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Tamoxifen side effects
Hi, I am a 69 year old diagnosed with Stage1 HER 2 + ductal carcinoma 4 years ago. Ive been taking Tamoxifen for 3 years post lumpectomy for removal of a lump less than 1 cm. Lymph node testing was negative. I completed Radiation, but no chemo was recommended. Genetic testing negative and no family history. I have Osteopenia that is stable since Parathyroidectomy 7 years ago to remove two benign tumors. Two of my 4 parathyroid glands were removed. In the past year I've developed joint pain and fatigue. Last month after having the combined Flu and Covid vaccines I developed severe chills and joint stiffness that kept me on the couch taking Ibuprofen and Tylenol for two days. Now, a month later, the joint pain and chills are still present and magnified after doing even light exercise. The exercise feels good at the time; swimming slowly 30 min, or rowing machine 20 min, or stationary bicycle 30 min. When I have lifted weights it is a light workout, careful not to fatigue my muscles followed by stretching. Joint ache and chills set in a few hours after exercise. I lie down for several hours after exercise when I can, and take Tylenol and Ibuprofen on days it is worse. I have discussed these issues with my Oncologist who recommends staying on the Tamoxifen. I am interested to hear your take on this addressing risk vs. benefits. I am not a candidate for Aromatase Inhibitors due to removal of two Parathyroid Glands.
brewerg
Diagnostic mammogram report
Good evening
My report stated suspicious grouped calcifications in the left breast at the 2oclock position 13cm from the nipple that are pleomorphic and suspicious. Should I be concerned?
quincy55
Re: My Husband, My Life, My Love, My Family, My Cancer
Irishlove, that candle lighting is such a beautiful ritual. Brought tears to my eyes to read that.
So many of us are struggling, and also trying to hold onto hope and grace. It's been three years since my husband passed, and some days I'm just not sure what I'm still here for. But keeping his memory alive, our shared memories, can be really beautiful too. If that's my only reason to be here, it's a pretty good one.
In pockets for all those getting scans, changing treatments, and anyone just feeling alone. 🕯
sf-cakes
Re: My Husband, My Life, My Love, My Family, My Cancer
@goldensrbest In your DH's pocket and yours, too. Prayers for a clear colonoscopy tomorrow. Those cologard tests can give false positives.
@intolight In your pocket and prayers for a good pet scan tomorrow. I had to laugh about your DH cooking sausage as mine does that at least 3 times a week. Not in my meal plan either. LOL
@wren44 I am so sorry this winter bug is visiting you, too. It seems wide spread. I hope you are able to get relief and heal quickly.
@micmel Oh how we all worry about you and Gabby, too. Lots of love and prayers for her to finish her chemo and never look back. Also, glad your doctor is listening to what your needs are, not what the heck they think. Sis and I talked today and it was 16 degrees at her house, minus the wind chill factor. Stay toasty warm sweet lady.
@mara51506 Did not see you post today? Hope you are just getting some extra rest. Sending thoughts and prayers your way.
Today was light a candle for all in need. We always light a candle to welcome the Christ child on Christmas Eve. My Grammy K. taught us this wonderful tradition. My sis still has the candle that Grammy last lit in 1991. Sis lights it for 2 minutes and stands on the front porch of her home, which was also our childhood home (Grammy and PopPop's). We talk to each other as I hold a candle while standing in front of my home 1000 miles away. We both hope our daughters will continue this tradition.
In pockets for all your needs.
Laurel
Re: My Husband, My Life, My Love, My Family, My Cancer
@micmel My heart hurts for you and Gabby. It is good to read stories where medical doctors actually care and help. Thanks for posting this.
Re: How long have you been Stage IV?
@eddiej Juliana, so glad you found Teddi. What a cutie! Enjoy your holiday trip with your family. Sounds like it’s going to be a great time. Soooo happy for you!
Hugs, Pam 💗
Re: My Husband, My Life, My Love, My Family, My Cancer
checking in on everyone. Got 8 inches of snow. 18degrees. Brrrrrr hate this. Chemo continues for Gabbie. It’s so looong and difficult for her. I just want her to be done. Scares me to think it could come back. Mara glad you’re ok. Sounds like some of you don’t feel too good. I’m thinking of you all and sending hugs Thanksgiving was ok. Two of our clan couldn’t make it. DH ds worked at Hopkins hospital cardiac unit for the overtime. His girlfriend went home. We missed them. DH got the tree up. I didn’t decorate no energy. I’ve had a hard time with new doctors and new medication decisions I would not accept. So I fired one doctor and got another one back. I cried in her arms. “ help me”. I was at my wits end. The pain had me. Luckily she recognized me and was very receptive to helping me with my medicine problems. She fixed things and I cried. Such a relief when you need something. And someone takes away what you need because they want to reinvent the wheel. So I’m settling down from that. I hate cancer. Beyond hate it. I think of you all the time . Tanya, how is the eye? Love to all.
micmel
Re: How long have you been Stage IV?
@eddiej Juliana, First of all Teddi is adorable!! Praying for great scan results for you in January and Yay a Bahamas trip with family!! That sounds wonderful. I’ve never been there. I hope you have a fabulous time!
🌸Stacey
ssales13
Re: How long have you been Stage IV?
@moongazer Sending big hugs of comfort and wishes for health and strength as you ride these terrible waves.
Hi all along with . @livinglifenow and @ssales13 My new dog Teddi’s first snow (she’s a rescue from TX)! She has brought so much love, cuddles and activity since she came into our lives late Sept. - so thankful for her. Been feeling rather well and hoping that is a good omen before my next scans in early Jan. Heading to Bahamas for a family vacation next week - DD and her husband and DS and his GF are coming with us. First Bahamas visit and first time for all kids - So excited!!
Sending big holiday cheer (Chanukah and Christmas) to all and big wishes that we all have only good health news in 2026♥️ juliana xox
eddiej