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Re: Can we have a forum for "older" people with bc?
I wrote a long post…must have gotten side tracked and never hit “post.” But I could see it was there as I open this tab on my phone, UGH. Recreate…partially.
Chris, I love the blouses! Colorful and cool looking.
Carole, I keep forgetting to ask you to post some pictures of your dh bowls. You never know, you/he could get some sales through this gang.
Jackie, I never did get the AC put in the bedroom window. But we put a big fan facing out in the kids old bedroom across the hall, facing out. It pulls in air from our bedroom window. It was so cold the other night, I clicked on the electric blanket - my legs were frozen! So I get turning the fan off. Warm days & cool nights for great sleeping weather. Last couple of nights I’ve been getting a Charlie horse in my left calf. From the cold or lack of magnesium, who knows.
Now that’s all I remember from last nights post. Apologies to those I missed, I do read them all.
Grandniece had surgery Thursday on her ankle. I was awake at 4, 5, and at 6 AM got up. She did well, the tendon wasn’t frayed, so thankfully back in a walking boot. I was out of whack all day from lack of sleep.
We’re heading to the Norman Rockwell museum today. It’s not that far away, under an hour, but it’s our first time visiting. Weather looks great too. It’s 66 now, heading up to a high of 83. Enjoy your Saturday!
Re: how about drinking?
And the Lord sayeth, "here, hold my beer." (Could use a drink myself if I had a taste for alcohol).
I'm gonna be offline for awhile—early this morning we were awakened by the smell of smoke (the detectors didn't work, despite fresh batteries). I was in scrubs & rubber sandals, Bob was in his undies & barefoot. By the time he hung up with 911, the sirens were already blaring—we live 2 bl. from the fire station. 3 engines, all the neighbors were out (they were preparing for a yard sale that got rained out). House is still standing, everything intact except for the roof (they punched a hole to vent the smoke), the rear of the kitchen and the rear of the basement. But it's uninhabitable for an indeterminate length of time due to smoke smell. We packed up the cats and whatever we could manage and are in a suburban hotel for the next week & a half and then a long-stay suite hotel in River North till mid-July. After that, State Farm will look for a temporary house, townhouse or large apt. They estimate the repairs, de-odorizing, and repainting could take through December.
It started in an outlet on the rear wall of the kitchen—it was old & ungrounded (was not replaced in the 1989 re-wire) , and the flames went down into the basement. The CFD put it out fairly quickly. So Bob & I and the kitties are holed up in a 2-bed room for the time being. They still smell of smoke, and the wipes I bought from Petsmart are not getting the stench out. They've just started grooming themselves, though they are eating, drinking, and excreting quite well. They are supremely bored—we did have to buy them a new cardboard scratcher (the ones we packed were smoky) and ball-track toy.
Amazing how much you think you brought with you at a time like this, but how much more you have to buy—all my OTC meds (we grabbed the strongbox with the Rx stuff and put the Mounjaro into an insulated bag with ice packs), all my makeup, all but one pair of pants each (Bob couldn't find long enough ones at Target tonight—we'll try Costco tomorrow), and whatever the laundry service dropped off last night, still in plastic bags. We are going to have to buy stock in the makers of Febreze. I did bring my computer and all my iPads & chargers; Bob brought one computer but still has to go back tomorrow and grab the office computer and the new laptop he's never used. We spent a bundle at Petsmart & Target (and since the hotel has no restaurant, just breakfast, we dined at Outback tonight—first thing we ate all day). I went to bed at 3am Fri night and we were out in the street by 6am—so "exhausted" doesn't even begin to cover it. Bob got to bed at 11pm and I had to wake him. He's snoring away to beat the band right now.
We move downtown the day after my excision surgery—and moving day is also the day of my mammogram. Lots of rescheduling, rearranging (mail, utilities, prescriptions, etc.) in order. State Farm, its restoration and temp housing contractors, and the Red Cross have been wonderful, as have our neighbors.
Might check in once in a blue moon if I have a moment to spare. Oh, and our HK made it down to B'ham today—we were talking while she was pulling out of Louisville.
Catch you later—in everyone's pockets (espec. Betrayal & Puffin) for upcoming med stuff.
Re: Starting Chemo May and June 2024 Support Thread
@bailey.boo…..the digestive issues continue usually day 2 and 3 after treatment. Handfuls of hair now coming out :-(……the way I'm looking at it is…I will finally know what my real hair color is once it starts growing back cause I have no doubt it will all come out soon enough. Currently, after 4 treatments only real issues are diarrhea and the hair loss.
@ebfitzy …..I had a lumpectomy and 2 lymph node removals and having the port placed was more painful than those. But now at 1 month post port placement everything is good.
Re: Starting Chemo May and June 2024 Support Thread
@ebfitzy I had my port placed on Tuesday and it was sore all week and bruised, hope you feel better as the week progressed. Mine is feeling less painful today. Chemo starts on Monday.
Re: I say YES. YOU say NO....Numero Tre! Enjoy!
I too love the “new blood” on this thread.
I am still stuck in my doom loop over the fate of our nation and the world. It is so unlike me but I can’t seem to get rid of the feeling of dread that continues to gnaw at me. This is something I have never experienced and I am not handling it well 😞.
Re: Starting Chemo April 2024 Support Thread
@chickenlovva Ugh. I’m so sorry to hear about your diagnosis and upcoming procedure. I can’t imagine how scary this must feel. I’ll be thinking of you and praying lots for minimal pain and anxiety. I hope the treatment goes smoothly and effectively! {{{{Big hugs}}}}
I’m with you all— I love being able to share info, ask questions, and get real answers. And if I just want to talk, I know you all understand. It’s nice to feel not so alone.
I’m waiting for the director of my local breast cancer foundation to call me with a time and place to meet up today. Planning to raid her wig stash and see if I can find something workable. She’s working hard to stand up a chapter in our local area, and what she’s doing is amazing…. I don’t know how she’s doing it all! I’m hoping to somehow volunteer when I’m finished with treatment. I’m sure there are easier ways, but I’ve been wanting to meet some local ladies and make some friends since I moved here a couple of yrs back, but I’m always too busy with work.