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  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited November 2020

    "Acknowledging the good that you already have in your life is the foundation for all abundance."

    -- Eckhart Tolle

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited November 2020

    Pause then at this thanksgiving season and give thanks for the miracle of selfhood. Give thanks for yourself, for your health and strength and energy. Ponder the miracle of your body, which, without your conscious thought, controls heartbeat and respiration, digests food, compounds chemicals, renews cells, combats disease, heals wounds, and maintains equilibrium among its huge and intricate array of separate parts.
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    Wilferd A. Peterson

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited November 2020

    Losing an illusion makes you wiser than finding a truth.

    - Ludwig Boerne

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited November 2020

    As we weave the tapestries of our lives, we gradually begin to see our designs from a wider angle of years. We may or may not be pleased with what we see. Yet, no design--not in the living world--is carved in stone. We have the gift of free will to change our designs as we wish. We are each a thread in the tapestry of our human family. Our outcome is woven of endless possibilities, because we can choose from a universe of endless possibilities. Every person can make a difference. Each thread is a possibility, chosen by the design of divine imagination. Our life-time designs arise from our divine gifts, unique talents, desires, thoughts, choices, and actions. At times, old choices--old threads--wear out. We see the past while we live in the present, and we can replace the old...with new ideas, new choices, and new actions. We can view the future through today's eyes, and time blends all experiences, dark and light, into an awareness of authentic joy. May you live joyfully and abundantly today and throughout every season of life! -Steve Brunkhorst

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited November 2020

    Attempting to "fit in" is not a worthy objective.
    There is no point in feeling sad or upset when your plans, your ideas,
    or even your fundamental nature do not "fit in" with the majority view.

    Be the courageous hero and stay committed to your greatest ideas and ideals,
    however they are received by those around you.

    Do not follow where the path may lead.
    Go, instead, where there is no path and leave a trail.
    - Ralph Waldo Emerson

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2020

    The survival of the fittest is the ageless law of nature, but the fittest are rarely the strong. The fittest are those endowed with the qualifications for adaptation, the ability to accept the inevitable and conform to the unavoidable, to harmonize with existing or changing conditions. -Dave. E Smalley

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2020

    Every word carries a vibration that sent out, comes back. A cutting word destroys what a sweet word heals. One spoken word can make or mar the destiny of a being. When heart is put into a word, the word encompasses the totality of love and brings love back. When a word is without heart, it is cold and empty and will bring back cold and emptiness. -Cheryl Canfield

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2020

    Thinking like a winner means not always having to defeat someone else. It means being able to grow from a situation in which you fail to reach your goal. It involves not demanding perfection from yourself in every single thing you do, but, instead, thinking of yourself as perfect and thus capable of growing. It means reminding yourself that perfection doesn't mean staying the same; it means being able to allow yourself to grow. Thinking as a winner means not coming down on yourself; it means refusing to allow self-repudiating thoughts into your head. It involves pushing out the inclination to evaluate yourself in comparison with others, and giving yourself permission to be the unique person you are. -Wayne Dyer

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2020

    In helping others, we shall help ourselves, for whatever good we give out completes the circle and comes back to us. -Flora Edwards

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2020

    Could a greater miracle take place
    than for us to look through each other's eyes for an instant?
    - Henry David Thoreau

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2020

    "Learn to enjoy every minute of your life. Be happy now. Don't wait for something outside of yourself to make you happy in the future. Think how really precious is the time you have to spend, whether it's at work or with your family. Every minute should be enjoyed and savored."

    -- Earl Nightingale

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2020

    The essence of optimism is that it takes no account of the present, but it is a source of inspiration, of vitality and hope where others have resigned it enables a person to hold his or her head high, to claim the future for him or herself and not to abandon it to the enemy. -Dietrich Bonhoeffer

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2020

    The trite saying that honesty is the best policy has met with the just criticism that honesty is not policy. The real honest person is honest from conviction of what is right, not from policy. -Robert E. Lee

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2020

    As yesterday is history, and tomorrow may never come, I have resolved from this day on, I will do all the business I can honestly, have all the fun I can reasonably, do all the good I can willingly, and save my digestion by thinking pleasantly.

    📷

    Robert Louis Stevenson

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2020

    Hospitality means we take people into the space that is our lives and our minds and our hearts and our work and our efforts. Hospitality is the way we come out of ourselves. It is the first step towards dismantling the barriers of the world. Hospitality is the way we turn a prejudiced world around, one heart at a time. -Joan D. Chittister

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2020

    Humility is the acceptance of the possibility that someone else can teach you something else you do not know already, especially about yourself. Conversely, pride and arrogance close the door to the mind. -Arthur Deikman

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2020

    Life is not a having and a getting,
    but a being and a becoming.
    - Matthew Arnold

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2020

    Imagine how our lives might be if everyone had even a bit more of the Wisdom that comes from seeing clearly. Suppose people everywhere, simultaneously, stopped what they were doing and paid attention for only as long as it took to recognize their shared humanity. Surely the heartbreak of the world's pain, visible to all, would convert everyone to kindness. What a gift that would be.
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    Sylvia Boorstein

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2020

    We are given a life—a precious commodity—and are placed on this earth for a short while. We are surrounded by incredible beauty, strength, and love along with incredible violence, hatred, and prejudice. Every time a person becomes happier, they are moving one step away from prejudice and violence and closer to love and compassion. So think of your personal joy as a contribution to peace on the planet as well as food for your spirit. -Charlotte Davis Kasl

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2020

    Mindfulness is being aware of yourself, others, and your surroundings in the moment. When consciously and kindly focusing awareness on life as it unfolds minute by precious minute, you are better able to savor each experience. Also, being closely attentive gives you the opportunity to change unwise or painful feelings and responses quickly. In fact, being truly present in a mindful way is an excellent stress reducer and, because of that, can be seen as consciousness conditioning, a strengthening workout for body, mind, heart, and spirit. -Sue Patton Thoele

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2020

    In learning to embrace your being, don't look at your mistakes. It is a given that we will all make some mistakes in life. It is a given that you will make inappropriate choices for inappropriate reasons. They will in no way affect your worth. No matter what you say or do, nothing can minimize the worth of your being. Your worth is a gift from God. Your worth is a gift of grace. -Iyanla Vanzant

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2020

    Constantly exposing yourself to popular culture and the mass media will ultimately shape your reality tunnel in ways that are not necessarily conducive to achieving your Soul Purpose and Life Calling. Modern society has generally "lost the plot." Slavishly following its false gods and idols makes no sense in a spiritually aware life. -Anthon St. Maarten

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2020

    Live to experience something new each day -
    to learn something new, to meet a new friend,
    to bring joy into someone's life,
    to feel the wind newly on your skin,
    to touch a new fear and a new anger,
    and with focused intent and good fortune,
    to find an ample measure of your own joy.
    - Jonathan Lockwood Huie

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2020

    We share with all life the capacity for feeling, the experience of having a body, mind, and heart in continual interface with countless other bodies, minds, and hearts. Our capacity to feel deeply means we share with all life the possibility of experiencing delight, joy, trust, and intimacy, just as we share in the capacity to experience pain, sorrow, grief, and fear. Living within a physical body, we all share the experience of aging, frailty, illness, and death, just as we share the precious times of strength, health, safety, and vitality. Through our minds we share the capacity to experience confusion, agitation, and complexity, just as we share the possibilities of serenity, clarity, and balance. An understanding of this profound interconnectedness of all life is at the root of the compassionate heart dedicated to alleviating suffering without reservation or exception. -Christina Feldman

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2020

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    It's possible to have too much in life. Too many clothes jade our appreciation for new ones; too much money can put us out of touch with life; too much free time can dull the edge of the soul. We need sometimes to come very near the bone so that we can taste the marrow of life rather than its superfluities.


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    Joan Chittister

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2020

    Faithfully faithful to every trust,
    Honestly honest in every deed,
    Righteously righteous and justly just:
    This is the whole of the good man's creed.



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  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2020

    Are you willing to forget what you have done for other people, and to remember what other people have done for you? To remember the weakness and loneliness of people who are growing old? Are you willing to believe that love is the strongest thing in the world, stronger than hate, stronger than evil, stronger than death? Then you can keep Christmas! But you can never keep it alone.
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    Henry Van Dyke

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2020

    I have always thought of Christmas time, when it has come round, as a good time; a kind, forgiving, charitable time; the only time I know of, in the long calendar of the year, when men and women seem by one consent to open their shut-up hearts freely, and to think of people below them as if they really were fellow passengers to the grave, and not another race of creatures bound on other journeys. -Charles Dickens

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2020

    What is Christmas? It is tenderness for the
    past, courage for the present, hope for the future. It is a fervent wish
    that every cup may overflow with blessings rich and eternal, and that every path
    may lead to peace. -Agnes M. Pharo

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2020

    Day of Hope
    Edgar Guest

    Christmas is the one day of the year that carries real hope and promise for all humankind. It carries the torch of brotherhood.It is the one day in the year when most of us grow big of heart and broad of mind. It is the single day when most of us are as kind and as thoughtful of others as we know how to be; when most of us are as gracious and generous as we would like always to be; when the joy of home is more important than the profits of the office; when peoples of all races speak cheerfully to each other when they meet; when high and low wish each other well; and the one day when even enemies forgive and forget.