Bonfire of the Goddesses

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  • duckyb1
    duckyb1 Member Posts: 9,646
    edited November 2014

    Maybe the tide is turning for us, and the good news is surfacing........we're a hearty bunch of "great friends, and we never give up,or give in..............when I first began this trip with cancer I use to have a saying....................

    "I have cancer......it does not have me"......I still live by that...........no one or nothing chooses my destiny but me........not Dr.'s, not cancer, not people................ME..........

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  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited November 2014

    yes we have choices and Ducky u made the right one

  • duckyb1
    duckyb1 Member Posts: 9,646
    edited November 2014

    Feel good today......of course I'm worried about the outcome, but enjoying feeling more like myself.......I made the decision already that I will not go on Falslodex.........researched it completely, and don't like what I read...........so I am happy with the choice I made.............hugs to everyone who encourages me here.....your my rock...........

  • duckyb1
    duckyb1 Member Posts: 9,646
    edited November 2014

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    This is so true.......and I'm not italian, just adopted into the family...........

  • blondiex46
    blondiex46 Member Posts: 2,726
    edited November 2014

    Worry bout 1 thing at a time.

  • duckyb1
    duckyb1 Member Posts: 9,646
    edited November 2014

    Blondie........your right.....one day at a time......thanks for the reminder......hugs

  • PoppyK
    PoppyK Member Posts: 1,275
    edited November 2014

    Italian is a way of life! We are loud and opinionated, talk with our hands, cook too much food and eat it, too!

    You don't have to be born Italian to be considered Italian and part of the family (my favorite part)!

    Glad you are doing well, Ducky!

  • SlowDeepBreaths
    SlowDeepBreaths Member Posts: 6,702
    edited November 2014

    Ducky, I know this has been a tough decision for you. The
    good news is nothing is ever set in stone. 

    I’d take this month and enjoy the
    things you haven’t been able to do. Try and keep the decision out of your mind.
    Once the month is over, you’ll have a good before and after comparison.
    At that time you can re-evaluate. I think you may have a clearer picture if the
    risk is worth the improved QOL. You’ve been in so much pain for so long, it’s
    really good to see you finally feeling a bit better. Gentle hugs.

    BTW - Love the Italian thingy!!

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited November 2014

    of course she did the right think

    We beat this thing to death with those damn pills

    Yeah if ur young shoot with all U got

    We need QOL now....

    I wanna give U a big hugggggg

    Now maybe U can come and visit

    I'm Italian...and I cook...still have stuff that's not GF..

    Blondie---lady of a few words..those few word R very wise

  • SlowDeepBreaths
    SlowDeepBreaths Member Posts: 6,702
    edited November 2014

    Honestly, if it was me.....I wouldn't hesitate to go off of them. I've made some treatment decisions that many wouldn't have for better QOL. I would personally choose quality over longevity any day. We are all different though.

  • Tomboy
    Tomboy Member Posts: 2,700
    edited November 2014

    but I want some italian friends!!!!

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited November 2014

    U have Italian friend Kath

    Me,slow and Ducky is Italian by injection

    Don't no if there is anyone else

    If so speak up!!!!!

  • m0mmyof3
    m0mmyof3 Member Posts: 9,758
    edited November 2014

    I have Italian friends. Because they are older and their son works a lot, hubby and I go over to their house to help them occasionally with prepping their yard for winter and helping them plant their garden in the spring. They insist on cooking a meal and sending home some of it with us so that we don't have to cook one night.

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited November 2014

    Italian ppl never no when to stop cookin

  • m0mmyof3
    m0mmyof3 Member Posts: 9,758
    edited November 2014

    nope.

  • Tomboy
    Tomboy Member Posts: 2,700
    edited November 2014

    ....I....have.... Italian  friends!!!!! I just thought you all were extra special!  Who knew!!

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited November 2014

    we r extra special

    Come to PA for THANKSGIVING 

    I'll show u how we do it here...

  • PoppyK
    PoppyK Member Posts: 1,275
    edited November 2014

    I'm only 1/4 Italian genetically, but I consider myself Italian because of my Italian grandparent and the way I was raised. I show love by cooking and feeding people. We can't help but talk with our hands... and it can get loud. But we don't argue much.

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited November 2014

    I talk loud

    And

    I talk with my hands

    And a good conversation can end up hot...

  • Alyson
    Alyson Member Posts: 3,737
    edited November 2014

    You are all loud and wonderful. Do have some crazy Italian friends here and DH wishes he was Italian because he loves Italian food. Have friends just like those on Ducky's list but they are not Italian just crazy. Hope I am like that. Just love having friends over, cooking for them, and sitting round the table putting the world to right. Best sort of a gathering. 

    Trying to think about Christmas presents. Just want to get them done. It is supposed to be Spring here but still not very warm. 

    Big hugs. 

  • Tomboy
    Tomboy Member Posts: 2,700
    edited November 2014

    Alyson, I believe you are an honorary italian, by nature! And poppyk too!

  • duckyb1
    duckyb1 Member Posts: 9,646
    edited November 2014

    So  true.......when I have any gathering.......enough is never enough.........99% of the time you will never find a gathering done by someone Italian, or  adopted into it that ever runs out of food...................that is a cardinal sin and Lord help the person who does........

    Trust me....you will be the talk in the car on the way home..........and the next day too.........LOL, but we are so sneaky we act like we like your food even when it is horrible and then eat before we go to your house when invited again................LOL.............

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited November 2014

    not to get off the Italian subject

    BUT

    Next Sat.will be a year that veggy past away

    I'm gonna make stuffed peppers on Thanksgiving to honor her..she just loved them

    Of course I can't eat them but my family will gobble them up

  • blondiex46
    blondiex46 Member Posts: 2,726
    edited November 2014

    Love u fire Hugs

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited November 2014

    love u too Blondie

    I'm havin problems with this site again

    I just went down to smoke and I saw snowflakes...grrrrrr

  • jelson
    jelson Member Posts: 622
    edited November 2014

    I am a lousy photographer so this is kind of blurry. I took this today with my phone as I was waiting at deli counter. I didn't know where else to post it, I suppose it doesn't need to be cooked in the bonfire, but I'd like to throw it in anyway. It is chicken breast, specifically boneless and skinless, ready to be sliced with pink decorations including two breast cancer pink ribbons and an american heart association sticker too. Somehow chicken breasts will never taste the same to me again.


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  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited November 2014

    throw that pink shit into the fire

    Focktober is over

    They r PINKWASHING

    Welcome Jelson...if u find more bring it here

  • blondiex46
    blondiex46 Member Posts: 2,726
    edited November 2014

    Yep pink shit in the fire

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858
    edited November 2014

    good morning

    What a brisk morning it is

    Let's go to the fire and keep warm

  • crog234
    crog234 Member Posts: 324
    edited November 2014

    I am joining you at the fire.. Cold here this morning..