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So...whats for dinner?

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  • carolehalston
    carolehalston Posts: 8,983

    Maggie, I spoke too soon on no SEs for Covid shot. I was on my way to exercise class and realized I didn't feel up to exercising. Returned home and took it easy for the rest of the day. Listened to the Supreme Court questioning on whether Trump's use of tariffs is legal.

    Maggie, your luck on contractors has to change. At least dinner was good.

    We had roasted chicken thighs that were cooked perfectly for a welcome change. The side was steamed cauliflower with cheese sauce. Funny note. My recipe was for light cheese sauce with nonfat milk. DH's 2 percent milk was a little low so I used h & h. At least I didn't reach for the cream. The spices were mustard powder and paprika. I used paprika I bought on our Viking river cruise.

    Today I plan to cook speckled butter beans from the freezer section with sliced smoked pork hocks. DH ok'ed that menu. This morning he suggested I put meat loaf on the To Cook list.

    Speckled butter beans are a southern favorite like field peas. They were grown in gardens and eaten fresh in past times and are usually available in the freezer section of grocery stores.

  • minustwo
    minustwo Posts: 13,788

    Cleaning out the fridge before trash PU tomorrow. Sadly I had to throw away 1/2 a bag of salad.

    Dinner was steamed spinach & boiled new potatoes. I still have 1/2 a bag of new potatoes left. Maybe roasted potatoes since a front is supposed to come through. And I finally got the carrots cut & ready to saute with onions tomorrow. I made guacamole with the last two avocados. No tomatoes, but it will be OK. Also cooked some hard boiled eggs and mixed up a tuna salad. Meals for the week done!!

    Taking my niece to Houston Grand Opera's production of Porgy & Bess Sunday. I haven't seen it in many years so very excited. I've been singing the songs in my head all week. It sounds like my nephew wants us all to go out to eat after the show. I told him OK if it was close to his house (NOT downtown) & casual.

    My son's supposed to be here on 11/25 for a one day lay-over between San Francisco and London. We have lunch plans including his Dad (my ex-DH) and wife. Good thing we're all friends. Since SFO and HOU are both on the list for a 10% reduction in flights, who knows whether he will make it.

  • maggie15
    maggie15 Posts: 2,177

    Carole, It was a good idea to take it easy rather than go to exercise class. I spent most of the day on my back and drinking coffee. I didn’t get a headache but my lower back is sore. It took the neurologist five tries to get the spinal fluid. He told me he has been doing lumbar punctures for 38 years. Maybe it goes with my hard to access veins.

    DH loves broad beans but I prefer the younger lima beans. When we watched his parents’ farm in the summer when they went on vacation we would eat almost all the broad beans in the garden. Fresh is definitely better.

    Minus, Kudos for having the rest of the week’s meals made. I’d love to see Porgy and Bess again but that’s unlikely to happen. I hope your son is able to spend his layover with you.

    Dinner tonight was surprisingly good orange chicken takeout from the Chinese restaurant for me and a McD’s burger for DH.

  • carolehalston
    carolehalston Posts: 8,983

    The butter beans served over brown rice were very tasty sprinkled with Louisiana hot sauce. Side was stewed okra and tomatoes cooked with lots of garlic and a small amount of diced bacon. The okra was from the nearby produce stand and frozen whole pods. Not quite the same as fresh but still good. The leftovers are in the freezer to add to a gumbo.

    Maggie, I'm glad you had a good dinner after a day of recuperation.

    Tonight will be meatloaf and, probably, home-made mashed potatoes and packet gravy for dh. I need to get back to eating salads regularly.

    Minus, you are well-organized in doing meal preps in advance.

  • wallycat
    wallycat Posts: 1,787

    I've been crying most of the day. Just such nonsense with the dishwasher. Someone answered our NextDoor post…took 2 weeks but he finally showed up. By then, DH had sawed off more floor and we got the old one out.

    He went to pick up parts yesterday and has not returned. UGH. Called today (supposed to be here at 12 -1, nothing). I've decided I need to take mechanics classes and electrical classes so I don't have to rely on the sub-standard services around here. WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA and RANT!

    Last night was canned chili because we had hopes this guy would have returned.

    Tonight, I'm making shrimp yakisoba.

    I'm tired of crying. I'm tired of getting bad news. I'm blah, blah, blah, blah………………I know things can always be worse but still….

  • intolight
    intolight Posts: 2,833

    wallycat, so so sorry you are feeling down. Cry away. Appliance issues are so frustrating. I'm not sure how I lucked out this time, but I feel your pain. The day after our new dishwasher was installed our management company called that the dishwasher in the rental we own went out. Since it is 15 years old it needs replacing. So, this month we replaced two. Ughh!!!

    I have a cold and feel extra poorly so I am sending my DH out for Philly Cheesesteaks for dinner. I am so glad she is home and not needing to go to work!

  • maggie15
    maggie15 Posts: 2,177

    Carole, It’s hard to get fresh okra here but every once in a while it shows up in the supermarket. Then I make Alabama chicken stew.

    Wally, I’m sorry there is nobody reliable near you to install the dishwasher. Things like that are the downside of living in a rural area. We are supposed to get the furnace repaired next Thursday, 2 1/2 weeks after it died. When I called about the warranty the rep said that any of their dealers could do the job. The nearest dealer other than the local one is over 50 miles away so that’s not much of a choice.

    Intolight, I hope your cold clears and you feel better soon.

    Dinner tonight was stuffed peppers for DH and leftover orange chicken for me.

  • minustwo
    minustwo Posts: 13,788

    Wally - hope tomorrow is better.

    I HATE appliances. I had to have my garage door opener "central control box" on the ceiling fixed last week since some plastic fasteners just broke off. Today I was wondering what's next. It's always been my plan to stay in this house until they have to carry me out feet first. But I'm sure tired of repairs. I've got a good plumber & yard man & A/C-heater people - but no just general handy man.

    Sorry for those of you who have colds. I routinely take extra Vit C, but just read I should also be taking extra Vit D and have Zinc on hand for the start of a cold.

    86 here today. Supposedly 40 over the weekend. But I don't have the energy to dig up the plumarias yet & drag them in for the winter. Several are over 9 feet tall.

  • eric95us
    eric95us Posts: 3,344

    I am going to hate it when I get so old that I can't take care of nearly all the home and auto repairs myself.

    I've told DD over and over that my engineering brought the money home and knowing the trades kept the money home.

    Wally, if I were closer…

    "into", hopefully the colds quickly go away and the cheesecake helps. Cheesecake is the best!

    Minus, we had to hustle to get our garden picked before the frost hit. We had 2-3 days in the mid 20F degree range and then it warmed up enough that it "not quite" freezes at night. You sound like us when talking about "leaving the home"…for us, the mortician will be the one taking us out of the house.

    Tonight I was working in the garage while Sharon made a "no recipe" rice-vegetable-pepper dish with some ginger and Thai sweet chili sauce. That was good. I hope she remembers it.

    We just put down the deposit for DD's wedding venue for next October…..exciting times ahead…. :-)

  • carolehalston
    carolehalston Posts: 8,983

    DH was always our handy man but he has lost a lot of flexibility with aging and he no longer has the balance of a younger man. I refuse to let him climb up on the roof of our house or the roof of the 5th wheel in MN. We paid a plumbing company to replace the gas pipe from the street to the house during the summer while we were away. Almost $4000. Our roof is due for replacing. Outbuildings are needing rebuilding. On and on. Money Pit keeps coming to mind. But dh's big workshop is his happy place and there are so many pluses to living here. We'll stay as long the pluses outweigh the minuses. No reference to you, Minus! LOL.

    Wally, you live in a scenic area but, as Maggie said, there are some drawbacks. I hope you can soon put this whole negative experience behind you.

    Our dinner last night was very good. Our own meatloaf Monday on Friday night. Proof that "mindful" cooking can produce better results than my often-slapdash methods. Fix and forget during cocktail hour. I used the meatloaf recipe from Natasha's Kitchen which is very similar to most recipes. But I timed the oven time. Forty minutes uncovered at 350 degrees. Twenty minutes with homemade sauce spread on top. My mashed potatoes were, IMHO, better than Bob's. The packet gravy was ok. DH likes gravy with mashed potatoes. There are leftovers.

    Not sure about tonight's menu. Probably leftovers from the butter bean dinner.

  • auntienance
    auntienance Posts: 4,036

    I loved small town life but one of the big minuses was the lack of reliable "fixers". Fortunately DH was good at fixing a lot of things and we did find a good hvac guy and a plumber but anything else was hit and miss. Like Wally's experience they either didn't shore up or wouldn't even answer the phone. It was being frustrating. Now we have lots of choices. And a handyman. For a price of course. I have 22 windows and 4 skylights in my villa that were just washed yesterday by a window cleaning company and it was worth every penny. I hope you can get some satisfaction soon Wally.

    We had to get all our plants in last weekend too. I have three large Thanksgiving cacti that are ready to burst into bloom. They love summer and early fall on the deck.

    Dinner tonight is flat iron steak, baked potato and a salad. The steak is from Costco and the first time seeing it there. Although I generally like their meats, I've found their steaks to be lacking so we'll see.

  • illimae
    illimae Posts: 5,915

    minus, would you mind sharing the name of your “go to” restaurant. Our anniversary is coming up and I’d like to avoid what you dealt with when we’re in town.

    leftovers for us. I’m tired, DH is sick and our travel trailer has a busted valve, so no running water. Bummer of a weekend.

  • minustwo
    minustwo Posts: 13,788
    edited November 8

    Mae - oh my - no running water??? What a mess.

    For a special dinner, my favorite for several years has been Eddie V's. We go to the one on Kirby. Seafood & steak but a fairly quiet atmosphere and not many children so you can hear yourself think. They have a good happy hour & often have a 3 piece combo in the bar & a small dance floor. "Best restaurant reviews" keep saying Capitol Grill is the best steak (T&C center off I-10). I haven't been there in several years but I remember good food & pricey. My son insists we go to Guard & Grace. (One in Denver and one in downtown Houston.) I will comment at the end of the month, but I know there web site says "casual elegance", dress shoes & no athletic wear. That doesn't really suit my preferred lifestyle (Hokas & levis).

    After Porgy & Bess tomorrow afternoon, we're scheduled to meet up w/the rest of my nephew's family for dinner. Based on the weather reports of high winds & dropping quickly from 80 to 40 degrees, I may cancel & just head for home. Hard to believe since it's 86 today.

  • wallycat
    wallycat Posts: 1,787

    (((((((((((((Eric)))))))))))))) thank you for the kind virtual gesture.

    I ordered all my dishwasher parts on Amazon (hopefully, tomorrow) and will do it all myself; DH will guide me as he isn't as limber as he used to be. I remember how we girls were foisted home ec. I so wish they'd have foisted the mechanical kind of crap on us. Who needs a freakin' apron with perfect seams.

    Leftover shrimp yakisoba.

  • minustwo
    minustwo Posts: 13,788

    wally - how well I remember "home economics". I still have the apron I made somewhere. And I still use that HS recipe for white sauce. No way would they allow females to take auto shop or electronics. Luckily my Dad encouraged me to help all of his projects. I learned enough to be a helper & ask intelligent questions of contractors, but not to feel competent doing the work myself. YOU GO GIRL!!!

    My carrots were delicious. Cut carrots 1" on the diagonal. I use a bag of baby carrots & cut in half. Saute chopped onion & garlic in butter. Add carrots and toss to coat. Add 1/3 - 1/2 cup bouillon & 1-2 tsp of honey. Bring to a boil. Add dill & rosemary ( or tarragon), cover & cook on medium for 15-20 minutes. Remove lid & cook another 5 minutes until all liquid has cooked down.

  • maggie15
    maggie15 Posts: 2,177

    Illimae, I'm sorry that you also have problems caused by urgently needed repairs, sickness and fatigue. It's really hard when everything hits all at once. Leftovers and anything easy are exactly what is called for.

    Minus, That weather report is quite something. Thanks for the carrot recipe

    Carole, I never thought I would hear DH say that we may have to move to an apartment in the city some day but all this yet to be explained neurological stuff has made him see the light.

    Nance, I hope your Costco steak tastes good.

    Eric, Putting down the deposit on your DD's wedding venue is exciting . Hopefully you'll be using your engineering skills for a long time.

    Wally, Good for you tackling the dishwasher! Since you can follow a recipe you can follow your DH’s instructions.

    Dinner tonight was salmon, acorn squash and sautéed baby potatoes.

  • eric95us
    eric95us Posts: 3,344

    I had to really push, with the help from my parents, to be allowed to take "typing" in 8th grade. I was the only guy in the class. That skill saved me a lot of money in college.

    My last year at high school I was taking advanced chemistry, advanced physics, advanced calculus, auto shop, metal shop and wood shop. I have repeatedly told DD that knowing the trades keeps a lot of money in the house. She can do some stuff and the rest she knows enough about to avoid the "we'll cheat the little lady vermin."

    I looked here at our house…the dishwasher can be slid out from under the counter…..

    Dinner tonight…each of us had a slice of "gas station pizza" and the dogs had some beef sticks. We went on a 5 mile hike, and both 15 year old Frankie and 2 year old Daisy were happy to have gone along…even at the end of the hike. Daisy is snoozing and Frankie is hoping for another walk.

  • wallycat
    wallycat Posts: 1,787

    I taught myself how to type on an old Remington my father bought at a rummage sale; the summer before I started 6th grade. I also taught myself sign language (the basics)…I'd just read Helen Keller and the alphabet was in the back of the book (not very useful). Eric, I'm impressed…I hated organic chemistry (college) and barely survived physics (high school), though I did manage to take summer courses to graduate early. Calculus…um…NO. Adored geometry and microbiology and logic….wonder if I'd pushed myself more if I could do more. Oh well…just coasting till the end of the journey, LOL.

  • carolehalston
    carolehalston Posts: 8,983

    I took typing in high school. I think there were boys as well as girls in the class. Don't really remember. Typing has come in handy as a life skill. DH has to hunt and peck and he can't spell. I also took shorthand in preparation for working as a secretary. I didn't think I could afford college. Then I won a scholarship that covered dorm and classes. On graduation I got an assistantship to the U of GA for graduate work. I liked school so I kept going to school.

    Dinner last night was leftover butter beans and rice with a side of coleslaw.

  • wallycat
    wallycat Posts: 1,787

    Carole, I tried to teach myself shorthand….low-success for me, LOL.

    More leftovers here tonight. I'll add some egg to the mix.

  • auntienance
    auntienance Posts: 4,036
    edited November 9

    I took both typing and college shorthand (called Notehand) in high school which helped me get a secretary job right out of high school. I didn't go to college until three years later which made me the oldest student in most of my classes. Like Carole, I liked school a lot and thought I could go forever. I eventually got tired of bring broke and ended my academic career short of a masters degree.

    Cold and windy today. Not my favorite combination. At least the sun is shining.

    I've opted out of doing after Thanksgiving dinner this year. It's not the cooking but the cleaning up that's a killer for me. Even with others helping, my kitchen is small and there's only so much others can do. We'll still go to DH s sisters for the day. I'll make my usual dinner rolls and an appetizer to take. Turkeys are 57 cents a pound here so I'll snag one for the freezer.

    DH has promised blueberry waffles for dinner and I'm all for it.

  • intolight
    intolight Posts: 2,833

    I took typing in summer school. I loved school but got married and we had to move the summer before my junior year of college. Worked 20 years in the grocery industry before quitting and going back to school for education. Finished my BA as an older student, immediately earned my Masters, and then a PhD because I liked teaching college. Should have done that sooner… Taught another 20 years before dx and had to retire. I don't regret my grocery years as I only had to work 16 hours a week to earn full insurance which was excellent in those years, and could still be mostly home with my three kids.

  • eric95us
    eric95us Posts: 3,344

    We keep hoping for nine at Thanksgiving, but MIL keeps declining….she says she's too tired to make the 45 minute ride here. So, it will be eight; "Dr Vet" and his wife, Sharon and I, "Friend since 1985", her husband, son and her brother.

    The kitchen is big enough to have 3 helpers and that makes things a lot easier.

    My mom received a bachelor of science degree in organic chemistry from the University of Akron. She was the only woman to receive that degree in her graduating class.

    DD won't be here for Thanksgiving, but will be here for Christmas. She just started a new (higher paying and more interesting to her) job and her vacation time is very limited.

    And….we just paid the deposit for DD's & future SIL's wedding venue. October 2026!!!!!

  • maggie15
    maggie15 Posts: 2,177

    I took typing one summer when I was in junior high. There were boys in the class. The one who sat next to me was taking the class to improve his finger strength and dexterity since he was a talented pianist. My father had to hunt and peck when he typed out prescription labels. He was pretty fast at "One tablet three times a day" but I saw the value of using the correct fingers. I had to teach keyboarding to my homeroom when I taught middle school. One boy who had massive hands (he ended up playing major league baseball) had terrible trouble not hitting four keys at once.

    Dinner tonight was lamb chops, cauliflower and sautéed potatoes.

  • minustwo
    minustwo Posts: 13,788

    Eric - where is the wedding venue?

    Took my niece-in-law to Houston Grand opera this afternoon to see "Porgy & Bess". Wonderful performance but a bit long. Then my nephew treated us all to dinner at the Asian restaurant where they had their wedding rehearsal dinner over 10 years ago. We set a place for his mom in memorium. (my Sister in Law). Their 9 year old daughter is better than I am with chopsticks.

  • eric95us
    eric95us Posts: 3,344

    It's at a golf course/country club in one of Detroit's suburbs. The wedding is going to be outdoors, but it's set up so it can quickly be moved indoors if the weather isn't cooperating.

  • eric95us
    eric95us Posts: 3,344

    If anyone knows a marine, wish them Happy Birthday. Today is the anniversary of the formation of the US Marine Corps.

  • maggie15
    maggie15 Posts: 2,177

    Eric, It’s good that the venue has an indoor option. Sometimes things just work out. DD had her reception in the garden of a large house in NOLA. The tents were taken down Friday morning because of predicted rain/wind. The storm came and knocked out power at the airport. However, it moved on and the tents were put back up on Saturday morning. The weather on the day was perfect. My first teaching job was in a ritzy suburb of Detroit.

    Dinner tonight was Tuscan garlic shrimp on rice.

  • carolehalston
    carolehalston Posts: 8,983

    Dinner last night was beef stew made with cubed beef from Costco. Veggies were carrots, potato and big chunks of onion held together with toothpicks. My choice would have been beef soup but dh chose stew when I gave him the options.

    It was 30 degrees when I got up an hour ago. Now my laptop says it's 35 degrees. It will warm up and we'll be headed back to 70's and 80's by the end of the week.

    I'm leaning toward a white chili for tonight.

  • wallycat
    wallycat Posts: 1,787

    Pork is on sale and we have to go to DH's onco-PA today, so maybe I'll get some inspiration for dinner. We finally finished the yakisoba (I used eggs to flesh it out after we ate all the shrimp). DH's appetite is waning. I need to start making less food. Sigh.

    On a happy note, DH finally gave up and let me do the electrical and that part is done!!!! Just the water line (I got most of that done) and the drain hose and hopefully, no leaks. The guy from NextDoor had the chutzpah to DM me asking if he should come back out…on what planet??!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I simply wrote back that timing and reliability are crucial since my husband is dying (which is a fact).