Stop Smoking Support Thread

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  • SeasideMemories
    SeasideMemories Member Posts: 2,462
    edited April 2012

    Babs,



    I m going to update the Quit Smoking Roll Call in the next day or so to add Candie.... If you would like to be added, post or PM with your quit date.... In either case.... Great job on Day 3...... Those first few days are the hardest and it does get better from here!!



    Look forward to hearing more from you....

  • Galsal
    Galsal Member Posts: 754
    edited April 2012

    oh MY, so very sorry to hear Jo had complications.  to each and every one of you, you CAN do this as you get through your rough moments! remember...just for today you will not smoke!

  • Karina
    Karina Member Posts: 76
    edited April 2012

    Hi girls, I am not in your group of strong quitters ( failed once more...), but wanted to reach to dear Jo and wish her a quick recovery. Hope you feel better soon Jo. Prayers for you.

    Lisamarie, well done on staying quit and good luck for the upcoming surgery.

    Seaside, VJSL, Karen, Galsal, Minus you are just fantastic !!!! Admire your strength and support to others... 

    Hugs to you all.

    Karina 

  • lisamarie68
    lisamarie68 Member Posts: 971
    edited April 2012

    Thank you seaside ,I hear now that Jo may be coming home today :) i sure hope so .. I miss u Jo and have been praying for you so much ...xoxoxox

  • SeasideMemories
    SeasideMemories Member Posts: 2,462
    edited April 2012

    Thanks for the update, Lisamarie...



    I think she mentioned earlier that today is her Birthday.... Can't think of a better present than to finally get to go home! I hate hospitals and can't imagine having to stay any longer than I absolutely had to.



    Happy Birthday, Jo!!! Still thinking of you!

  • karen333
    karen333 Member Posts: 2,037
    edited April 2012

    lisamarie, you have been a great reporter on Jo.  Now it looks like today is the day Jo comes home, YAY, Happy Birthday Jo!!!!

  • lisamarie68
    lisamarie68 Member Posts: 971
    edited April 2012

    Oops yes .. Today is Jo's Birthday .. Happy Birthday dear JO... Luv u xoxoxoxox

  • minustwo
    minustwo Member Posts: 13,359
    edited April 2012

    Jo:  Happy B-day and welcome home.  We've been thinking of you.

    Karina:  You're welcome to lurk or speak out anytime.  And let us know when you're ready for another try at stopping.

  • Galsal
    Galsal Member Posts: 754
    edited April 2012

    Karina, I've before gone back to smoking before.  However, as our lisamarie says...just for today, I will not smoke.  Don't be so hard on yourself....it works to break it down into doable sections of time!  Welcome btw!

    Jo!  REST woman!!

  • o2bhealthy
    o2bhealthy Member Posts: 1,089
    edited April 2012

    Sending gentle hugs and healing prayers Jo's way!  I hope you have a restful Birthday Jo! 

  • lisamarie68
    lisamarie68 Member Posts: 971
    edited April 2012

    Jo has come home , I just got the news .. Yippe Jo ... luv ya and miss ya .. now rest up ..Hugs  and more hugs 4 you .. ( doing the happy dance ) 

  • jo1955
    jo1955 Member Posts: 7,545
    edited April 2012

    Hi Sistas!  I am finally home.  What started out to be an overnight adventure turned out to be something totally different.  I so did not want to be close to the hospital on my birthday - must have jinxed myself on that one.  Anyway, I am home and resting. So much to catch up on - I will try and to back and read later.  Never thought of having a cig once while I was in.  Hope everyone is doing well.

  • karen333
    karen333 Member Posts: 2,037
    edited April 2012

    Welcome home Jo, you sure did have an adventure, so glad you are home safe and sound.  You had a lot of prayers sent your way and the angels listened.  love and hugs, Karen

  • jo1955
    jo1955 Member Posts: 7,545
    edited April 2012

    Karen - It brings happy tears to my eyes - all the prayers and thoughts.  I felt everyone of them.  I can't thank everyone enough.  

  • karen333
    karen333 Member Posts: 2,037
    edited April 2012

    Dear Jo, thanks not needed, we just purely missed you, the thread was not the same. hugs, Karen

  • SeasideMemories
    SeasideMemories Member Posts: 2,462
    edited April 2012

    Welcome Home, Jo!!!



    We are all glad to see your post! Have missed you!!!

  • SeasideMemories
    SeasideMemories Member Posts: 2,462
    edited April 2012

    Karina,



    Just wanted to say that I am glad to hear from you!! You will quit when the time is right for YOU...



    In the meantime, feel free to hang out here to read and post! This thread is for all who are in ANY stage of quitting and that includes thinking about it and/or regrouping to figure out what did/didn't work last time and getting a new plan in place for next time!!



  • JudiH
    JudiH Member Posts: 1,168
    edited April 2012

    Jo1955, hope all went well!

  • babsbrink
    babsbrink Member Posts: 203
    edited April 2012

    Welcome home and Happy Birthday Jo!!!

    Today makes four days. I think today was the hardest so far. But its almost bed time, and I got through it. Thanks so much to everyone here for the wise words, great advice, and warm welcome.

    Barbara

  • minustwo
    minustwo Member Posts: 13,359
    edited April 2012

    Babsbrink:  You're in my thoughts tomorrow. I found weekends the hardest.  Just one more day until Monday.  And then one more day until Tuesday.  And....

  • lisamarie68
    lisamarie68 Member Posts: 971
    edited April 2012

    I am sooo Happy to see my friend Jo home and safe :) xoxoxox

  • karen333
    karen333 Member Posts: 2,037
    edited April 2012

    babs and Minus Two, weekends were the hardest for me also.  babs, I sure was well rested for that first week, going to bed early was the best advice Seaside gave me.  My house was sparkly clean too!!

  • jo1955
    jo1955 Member Posts: 7,545
    edited April 2012

    Welcome Barbara - Don't remember if we have met already.  Congrats on 4 days.  Weekends were also the hardest for me.  I live with a smoker so double the tough time but have made it through.  This is the best bunch of ladies on the planet.  They all have such good advice, tips and are a great source of encouragement and support.

    Hi lisamarie - Really missed you girlfriend.

    Heading to bed - I'm really tired and just took a pain pill so sleep is calling me. 

  • SeasideMemories
    SeasideMemories Member Posts: 2,462
    edited April 2012

    Jo.... Hope you had a great birthday yesterday (29th, right ;) ) and are resting comfortably today! Sending healing thoughts your way!

  • karen333
    karen333 Member Posts: 2,037
    edited April 2012

    Dear Jo, hope you slept well last night, you need good restorative sleep to help you heal.  Don't be trying to do things quickly, just rest.  It must feel grand to be home again, and a Happy Belated Birthday to you!!! love and hugs, Karen

  • jo1955
    jo1955 Member Posts: 7,545
    edited April 2012

    Seaside - My birthday is the 21st which was yesterday.  

    I did not sleep well last night.  I do have an adjustable bed but don't think I got it set right.  Besides, I had to keep from turning over on my left side which is the surgery side.  I think I am going to use the recliner tonight and then I have to stay on my back.  Haven't done a whole lot today.  Took 2 naps.  DH helped me cook dinner. I sat and told him what to do when - that sure felt good to do that - LOL!  Had to take a pain pill - the drain sites are bothering me - no real pain just a constant ache.  Just paid a few bills on line and now headed to my chair for the rest of the night.

    Karen - It feels wonderful to be home.  The shower this morning was super.  

    Hope everyone had a great weekend.

    Hugs 

  • LadyinBama
    LadyinBama Member Posts: 993
    edited April 2012

    Jo: I haven't checked in for a couple of days. I was so sorry to hear you had problems. Glad you are home. Definitely try a recliner. That's what I did, I slept in it for ages! Get your pillow and a soft, warm blanket and just snuggle down into it. I actually liked sleeping in the recliner.

    I've changed my avatar picture. The ladies on my OvCa board wanted us to light a candle and pray each Sunday night at 7pm for all our cancer sisters having recurrences or other problems. I bought a teal candle, then thought, I can't leave out my BC sisters, so I got a pink candle too and will be praying for all of you!

  • karen333
    karen333 Member Posts: 2,037
    edited April 2012

    Jo, after my friend had hip surgery she slept in a recliner for months, as Bama said it keeps you from going to your side and is quite comfy.  How long are you going to play the operation card to get DH up and doing your bidding, bet you could get 3 - 4 weeks out of it, LOL.  Could also play the non-smoking card, since it makes you cough and that really hurts the operation site!!!!  Hope this night's sleep is better, so glad you are taking naps too! hugs, Karen

  • karen333
    karen333 Member Posts: 2,037
    edited April 2012

    Bama, Love, love, love the candle and prayer idea, I may adopt that idea at my house, have a 20% discount card for Michaels, it is a huge craft, candle, jewelry...store, don't know if you have them down there.I have checked this past 2 Sat.'s for spring football, don't have it up here, getting so I like golf!  hugs, Karen

  • jo1955
    jo1955 Member Posts: 7,545
    edited April 2012

    Karen - The operation card will last until I get the drains out.  DH is already fussing because he has to do more around the house.  I am just ignoring him - he does stuff anyway - fussing or not.  And I do know what Michaels is.  I prefer Hobby Lobby - they have fabric and I am a quilter but that is just me. 

    Bama - Love the candle and prayer idea.  More of us should adapt that in our homes.