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Things just aren't the same


My boyfriend and I started dating two months before my diagnosis, he has been through it all with me and I know he loves me but things aren't the way they used to be. Before you know the kissing the touching etc., after my surgery and since (surgery was June 23rd) it feels like I'm begging for that kind of intimacy. I've brought it up to him but he just says "a lot has changed in a year and has nothing to do with the way I look"

My sex drive, unfortunately hasn't decreased since starting treatment. Any suggestions!


  • orangeflower
    orangeflower Member Posts: 95

    Oh man, that's really tough. I'm sorry you're going through this. It sounds like there may be some underlying relationship issues? What does he mean when he says "a lot has changed in a year"? He needs to elaborate.