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  • illinoislady
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    Ultimately, we have just one moral duty: to reclaim large areas of peace in ourselves, more and more peace, and to reflect it towards others. And the more peace there is in us, the more peace there will also be in our troubled world. -Etty Hillesum

  • illinoislady
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    Most mornings when I awake, I am pleasantly surprised to find I'm still alive. On occasion I have been known to wake up mean and irritable, but even then I can choose not to stay that way. Yesterday is gone, and tomorrow may not come. Today is the only slot of time I really have. What a shame to blow it. I want to make today the very best possible. . . . Before I crawl out of bed, I thank the Lord for another day and ask for strength. Maybe I'm to clean the house, or work at the office, or talk with a friend over lunch. The tasks aren't the issue; my attitude is. -Marabel Morgan

  • illinoislady
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    Walking exercises the whole person. It exercises the body-- it gives the arms and legs a workout. It stimulates the flow of blood; expands the lungs. It is gentle and relaxing. It exercises the mind-- it shakes up the brain cells. It fills them with oxygen; drives out the cobwebs. A famous scientist says he does his best thinking on the two miles of sidewalk between his home and office.

    Walking exercises the emotions. It gives you a chance to observe and enjoy the world. Open your eyes to beauty. See the homes, the trees, the gardens. See the shining faces of little children. Listen for the church chimes, singing birds and the laughter of happy people. -Wilferd A. Peterson

  • illinoislady
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    Owning our story can be hard but not nearly as difficult as spending our lives running from it. Embracing our vulnerabilities is risky but not nearly as dangerous as giving up on love and belonging and joy—the experiences that make us the most vulnerable. Only when we are brave enough to explore the darkness will we discover the infinite power of our light. -Brené Brown

  • illinoislady
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    Acceptance is not a talent you either have or don't have. It's a learned response. My meditation teacher made a great point about the difference between a reaction and a response: You may not have control over your initial reaction to something, but you can decide what your response will be. You don't have to be at the mercy of your emotions, and acceptance can be your first step toward empowerment . . . For me, acceptance has been the cornerstone to my having an emotionally healthy response to my illness. -Morrie Schwartz

  • illinoislady
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    All of nature offers lessons on living, free of charge. One morning I noticed a dead tree supporting many living things--fungus, vines, lichen--which taught me that even after death we can continue to support those who live on. Living trees on our property teach other lessons. One tree has grown around a barbed wire fence. Another has grown around a nail, and a third through a chain link fence.

    These trees teach me how to accept irritation, absorb the pain and
    grow around problems. Nature teaches me how to find my place,
    grow toward the sunlight and bypass obstacles. To survive, we must
    be able to change in response to whatever is required by the
    challenge of the moment. Our bodies know this, but our
    minds often rebel when change is necessary.



    Bernie S. Siegel

  • illinoislady
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    edited June 2022

    Be grateful simply for being alive. When you are grateful for life, pure and simple, your life becomes one you can be grateful for. That may strike you as circular or even backward logic, but your attitude really does have an effect on how things work out. When you can't change your life any other way, you can still change your attitude. When you do, your life changes. You find more chances to love, and you will be surprised to see how much more love is returned to you. -Bernie Siegel

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
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    Creative gratitude is an attitude. It is magnetic and will draw good to you. It is good therapy, a road to happiness. Thankfulness is a way of living more fully. Be thankful for your health and you will have health in more abundance. Be thankful for the love you receive and it will be increased. Be thankful for your success and you'll open doors to further achievement. Be thankful for your friends and more friends will come to you. Be thankful for beauty and you'll experience it more deeply. Creative gratitude is a force for harmony and goodwill. It brings people together in love and understanding. It is high on the scale of creative qualities to be practiced day in and day out in our moment-to-moment contacts. -Wilferd A. Peterson

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
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    It's only in our minds that we are separate from the rest of the world. -Gay Luce

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
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    The whole of life is a journey toward youthful old age, toward self-contemplation, love, gaiety, and, in a fundamental sense, the most gratifying time of our lives. . . . "Old age" should be a harvest time when the riches of life are reaped and enjoyed, while it continues to be a special period for self-development and expansion.
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    Ashley Montague

  • illinoislady
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    When your inner eyes open, you can find immense beauty hidden within the inconsequential details of daily life. When your inner ears open, you can hear the subtle, lovely music of the universe everywhere you go.

    Timothy Ray Miller

  • illinoislady
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    To be great, be whole: do not exaggerate or exclude anything of what is yours. Be entire in everything. Put all that you are into the least that you do. Be like the full moon, living aloft and shining everywhere.

    Fernando Pessoa

  • illinoislady
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    It is only in exceptional moods that we realize how wonderful are
    the commonest experiences of life. It seems to me sometimes that
    these experiences have an "inner" side, as well as the outer side
    we normally perceive. At such moments one suddenly sees everything
    with new eyes; one feels on the brink of some great revelation. It is as if
    we caught a glimpse of some incredibly beautiful world
    that lies silently about us all the time.

    J.W.N. Sullivan

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
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    A greater poverty than that caused by lack of money is the poverty of unawareness. Men and women go about the world unaware of the beauty, the goodness, and the glories in it. Their souls are poor. It is better to have a poor pocketbook than to suffer from a poor soul. -Jerry Fleishman

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
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    When we start at the center of ourselves, we discover something worthwhile

    extending toward the periphery of the circle. We find again some of the joy

    in the now, some of the peace in the here, some of the love in me and thee

    which go to make up the kingdom of heaven on earth.

    Anne Morrow Lindbergh
  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
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    The Tao Te Ching says, When I let go of what I am, I become what
    I might be. When I let go of what I have, I receive what I need.
    Have you ever struggled to find work or love, only to find them
    after you have given up? This is the paradox of letting go.
    Let go, in order to achieve. Letting go is God's law.

    Mary Manin Morrissey

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
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    Why not go out on a limb?

    Isn't that where the fruit is?
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    Frank Scully

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
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    I believe that the rendering of useful service is the common duty of humankind and that only in the purifying fire of sacrifice is the dross of selfishness consumed and the greatness of the human soul set free. I believe in an all-wise and all-loving God, named by whatever name, and that the individual's highest fulfillment, greatest happiness, and widest usefulness are to be found in living in harmony with his will. I believe that love is the greatest thing in the world; that it alone can overcome hate; that right can and will triumph over might. -John D. Rockefeller, Jr.

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
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    Living mindlessly . . . takes an enormous toll. What we get from each

    moment depends on the attention we give it, and the quality of our

    experience reflects the quality of our awareness.

    Roger Walsh
  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
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    When the heart of your heart opens, you can take deep pleasure in the company of the people around you . . . When you are open to the beauty, mystery, and grandeur of ordinary existence, you "get it" that it always has been beautiful, mysterious, and grand and always will be. - Timothy Ray Miller

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited June 2022

    Imagine your mind as a garden and thoughts as the seeds you plant. Habitual

    negative, unhealthy, self-critical thoughts produce the weeds and thistles of

    depression, discontent, and anxiety in the garden of your mind. Luckily, the

    opposite is also true. Consistently planting positive, healthy, constructive

    thoughts will yield a crop of beautiful feelings, such as gratitude, love, and joy.

    Sue Patton Thoele
  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited June 2022

    "A great attitude does much more than turn on the lights in our worlds; it seems to magically connect us to all sorts of serendipitous opportunities that were somehow absent before the change."
    – – Earl Nightingale

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited June 2022

    Yesterday is experience. Tomorrow is hope. Today is getting from one to another as best we can.

    John M. Henry

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
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    Life should not be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well-preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside in a cloud of smoke, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming "Wow! What a Ride! – Hunter S. Thompson

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited June 2022

    Many of us unknowingly damage our Souls with our negative attitudes and actions or by simple neglect. By making the relationship with your Soul an important part of your life, however, by honoring it in your daily routine, you give your life greater meaning and substance. Use your experiences--all of them--as opportunities to nourish your Soul!

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    Elisabeth Kuebler-Ross

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited June 2022

    To be alive, to be able to see,

    to walk. . . it's all a miracle.
    I have adopted the technique of
    living life from miracle to miracle.
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    Artur Rubinstein

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
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    All the world is searching for joy and happiness, but these cannot be purchased for any price in any marketplace, because they are virtues that come from within, and like rare jewels must be polished, for they shine brightest in the light of faith, and in the service of brotherly love. -Lucille R. Taylor

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited June 2022

    It is only in exceptional moods that we realize how wonderful are
    the commonest experiences of life. It seems to me sometimes that
    these experiences have an "inner" side, as well as the outer side
    we normally perceive. At such moments one suddenly sees everything
    with new eyes; one feels on the brink of some great revelation. It is as if
    we caught a glimpse of some incredibly beautiful world
    that lies silently about us all the time.

    J.W.N. Sullivan

  • illinoislady
    illinoislady Member Posts: 39,751
    edited June 2022

    The people of our nation and the people of the whole world need to be gripped by the moral imperatives which grow out of the nature of God, by a sense of right, by principles of truth, and by ideals of decency. Nothing is more needed by this world than a revival of simple goodness and genuine uprightness. -Clifton J. Allen

  • illinoislady
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    It need not discourage us if we are full of doubts. Healthy questions keep faith dynamic. In fact, unless we start with doubts we cannot have a deep-rooted faith. One who believes lightly and unthinkingly has not much of a belief. One who has a faith which is not to be shaken has won it through blood and tears--has worked his or her way from doubt to truth as one who reaches a clearing through a thicket of brambles and thorns.

    Helen Keller