5 year survivors, post your screen name here!

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  • ahdjdbcjdjdbkf
    ahdjdbcjdjdbkf Member Posts: 188
    edited July 2014

    I don't actually know - she told me invasive stage II. Because she was diagnosed 17 years ago - and the different types didn't get as much attention back then - she seemed not to be as astute about it. I remember when she had it and my mom was doing nice things for her like bringing over food. My mom has several friends who are 20+ year survivors although some have had recurrences.

  • lago
    lago Member Posts: 11,653
    edited July 2014

    FYI there is a 30 YO survivor in my building. I never knew even though she has really bad LE in one arm. When I told her I was diagnosed with cancer she said "breast?" I said yes… and that's when she told me she was a 30 year survivor. 

  • moderators
    moderators Posts: 8,636
    edited July 2014

    WOW 30 years! What an inspiration!

  • ahdjdbcjdjdbkf
    ahdjdbcjdjdbkf Member Posts: 188
    edited July 2014

    30 years is AMAZING! LE sucks!!! but I truly do believe there will be new treatments in the future as so many are on the horizon and in trials right now.

  • Yayme
    Yayme Member Posts: 11
    edited August 2014

    wish I had a "like" button...lol...wow ladies, you are all so inspiring!!! Hugs to all <3

  • taniae
    taniae Member Posts: 60
    edited August 2014

    Such an inspiring thread. Thank you ladies.

  • ahdjdbcjdjdbkf
    ahdjdbcjdjdbkf Member Posts: 188
    edited August 2014

    I wanted to jump in to say if any of you have LE or encounter people who have LE - my own case has gotten quite a bit better in the past 6-8 weeks by doing a few things I learned from other LE warriors and put into action myself: 1. Cardio while wearing a sleeve. It doesn't have to be really hard, and mine isn't since I have achilles tendonitis. I just lightly ride a stationary bike for 30 minutes with a sleeve. It swells up a bit while doing it. Then I keep the sleeve on for an hour after while I cool down and my swelling goes way down during this time. 2. Lifting slightly heavier weight and pushing myself a bit. While there is fear about this, it has absolutely lowered my swelling. The studies say weights can be done with or without a sleeve for essentially the same result. I am mostly doing without. There is usually an immediate difference within an hour of the workout. 3. Drink tons of water. Nothing takes down a bad flare up like a couple of days of heavy hydration. Sometimes hydrating makes it better in just a couple of hours. 4. Do not wear ANY tight bras and minimize the time spent wearing them at all. Even though I have a poor result from my reconstruction - 2 totally different sized and placed boobs - I still go out on some errands and stuff with no bra and a loose shirt. Lastly, I think there is WAY too much emphasis on wearing sleeves as a solution when I don't even find it helps that much except during cardio to put some compression to help take down swelling as we cool down. It is the only time I wear it. I flew to London and back without a sleeve last week because in my experience flying with compression has made it worse and never better. There is a clear study (I have read them all) that says compression does nothing during flying. I have had bad swelling in the past and got very very depressed about it for months and was suicidal at times. Then I picked up the habits above and it compeltely turned my sitaution around. We LE ladies are subject to lots of myths passed from therapist to therapist. The TRUE risk from flying actually may be in handling luggage. The study actually hypothecized that flying is not an impact to LE at all, but rather those with issues hurt themselves handling luggage. I'm not trying to be a doctor or anything like that, folks. Just sharing what I have learned. I am really dedicating myself to this both for myself and to help others.

  • taniae
    taniae Member Posts: 60
    edited August 2014


    Thanks for the all the advice Mariasnow. I had an axilliary node dissection and although I haven't encountered LE yet (hoping not to), it is always better to know how to prevent it. I have a hot tub at home and I still haven't been back in it since surgery as I'm worried it might start things off.

  • liz19
    liz19 Member Posts: 7
    edited August 2014

    WinkingI AM LIZ19   OVER 5 YR SURVIVOR !!!!   CAN ANYONE HELP ME WITH  CBC RESULTS  WHEN YOU GET  YOUR FOLLOW UP EACH YEAR?   MY DOCTOR WANTS A RECHECK ON  MY CA -27-29 #  TO BE LOWER ANY SUGGESTIONS ON HOW TO LOWER IT ?

  • dlb823
    dlb823 Member Posts: 2,701
    edited August 2014

    Liz, the CA27-29 measures circulating cancer cells.  Ideally, it should be less than 36.  As far as I know, there's no way to lower it the way we can impact cholesterol, for example.  It is what it is, although it's not always accurate in some women.  Do you know what yours normally is and what it was this most recent time?  That could be a clue as to whether it's a normal fluctuation or something possibly more concerning.     Deanna

  • lago
    lago Member Posts: 11,653
    edited August 2014

    liz my onc doesn't even do them because she feels they are unreliable.

  • ahdjdbcjdjdbkf
    ahdjdbcjdjdbkf Member Posts: 188
    edited August 2014

    The studies show that the tumor markers can be considered about 80% reliable. To me, I'd rather have that opportunity to know so I get the markers done. If my onc didn't do it, I would absolutely go somewhere else and have it done.

  • sherry67
    sherry67 Member Posts: 370
    edited August 2014

    my dr doesn't relied on the markers either due to mine we're all normal when diagnosed....

  • bourscheid
    bourscheid Member Posts: 43
    edited August 2014

    6 years on Aug. 18!  

  • LizA17
    LizA17 Member Posts: 102
    edited August 2014

    thats wonderful borscheid!!

  • kdrez
    kdrez Member Posts: 11
    edited August 2014

    Woowoo!  Made it to five years!  My goal was to see my lil gosemah's (grand babies) get on the bus to start school.  And that dream will come true tomorrow!  They were four and five months old when I was diagnosed. My kids are older and have the skills to take care of themselves now.  Time has been precious and many blessings to breastcancer.org and all the treasured incredible writers who continue to help me through this incredible journey of learning and sharing.  Positive vibrations....

  • dsgirl
    dsgirl Member Posts: 193
    edited August 2014

    Hello,

    I rarely post anymore, but did want to mention I was 5 years from date of surgery in July 2014.

    My husband was so very sick during that time, and I could not readily find this thread.

    I did not do any of the recommended hormonals, like aromasin etc, and "lucked" out anyway.

    I now see MO once an year, and have mammogram and blood work before appt.

    Good to see 20 pages on this subject.

    dsgirl

  • dsgirl
    dsgirl Member Posts: 193
    edited August 2014

    bump.

    Looked the Forum up - it's called acknowledging and honoring our Community.

    Topic: 5 year survivors post your screen name here.

  • merryk
    merryk Member Posts: 2
    edited August 2014

    Merryk, 14 years!  DCIS, STAGE 0.  Sentinel node biopsy.  Chose mastectomy because breast was very dense.   Lumpectomy would not prevent new csncer.  No complications, very little pain throughout.   No radiation or chemo necessary.  Find the top breast surgeon in your area or condsider going elsewhere.  Breast cancer is life threatening, so you need the BEST surgeon you can find!!

  • merryk
    merryk Member Posts: 2
    edited August 2014

    Your comments are spot on!  I had no Lymphedema after mastectomy with sentinel node biopsy until I lugged heavy stuff 7 months later.  Surgeon sent me to therapist who specializes in gentle massage for breast cancer survivors with Lymphedema.  Do no heavy lifting on the operated side

  • SharonMH
    SharonMH Member Posts: 46
    edited August 2014

    5 years and doing well. SharonMH

  • peacestrength
    peacestrength Member Posts: 236
    edited August 2014

    Awesome, SharonMH!  Thank you for speading hope!

  • ahdjdbcjdjdbkf
    ahdjdbcjdjdbkf Member Posts: 188
    edited August 2014

    SharonMH, your post brought tears to my eyes. You had a scary diagnosis but that is all behind you now!

  • azpreferred
    azpreferred Member Posts: 3
    edited September 2014

    I am a six year survivor. Diagnosed with stage IV breast cancer with metastatic lesion in my left mandible over a year ago. Receiving Afinitor , Exemestane and now an injection for bone regeneration.

  • denny123
    denny123 Member Posts: 1,553
    edited September 2014

    11 1/2 year survivor of Stage 4 with original metasis to my liver.  Now have a recurrence in the lymph nodes behind my sternum.

    Hanging in there.

    Denise

  • songbird68
    songbird68 Member Posts: 127
    edited September 2014

    There's so many amazing women here! Thank you so much for posting - I need to hear these stories right now. I am a year out from dx and admit I'm feeling a bit down at the moment, but you have inspired me.

    Denise - you are AWESOME!! Keep hanging in there.

    Love you guys:)

    x x x

  • claire_in_seattle
    claire_in_seattle Member Posts: 2,793
    edited September 2014

    This week marks 5 years out from diagnosis, with the surgery date coming right up three weeks from now. Looking back, it was an unwelcome detour, but now I am moving on to a wonderful and exciting time of my life both career-wise and personally. I am having the most wonderful time with my new love interest who also likes the outdoors. We met during the annual cycling event to Portland OR. I have no idea how "long term" this will be, but just so fun.

    I am doing the best work of my career, and I think work that is very much needed. I am also stronger and fitter than ever. I measure that in my ability to go up hills cycling and also that I am faster now. I think I will find the same thing when ski season rolls around.

    I eat mostly what I want, hence the cycling and skiing and stay in shape. Essential too for staying on my game.

    My biggest surprise for this time of my life is not that I had cancer, but that I live this lifestyle in my mid 60s. Life is really good, and especially sweet because it was just a bit over 5 years ago that I found a lump in my armpit and immediately knew what it was.

    And yes, I am beyond grateful to those who helped me, and I believe cured me. For, I would not be here otherwise. - Claire

  • dsgirl
    dsgirl Member Posts: 193
    edited September 2014

    Claire

    So happy for you, and like you I am forever grateful for my medical team that got me here.

    BCO also has been a place to go when I did not know if I was the only one with certain feelings, worries etc. and I found I was not alone.

    dsgirl

  • dlb823
    dlb823 Member Posts: 2,701
    edited September 2014

    Claire, I've always found your posts inspiring, and this is the best one yet!  Congrats on the 5 year mark, and so happy for everything else that's wonderful in your life!     Deanna

  • WinningSoFar
    WinningSoFar Member Posts: 126
    edited September 2014

    I am 15 years from my first breast cancer with no recurrences and nearly 3 years from my second breast cancer (a new primary).