Also newly diagnosed…
Less than 48 hours ago I received my biopsy report and basically the only word on it that I understood was Carcinoma. The nurse advocate called a bit later and I have little recollection of anything she said concerning the biopsy. I was able to agree to get a surgical consult, call my primary for a referral and schedule an appointment next week. I’ve tried to look up some of the verbiage in the report to try to understand but it’s overwhelming. I go from being frightened, to overwhelmed, to numb , to angry , to WHY? In talking to a few close friends by text or phone I’ve discovered several supportive friends but also others I do NOT want on this journey with me. I’m leaning towards not doing any more “google research” because it isn’t about me. I need to know what it all means for me. I await meeting with the doctor and finding out what they know, what they found and what lies ahead.
Thanks for listening to me vent.
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Hi @pbnj00 , welcome to the BCO community. We’re so sorry you’re facing this. We know those first days after seeing the word “carcinoma” can feel overwhelming, scary, and confusing. It’s completely normal to feel that way. Once you learn more about your diagnosis and treatment options, it often starts to feel more manageable.
We hope other members will jump in soon to share their experiences and support. You’ll be in good company here. Take it one step at a time — you’re not alone. 💛
In the meantime, check out our helpful section for those just diagnosed: Just Diagnosed? Start Here. It’s full of clear, practical information about understanding your diagnosis, treatment options, questions to ask your care team, and more.
We hope this helps! Please come back and let us know how it goes at your appointment.
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