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  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
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    Truth is like the stars; it does not appear except from behind obscurity of the night.
    Truth is like all beautiful things in the world; it does not disclose its desirability except
    to those who first feel the influence of falsehood. Truth is a deep kindness that teaches us
    to be content in our everyday life and share with the people the same happiness.

    Khalil Gibran

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited April 2022

    Adversity, if for no other reason, is of benefit, since it is sure to bring a season of sober reflection. People see clearer at such times. Storms purify the atmosphere.



    Henry Ward Beecher

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited April 2022

    Nature tops the list of potent tranquilizers and stress reducers. The mere sound of moving water has been shown to lower blood pressure.

    imagePatch Adams

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited May 2022

    Corrie Ten Boom


    Worrying is carrying tomorrow's load with today's strength--
    carrying two days at once. It is moving into tomorrow
    ahead of time. Worrying doesn't empty tomorrow of its
    sorrow, it empties today of its strength.

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
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    How necessary it is to cultivate a spirit of joy. It is a psychological truth that the physical acts of reverence and devotion make one feel devout. The courteous gesture increases one's respect for others. To act lovingly is to begin to feel loving, and certainly to act joyfully brings joy to others which in turn makes one feel joyful. I believe we are called to the duty of delight. -Dorothy Day

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited May 2022

    I have never given very deep thought to a philosophy of life, though I have a few ideas that I think are useful to me. One is that you do whatever comes your way as well as you can, and another is that you think as little as possible about yourself and as much as possible about other people and about things that are interesting. The third is that you get more joy out of giving joy to others and should put a good deal of thought into the happiness that you are able to give. -Eleanor Roosevelt

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
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    The paralyzing effect of fear makes us as helpless as babies and blinds us to the truth that God didn't send us here to be powerless spectators, but to become powerful initiators. We are spiritual beings having an earthly experience, and we have the power to break the cycle of negativity that is fueling a very dangerous world. It's not only possible, it's why we are here.



    Susan L. Taylor

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited May 2022

    Talent is God-given; be humble.

    Fame is man-given; be thankful.

    Conceit is self-given; be careful.

    - John Wooden

    There is no respect for others without humility in one's self.

    - Henri Frederic Amiel

    Pride makes us artificial and humility makes us real.

    - Thomas Merton

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited May 2022

    The more things you care about, and the more intensely you care, the more alive you are. This capacity for caring can illuminate any relationship: marriage, family, friendships--even the ties of affection that often join humans and animals. Each of us is born with some of it, but whether we let it expand or diminish is largely up to us. To care, you have to surrender the armor of indifference. You have to be willing to act, to make the first move.

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    Arthur Gordon

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited May 2022

    Want of love is a degree of callousness; for love is the perfection of consciousness. We do not love because we do not comprehend, or rather we do not comprehend because we do not love. For love is the ultimate meaning of everything around us. It is not a mere sentiment; it is truth; it is the joy that is at the root of all creation.

    --Rabindranath Tagore

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
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    One of the worst features about worrying is that it destroys our ability to concentrate. When we worry, our minds jump here and there and everywhere, and we lose all power of decision. However, when we force ourselves to face the worst and accept it mentally, we then eliminate all these vague imaginings and put ourselves in a position in which we are able to concentrate on our problem. -Willis H. Carrier

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited May 2022

    You become spiritually rich when you discover the riches of the kingdom within, when you have a consciousness of the oneness of all life; when you experience kinship with nature; when you are open to the buoyant spiritual lift of being in tune with the Infinite, when you know the power of meditation and prayer. -Wilferd A. Peterson

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited May 2022

    Compassion is not religious business, it is human business; it is not luxury, it is essential for our own peace and mental stability; it is essential for human survival.

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    the Dalai Lama

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited May 2022

    Love is a way of seeing and a way of being that honors God in everyone we meet. And it changes us in the most fundamental way. All we need to do is welcome the challenge of our relationships, training our eyes to look beyond human behavior to the Presence within. When we seek to live love, we discover through our interactions with others the divinity within ourselves. -Susan L. Taylor

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited May 2022

    In every adversity there lies the seed of an equivalent advantage. In every defeat is a lesson showing you how to win the victory next time.

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    Robert Collier

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited May 2022

    The best way I have found to follow my true desires is to pay attention to my intuitive sense. We all have great wisdom within us, a part of us that knows exactly what we need at every moment. We are born with this intuitive sense, but most of us are quickly taught to distrust and ignore it. We have to relearn something that should come naturally. Fortunately, it's not too difficult; it just takes some practice. -Shakti Gawain

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited May 2022

    It is a difficult lesson to learn today--to leave one's friends and family and deliberately practice the art of solitude for an hour or a day or a week. And yet, once it is done, I find there is a quality to being alone that is incredibly precious. Life rushes back into the void, richer, more vivid, fuller than before.

    Anne Morrow Lindbergh

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
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    We in the West don't think much in terms of balance, and obviously we should. Even the very thought of an exquisite union and balance of all our forces, both physical and mental, has a gentle, hopeful ring to it. . . . All of us must find a bridge between our physical and spiritual parts. When that balance is achieved, what a happy comfort for ourselves!

    Edward J. Lavin

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited May 2022

    Seek out that particular mental attribute which makes you feel most deeply and vitally alive, along with which comes the inner voice which says, "This is the real me," and when you have found that attitude, follow it. -William James

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited May 2022

    Sooner or later we all discover that the important moments in life are not the advertised ones, not the birthdays, the graduations, the weddings, not the great goals achieved. The real milestones are less prepossessing. They come to the door of memory unannounced, stray dogs that amble in, sniff around a bit, and simply never leave. Our lives are measured by these. -Susan B. Anthony

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited May 2022

    If we knew the true power of belief and positive thinking, we would never have a negative thought.

    Susan Santucci

  • rose312
    rose312 Member Posts: 4
    edited May 2022

    Anyone here live south of Springfield? I live in Coffeen.

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited May 2022

    Rose, I am likely south and east of you as well. I think though still roughly three to 3 & 1/2 hours away. My little and it is certainly that, is almost directly across from St. Louis, Missouri. That is 77 or 80 miles to the west of us.

    You usually only see my name here as I leave quotes daily. Some of the people who were here daily long timbe back ( when we all pretty much were fairly newly diagnosed ) still check to read the quotes, but don't really post anymore. Doesn't mean that no one else will answer your question, but only to let you know that most of the activity on here is more likely to be me for sure.

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited May 2022

    We believe that it is difficult to let go, but in truth, it is much more difficult and painful to hold and protect. Reflect upon anything in your life that you grasp hold of--an opinion, a historical resentment, an ambition, or an unfulfilled fantasy. Sense the tightness, fear, and defensiveness that surrounds the grasping. It is a painful, anxious experience of unhappiness. We do not let go in order to make ourselves impoverished or bereft. We let go in order to discover happiness and peace.

    Christina Feldma

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited May 2022

    We are all born with a belief in God. It may not have a name or face. We may not even see it as God. But it is there. It is the sense that comes over us as we stare into the starlit sky, or watch the last fiery rays of an evening sunset. It is the morning shiver as we wake on a beautiful day and smell a richness in the air that we know and love from somewhere we can't quite recall. It is the mystery behind the beginning of time and beyond the limits of space. It is a sense of otherness that brings alive something deep in our hearts. -Kent Nerburn

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited May 2022

    Of all the gifts that wise Providence
    grants us to make life full and happy,
    friendship is the most beautiful.

    Epicurus

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited May 2022

    Wealth consists not in having great possessions, but in having few wants. -Epictetus

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited May 2022

    Affirmation of life is the spiritual act by which people cease to live unreflectively and begin to devote themselves to their lives with reverence in order to raise them to their true value. To affirm life is to deepen, to make more inward, and to exalt the will-to-live.

    Albert Schweitzer

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited May 2022

    Personal prayer, it seems to me, is one of the simplest necessities of life, as basic to the individual as sunshine, food and water--and at times, of course, more so. By prayer I mean an effort to get in touch with the Infinite. We know that our prayers are imperfect. Of course they are. We are imperfect human beings. A thousand experiences have convinced me beyond room of doubt that prayer multiplies the strength of the individual and brings within the scope of his capabilities almost any conceivable objective.

    Dwight D. Eisenhower

  • chisandy
    chisandy Member Posts: 11,408
    edited May 2022

    We here in the Chicago area are on alert for tornadoes. The Fox River Valley (around Elgin) and now all of DuPage and extreme western Cook County including just NW of O'Hare are under active tornado warnings (i.e., cyclones spotted). Oddly, there's not much of a storm system (no thunder, lightning, drenching rain) but instead a pattern of wind shear causing rotation. Right here in the city by the lake it's 70F, bright and sunny. But we're expecting an actual system coming up from the south through around dinnertime. (And all this will be hitting southern Ontario after midnight tonight).