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  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2020

    Patient people enjoy the pleasure of saying to whoever is feeling anxious about delays--restaurant servers, clerks waiting on the telephone to get your credit card verified, dry cleaners who were sure your sweater would be ready--"It's okay. These things happen." Patience, in a rushed world, is a shared relief. Witnesses to patient transactions, as well as participants, all get to calm down.

    Sylvia Boorstein

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2020

    When we're helping other people, we're nourishing our soul. Depression or unhappiness means we've got the wrong goal. We have forgotten that peace of mind is our only goal. By concentrating on helping another person, we renew contact with our soul and with God. We can feel peaceful again. . . . Peace of mind has nothing to do with the external world; it has only to do with our connection with God. Love really is the answer. We're here only to teach love. When we're doing that, our souls are singing and dancing. When we remind ourselves that we are spiritual beings, that life and love are the flame eternal, that's when our soul is nourished.

    Gerald Jampolsky

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2020

    You are here to evolve and make your consciousness high
    You are here to dance, sing and celebrate life.
    You are here to help others to make their life happy.
    We are here not to compete, but to learn, evolve and excel.
    We are not here to make divisions in the name of prophets and religions.
    We are here to encompass the world with love and light.
    - Amit Ray

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2020

    If everyone were clothed with integrity, if every heart were just, frank, and kindly, the other virtues would be well-nigh useless, since their chief purpose is to make us bear with patience the injustice of our fellows. -Moliere

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2020

    It does not always help to analyze and think about problems with your rational mind. Sometimes it is far more effective to turn to your inner self, to ask the universe for help. Simply sit quietly. Take a few deep breaths and focus your awareness within. Ask your wise inner self, either silently or aloud, for guidance or help in understanding the message. As you get a sense of what feels right, act on this feeling. -Shakti Gawain

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited December 2020

    Begin and end each day with an expression of gratitude and thanksgiving. Every morning when you awake you have been given the gift of a sunrise and twenty-four hours to live. This is a precious gift. You have the wonderful opportunity to take this day and live joyously, with appreciation for everything that you encounter. Take a deep breath and be grateful for this exhilarating experience of breathing in life and love. Similarly, end your day with an expression of love, and a repetition of the word for peace, "Shalom."

    Wayne Dyer


  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited January 2021

    Love is an act of endless forgiveness. -Peter Ustinov

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited January 2021

    The roots of love sink down and deep and strike out far, and they are arteries that feed our lives, so we must see that they get the water and sun they need so they can nourish us. And when you put something good into the world, something good comes back to you.

    Merle Shain

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited January 2021

    As I look back at the entire tapestry of my life, I can see from the perspective of the present moment that every aspect of my life was necessary and perfect. Each step eventually led to a higher place, even though these steps often felt like obstacles or painful experiences. -Wayne Dyer

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited January 2021

    Our rushing and our busyness create a fog layer that
    encloses us, surrounding us with thicker and thicker
    layers externally and building denser and denser fog
    layers within. Pretty soon, we have lost touch with
    that which guides our lives. We need contact with
    our spirituality to be the people we would like to be.

    Anne Wilson Schaef

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited January 2021

    The great lesson from the true mystics is that the sacred
    is in the ordinary, that it is to be found in one's daily life,
    in one's neighbors, friends, and family, in one's backyard.

    Abraham H. Maslow

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited January 2021

    The greatest wealth is to live content with little.
    - Plato

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited January 2021

    Kind words produce their own beautiful image in one's soul. Everyone knows the pleasure of receiving a kind look, a warm greeting, a hand held out in time of need. And such gestures can be made at so little expense, yet they bring such dividends to the investor. -The War Cry

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited January 2021

    Forests, lakes, and rivers,
    clouds and winds, stars and flowers,
    stupendous glaciers and crystal snowflakes -
    every form of animate or inanimate existence,
    leaves its impress upon the soul of man.
    - Orison Swett Marden

    In every walk with nature one receives far more than he seeks.
    - John Muir

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited January 2021

    What choices are you making in your perception of the events around you? We choose how we view our times. There is a pinch of pessimism in our now. Counter it with small acts of optimism. Pick up a piece of litter that isn't yours. Show some extra grace on the freeway. Give to your food bank. Smile at a child who is in your way. Help someone you know. Help someone you don't know. The accumulation of small, optimistic acts produces quality in our culture and in your life. Our culture resonates in tense times to individual acts of grace. What's your choice? -Jennifer James, Success Is the Quality of Your Journey

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited January 2021

    Compassion is not a relationship between the healer and the wounded.
    It's a relationship between equals.
    Only when we know our own darkness well
    can we be present with the darkness of others.
    Compassion becomes real when we recognize our shared humanity.
    - Pema Chodron

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited January 2021

    The value of all service lies in the spirit in which you serve and not in the importance or magnitude of the service. Even the lowliest task or deed is made holy, joyous, and prosperous when it is filled with love. -Charles Fillmore

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited January 2021

    Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.
    Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
    It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us.
    We ask ourselves,
    Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?
    Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God.
    Your playing small does not serve the world.
    There is nothing enlightened about shrinking
    so that other people won't feel insecure around you.
    We are all meant to shine, as children do.
    We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us.
    It is not just in some of us; it is in everyone.
    And as we let our own light shine,
    we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.
    As we are liberated from our own fear,
    our presence automatically liberates others.
    - Marianne Williamson

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited January 2021

    Most true happiness comes from one's inner life, from the disposition of the mind and soul. Admittedly, a good inner life is difficult to achieve, especially in these trying times. It takes reflection and contemplation and self-discipline. -William L. Shirer

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited January 2021

    If you can't change everything all at once, then at least work on changing something each day. Become aggressive in your battle with the ego. You probably don't need all the things that it wants. You need hope, discipline, creative expression, love, and serenity—these are the important things. Remember, when you are balanced, one stepping stone will lead you to the next. But you will rarely see the whole journey or all the answers at once.

    Stuart Wilde

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited January 2021

    Leadership must be based on goodwill. Goodwill does not mean posturing and, least of all, pandering to the mob. It means obvious and wholehearted commitment to helping followers. We are tired of leaders we fear, tired of leaders we love, and of tired of leaders who let us take liberties with them. What we need for leaders are people of the heart who are so helpful that they, in effect, do away with the need of their jobs. But leaders like that are never out of a job, never out of followers. Strange as it sounds, great leaders gain authority by giving it away. -James B. Stockdale

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited January 2021

    Once we see that everything is impermanent and ungraspable and that we create a huge amount of suffering if we are attached to things staying the same, we realize that relaxing and letting go is a wiser way to live. Letting go does not mean not caring about things. It means caring about them in a flexible and wise way. -Jack Kornfield

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited January 2021

    If we make our goal to live a life of compassion and unconditional love, then the world will indeed become a garden where all kinds of flowers can bloom and grow.

    Elizabeth Kubler-Ross

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited January 2021

    It is not sufficient to deny or ignore evil; it must be understood. It is not enough to pray to God to remove the evil; you must find out why it is there, and what lesson it has for you. It is of no avail to fret and fume and chafe at the chains that bind you; you must know how and why you are bound. -James Allen

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited January 2021

    Peace of mind just can't be bought. Trust me: Even if your conscience doesn't stop you from playing dirty to get what you want, once you get it, it will keep you from enjoying it. As my mother used to say, "A good conscience is God's eye." Which is why I always prefer a loss to an underhanded gain; the one brings pain at the moment, the other for all time.

    Patti LaBelle

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited January 2021

    To live content with small means; to seek elegance rather than luxury; and refinement rather than fashion; to be worthy, not respectable; and wealthy, not rich; to study hard, think quietly, talk gently, act frankly; to listen to stars and birds, to babes and sages, with open heart; to bear all cheerfully, do all bravely, await occasion, hurry never; in a word, to let the spiritual, unbidden, and unconscious to grow up through the common. This is to be my symphony. -William Henry Channing

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited January 2021

    Listening is the oldest and perhaps the most powerful tool of healing. It is often through the quality of our listening and not the wisdom of our words that we are able to effect the most profound changes in the people around us. When we listen, we offer with our attention an opportunity for wholeness. Our listening creates sanctuary for the homeless parts within the other person. That which has been denied, unloved, devalued by themselves and others. That which is hidden.

    In this culture the soul and the heart too often go homeless.

    Listening creates a holy silence. When you listen generously to people, they can hear the truth in themselves, often for the first time. And in the silence of listening, you can know yourself in everyone. Eventually you may be able to hear, in everyone and beyond everyone, the unseen singing softly to itself and to you. -Rachel Naomi Remen

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited January 2021

    Grace is always sufficient, provided we are ready to cooperate with it.If we fail to do our share, but rather choose to rely on self-will and self-direction, we shall not only get no help from the graces bestowed us, we shall actually make it impossible for further graces to be given. -Aldous Huxley

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited January 2021

    In the Now, there really is no destination. Each moment is lived for its own sake, even as you move toward whatever you many choose to pursue. When you are focused on some outcome or achievement--or are looking forward to the day when you are able to live in conditions that you imagine will be superior to whatever currently exists--your life right now becomes just an interval on the way to the next event. -Richard Moss

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,754
    edited January 2021

    If we could but recognize our common humanity, that we do belong together, that our destinies are bound up in one another's, that we can be free only together, that we can be human only together, then a glorious world would come into being where all of us lived harmoniously together as members of one family, the human family. -Desmond Tutu