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Re: waiting for results
Hi @millymoo, and welcome. We're so sorry for the worries that bring you here, but we're glad you've found us and posted about your concerns.
@maggie15's post is 100% spot-on. Only a biopsy can determine whether cancer is definitely present or not. So, while it's difficult to wait for answers, try to remain positive and keep your mind busy until you have the results.
Please keep us posted with what you find out — we're thinking of you and hoping for the best!
—The Mods
Re: ER-, PR-, Her2+ Roll call
Just saw berta's obituary website. So glad that she was surrounded by her loving family. Thank u for sharing
snm
Re: My Husband, My Life, My Love, My Family, My Cancer
@shanagirl - Shana, my heart really goes out to you and I am just so, so sorry that you have to deal with this. I get them withholding the Xgeva because of the dental issue, but why the Verzenio? I assume you continue with the Faslodex. That should help some with that fear of mets getting worse while off the drugs; you're still getting the benefit of the Faslodex. My onc told me that was the most important part of the drug combo. I totally agree with @mara51506 about the 4-7-8 breathing. I really like it and use it all the time when I get really stressed. I just feel so helpless and wish there was something I could do to help, other than just send you good vibes and best wishes. Know that I am thinking of you and in your pocket for this whole big mess you are in for awhile. I like to think that the doctors know what they're doing and that they wouldn't put you at such a big risk of a major "mets spread" just for the sake of one tooth. I'm keeping you in my thoughts and have fingers crossed for nothing but the best outcome!
Re: Birads 5 with calcification
@scaredme Thank you so much for sharing your experience. It’s comforting to know that the treatment was manageable for you and that you found strength in taking action. That really resonates with me.
My doctor actually said something very similar, that chemo isn’t like what you see in the movies, and that not everyone has a hard time with it. He mentioned that some people go through treatment with minimal or even no side effects, and I’m definitely hoping I’ll be one of the lucky ones. But even if I’m not, I know I’ll get through it.
As long as my PET scan looks good, I’m ready to give this fight my all. I’m feeling surprisingly steady about starting treatment. I think having a plan in place helps a lot. My mom has really been my rock through all of this. She’s stepping in to help with the kids, cooking, and cleaning once things get going, and that gives me a lot of peace of mind.
Thanks again for your kindness and honesty. It helps more than you know. Im sure I’ll have a lot more questions as things move forward.
Re: Ibrance (Palbociclib)
@alden722 You do seem to have a lot going on! One thing I forgot-initially letrozole was causing me to have insomnia. I cut out caffeine completely-also cut out alcohol and the quality of my sleep greatly improved. Now I have a little caffeine with Coke Zeros and decaf coffee but getting good quality sleep was key to regaining energy. Keep that good balance of exercise and rest.
Re: Ibrance (Palbociclib)
Hopefully your body will adjust soon. I’m on my 14th cycle of Ibrance 125mg and still have lots of fatigue. We’ll see how my next set of scans are and maybe talk about dropping down to the 100. I try to get like nine hours of sleep, longer on the weekends. I still work full-time. I have three kids and walk a big dog so I am definitely active during the day. Letrozole has been horrible with causing insomnia so I often have to take a sleep aid to fall asleep. As long as this drug keeps working so well, I’ll deal with some fatigue.
sully01
Re: Ibrance (Palbociclib)
Thanks for the responses! I did my first month at 100 mg and had to take a few weeks for my neutrophil count to normalize. This is my second month in a row at 75 mg. I generally get up and exercise every morning. Either walking or functional weight training. I am eating a vegan diet and limited sugars (I was mostly GF and DF for years so this wasn’t that hard). Even still I feel like I need a nap every afternoon. I work full time and have 3 kids age 7-14. I am hoping it my body just figured out how to adjust, but I am just so stinking tired. I slept horribly the 4.5 years I was in anastrazole. Now I am on Faslodex, I started it in January and the fatigue didn’t start getting bad until the past few weeks.
alden722
Re: Ibrance (Palbociclib)
hi again. Thanks for all the help! I am on my 3rd month of Ibrance and I am just plain exhausted. Does this get better? My sleep hasn’t been great the past few days but even before that I was just so tired.
alden722
Re: Starting Chemo July 2025? Gather here for support!
Hey @kks_rd Welcome here! I'm so sorry that you're having such a rough go of it this time around — let alone that you are having to do chemo a second time. Your regimen is a long road, what is it like to have weekly treatments? I'm not on the same regimen as you - I'm doing TC x 4 with 21 days in between. Just had my second infusion yesterday. But I had a rash in my underarms that I thought might be yeast-based after my first round. And I got oral thrush, so yeast was definitely hangin' around! 😒 Please know you're not alone and I hope perhaps others on the same treatment as you will chime in. Keeping fingers crossed for you that the ice mittens & booties keep the neuropathy away! I am using them, too, and so far, so good!
