So...whats for dinner?

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  • Lacey12
    Lacey12 Posts: 2,895


    I forgot to mention that every time I hear the promotion for The Christmas Story to be playing in Boston, I am reminded of Michelle's amusement of Ralphie, the boy in the play. I smile through the tears....


  • Laurie,


    My best friend, who I met in 7th grade, lost her Mom to ovarian cancer shortly after I finished treatment.


    Her Mom was an Italian momma and such a force of nature, that to see her fade away, was just unimagineable for us but, i'm sure even worse for her in that she had ALWAYS been so strong! Much of our grief was expressed during diagnosis and treatment.


    And, yes, you described it perfectly! It is what it is like to love someone more than you love yourself. Where their peace means more to you than your pain. THAT is true love!


  • Laurie, thanks for sharing the experience with your mother's passing. I was with my father when he drew his last breath in his bedroom at home. So was my younger sister and my mother. The hospice nurse had told us that a patient who is unresponsive can possibly hear what is being said. I will always hear my sister's voice saying over and over, "I love you, Daddy," as she realized he was struggling for that last breath. Then he was no longer struggling. It would have been cruel and selfish to want him to stay with us in that state of illness.


    Life goes on. It's natural and right to grieve, but Michelle would want us all to have a wonderful day today.


    The sun is shining here and the temperature is in the 50's. I'm enjoying morning coffee. Dh and I will drive to Ocean Springs, MS, for the huge Walter Anderson Arts and Crafts fair. It is an amazing fair with high end crafts that are truly art as well as crafts that don't make it to art. My dh's former co-worker Larry and his wife always have an open house for family and friends and we'll be going to their house. They prepare lots of food.


    Often we stop at the Beau Rivage casino in Biloxi (pronounced buh-LUX-ee) and play the poker machines long enough to drop $20. On the rare occasion we leave with a little extra $$.


    Happy Sunday.

  • auntienance
    auntienance Posts: 4,043

    Rest  in peace dear Michelle, it was a great pleasure to know you. Please say hi to our Apple.


  • susan_02143
    susan_02143 Posts: 2,394


    My heart is so saddened. Joyce, I know that you are just crushed. The one time I went to Michelle's house, she spoke with such love about the instant relationship that the two of you had.


    This just never gets easier.


    *susan*

  • auntienance
    auntienance Posts: 4,043

    To Joyce, Christine, Rick and all of Michelle's family, may your happy memories, and I know there are many,  help ease the pain of her leaving. She will be missed.


  • ginadmc
    ginadmc Posts: 183


    I'm so sorry to hear about Michelle. Her spirit and love of family came through in all her posts. If I didn't live so far away, I would have loved to have met her (and many of you) at your Pickety Place outings. I hope her family and friends find comfort in their loving memories.


    Joyce - I'm sorry you lost your best friend and thank you for keeping us informed, as hard as it must have been for you to deliver the sad news.


    Gina

  • Tazzy
    Tazzy Posts: 1,442


    RIP Michelle. Your spirit will live on.


    Hugs everyone. Dont forget to tell someone you love them today xxxxx

  • DorMac
    DorMac Posts: 153


    So very sorry to hear about Michelle. She was a truly inspiring woman. Prayers and hugs go out to her family and friends - she is at peace now. R.I.P. Michelle


    Doreen


    (from "Calling All TNs" site)

  • eric95us
    eric95us Posts: 3,346


    ...sigh.....


    You are right Susan.....this does not get easier...


    Rest easy Michelle.

  • Laurie08
    Laurie08 Posts: 2,047


    Rest in Peace Michelle. May her family and loved ones have peace.


    So sad.

  • Lacey12
    Lacey12 Posts: 2,895


    Thank you Joyce for sharing that final sad news. My heart breaks for you and all who were close to this very special woman.


    For Michelle, I am glad you went peacefully...with your typical grace. I hold dear the memories and lessons you've left with me....

  • Kaara
    Kaara Posts: 2,101


    Michelle now rests with the angels in a wonderful place that we can only dream about. Prayers for her family that they may find comfort in the wonderful memories they have of her. She will be missed by all who were blessed to know her.

  • moonflwr912
    moonflwr912 Posts: 5,945


    Laurie that made a wonderful sense to me.


    And Eric, that was beautifully done and thanks for picking one with the translation included.

  • eric95us
    eric95us Posts: 3,346


    A few months ago my curiosity lead me to look for that song on the Internet. The link I posted was the one I liked the most.

  • moonflwr912
    moonflwr912 Posts: 5,945


    Kaara, thanks for passing on the news about Michelle. She will be missed. Sympsthies to her family and friends.


    There is a separate thread for Michelle so family and friends can go to one topic to see the condolences. Its title is Michelle Hall.

  • chabba
    chabba Posts: 3,600

    Rest in Peace, our much loved Michelle.

  • debbie6122
    debbie6122 Posts: 2,935


    Rest in Peace Michelle. I pray for comfort, Peace and strength to get through the hardest of days to all her family and friends. xoxo


    Joyce, I know how much you loved Michelle and how close you were, you also are in my thoughts and prayers.


    Much love to all.

  • Hauntie
    Hauntie Posts: 369


    I just learned of Michelle's death through Facebook. My heart breaks for Rick, her kids and grand kids. And for Joyce. They were more than friends. They were sisters. And they found each other on this site. I feel so blessed that I got to know Michelle, not only through her posts, but in person. She was an amazing, funny, smart and courageous woman. Rest in peace, my friend.

  • specialk
    specialk Posts: 9,299


    Knowing that Michelle is no longer ill, but free of this disease, is a comfort, but my heart aches for those who loved her and will miss her - including all of us. She had such an indomitable spirit, it was easy to be her friend - here and in person. Time for us on this thread to gather in the proverbial kitchen again and support each other as we mourn her loss. Sending strength to all for the difficult days ahead.

  • luvmygoats
    luvmygoats Posts: 2,484


    I intend to go back to this thread and start at the beginning. When I was looking up Seaside's black bean recipe I found so many of Michelle's postings. I will miss her and her antics. I too remember the bunny suit and will no doubt tear up when A Christmas Story comes on.


    Knowing that she is no longer in pain but still my heart breaks for her family and for you Joyce and all of you that knew her personally.

  • Laurie08
    Laurie08 Posts: 2,047


    Michelle at Pickety Place

  • Laurie08
    Laurie08 Posts: 2,047


    Michelle

  • Laurie08
    Laurie08 Posts: 2,047


    trying to post a pic and it's not working :(

  • Lacey12
    Lacey12 Posts: 2,895


    Laurie, on Michelle's Facebook photo section, there are some Pickety photos of all of us. Could you try that source to copy and paste from? Michelle was such a dear to post my family pix for me. I bet Deb also has the the Pickety Place photos on her Facebook page. I can just picture Michelle there walking the farm grounds with her beloved camera, taking animal photos.

  • deborye
    deborye Posts: 2,441


    Fly with the angels Michelle, give my DH a big hug for me. L to R, sitting, ME, standing Hauntie aka Lynda, Laurie, Michelle and Joyce. 2nd--bedo, hauntie, deborye, LuvRVing, Lacey. 4th pic next to Lynda aka Hauntie is Morgan aka Lorri, the girl with the hat on I only met once, I think her avatar is DeeDee.


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  • susan_02143
    susan_02143 Posts: 2,394


    Whoops... I was searching for the pictures while you were actually uploading them. Taken mine down.


    *susan*

  • Lacey12
    Lacey12 Posts: 2,895


    Thanks Deb! And how about the fascinator pix from last Fall? Was it you who took those?

  • Laurie08
    Laurie08 Posts: 2,047


    Lacey- those were the ones I was trying to post- I will try again.

  • Laurie08
    Laurie08 Posts: 2,047


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