My Husband, My Life, My Love, My Family, My Cancer

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  • mara51506
    mara51506 Posts: 7,321
    edited February 10

    @threetree I am sorry the Xeloda causing such fatigue and weakness. Hopefully you adjust over more time but is a lot to deal with.

    @cookie54 Yes we are warming up starting mid week, we will be just above freezing so could get some melting snow here too. I got a phone call this morning for another CT scan that I have had multiple times, not interested in taking a cab over and do not want to go to the other hospital. Cannot do Paratransit as not enough time ahead to book it. Will do appointments scheduled next week for Herceptin and the heart echo and get them to print up a new schedule, everything has been messed up sonce about November with CT scans, MRIs, surgery and such, I basically took a month off to recuperate with the necrosis news. No side effects at this point. I will let my MO and RO make the CT and MRI appointments but want them at my hospital. If something comes up with the brain again then obviously would go there and decide on having surgery again.

    Having pasta and cheese with some seasoning from one of my hamburger helper meals, added some garlic, used up my mayochup, had to add bit of water to pour it out since was almost empty. Will wait a bit with heat off of the burner, go back and take lid off to check, may have to add something else like a mini pot pie to make it more substantial, I will see. The pie would only add to the taste vs make it taste bad.

    EDIT did not measure the pasta and the water it was put in to cook so it turned out very liquid even after noodles done up. I did put lentils and cheese in to melt with sour cream to fill in for milk. I did do the mayochup and seasonings above. Extra hard tacos broken up in and a squirt of queso crema and sour cream and lime crema. It was good but realize that I could have just put aside the extra sauce from the dish instead of putting down the drain, it would have made a good dip for something else. I also want to have some sort of potato from one of the cans I have, can drain

    Other than that regular chores, bed made, cats will be sad they will lose their place to be, laundry as usual. Three cycles today, regular wash with oxi clean, lysol wash next to remove any germs since was a messy wash and the final vinegar and water with a bit of softener for the scent and then put them in the dryer. Dishes floor and that is about it.

    I hope all have a good day, in pockets for all.

  • tanya_djamila
    tanya_djamila Posts: 1,620

    Hello ladies

    @irishlove sorry you lost some plants. I did too due to my neglect of them. I didn't feel up to going out and covering them for a few days. My GS had the flu and I was literally hunkering down in my room. My GD got it a week after he did and that was a week ago. Could it be that the flu shot worked. Thank God. Wonderful news about the remission!!!!

    @mara51506 I hope your herceptin appt goes well. My next appt is a PET scan next Tuesday. Your regular chores are a reminder to what I need to be doing … soon. lol

    @cookie54 I have only watched a little of the olympics. I watched the opening ceremony which was really nice to see all the countries come together to compete and show off their beautiful flags and outfits.

    @threetree I hope your appt with your onc about Xeloda is productive. sometimes a dose reduction or another prescription helps make it bearable. Sending long hugs sometimes they help too.

    @shanagirl hope you're having a peaceful day replete with your pets.

    @runor It was a pleasant surprise to read your post it's been awhile. You are such a natural humorist writer. I do miss all of your encouragement. It was nice to get that surprise pop in!!!!

    Waving hello to everyone and sending hugs.

    Tanya

  • shanagirl
    shanagirl Posts: 625
    edited February 11

    @cookie54 Honestly I really think the belly issues have been the Verzenio and cough that doesn’t go away. And on the side effects list. It seems a like all the cancer treatments seem to happen pretty often in between good days and good weeks. Then hearing on the Patch that Neurovirus is goin g around NJ makes me wonder if that’s the belly issues and not wanting to eat and nausea. Geesh! you just never know if its the treatment or something else.Also thiss time of year my body wants to go into hibernation mode, and sooo tired I could lay down & sleep all day.. I’m in my room on my bed glued to the Nancy Guthrie updates.. then a 3rd letter from someone who knows who it is.. i worry so much about her current condition.

  • threetree
    threetree Posts: 2,560

    Good morning to all. It's nice and sunny here, thank goodness. Maybe a good omen for my drs appt coming up in a couple of hours? I want to say hi and thanks to so many for your support and comments re my issues/side effects with this new switch to Xeloda, but because of all the fatigue, I can't post to everyone individually as I would like to. Please know that I read along and am very grateful and appreciative for all the thoughts and good wishes. I'm also in everyone else's pocket(s) for the things you are dealing with too.

    I did want to tag @cookie54 individually before I go to my appointment to say thanks especially for the information about your dose. Are you taking 2000 a day, i.e. 1000 mgs twice a day? I'm doing 3000 split out twice a day and am on the week on, week off schedule. The oncologist told me that is a low dose. I don't know just how low they can go. I'm afraid to ask for a lower dose for fear he might stop it altogether, and from what I understand, there isn't much more out there for me, if this doesn't work. I want to give this a real good shot, so am hoping I can adjust in due time. I read back on the Xeloda thread where someone said they went to 2000 a day, but then progressed. They stabilized then when they went back to 3000 a day. I know you've done really well, Cookie, so I am definitely interested in the details of your course on this drug.

    Also, and if I read the report correctly, I have developed the ESR1 mutation, and that that explains why I started progressing last fall, and had to switch drugs. I will have to ask the onc about all of that too. Geez, I haven't seen him since before Christmas!

    Well, I hope everyone has a good day and is starting to see those little hints of spring being just around the corner. I'm seeing things starting to bloom (Camellias, especially), and birds cuddling up and pairing off. It is uplifting for sure. Hugs to all!

  • intolight
    intolight Posts: 2,964

    @threetree I was on 3000 split between 1000 mornings and 2000 evenings a day, but I did not take a week off. I was eventually reduced to 1000mg twice a day. It worked for me for one year. I developed the ESR1 mutation also but four years later. Oral SERDS don't work for me anymore so I am on Taxol. So far I am tolerating it okay. I am not sure I want to go in for clinical trials at this point. If I were younger, yes.

  • mara51506
    mara51506 Posts: 7,321

    @cookie54 I am supposed to get a sheet of appointments printed out which is good. I am planning to be stubborn on times they are scheduled, had one scheduled at 10 pm for which I rescheduled as I do not have a vehicle and unsure about how late the Paratransit goes until so I changed it. Also don't see the need to travel farther to another hospital now that all the surgery nonsense is done. CT scans and MRI can be done at my local hospital.

    Nothing on the agenda, wound up sleeping early in evening, woke up hungry at 10 pm so had a burrito. Bad move, wound up awake til 4 am, went to bed and woke up 11 am. Nothing on the docket so I am not concerned but do need to start eating earlier, fininishing up earlier would be good.

    Having a burrito this morning to start with since I do need to clear up my kitchen, been unhappy with the cord arrangement. My apt does not have many outlets to use and I have many appliances I keep plugged in BUT decided to slim down the stuff kept on counter as kitchen gadgets. Just keeping my magic bullet and bigger chopper. My mom's chopper that is smaller is kept for nostalgia, works quite well itself so will get put out in an underneath cupboard, emptied out and moved some of the stuff in there, it is right below so makes it.

    EDIT was able to organize a power hub that is not hard to handle, did unplug all of the stuff and got a couple of extenders with surge protectors and it looks easier to plug and unplug stuff in. Still using one thing at a time.

    Having some mcdonalds, mcdouble meal, tiny fries and fruitopia with a junior chicken, both with extra mayo and mcdouble with extra onions.

  • cookie54
    cookie54 Posts: 1,291

    @threetree Sent you a message explaining how I got to my current dose.

  • irishlove
    irishlove Posts: 743

    Hi everyone. Pretty day here today. Lots of squirrels and birds at the feeders. 2 raccoons coming at night along with community cats. However, we are in a very bad drought. Daytona 500 is this Sunday and of course they are calling for rain than. Can't win for losing. lol

    Ah thanks for asking about my ribs. A lovely nurse called from the GP's office and we talked about MS and steroid usage. So tomorrow I'll start the prednisone pack and hope for relief. It's so difficult for folks to determine what's what with symptoms when you have more than one disease you are fighting. For me the worst is the severe backache. It feels like I've been riding a bull. I was hoping for all good news for each and every one of you for a sweet valentine's weekend. Trips, dining out and visiting family would be lovely. Gotta get to feeling better and working out the dosage that's best for you. I recall dropping from 125 mg Ibrance to 75 mg. I almost quit completely as it plus the SERD shot created major physcological problems.

    Watching olympics and the Ruth Guthrie story. My heart aches and I cry with them. How cruel can someone be? One reporter believes this was a planned kidnapping as the suspect seemed to know his way around the surveillence cameras. No car was seen out from, so that gives me pause to worry even more. Prayers being sent for her safe return.

    In pockets for all you sweet ladies and may a sweet hyacinth grow in your yard and soothe your soul.

    Laurel

  • mara51506
    mara51506 Posts: 7,321

    Good morning all, had a good night sleep for a change. Was closer to 2am but not broken up sleep, almost 8 hours. Tonight should be closer to 1 am and subtracting an hour from each night. Also getting warmer out so will keep an eye on salt and if needed as we will get into the freeze thaw thing.

    No chores on tap today but the usual wash, meal prep etc. The cord situation has been massively improved from the kitchen outlet. I did buy an outlet that rotates but it is not practical in kitchen, brought out to living room where I use it as an extra power station for charging stuff. Put extra unused appliances into an unused cabinet just below. I hang onto a chopper my mom used to use due to nostalgia, works well but just a little small. I have another chopper which is bigger.

    I am unsure on meals as usual. I need to eat through the freezer so that when I am done, can keep stuff in the freezer instead of coldest area of fridge. I had a burrito last night, they are inexpensive and quite delicious. I also need to heat up some of the lean ground beef I got as a surprise, it was the three pack for 10 bucks, I ordered in the morning. I think I will simply microwave an egg and a mini pot pie together, add garlic and seasoning. Easiest dish to have and help empty the freezer, can add a few either riced veggies or sliced frozen peppers. That could be good, got to see veggies in fridge first and put it all together I think. Later on, I will figure it out. Post if really good.

    I hope everyone has a good day and in pockets for everyone.

  • shanagirl
    shanagirl Posts: 625

    @threetree Just checking in today to say hi and let you know you’ve been so much on my mind the last few days thinking about your struggles with all the new changes you’ve gone thru recently. I light a candle every night before bed for those who come to my mind that I worry about what they are dealing with each day. I just wanted you to know that dear sister.🌷🩵

    @mara51506 it’s good to hear you’ve had some restful sleep and are all chipper enough to plan your day. and thee burrito and meal planning. I love it 🥰 Enjoy your day today!

    Hi @irishlove dear girl. thinking of Florida lately. my yougest daughter is down there now in Stuart visiting her DH’s parent, his Dad is recovering from Colon Cancer surgery and doing well. Out playing gulf today so he must be doing well😊DD and DH ar now heading to Disney to spend 2 days in the Dolphin. they both work so hard and I’m glad they are getting away for time to themselves. She is a Vet Tech and her DH owns and runs his Nice Italian Restaurant. they’vee been trying to have a baby the last few years but no success. I fell ad for them because I know she wants it so much. But I think they waited too long. they’ve been together since she was 19 him 21. they lived together for 10 years then got engaged and married a year later. they’ve been married 7 years. I believe young people should try to have their babies in their 20s when they are highly fertile. She just turned 38 in December. It would be such a nice suprise if she came back with a baby in her belly. Oh well what will be will be I guess. So, My DH booked a flight and reservations in FT Myers in the Pink Shell Resort. We’ll stay there and visit with Our GD, her DH, and their 2 baby boys 1 and 2 1/2. Our Great Grand Babies. Can’t wait to see them again. My youngest DS is down in Sarasota also , so we’ll take a ride up to see her with her dd and DH for the day.so lots to look forward to. We’ll fly out May 4th till May 11th. Be down there for 7 nights. The last time we were down I had just started Verzenio and was on it a few months and my Onc let me go off it for the week so I wouldn’t have to deal with the side effects of the big D. But now I have not had much of that SE. just the fatigue and weakness. I’m hoping PT will help with that.

    @cookie54 hey Jersey yes I’m really glad it’s getting warmer so the ice melts a little bit more. The dogs can walk more in the yard now.