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A Retreat for Peaceful Contemplation

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  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858

    in plain old English ur hogging up this thread

    Picture after picture after picture is so out of line

    We r not playin can u top this

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858

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  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858

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  • gmafoley
    gmafoley Member Posts: 5,978

    I never said not to comment - I said keep LONG conversation to PMs please... No worries  - don't have the strength to keep up with the Jones and I refuse to do that... How can a topic that was supposed to be soooo peaceful become angry people that hate me because I wanted to keep it pictures only.. All I wanted to do here is help others come to a topic to just quietly look at the peaceful pictures and breathe - and give some that only have a short time left, have a moment to themselves.. I have come to decision that I can't do that here.  and It just makes me sad... I'm going to contemplate and breathe... I suggest everyone else do the same.

  • socallisa
    socallisa Member Posts: 10,184

    As I said before, no one is forcing anyone to look at the photos ..at least they are all my own. 

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858

    so once again ur playing can u top this??????

    Gee some things just never change

  • socallisa
    socallisa Member Posts: 10,184

    not really

  • barbe1958
    barbe1958 Member Posts: 7,605

    Anyone can post a pic at any time. I never saw this as a competition but as a glorious flood of beautiful and moving pics! As Lisa says, just look at one pic a day if you want, or every other day. You don`t have to go through them all, the site will keep track of where you left off. I LOVE seeing them ALL!

    And Gma, you DID tell us not to comment. That is why some people have left.

  • duckyb1
    duckyb1 Member Posts: 9,646

    Ok, enough of this shit...........GMA it is your thread...............you created it, and you should  be able to say what you like on it.

    Just a warning Mods don't like this kind of crap..........so enough already..........its not a pissing contest, and pardon my vulgarity, but I dealt with fools before, and this is ridiculous.......and trust me.......it will get you banned..........the Mods don't like "UGLY"....................

    GMA......Your the boss here, and don' forget it.................I know someone else who owns her own thread or at least calls it "hers" and gets away with it............so I say "to think different would be a double standad"

  • socallisa
    socallisa Member Posts: 10,184

    image

    Peace

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858

    enuf said

    Tomorrow is a bright new day

    Things look different in the morning

    Just remember we r all in our own battle with this damn disease

    Do we need this too?????

  • duckyb1
    duckyb1 Member Posts: 9,646

    GMA.......you might be right........do what makes you happy..........

    I think what GMA said was .....keep the comments short................long conversations could be PM'd at least that is what I got from it........

  • FireKracker
    FireKracker Member Posts: 5,858

    ducky

    Ur beating a dead horse

  • SlowDeepBreaths
    SlowDeepBreaths Member Posts: 6,702

    WOW! This is unbelievable. I typically don’t comment on
    stuff like this, but this is really disturbing.

    I started following this thread from the beginning and it
    used to be one of my favorites. I stopped following it because I just couldn’t
    keep up with all of the pictures. I like to post to threads that go a bit
    slower – it’s difficult for me to process info and when I get too behind it stresses me
    out. No problem – it was my choice.

    I understand the spirit of the thread – it’s a wonderful
    concept GMA. You tried to have a thread that was slow, quiet and peaceful – I
    loved the concept – it was unique and I hadn’t seen anything like it.

    We are all sisters and it shocks me that there isn’t more
    respect for the vision of the thread creator. Don’t we owe that to one another?
    I feel like she was pretty clear on her vision. I know all threads are open for posting by anyone, but I don’t think I’ve ever
    seen someone bullied off of their own thread before. This shocks me and doesn’t
    seem right.

    I’m so sorry GMA – maybe people just didn’t realize what you
    were trying to do for people that needed a slower, quieter thread. It was so
    helpful to me while going through treatment. It was actually something I could keep up with. Thank you.

  • duckyb1
    duckyb1 Member Posts: 9,646

    Well spoken Slow.......my feeling exactly.............but I had it happen to me too, so now nothing shocks me......and yes........it was actually getting boring.......why...........post after post after post..........and over-kill......is how I would describe it............plus so what if we didn't take all the pictures we posted.........beauty doesn't have to come from your camera..............it can come from a picture hanging on someones wall............enough said........

    GMA......you had the most beautiful.........WHY......cause it was right outside your window......you never had to leave your house................

  • socallisa
    socallisa Member Posts: 10,184

    Actually it's all about copyrights

  • barbe1958
    barbe1958 Member Posts: 7,605

    Gma deleted all her posts that basically told us to shut up and yet when she wanted to comment, she felt free to. There wasn`t long discourses on this thread until now, brought to a head by people leaving and commenting as they left. I can`t copy and paste Gma`s original threat as it is deleted, but here is one reaction:

    Aug 2, 2014 11:44PM GrammyR wrote:

    GmaFoley- sorry you feel that way . I guess I will sign off this thread. This is BC site after all.

  • gmafoley
    gmafoley Member Posts: 5,978

    Page 60 had my request - I only deleted pictures that I was trying to keep up with Lisa.. and felt I got caught up with a "top this" attitude. I didn't want that:

    Jul 30, 2014 01:41PM GmaFoley wrote:

    That isn't what I meant Barbe - *Hugs* - You commenting on a picture is no problem. They have been short and sweet.

    We have always kept the comments to a minimum - PMs for long conversations. That was why I gave permission to discuss this. This was supposed to be a quiet/calming picture only type of topic - The Premise of Topic is below:

    "I have been told by many, that my pictures are so peaceful. So here is Picture #1 to start your journey. Come here to retreat whenever you like and remember to breathe. Know that God and the ladies on this board are here for you. Please keep long conversations in PMs to each other."

    I don't find, I am feeling peaceful here anymore... That is all.. I feel like it is a competition on who has the fanciest picture.. They are beautiful.. I just feel it has grown into something else. Maybe just a crappy hot day today. I think I will leave it to you all to do what you will.

  • gmafoley
    gmafoley Member Posts: 5,978

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    This is my picture - quiet peaceful with a short note ... Hoping to bring a bit of peace to this horrible time on my topic.

    Nancy, Ducky, Slow, and FK - thank you, but sometimes you just have to Let Go and Let God and His beauty take 

    care of the hardening in the hearts of others.

  • barbe1958
    barbe1958 Member Posts: 7,605

    Gma, I thought it was going brilliantly! Some pages had short notes or comments and other had nothing at all. As a viewer and a not-often poster, I enjoyed the "slide-show" of pic after pic. This is not a competititon and I never saw it as so, so maybe that is just in some minds, but certainly not all.

  • gardengumby
    gardengumby Member Posts: 4,860

    just to add... I never saw this as a competition and I loved seeing all the pictures.

  • socallisa
    socallisa Member Posts: 10,184

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  • duckyb1
    duckyb1 Member Posts: 9,646

    WHATEVER..................

  • dunesleeper
    dunesleeper Member Posts: 1,305

    LOL Ducky, but in a sad way. That's a pretty messed up thing to do to Foley's thread. Definitely building some bad karma -- and you know that I know of what I speak.

  • barbe1958
    barbe1958 Member Posts: 7,605

    My heart isn`t hardened Gma, I still enjoy a great pic!!

  • gmafoley
    gmafoley Member Posts: 5,978

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  • socallisa
    socallisa Member Posts: 10,184

    I never had a hard heart either Barbe. Been on the BCO for ten years and have met some wonderful people. 

  • gmafoley
    gmafoley Member Posts: 5,978

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  • socallisa
    socallisa Member Posts: 10,184

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    painted desert. 

  • gmafoley
    gmafoley Member Posts: 5,978

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