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  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2019

    There is transcendent power in example. We reform others subconsciously, when we walk upright. -Ann Swetchine

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2019

    To know that Love alone was the beginning of nature and creature, that nothing but Love encompasses the whole universe of things, that the governing hand that overrules all, the watchful eye that sees through all, is nothing but omnipotent and omniscient Love, using an infinity of wisdom, to save every misguided creature from the works of his or her own hands, and make happiness and glory the perpetual inheritance of all the creation, is a reflection that must be quite ravishing to every intelligent creature that is sensible of it. -William Law

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2019

    Faithfully faithful to every trust,
    Honestly honest in every deed,
    Righteously righteous and justly just:
    This is the whole of the good man's creed.



    unattributed

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2019

    Come from the heart, the true heart, not the head. When in doubt,
    choose the heart. This does not mean to deny your own experiences
    and that which you have empirically learned through the years. It means
    to trust your self to integrate intuition and experience. There is a
    balance, a harmony to be nurtured, between the head and the heart.
    When the intuition rings clear and true, loving impulses are favored.



    Brian L. Weiss


    ( One of my favorite authors ).

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2019

    Our words are energy that has a ripple effect far beyond our imagining. We must learn the art of communicating so our speech can bring about love, reconciliation, and understanding. Just as it tastes bitter to utter words that are negative or unkind, it feels wonderful to say something full of understanding and love.
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    Thich Nhat Hanh

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2019

    We are not human beings having
    a spiritual experience. We are
    spiritual beings having a
    human experience.

    Teilhard de Chardin

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2019

    I have always been delighted at the prospect of a new day, a fresh try, one more start, with perhaps a bit of magic waiting somewhere behind the morning.

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    J.B. Priestley
  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2019

    Goodness

    Above all, let us never forget that an act of goodness is in itself an act of happiness. It is the flower of a long inner life of joy and contentment; it tells of peaceful hours and days on the sunniest heights of our soul. -Maurice Maeterlinck

    And when we come to think of it, goodness is uneventful. It does not flash, it glows. It is deep, quiet, and very simple. It passes not with oratory, it is commonly foreign to riches, nor does it often sit in the places of the mighty: but may be felt in the touch of a friendly hand or the look of a kindly eye. -David Grayson

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2019

    Grace

    The winds of grace are always blowing, but you have to raise the sail. -Ramakrishna

    Grace is goodness and respect given freely and unconditionally. A sense of divine love and protection bestowed on us when we need strength and renewal. Grace helps us know we are not alone and believe we are cared for and cherished. Grace is a drink of clear, clean water in the desert. -Sue Patton Thoele

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2019

    Some people confuse acceptance with apathy, but there's all the difference in the world. Apathy fails to distinguish what can and cannot be helped; acceptance makes the distinction. Apathy paralyzes the will-to-action; acceptance frees it by relieving it of impossible burdens. -Arthur Gordon

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2019

    We in the West don't think much in terms of balance, and obviously we should. Even the very thought of an exquisite union and balance of all our forces, both physical and mental, has a gentle, hopeful ring to it. . . . All of us must find a bridge between our physical and spiritual parts. When that balance is achieved, what a happy comfort for ourselves! Edward J. Lavin

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2019

    An excellent way to practice love is to set your intention on seeing beyond someone's behavior or personality. Try to realize that beneath the surface insecurity, negative thinking, and poor behavior, everyone is connected to God. Just as you wouldn't get angry at someone simply because he or she is in a wheelchair, you need not be angry because a person hasn't yet opened his or her heart to the nourishment of his or her Soul. When people act in unloving ways, it only means they are out of touch with their Souls and aren't feeling spiritually nourished. -Richard Carlson

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2019

    Every great loss demands that we choose life again. We need to grieve in order to do this. The pain we have not grieved over will always stand between us and life. When we don't grieve, a part of us becomes caught in the past like Lot's wife who, because she looked back, was turned into a pillar of salt.
    Grieving is not about forgetting. Grieving allows us to heal, to remember with love rather than pain. It is a sorting process. One by one you let go of the things that are gone and you mourn for them. One by one you take hold of the things that have become a part of who you are and build again. -Rachel Naomi Remen

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2019

    Real courage is a bold adventure in walking forward without looking back. With courage you welcome each new experience as an opportunity to exercise your positive energy in a productive, purposeful direction. You are not afraid of what you do not know; you become eager to learn it. You do not hesitate to extend your efforts into unfamiliar areas because unfamiliar does not mean unfriendly. Real courage is an exercise in facing the truth and allowing it to change your life for the better even when that requires loosening the shackles of habit and responding to old situations in new ways. -Renee Okon

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2019

    Hope is wanting something so eagerly that—in spite of all the evidence that you're not going to get it—you go right on wanting it. And the remarkable thing about it is that this very act of hoping produces a kind of strength of its own. -Norman Vincent Peale

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2019

    Character cannot be developed in ease and quiet. Only through experience of trial and suffering can the soul be strengthened,vision cleared, ambition inspired, and success achieved. -HelenKeller

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2019

    Happiness consists not of having, but of being, not of possessing, but of enjoying. It is the warm glow of a heart at peace with itself.

    Norman Vincent Peale

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2019

    Life is a thing of many stages and moving parts. What we do with ease at one time of life we can hardly manage at another. What we could not fathom doing when we were young, we find great joy in when we are old. Like the seasons through which we move, life itself is a never-ending series of harvests, a different fruit for every time.

    Joan Chittister

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2019
    The best things are nearest: breath in your nostrils, light in your eyes, flowers at your feet, duties at your hand, the path of God just before you. Then do not grasp at the stars, but do life's plain, common work as it comes, certain that daily duties and daily bread are the sweetest things of life. -Robert Louis Stevenson
  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2019

    for fun then back later with the quote :

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2019

    I sometimes think we expect too much of Christmas Day. We try to crowd into it the long arrears of kindliness and humanity of the whole year. As for me, I like to take my Christmas a little at a time, all through the year. And thus I drift along into the holidays--let them overtake me unexpectedly--waking up some fine morning and suddenly saying to myself: "Why this is Christmas Day!" -David Grayson

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2019

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  • chisandy
    chisandy Member Posts: 11,408
    edited December 2019

    Same to you, Jackie (and happy third candle to those celebrating Hanukkah).

    Just got back from walking to & from dinner. Who'd ever have thought that all I'd need for outerwear on Christmas Eve in Chicago would be a down vest? More of the same tomorrow, Thurs. pushing 60!

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2019

    Will be 68 today. Here in our little part of Illinois likely a degree or two warmer. We will have a California Christmas. We often could sit in the yard on X-mas day there.


    I will honor Christmas in my heart, and try to keep it all the year.
    - Charles Dickens

  • chisandy
    chisandy Member Posts: 11,408
    edited December 2019

    Spent some time this aft. chatting across the fence with our neighbor--I wore just my scrubs, clogs and an open denim jacket! If Bob gets home too late tonight for Fireside to still be serving Christmas dinner, I'll fire up the gas grill and make the ribeye I defrosted. Made it to 58F today, 60 tomorrow. Cooler with rain Sat. & Sun., colder New Year's Eve & Day but dry.

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2019

    Laugh at yourself and at life.
    Not in the spirit of derision or whining self-pity,
    but as a remedy, a miracle drug, that will ease your pain,
    cure your depression, and help you to put in perspective
    that seemingly terrible defeat and worry
    with laughter at your predicaments,
    thus freeing your mind to think clearly toward the solution
    that is certain to come. Never take yourself too seriously.
    - Og Mandino

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2019

    The true Light is a gentle love which, rising in you, causes you to look on the world with understanding and compassion and respect. When you respect the souls of your brother and sister, you respect their lives in every way. This gentle spirit, this respect one for another, must come. For this is the generation of the one true Light, and this true light is that of love.
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    White Eagle

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2019

    When you look at the world in a narrow way, how narrow it seems! When you look at it in a mean way, how mean it is! When you look at it selfishly, how selfish it is! But when you look at it in a broad, generous, friendly spirit, what wonderful people you find in it!
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    Horace Rutledge

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2019

    When humility enters our souls, we are at last able
    to perceive that we do not live alone in the world
    but with millions of brothers and sisters, and that hidden
    in the heart of each is the same animating spirit.



    U.S. Anderson

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2019

    Don't ask yourself what the world needs. Ask yourself what makes you come alive, and go do that, because what the world needs is people who have come alive. -Howard Thurman



    It is one of the most beautiful compensations of this life that no person can sincerely try to help another without helping him or herself. -Ralph Waldo Emerson