ought to borrow my tagline. Praying hard for you sister. If you need a distraction while waiting to leave read back a little ways. Laughter is good medicine and I think you'll appreciate the humor. Take it easy girlyfriend.

    Lots of love and hugs

    Charlene
  • Mandy41
    Mandy41 Posts: 30
    edited August 2007
    Charlene,

    Thank you so much...Viggo - yummmmmmy! I'd lick the computer screen but I'm afraid I'd get electrocuted!

    Cheri - have a good night - hope all goes well tomorrow - glad to hear you are laughing - even if it is a reaction to the stress of the day - hope tomorrow is A MUCH BETTER DAY!

    Good nite Vickie!
    Mandy
  • newvickie
    newvickie Posts: 2,941
    edited August 2007

    Mandy get your tongue off the computer screen LOL

  • nosurrender
    nosurrender Posts: 737
    edited August 2007
    Colleen,
    You tell Tim you will counter sue him for harrassment, abandonment, breach of promise and fraud.
    Then tell him from me he is an A-hole.

    PM me if you want and I will write the letter for you.

    I am so mad right now I am steaming!
  • nosurrender
    nosurrender Posts: 737
    edited August 2007

    AND ANOTHER THING COLLEEN- HE IS BLUFFING!

  • b445
    b445 Posts: 980
    edited August 2007
    Gina, I think the other site was so we don't over load BCO with all the pictures from pinkstock. Juts think there were what 16 or 18 of us plus SO's taking pictures, Thats a lot of pictures. I know I had more than 300 pictures on one camera not to mention the video camera and the one we used at the Falls. BCO will never be replaced we just don't want to bogged them down with all the pictures.


    We are quickly approching the 1 year mark for the Wagon Circle.
    I have to tell you all that this circle is one of the few places I have felt truly comfortable. It was formed shortly after I finished active treatment the first time. and has been a lifeline for me. I don't have much to keep me busy other than family and work and other than them the circle has been my biggest and only other support group.
    From the heart I can truely say YOu are my sisters and have made me whole. Thank you for being there for all of us may the circle never be broken.
  • newvickie
    newvickie Posts: 2,941
    edited August 2007
    OMG...I AM 46 YEARS OLD TODAY!!! 46 AND I AM THRILLED!! I SO WANTED TO CALL THE DOCTOR WHO SAID I WOULDN'T GET TREATMENT AND DIE AND SAY ... HEY GUESS WHAT...I'M STILL FRIGGIN HERE AND I'M 46...AND I DON'T PLAN ON LEAVING!! HA!!
    oh my...had to get that out somewhere and couldn't go yell it outside or the neighbors would call those guys with the white coats again heehee.
    Thanking God and all of you!